edma Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 Isa pang tip sa mga kalalakihan na madalas mag punta sa mga spa or mp or clubs... Forgive me for generalizing pero, ung mga ladies jan mababait talaga sa clients, hindi sila pede magsuplada or magpakita na hindi sila interesado sayo dahil un ang nature ng trabaho nila and the better they are at what they do, the more clients they have and the bigger the income. kaya please lang, don't misinterpret ung mga pagsakay nila sa mga advances mo or matatamis na salita mo dahil they get that everyday from different clients at sanay sila jan. Siguro may ilan ilan sa kanila na pede tablan ng matatamis na salita dahil "type" nila ung client, pero wag ka, mabilis din sila matauhan dahil alam nila na walang lalake na papayag basta basta makipagrelasyon sa kanila na habang nasa ganyang work sila that's why mapili din sila sa mga lalake na papayag silang maging BF. That's right, choosy sila at hindi porket sabihin mo na mahal mo sila ay enough na un, practical din sila at hindi basta ipagpapalit ang kita sa pag-ibig. Remember also na karamihan sa kanila ay nagsakripisyo ng sobra para makatulong sa pamilya, hindi lahat yan puro luho lang ang inaatupag gaya ng akala ng iba so be prepared to support their families na din kung talagang seryoso ka sa kanila at hindi libreng pops lang ang hanap mo.oooh i just sharted my pants... reality check to.. tama ka sir.. pero if my computation is right.. mas malaki pa ang kinikita nila sakin... pero ang hanggad lang naman ng isang katulad ko ay ang maalis sila kung saan sila now at bigyan ng ok na buhay.. kaso.. mukhang harsh reality nga tong sinabi mo sir.. thanks for the rain check.. Quote Link to comment
edma Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 anywas.. here's the thing.. love ko lang siya.. at hanggang dun lang kaya ko ibigay.. if hindi masuklian its fine.. basta wag niya lang ako pipigilan na mahalin siya.. if kami edi kami.. if hindi edi atleast may spot siya sa puso ko na alam ko kahit minsan may totoong tao akong minahal kahit na alam ko na panandalian lang at posible na hindi totoo. 1 Quote Link to comment
Jack_Raiden Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 Isa pang tip sa mga kalalakihan na madalas mag punta sa mga spa or mp or clubs... Forgive me for generalizing pero, ung mga ladies jan mababait talaga sa clients, hindi sila pede magsuplada or magpakita na hindi sila interesado sayo dahil un ang nature ng trabaho nila and the better they are at what they do, the more clients they have and the bigger the income. kaya please lang, don't misinterpret ung mga pagsakay nila sa mga advances mo or matatamis na salita mo dahil they get that everyday from different clients at sanay sila jan. Siguro may ilan ilan sa kanila na pede tablan ng matatamis na salita dahil "type" nila ung client, pero wag ka, mabilis din sila matauhan dahil alam nila na walang lalake na papayag basta basta makipagrelasyon sa kanila na habang nasa ganyang work sila that's why mapili din sila sa mga lalake na papayag silang maging BF. That's right, choosy sila at hindi porket sabihin mo na mahal mo sila ay enough na un, practical din sila at hindi basta ipagpapalit ang kita sa pag-ibig. Remember also na karamihan sa kanila ay nagsakripisyo ng sobra para makatulong sa pamilya, hindi lahat yan puro luho lang ang inaatupag gaya ng akala ng iba so be prepared to support their families na din kung talagang seryoso ka sa kanila at hindi libreng pops lang ang hanap mo. tama sangayon ako dito. may alam lang akong isa na maluho at inamin naman nya. Quote Link to comment
edma Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 kakabasa ko lang ng message niya sakin ulet at ngayon lang nag sink in.. mali ako.. sinabihan niya na nga pala ako from the start na bawal nga siyang mainlove.. and she's even concerned sa baby ko(BTW batang ama ako) at to reconfirm if love nga ba talaga tong nararamdaman ay libangin ang sarili ko..... sa ngayon confused pa rin ako.. and oo nga pala.. pwede niya palang mabasa to.. haaaay dapat sinolo ko na lang. love ko siya.. period. 1 Quote Link to comment
Jack_Raiden Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 (edited) kakabasa ko lang ng message niya sakin ulet at ngayon lang nag sink in.. mali ako.. sinabihan niya na nga pala ako from the start na bawal nga siyang mainlove.. and she's even concerned sa baby ko(BTW batang ama ako) at to reconfirm if love nga ba talaga tong nararamdaman ay libangin ang sarili ko..... sa ngayon confused pa rin ako.. and oo nga pala.. pwede niya palang mabasa to.. haaaay dapat sinolo ko na lang. love ko siya.. period. maganda na din yan na alam mo na bawal sya mainlove atleast hindi ka nya pinapaasa. Edited November 27, 2015 by Jack_Raiden Quote Link to comment
temurlenk Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 kakabasa ko lang ng message niya sakin ulet at ngayon lang nag sink in.. mali ako.. sinabihan niya na nga pala ako from the start na bawal nga siyang mainlove.. and she's even concerned sa baby ko(BTW batang ama ako) at to reconfirm if love nga ba talaga tong nararamdaman ay libangin ang sarili ko..... sa ngayon confused pa rin ako.. and oo nga pala.. pwede niya palang mabasa to.. haaaay dapat sinolo ko na lang. love ko siya.. period. Ayos lang yan bro, iinum nalang natin yan, tapos dun naman sa kabilang spa or mp, hehe Quote Link to comment
edma Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 Ayos lang yan bro, iinum nalang natin yan, tapos dun naman sa kabilang spa or mp, hehe hahaha kung pwede lang bro.. puntahan mo ako dito.. sagot ko na beer. huuuuuuuuuuu hirap.. Quote Link to comment
edma Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 thanks bro the chess metaphor was really nice. anyways my thera just dropped the bomb and cried last night.. and to update, she just CAN'T/NOT ALLOWED to fall in love. pero sabi ko naman. ako na lang ang mainlove wag na siya.. naiinitindihan ko naman na magiging apektado ung work niya.. anyways.. i'll update you pa if meron pa rin progress... boys and bros and GM... my bad.. ako ung umiyak.. sorry sorry.. it supposed to be- I cried last night. Quote Link to comment
Flirtpool Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 (edited) kakatuwa, i know how you feel. ako naman still confused of how i feel about her, pero i think im really falling for her. nung una nga dedeny ko pa sa sarili ko kung ano ba talaga nararamdaman ko. before when i visit her parang normal lang. ngayon, everytime i see her i get excited. i get butterflies in my stomach ika nga.ang rason ko na lang pagbisita ko sya makita ko na lang. ndi na sa akin importante yung service. from time to time i think about her...pero wala ako ibang maooffer sa kanya kundi feelings ko. kasi hindi naman ako tulad ng ibang GM na mataas ang estado sa buhay. alam ko kung ano rin ako sa kanya. yun yung hard reality dun. im not expecting anything from her, im just hoping na mapansin nya lang din ako... anywas.. here's the thing.. love ko lang siya.. at hanggang dun lang kaya ko ibigay.. if hindi masuklian its fine.. basta wag niya lang ako pipigilan na mahalin siya.. if kami edi kami.. if hindi edi atleast may spot siya sa puso ko na alam ko kahit minsan may totoong tao akong minahal kahit na alam ko na panandalian lang at posible na hindi totoo. kakabasa ko lang ng message niya sakin ulet at ngayon lang nag sink in.. mali ako.. sinabihan niya na nga pala ako from the start na bawal nga siyang mainlove.. and she's even concerned sa baby ko(BTW batang ama ako) at to reconfirm if love nga ba talaga tong nararamdaman ay libangin ang sarili ko..... sa ngayon confused pa rin ako.. and oo nga pala.. pwede niya palang mabasa to.. haaaay dapat sinolo ko na lang. love ko siya.. period. because of your story, napakwento na rin ako. ahehehe!!! Edited November 27, 2015 by Flirtpool Quote Link to comment
Chuckoo Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 Ginawa yung tao in such a way na mas mataas ang brain compared sa puso and mas mataas ang puso compared sa genitalia. Quote Link to comment
Marcant893 Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 Mahirap yan!! Quote Link to comment
sabs2000 Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 pwede mo naman itakas eh. Dun lang kayo sa labas ng pinto, usap, ganun Kung gusto niya na mag-out for a while try mo din. I-date mo ganun Classic SWAT moves to.. For Mr. Confused:IMO.. and I guess what has been repetitively advised by our big bro's here.. there's no stopping anyone from loving someone - however, as the lover you need to ensure to and be 100% positive that what you feel is genuine. Man, the feeling of LOVE is very very precious so let's not waste it. Speaking for myself, yes I have been in love, but not YET with a therapist. To tell you honestly, natatakot ako, pero ikaw bilib ako sa tapang mo chief! Dude ito nabasa ko lng, hope wag mong masamain magiging comments ko. wag mong sabihin na love mo LANG siya, dapat with conviction! LOVE KO TLGA SYA! Sa tingin ko lng kasi n pag inlove ang isang tao, it would should never be associated with "lang" at "un lng ang kaya kong ibigay", give it all you have and devote you're life to it. Love mo, be a man, panindigan mo. Sabi nga ng mga stoic optimists, kung maraming obstacles and impediments, let them be the way. You'd probably achieve what you're fighthing for and if it goes the other way around at least you learned from the experience which would make you a better person soon. Following this thread from now on. Best of luck. 1 Quote Link to comment
Elmer30 Posted November 27, 2015 Share Posted November 27, 2015 Yes nangyari na sa akin ito.. Parang kanta lang ni manilyn reynes... Kapag tumibok ang puso, walang magagawa kundi sundin ito.. Quote Link to comment
edma Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 should i give up or should i just keep chasing pavements Quote Link to comment
Trey150 Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 should i give up or should i just keep chasing pavements only you have the answer to that.. Life is short, break the rules, forgivequickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. -Mark Twain -Amber Deckers mash up 2 Quote Link to comment
3mpathicMan Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 anywas.. here's the thing.. love ko lang siya.. at hanggang dun lang kaya ko ibigay.. if hindi masuklian its fine.. basta wag niya lang ako pipigilan na mahalin siya.. if kami edi kami.. if hindi edi atleast may spot siya sa puso ko na alam ko kahit minsan may totoong tao akong minahal kahit na alam ko na panandalian lang at posible na hindi totoo. Bro, okay yan. Diba sabi nga sa Moulin Rouge, "The greatest thing you will ever learn is just to love and be loved in return." Quote Link to comment
pedroz Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 The most abused sad story line sa industry is "kaya ko pinasok ito para mkatulong sa pamilya ko". Advise of fellow GM's is spot-on. Take them out on a date and talk to them; know them better. And see whether the aforementioned line is BS or gospel truth. Then assess if her and your feelings are mutual or "dala lang ng libog at awa". From there you will get a clearer picture of your situation and will be able to make a well informed decision if she really is worth all the time and effort spent. From experience, the chances of you finding someone from that industry who is REALLY interested in you and not the thickness of your wallet is smaller than 1% of the size of a proton or neutron. Jackpot ka na kung makakita ka ng mamahalin ka kahit commute lang kayo everyday and eat simple foods for your meals. Di naman 1% madami pa rin naman. Yun nga lang yung iba maingat at di mo basta-bast makukuha dahil nga sa trabaho nila. Pero kung ma-inlove naman kayo sa isa't-isa kahit ano pa man pananaw niyabasta ba at tapat ka at malinis intensyon mo. Remember babae pa rin sila na kelangan ang pagmamahal at di lang puro sex. **IMHO lang po** Quote Link to comment
nlj Posted November 30, 2015 Share Posted November 30, 2015 (edited) should i give up or should i just keep chasing pavements& Allow me to share.. I met her in the MP after having a failed marriage and failed relationship in that order. She was what we GMs expected; kind, accommodating, friendly and sweet. Did the usual small chitchat, availed of her services and went my way. She struck me with one thing: she was too open about herself WITHOUT any of the sob stories BS. This piqued my interest and started me seeing her for almost 3 weeks straight in the MP. She left the scene a few days later but we kept in touch. We went out, dated, partied, went out of town, and introduced each other to our respective relatives. I spent time and effort to know her better and treated her any woman would want to be treated; properly and with respect. I got to know that her stories were true and completely without BS.Was she worth everything i did? Yes. Will I still continue with her? Yes. Did she tell me that the same line she told you that she cant fall in love? No. I'm still pursuing her and not rushing things. Ika nga sa #aldub, nag aantay lang ng tamang panahon. Lalaki tayo at marunong makiramdam sa gusto ng mga babae; whether it be spoken directly or reading between the lines. She doesn't want to be "the other woman". This was said indirectly. I told her that my dissolution process would start next year. She said she was willing to wait. Going back to my previous post, if she enjoys commuting with you and eating simple foods THAT may be a hint that shes not into you for the money. Women are investments. The nice one give you profits. The bitches make you pay the bills. HTH Edited November 30, 2015 by nlj 2 Quote Link to comment
nlj Posted November 30, 2015 Share Posted November 30, 2015 Di naman 1% madami pa rin naman. Yun nga lang yung iba maingat at di mo basta-bast makukuha dahil nga sa trabaho nila. Pero kung ma-inlove naman kayo sa isa't-isa kahit ano pa man pananaw niyabasta ba at tapat ka at malinis intensyon mo. Remember babae pa rin sila na kelangan ang pagmamahal at di lang puro sex. **IMHO lang po**Sir kung madami pa sila sa 1%, we should be reading a lot of success stories here with "love conquers all" thing. Well, baka nga lang hindi pa nag shashare yng mga ibang kapwa GM natin Quote Link to comment
nlj Posted November 30, 2015 Share Posted November 30, 2015 No insults intended here. One way to know if shes into you or your money is when you ask her out to church and tell her we'll eat dinner sa pares pares after. That is a great indicator kung pera2 lang ang habol or totoo na siya. Just be careful in the discernment... Quote Link to comment
edma Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 & Allow me to share.. I met her in the MP after having a failed marriage and failed relationship in that order. She was what we GMs expected; kind, accommodating, friendly and sweet. Did the usual small chitchat, availed of her services and went my way. She struck me with one thing: she was too open about herself WITHOUT any of the sob stories BS. This piqued my interest and started me seeing her for almost 3 weeks straight in the MP. She left the scene a few days later but we kept in touch. We went out, dated, partied, went out of town, and introduced each other to our respective relatives. I spent time and effort to know her better and treated her any woman would want to be treated; properly and with respect. I got to know that her stories were true and completely without BS.Was she worth everything i did? Yes. Will I still continue with her? Yes. Did she tell me that the same line she told you that she cant fall in love? No. I'm still pursuing her and not rushing things. Ika nga sa #aldub, nag aantay lang ng tamang panahon. Lalaki tayo at marunong makiramdam sa gusto ng mga babae; whether it be spoken directly or reading between the lines. She doesn't want to be "the other woman". This was said indirectly. I told her that my dissolution process would start next year. She said she was willing to wait. Going back to my previous post, if she enjoys commuting with you and eating simple foods THAT may be a hint that shes not into you for the money. Women are investments. The nice one give you profits. The bitches make you pay the bills. HTH salamat sir.. pinasaya mo ang week ko.. so the game is still on.. salamat sir! mabuhay ka! 1 Quote Link to comment
invictus29 Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 Sa una lang yan.. hehe Quote Link to comment
MidKnight Train Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 i would like to emphasize that I do believe this happens to most of us guys who patronizes the kind of attention and services theras provide us. I told a piece of my own story about theras that I've been with and been comfortable with while spending time being given the relaxing massage. And es that really eases my stress a lot, just recently I saw Akira, a thera from a not so big spa and I do admit that I really am attracted to her but I know that she wouldn't like me at all. Besides I already tried it out and she declined my invitation to go out on a date. Quote Link to comment
Nel Horan Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 i think you should also ask the therapist if she really is in love with you? eh kung mahal ka nya at mahal mo siya then why not? love conquers all... Quote Link to comment
archiearch Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 ano po ibig sabihin ng BS? sorry naligaw aq sa pag intindi. Bobo lang. salamat Quote Link to comment
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