iwalkalone Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 If you really really love her. You do not need to say anything to her, she will stop on her own cause she will feel the one thing that only you can give which her job cannot give. And that is security. Security doesn't have to mean lots and lots of money. But security that whatever happens you two will be together and that you will not leave her no matter what. Show her some respect and love her for who she really is, then maybe she will love you back the way you want her to. precisely! :cool: they why still stay on that kind of job? if they love their guy, and want him to have a happy life with you then they should at least try to change for the better.. ---i don't think she loves you thug, that's why..maybe she finds you unworthy. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 Because they feel they have nothing to live for. So they make one mistake after another. But if they feel the love of another person, then they would feel that there is more to life. People in this job feel so dirty, so down, so much of lack of self-respect. It is up to the people who love them to show them respect. Then they will realize that if someone can accept me and respect me for what i truly am then I myself should be able to accept and love myself. Then they can move on and improve their lives.correct! :thumbsupsmiley: but i don't think thug will ever dig this becoz thug is a chav. :upside: Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 Maybe you're not a good catch coz you sounds to seltle for the lesser one.. uh, excuse me?what made you think these women are lesser than you? Quote Link to comment
bill_262003 Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 let's be realistic here.. girls like that mostly (in statistics) are just temporary.. a past time..For permanent relationships? mostly pinoy? Pinioy men are maarte talaga.. they choose the best catch they can have..and most likely are good decent girls.. c'mmon i'm basing on statistics not from the pocketbooks and movies like pretty woman..Let's get real.Actually, if you meet these girls outside of their work, then you wouldn't know the difference. They are normal girls just like any other decent girls you find. And there is no reason why anyone would not fall in love with them. Staying in love, once you know the whole picture is a different thing. It would take lots of work on both ends but if both are willing it can still work out. Quote Link to comment
sweeteenia Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 (edited) Actually, if you meet these girls outside of their work, then you wouldn't know the difference. They are normal girls just like any other decent girls you find. And there is no reason why anyone would not fall in love with them. Staying in love, once you know the whole picture is a different thing. It would take lots of work on both ends but if both are willing it can still work out.I'm sorry if I'm too straightforward.. I'm not judging anyone..I'm just being realistic and I'm basing on research and statistics.and even experience myself...yes. for pinoys..mostly they prefer the decent one are the MORE..the other are the less..It hurts.. but statistics have proved it..Oneway traffic kasi ang pinoy.. double standard.. even millionaires prefer marrying a virgin or virginal women or women from good families.. and end up the lesser women as their mistress.. It's a statistics.. i was a virgin when my husband married me..he said whe won't ver get serious or be in love who isn't a virgin// for pinoy ..it is a secret..I've read books.. and research and pondered to statistics .. Edited April 17, 2007 by sweeteenia Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 (edited) I'm soryy if I'm too straightforward.. I'm not judging anyone..I'm just beong realistic and I'm basing on research and statistics..yes. for pinoys..mostly they prefer the decent one are the MORE..the other are the less..It hurts.. but statistics have proved it..forget about statistics... what's your take on this?do you really believe these women are lesser than you? how so? btw i'm not trying to argue..i just want to understand ...what made you think that you are better and more deserving of love...and respect. Edited April 17, 2007 by iwalkalone Quote Link to comment
sweeteenia Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 (edited) As i've posted previously that the one who's got more and better cards..still holds the crown.. this is true.. the more you can offer in the table the more lovable you are.. Yes, you are beautiful ..but there are more beautiful girls out there who can offer more.. like, being clean and decent.. Pinoy -one way -traffic men do prefer the latter who offered more cards on the table.. it's logical.. men are logical.. it's an ego boost to have a wife like that..The secrets is that men..don't want or is so scared to be mistaken as the father of a child that's not his, he's the breadwinner....So he prefer a clean woman that can be trusted when he's not around..So that he won't be raising a child who's not his..(that's the secret in their minds). Edited April 17, 2007 by sweeteenia Quote Link to comment
sweeteenia Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 forget about statistics... what's your take on this?do you really believe these women are lesser than you? how so?i didn't say that i am better than anyone here.. i'm just basing on facts.. statistics..science..this is the truth c'mmon.. Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 (edited) So he prefer a clean woman that can be trusted when he's not around..So that he won't be raising a child who's not his..(that's the secret in their minds). that's bs...ask the men who have been cheated on by their clean and decent wives.like i always say wala sa trabaho yan nasa pagkatao yan.let's stop generalizing...kahit yung husband mo, di naman lahat ng lalaki ganyan,and it doesn't make those men less of a man than your husband.and besides...ano ba naman yung "pinakasalan ka" ?madami dyang pinakasalan dahil disente...pero after a few years...ano na? Edited April 17, 2007 by iwalkalone Quote Link to comment
markus_cruzade Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 Wow... :boo: Haven't been around this thread ah... Looks like something's cooking up...Just my 2 cents though... it really depends on the person's perception and thinking if he would fall for an MPA/PSP... Not all guys will fall for a PSP ...not all guys won't...Bottom line...everyone deserves to be with someone who loves them Quote Link to comment
tabouki Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 I'm sorry if I'm too straightforward.. I'm not judging anyone..I'm just being realistic and I'm basing on research and statistics.and even experience myself...yes. for pinoys..mostly they prefer the decent one are the MORE..the other are the less..It hurts.. but statistics have proved it..Oneway traffic kasi ang pinoy.. double standard.. even millionaires prefer marrying a virgin or virginal women or women from good families.. and end up the lesser women as their mistress.. It's a statistics.. i was a virgin when my husband married me..he said whe won't ver get serious or be in love who isn't a virgin// for pinoy ..it is a secret..I've read books.. and research and pondered to statistics .. Yes - pinoys have double standard of morality, kung maari maka-virgin pero hindi porke hindi na virgin eh hindi na pwede/dapat seryosohin. basta nakilala mo ang pagkatao ng mahal mo at inamin namang hindi na siya virgin, tapos na usapan- love her or leave her. pag nag-commit ka panindigan mo. Quote Link to comment
THUG Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 (edited) Maybe you're not a good catch coz you sounds to seltle for the lesser one.. i'm planning of upgrading to a better one.. i'm tired of the old car always breaking down..so i'm trying to go for the brand new one.. the girl i was courting before i courted mp girl, (this former ramp model, varsity swimmer, virgin), accepts to go out on a date with me this May or earlier..hope she's true to her word.. on our date, my cellphone will be off as mp girl keeps on calling me to check on my status from time to time.. i can't afford to lose a brand new car to an old beaten taxi.. it just feels way a lot better ... its like im nearing the light at the end of the dark tunnel.. Edited April 17, 2007 by THUG Quote Link to comment
THUG Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 Yes - pinoys have double standard of morality, kung maari maka-virgin pero hindi porke hindi na virgin eh hindi na pwede/dapat seryosohin. basta nakilala mo ang pagkatao ng mahal mo at inamin namang hindi na siya virgin, tapos na usapan- love her or leave her. pag nag-commit ka panindigan mo. its not a matter of being virgin or not.. its a matter of living a simple life..its a matter of having set goals 10-20 years from now.. its a matter of living on the right path... men also look for women who could give them a better life. somebody who knows how to manage the finances, takes care of the kids, etc.. men look for partners which would make life much easier for them, not harder. when you look at these kinds of women, they seem filled with sorrows, hardships, yet you see them eating at expensive restaurants, riding cars driven by a chaffeur, having 4-5 cellphones, going to bars.. and yet these women will always tell you that they need money to support their family, etc..how lame isn't it? Quote Link to comment
THUG Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 forget about statistics... what's your take on this?do you really believe these women are lesser than you? how so? btw i'm not trying to argue..i just want to understand ...what made you think that you are better and more deserving of love...and respect. it depends on the women.. women who continue to pursue this path and do not change for the better are obvously lesser than women who have changed ways or have not been into this path.. certainly, you are better than them right now because you have changed path and now living a changed life.. keep it up! Quote Link to comment
THUG Posted April 17, 2007 Share Posted April 17, 2007 Actually, if you meet these girls outside of their work, then you wouldn't know the difference. They are normal girls just like any other decent girls you find. And there is no reason why anyone would not fall in love with them. Staying in love, once you know the whole picture is a different thing. It would take lots of work on both ends but if both are willing it can still work out. they have dual personality.. some of them have.. they could change from being sweet ,shy, and romantic to being naughty, wild, carefree, masungit without any reason.. i noticed this with my gf.. i guess they have polished this act from years at their work, and with influence from other workmates.. Quote Link to comment
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