Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[MasterM]

Thanks for that bro!!..you know what..what struck me strange is ,that was what she told me..GAME OVER!!!...ewan ko talaga bro...tinamaan yata tlaga ako!!!....last Friday she was telling me how much she loves me and is willing to fight for me she will never leave me no ma tter what ..then just like that . next minute .she hates me..suddenly turns cold. avoids me like the plague!!! .i am really lost for words!!!!.. what did i do wrong???..if she didnt mean that much to me..i could easily replace her with several women ..several GROS if i wish ..but I m not like that bro.....pasenya na mga bro..i m pouring it all out to us guys!!!

 

 

mate, based on my experiences in this kind of situations my advise to you is to let her go, she is not worth your love and affection

 

didnt you notice how quickly her affection towards you change overnight, a lot of factors/reasons can be attributed to this, but the only reason i can see is that she has found a new guy who could provide more than what you already have.

 

that is the reality mate.....just let go.

[Mamang Tahimik]

Hmmm, if you still don't know the reason why she dumped you ... then ask? Sounds simple, but at least you'd know straight from her and not guess.

[xxx_nine_inch_xxx]

Most of the GRO's / MPA's i know really work for the money.... THey are driven to that kind of work in order to survive and earn for their younger siblings.... Falling in love is the last among their list of priorities..... Dont get me wrong..... i have a very close relationship with a TOP MPA from GL but when we go out, i always give her ALLOWANCE.... although i know that she enjoys my company ( and the sex), it is my personal prerogative to offer her money everytime we go out.....

 

Most of them really wanted to go out of the business but life outside is hard.... sometimes i pity them.... imagine having sex for 4 to 6 times EVERYDAY??? its not very hard to fall in love with them specially if they fullfill every sexual fantasy you have.... but at the end of the day you will think, is this just a game or is it real?

 

my advice is just enjoy their company while it lasts....

[chad8693]

thanks alot guys and gal for those very comforting and frank pieces of advise!! I appreciate it alot...its hard letting go..is hard to forget about all the good times we had..she and her daughter were like family to me...i dont know how i would react if i bump into her sometime with someone else..cant help in imagining what they will be doing together...man this is torture!!!...i'll be strong..i know something good will come out of this..i'll just concentrate on work...that would be my therapy!!!..cheers to everyone!!!

[iwalkalone]

add ko narin para sa mga whinners :upside: ...don't expect for what you Can't give...

you want love from these girls? then it's love you have to give...

if you can't do that...then don't expect these girls to really love you...

you can't buy love

isa pa...mahirap nga silang i-trust...gaya ng sabi nyo...kase sa trabaho nila...

pero tingin nyo sila madali mag trust sa inyo? hindi noh...baket? eh pano...san

ba nila din kayo na meet? at sa papanong circumstance...?

kung na ge-generalize nyo na lahat ng prosti ay manloloko...

well...surprise surprise...ganun din iniisip nila sa inyo..kase nga..exposed na

exposed na sila sa mga klase ng guys na nag pupunta sa mga places na pinag tatrabahuhan nila...

so minsan...ang nagiging laging objective nila ... since gamitan lang naman...they get wat they

can..while they can...kase alam naman nilang pagsasawaan nyo rin sila pagnakakita na kayo ng

bago...eh kung yun ngang mga asawa nyo pinapagsawaan nyo at niloloko..pinapalitan pa nga minsan...

sila pa kaya? and yes...as much as possible lagi silang mauunang kakalas...self preservation...

siguro...mas masakit kase..prosti ka na nga ikaw pa mukhang tangang maiiwan...

kaya yun...usually kakalas lang sila ng walang mahabang explanation...( less drama) pero minsan..

ang totoo lang nun...ayaw lang nilang maiwan sila at a time na baka di na nila kayaning

mag move on...marunong din sila magmahal...takot lang din sila at walang tiwala

...pero posible ding di ka nya talaga mahal...makulit ka lang...kaya ayan

 

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[joeydoc]

Well said my friends, In those many years of interactions with these women some will really make it through your heart. The most intense of my affairs lasted for a few months, an MPA of a High End Health Club along Qave,where i end up spending the night in her unit and during some time went to her home province and was introduced to her parents and relatives, kala

ko totoo na to, then after two weeks she turned cold and would refuse having sex na, then came the dreaded time werein my texts werent answered, my calls rejected, just one text to greet me happy birthday, after another two weeks she texted that her boyfriend came back and would marry her na. Painful as it is at that moment i had to let go. Its not the money mga bros and sis, kahit mahirap kumita, ang pera naibabalik but yung emotional torture, wound and scar would really take tome to heal. Yes , the biggest risk of falling in love be it with an ordinary decent gal, and MPA, PSP, or GRO is the risk of getting hurt. A few months after, this girl txted me that the bf left her, and that she was pregnant, and realized her mistake and told me she loved me aftterall(f**king sh**T, isnt it), and badly needed my help,I was tempted so many times to reply, but kailangan tiisin ko na siya dahil iyon ang tingin ko n nararapat.

 

In this kind of endeavor amigos, one piece of advice. MATUTO TAYONG MAGSAWA! MPAs, GROs, PSPs will always come and go, some will catch your fancy, others may seem GF or even wife material but lo, i disagree about the 20% who are honest to goodness in their affairs, ill give it a 10% lang cguro, yung 90% ng mga yan, P*K P*K or P*TA lang talaga.

[dj_xandman]

ya it's true that a lot of them in this business are not trust worthy, very few are, and it's really hard to tell if you are already struck by cupid's arrow. your mind will believe anything what she says. it's really easy to fall in love with these lovely creatures, but before going into these kind of relationship, come up with a criteria if she's worth it.

 

if she's doing ES, not worth it. this shows that she has loose morals and probably end up doing your neighbor when you're off to work. yes they are capable of love and change, but for how long, relationships has it's ups and downs, you don't want her to turn to another guy when things gets sour, it's not the fights and arguments but how you make-up and deal with the problem, she probably would not want to deal with the problem and instead seek some fun to avoid the conflict and pain.

 

i know a lot of girls in this field and all their boyfriends, husbands and/or live-in partners doesn't have a clue about their extra activities.

 

you might ask, how would someone know if she's not into ES? investigate, investigate, investigate

 

Tip: fall in love ONLY

if she doesn't do ES of any kind, even a hand job

if she doesn't do all-the-way, topless, downless on the stage (sexy only)

if she doesn't do "area" (she gives a lap dance to customers)

if she doesn't go in VIP rooms or goes in only if with 3 or more girls inside or let VIP doors open while inside alone with customers

if she only hold hands with customers and not let them make "akbay" or touch any part of her body

if she doesn't give kisses or a smack to customers

if she doesn't go out with customers on a date or even a snack

if she doesn't let the customers take her home after work

 

WHAT THE ?!!#$ is there such a girl? YES there are a very very very very few, trabaho lang, kwentuhan, kulitan, walang hanky panky.

 

i know and met a few. my advice is, don't fall for girls not within those mentioned above, REMEMBER, a lot of girls out there not in this business are BITCHES too

[uchibayag]

i fell for an escort...she is now a star in one of the television giants. money talks talaga...pero i still love her kahit ginamit lang niya ako..

[dj_xandman]

mga chong sometimes i wonder why so many guys (count me in) who are well educated and breed properly, enter to this kind

of relationship.

 

got a neighbor in the US,who is a HARVARD educated lawyer and did married a toothless bargirl from cambodia.

i dont beleive in destiny but it might change soon!!!

 

ANSWER

Yep, tao kung sa tao. Manyak kung sa manyak. You cant generalize too much. Minsan mas komplikado pa nga ang mga girls sa labas, kesa ung mga nasa loob.

 

some educated and properly bred girls act like senseless uneducated bitches while some girls who lack education act properly and with reservation

[TNT Hsia]

As in all successful relationships, if both parties think win-win, it just might succeed.

[dj_xandman]

thanks for those word of advise sis....i know where u are coming from..these are the same things shes telling me..i m trying to rationlaize things ..make some sense out what is happening in my life..i know that out of this i'll be stronger..just keep the faith alive!!..cheeers!!!!

 

i feel for you man, i know you wanna hang on to the thought that you'll get back together

trying to rationalize things will not help (been there done that)

acceptance is the key here, accept that s@%t happens, learn from it, then move on

this thing happens to other couples too, that's why there's divorce, annulment and legal separation

 

i know it's hard right now, but i tell you with experience that time will heal and one day, you'll gonna laugh/smile whenever you remember this thing that happened to you

 

saying that you wanna set someone free because of love and because you don't wanna be a burden or be just in the way of a better future IS JUST ONE WAY OF breaking up with someone and not being hard on her/him

[chad8693]

Thanks mga bro!!!..don't worry I m hanging in there!!!....

[josephliu]

Hehe, sama mo na din ako jan. Educated, pede na. Breeding, aba ewan.

 

Don't worry madami tayo. In denial lang ang karamihan. O wala lang silang budget magmahal ng mga clubgirl, hehe.

 

 

masarap kasi magmahal ang mga clubgirls... :thumbsupsmiley:

[markvl3]

add ko narin para sa mga whinners :upside:

 

...don't expect for what you Can't give...

you want love from these girls? then it's love you have to give...

 

I agree with you on this. Girls from club and MPs do fall in love. Yung totoo talaga...

if you can't do that...then don't expect these girls to really love you...

you can't buy love

 

Obviously....

 

 

 

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