Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Itto Ogami]

was she worth it?

 

nope.

 

she was the most expensive lesson

i've ever had to learn.

 

but, i still am thankful that i met her -

if only for re-awakening feelings i

thought i had already lost na.

[btdeadlock]

i guess to each his own, then.

in my case, it was, "vidi, vici, veni."

after the first meet, i thought,

"hey, this girl's different."

 

and that's when i started to pursue her.

Funny. Another regular poster on this thread told me the exact same thing happened to him with a GRO. I guess there is something to this "love at first sight" thing.

 

she was the most expensive lesson

i've ever had to learn.

 

He said the same thing too. Well, not exactly. More like "I'm still making payments on my credit card."

 

In my case, the lesson isn't over. (sigh)

Edited July 7, 2010 by btdeadlock

[TanglewoodBoy]

nope.

 

she was the most expensive lesson

i've ever had to learn.

 

but, i still am thankful that i met her -

if only for re-awakening feelings i

thought i had already lost na.

 

well bro as what the song says: "thank you for showing me how to love" -- it might be an expensive one but she was the one who brought it within you...

 

happened to me also after my messy break up with the ex wife....hehehehehe

 

[mrbigtime]

Just a question. How does one end up falling in love with an MPA? With GROs, I can understand. For the same amount of money, you can spend a lot more time with a GRO than you would an MPA which allows for more time for something to "develop". The other thing is that GRO schedules are more predictable than MPAs. If I go to the club at a certain hour, I was 90% certain my regular GRO was available. With MPAs, it was a crapshoot, even if I knew what time her shift was.

 

I'm asking because after I fell for a GRO, I started thinking to myself I should have just stuck with MPAs. From what I've been reading on these boards, it seems my line of thinking is flawed.

 

BTW, I never mentioned PSPs because I never availed of their services, not to mention I haven't seen much on this thread about someone falling for a PSP.

 

 

I can answer your question bro.

Months ago i've had a regular MPA for quite some time and the more frequent I visit, the more intimate the relationship became.

Until we agreed to see each other outside.

The affair eventually evolved.

 

The thing is, if you have the hots for her (PSP/GRO/MPA) and she feel the same way too,

it would be better to pursue the tryst 'outside' than spend tons of cash 'inside'.

That way, you would know that the affection is genuine and reciprocal.

 

Fyi, I also used to have relationships before with GROs and PSPs.

Goodluck!!!

[solutiontech]

The thing about falling in love with MPAs, GROs, PSPs and the like is that .. one usually gets enamored by their looks or a physical side of it.

 

The Knight in shining armor in some would want to come in and be the hero.. Well, you would be lucky if the girl can hang on with you through the ups and downs in life.

 

Once you hit rock bottom and they go back to their old lives and see they can survive on their own.. Then you would know if she really loves you.. If she would be there for you even if you are at rock bottom and would work it out to help out in her own unorthodox or orthodox ways, then one can say Hmmmm , it must be love.

 

BUT, always remember in life the most important thing is Trust should never be broken.

 

My 2 cents..

 

I read a signature line before.. Once a pokpok always a pokpok.. maybe..maybe not..

[tiujim]

it seems like most if not all end up pretty bad...

this is really my dilemma haha...

[TanglewoodBoy]

The thing about falling in love with MPAs, GROs, PSPs and the like is that .. one usually gets enamored by their looks or a physical side of it.

 

The Knight in shining armor in some would want to come in and be the hero.. Well, you would be lucky if the girl can hang on with you through the ups and downs in life.

 

Once you hit rock bottom and they go back to their old lives and see they can survive on their own.. Then you would know if she really loves you.. If she would be there for you even if you are at rock bottom and would work it out to help out in her own unorthodox or orthodox ways, then one can say Hmmmm , it must be love.

 

BUT, always remember in life the most important thing is Trust should never be broken.

 

My 2 cents..

 

I read a signature line before.. Once a pokpok always a pokpok.. maybe..maybe not..

 

kaya nga dun ako natatakot eh, when you hit rock bottom tapos iiwan ka niya???? i mean it's adding insult to injury...kaya mahirap din, it's better that you had her at your best, pero at your worst?? remains to be seen..

[cl36]

My wife was a GRO.  We've been married between 10-20 years (I won't say exactly to keep myself anonymous) and have 3 wonderful kids.  She finished her schooling, now has her own business, and is involved in several socio-civic activities.  

 

While it is definitely true that "once a pok-pok, always a pok-pok", I for one can think of far worse ways of prostituting one's self as compared to selling conversation, companionship, or even sex.   

 

 

[EPJ]

kung finfinace mo sya ng 300K, sigurado ba yan mag babagong buhay ba yan, well committed ba sya sa yo, faithful ba sya

sa yo, mahirap nga lang timbanging ang ugali ng isang bayaran babae. di mo alam kung tutulongan sya ng sugar daddy,

para mag bagong buhay, are you sure kung panalo sya sa buhay mo?, bakit sa may itsurang bayaran babae, di ko naman nilalahat, dahil meron din matitinong babae na nagiisip din. na kailanan ba 300k pang finacial suport para maging mabuti sya sa yo, aasahan ba nya na makakahon sya sa hirap, maitratransform mo ba sya into well known carrier woman?,

makakahanap ba to nang trabahong matino yung pang 30-60K ang sahod wow pang Excutive ng isang well known company, or

visor ng isang supermarket or fastfood or VP ng isang bangko wow sosyal,di sya kontento sa simpleng sahod na pang Contractual sample (Bank Teller, Salesladies yung pang SM, guess etc), or call center, anu ba yan whats your opinion about this,

 

PS note, kung ayaw sa yo nang babae kung mayaman ka man or hindi wag pilitin, kontrolin dapat yung emosyonal. eh ang alam ko di lahat nang may itsura, modelong bayaran babae ganun ang lifestyle, mahirap kasi timbanging yung ugali, meron naman din di tumitingin sa material na bagay, tama po ba?

 

what's your opinion.

[btdeadlock]

Months ago i've had a regular MPA for quite some time and the more frequent I visit, the more intimate the relationship became.

 

Fyi, I also used to have relationships before with GROs and PSPs.

Any notable differences between the three? Just curious.

[StoicVampire]

Any notable differences between the three? Just curious.

 

For MPA's and PSP's, sextra is automatic? For a GRO, I think they have the option not to do the "deed"..

 

Just my 2 cents.

[CaliKid]

I'm not an expert in this whole KTV thing but from what I've noticed since going to them are the girls their just want to have a conversation in the club or their really out to get your money. They are experts in what they do. Its a game and most of them play their cards right. If your not super filthy rich, I don't know how you can get these girls away from what they do best and thats playing with guys and getting their money. Like I said, I'm no expert in this and never had relations with a KTV girl outside of the club but from the times I've spend in KTV bars they really do know how to make a guy try to fall for them.

[mrbigtime]

Any notable differences between the three? Just curious.

 

 

StoicVampire is correct, sextra is automatic for PSPs/MPAs, and most GROs too...

...but I assure you GMs, in the long run there won't be any difference.

If you know how to play your cards right!!!

[orionquest]

weve talked about clients falling in love with psp's, gro's, mpa's but what if these girls cheats up on you and betrays your love and trust. what would you do?

 

share your experiences or insights.

[CaliKid]

Whats PSPs?

 

StoicVampire is correct, sextra is automatic for PSPs/MPAs, and most GROs too...

...but I assure you GMs, in the long run there won't be any difference.

If you know how to play your cards right!!!

[shootpogi24]

weve talked about clients falling in love with psp's, gro's, mpa's but what if these girls cheats up on you and betrays your love and trust. what would you do?

 

share your experiences or insights.

 

I suggest we mention the name of the girl and where she work to warn the GM newbies. Pero kung hindi ok lang din. Just share your experience.

[vulcanboy]

Mga Bros, as they say "ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR". You know the rules, the risks and yet you play the game.

[azazel_six]

there's no one to really blame on this one. you know the nature of her job coming in. there is a reason she wont into that profession. if you didn't give her any means to stop, ie you pay for her everything, then don't expect her to stop everything for you. she has obligations as well...

one more thing, its their job to make you feel loved. dont mistaken it for anything else...

[boybastos1978]

I agree with azazel. Be wary of everything that they show, for we all know they want us to have some good time. Never think of it as something intimate.

[loser]

All MPAs can think of only their families. For every guest they f#&k is just a cash provider.

[TanglewoodBoy]

there's no one to really blame on this one. you know the nature of her job coming in. there is a reason she wont into that profession. if you didn't give her any means to stop, ie you pay for her everything, then don't expect her to stop everything for you. she has obligations as well...

one more thing, its their job to make you feel loved. dont mistaken it for anything else...

 

before i used to NOT believe your statement bro but after some thought, YOU MAYBE RIGHT!!! pero siyempre wag i generalize, i still know certain MPA'S WHO truly loved their significant other who were previous guests....

 

but it's safe to say 90% ganun ugali...

 

yun ang masakit...

[blow_gobi]

At least we know 90% is that way. So we expect the worst in a relationship. So when it reaches that point, it won't hurt that much.

 

Yung regular GRO ko since Sept last year, may pa "hon, hon" at "luv, luv" pa, nag-ttext araw araw, tapos gusto magdamagan at out-of-town. Sige lang ako, sakay lang. Tapos, just last month nag-iba ang ihip ng hangin at hindi na sinasagot ang text o call ko. OK lang, kahit medyo na-miss ko din siya. Hanap na lang uli ng kapalit.

[happidick]

Falling in love to those wonderful girls is like playing baccarat in a casino – the odds of winning are very slim and most of the time you will lose! We cannot blame those gals who took us for a ride because we allowed ourselves to be dragged intoa fantasy of boy meets girl and they lived happily ever after, a fallacy maybe.

 

Weare fully aware why they are into that kind of business, where they have to block their emotions, fake their reactions, submit to our satisfaction and pleasures, makes us the center of their world for about 1 ½ hour (heheheh…if you are that lucky) ,and of course the brutal truth is those interactions are scripted (Ouch!)… But for most of us the authenticity of illusion is sometimes enough (ouch again!)

 

In their eyes we are predators and they are our prey and they knew that they'll be ok as long as they submit themselves to our demands. The scenario is drastically overturned once our emotion eventually over powered us; the predatornow becomes the prey and its payback time!

 

Then why still go to those places? For me, I will say that it came with no strings attached and just pure pleasure, with not much talk and no pretense of phony love and courting and the likes.

 

stick to the plan...

Edited July 14, 2010 by happidick

[mrbigtime]

Falling in love to those wonderful girls is like playing baccarat in a casino – the odds of winning are very slim and most of the time you will lose! We cannot blame those gals who took us for a ride because we allowed ourselves to be dragged intoa fantasy of boy meets girl and they lived happily ever after, a fallacy maybe.

 

Weare fully aware why they are into that kind of business, where they have to block their emotions, fake their reactions, submit to our satisfaction and pleasures, makes us the center of their world for about 1 ½ hour (heheheh…if you are that lucky) ,and of course the brutal truth is those interactions are scripted (Ouch!)… But for most of us the authenticity of illusion is sometimes enough (ouch again!)

 

In their eyes we are predators and they are our prey and they knew that they'll be ok as long as they submit themselves to our demands. The scenario is drastically overturned once our emotion eventually over powered us; the predatornow becomes the prey and its payback time!

 

Then why still go to those places? For me, I will say that it came with no strings attached and just pure pleasure, with not much talk and no pretense of phony love and courting and the likes.

 

stick to the plan...

 

You may be right bro...

But, think of it this way, if you've been with these types of girls a hundred times before spread over years...I did, and I still do,

you can distinguished who the pretenders are and who has the genuine affection!!!

As i've said before, 'if you know how to play your cards right', you might get a little more of what you've bargained for!!!

Peace...

[happidick]

Well said bro....

 

The opinion is not generalizing all those wonderful gals; there are those I knew who really fell for their "guests" with "genuine affection", the question is what's next?

 

For quite sometimes the relationship is like sunbathing in Cancun, we feel an exceptional bliss, our machismo is fulfilled, ego is fed by friends who envy us for having this hot, nice chick ready to be banged as we please, then suddenly the tides has changed, you can no longer submit to her demands, she does not return your calls or even dared to ask how's your day honey? She doesn'twant to see you unless you "pay" a visit to her work.

 

It's all because these wonderful gals has their expectations that needsto be fulfilled, and along the way they look forward that somehow their genuineaffection will be reciprocated by alleviating their plight; Fair enough 'coz that's the mainreason why they work there.

 

The next question is… are we ready to go on to a relationship like this? Are you ready to carry her excess baggage, her hang ups? To step up to her obligation… To forget and accept her colorful past… The everyday paranoia of both facts and imagined circumstances…

 

If the answer isyes! Great … If not, then it becomes a catastrophe waiting to happen…

 

The topic isfalling in love with these gals… The thrills, excitement, the bliss are all unexplainable! For me once you are into this stage it doesn't matter how you play your cards, what matters is how you lay down your cards and how well she has accepted it.

 

 

 

Cheers bro!

 

"Don't let yoursource of inspiration becomes your well of frustrations"

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited July 15, 2010 by happidick