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I am currently involved with a club girl. Problem is things are getting way serious now. We meet almost every time she has no work. Sometimes 4x a day after a nice walk. :s problem is I'm in love with her already. I've posted my story here a while back. Now she is leaving her bf (they have a kid) i said its up to her but I cannot promise her forever or the world. I don't pay her to see me and we split expenses whenever she can. I don't know if she is still playing me or what. I'm confused. I want to leave but I get the feeling that I just want to be with her. Hahahha stupid I know but I fell and this is what I'm dealing with now. One time her mom actually called me to say that makikipaghiwalay na nga sya sa bf Nya. Grabe I'm so confused right now. I'm just sharing don't know where else to place these feelings I have. Bashing ok lang but if you can give insight much better :)

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@nate we've been seeing each other like this since of October of last year. First met her around august. A lot of fights we even stopped seeing each other for a month. Fights mostly because of her bf. so far she's still with me for some reason. I know she gets gimmicks from her guests especially on walks and take outs. I don't mind been in many relationships where it's all about pangloloko anyway. I just see a certain light in her. I dunno maybe I'm really stupid. Lol. She always tells me ikaw magkalat era ba kaso a Iyo?? Wala diba kaya wag kang tanga hahaha also I rarely go to her workplace as we'll. Maybe once a month? And we have never done it inside. First time we did she went home with me after my visit way back in oct or nov 2013

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I am currently involved with a club girl. Problem is things are getting way serious now. We meet almost every time she has no work. Sometimes 4x a day after a nice walk. :s problem is I'm in love with her already. I've posted my story here a while back. Now she is leaving her bf (they have a kid) i said its up to her but I cannot promise her forever or the world. I don't pay her to see me and we split expenses whenever she can. I don't know if she is still playing me or what. I'm confused. I want to leave but I get the feeling that I just want to be with her. Hahahha stupid I know but I fell and this is what I'm dealing with now. One time her mom actually called me to say that makikipaghiwalay na nga sya sa bf Nya. Grabe I'm so confused right now. I'm just sharing don't know where else to place these feelings I have. Bashing ok lang but if you can give insight much better :)

 

I feel you bro. Had this situation twice. Her kid might complicate things for you and her BF. Is she willing to give up her work for you or are you willing to continue her work if you are officially together? Is there a big age difference between you two? (Future problem that needs considering) The question is why did she liked you and why did you liked her?If she gave up her work , willing ba siya i give up ang ibang luho na you can't afford? Are you on the rebound?

Just consider those questions that might applicable to you as it was to me.

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bakit nga ba ganun...nakaka in love sila haha

 

Maybe we have a emotional vacuum in our lives and they are the one who fills it up so satisfied tayo sa kanila. I don't think people will fall in love to these girls if they are already happy with their personal lives.

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I am currently involved with a club girl. Problem is things are getting way serious now. We meet almost every time she has no work. Sometimes 4x a day after a nice walk. :s problem is I'm in love with her already. I've posted my story here a while back. Now she is leaving her bf (they have a kid) i said its up to her but I cannot promise her forever or the world. I don't pay her to see me and we split expenses whenever she can. I don't know if she is still playing me or what. I'm confused. I want to leave but I get the feeling that I just want to be with her. Hahahha stupid I know but I fell and this is what I'm dealing with now. One time her mom actually called me to say that makikipaghiwalay na nga sya sa bf Nya. Grabe I'm so confused right now. I'm just sharing don't know where else to place these feelings I have. Bashing ok lang but if you can give insight much better :)

 

Hmmmm

 

One small input lang parekoy. Kumplikado sitwasyon hindi dahil sa trabaho nya kundi dahil may BF pala sya at may anak pa. Magisip ka dapat ng mabuti parekoy. Alam mo, kung hihiwalayan nya BF nya, dapat mutual decision ito para sa kanilang dalawa. Ibig sabihin maayos silang nagusap at walang kinalaman dahil sayo kung bakit nya sa hihiwalayan. Kasi naman isipin mo kung ikaw ang nasa kalagayan ng BF nya, may anak pa kayo tapos iiwan ka lang para sa ibang lalake? Isa pa, pano yung bata? Baka hindi rin maging madali sa kanya makita na may ibang lalake na kasama ang nanay nya at hindi nya tatay.

 

Huwag sana mamasamain parekoy, hindi ito bashing o kung ano pa man. Pero emotions aside dapat ka magisip sa mga ganitong klaseng babae. Kasi may kasabihan na pag madali mo nasulot, madali rin yan nasusungkit ng iba. Handa ka ba sumugal sa ganyan? Ito isipin mo, kung BF na ama pa ng anak nya ganun nya kadali iiwan pano ka pa? Sure sa ngayon pwede mo sabihin na mahal nyo isat isa at pinapakita nya na di sya mabubuhay ng wala ka. Eh pano pag wala ng infatuation? Pano ka na?

 

You need time to think things over muna parekoy, at huwag padalos dalos

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bakit nga ba ganun...nakaka in love sila haha

 

Lagi ko naman sinasabi na emotional weakness talaga ang pagiging madali kung mainlove. Pakitaan ng konting lambing, konting sex, konting pagpapahalaga, in love na kaagad. Wala naman masama sa pagmamahal, basta ilalagay lang sa tamang lugar at panahon. Parang halaman kasi yan na kelangan antayin mo tumubo sa tamang panahon, at huwag pitasin ang bunga kung di pa naman hinog.

 

Tandaan, traydor minsan ang emosyon natin kaya dahan dahan lang sa pagpapadala dito. Minsan kelangan mo din batukan ang puso mo. Kaya nga mas mataas kinalalagyan ng utak di ba?

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@Kali re the kid i really dont mind walanaman siya din luho e. Rebound ako not really sya di ko alam haha she told me that she really wants to end the thing with the bf. Side a side b as they say. Im just confused bat sya unaasal ng ganito? is it a game? grabe lang if it is mvp to the max. Haha btw im 30 shes 24

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@edmund cant seem to send a pm right now. Ill try once i get a hold.of a computer. You can pm me haha .

Btw i appreciate what your saying. Really cant talk abput it.with ny friends because last time i tried they did not take me seriously. Hear from you soon bro

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@edmund cant seem to send a pm right now. Ill try once i get a hold.of a computer. You can pm me haha .

Btw i appreciate what your saying. Really cant talk abput it.with ny friends because last time i tried they did not take me seriously. Hear from you soon bro

 

Sige parekoy, antay antayin mo PM ko sayo.

 

Tulad ng lagi kong sinasabi kasi sa mga kakosa natin dito, pagdating sa pag-ibig at seryosong relasyon, never ever short-change yourself. Kung pwede ka naman maghanap ng babae na handa kang panindigan, hindi kelangan hawakan ng ibang lalake, at hindi mo kelangan isipin na isang araw papalitan ka din nya, eh dun ka na lang. Huwag laging emosyon paiiralin. OO sa umpisa lagi naman yan masaya eh, hangang sa huli pwede ka nito durugin at saktan

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I am currently involved with a club girl. Problem is things are getting way serious now. We meet almost every time she has no work. Sometimes 4x a day after a nice walk. :s problem is I'm in love with her already. I've posted my story here a while back. Now she is leaving her bf (they have a kid) i said its up to her but I cannot promise her forever or the world. I don't pay her to see me and we split expenses whenever she can. I don't know if she is still playing me or what. I'm confused. I want to leave but I get the feeling that I just want to be with her. Hahahha stupid I know but I fell and this is what I'm dealing with now. One time her mom actually called me to say that makikipaghiwalay na nga sya sa bf Nya. Grabe I'm so confused right now. I'm just sharing don't know where else to place these feelings I have. Bashing ok lang but if you can give insight much better :)

 

 

 

even the best ones fall down sometimes... heheheh ok lang yan. :D

 

if you doubt what youre doing, don't do it :)

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