Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Mamang Tahimik]

I don't think i'll fall in-love with them, dunno, getting in love for me takes alooot of time with each other. And I can't possibly spend that much money and/or time with a specific GRO/PSP/MPA to fall in-love.

 

Besides, if I have both time and the money, why should I pick the same person again? :evil:

[iwalkalone]

who interviewed who?

 

ikaw kaya mag back read para masagot mo tanong mo.

come on... you open up yourself here as if they are your close friends and don't yu think they won't ask you questions?

 

 

but i feel some of them are....really close friends already...and i don't mind them asking me questions....sabi ko nga....i'm hoping to shed light on some issues...as how some men see MPAs/GROs/PSPs....

alam mo....magpasalamat ka I'm here...atleast....mas naiintindihan na nila ngayon kahit pano... yung "what makes us who we are".....kase kung ikaw lang siguro ang nandito dati pa at ikaw ang sumasagot sa kanila....i wonder how....things will be....although i must ( i think) praise you....kase ikaw yung mukha ng mga pokpok na praktikal....and me?...well....it just so happened na we're very much different.....

 

 

MTC=FUN

 

 

who said so? strictly for fun lang ba talaga?....wala bang totoo dito? i don't think so....

 

but what you showed is MTC is like your grave. see? you have your thread on the member's room with your casket. miss iwa pakialamera na ako kung pakialamera pero ang dami mo ng post dito sa mtc kung nagnegosyo ka na lang sana dito, di baka one year ka na lang sa gnyang work instead of what you said na 3yrs more pa. you don't use your brain ksi.

 

 

I'm sorry to disappoint you....I've stopped working already....last December pa....yun nga lang di ako kasing yaman mo...I'm sure mayamang mayaman ka na diba?

 

 

ano intention mo sa room mo sa members room? a self confessed ka naman in public na ****** ka? to gain friends? that's a f#&king idea

 

basahin mo yung mga first posts ko sa room ko....sabi ko i ntend to make it as some sort of a diary....gets?....kung pede nga lang naka lock lang yun talaga eh....kaya nga keep out diba?....

 

gain friends? hah....edi sana andami ko ng kabarkada ngayon....puros virtual friends lang po....isa lang po ang naging close friend ko talaga

at sana if i intended to gain friends edi sana puro kalandian lang din ang ipopost ko dito sa MTC kagaya ng madaming girls dito....pero FYI....i don't conform...kahit kanino.

.....

 

 

eh kung sa PSP thread ka pa di madaming pera na umakyat sayo since yun naman yung reason why you're into that thing.

 

e bat nga ba indi ako sa PSP thread?kung tutuusin nga kikita ako dun ng madami noh? hmmm....naisip mo na ba kung bakit hinde? baka kaya dahil....indi para mangareer ang pakay ko dito?

isiiip isiiiip....

 

 

sabi mo ayaw mo magbigay ng number dito, gusto mo dalawin ka pa sa MP nyo. bakit ikaw ba ang may-ari nun? o kaya bf or whatever ka ng may-ari nun? isipin mo sarili mo iha. nakakaawa ka.

 

*hay....those times are past already....pero sige ipapaliwanag ko ulit para sayo....MPA lang ako dun....nagkataon humina nun yung MP na yun....tas naririnig ko sa mga co-workers ko itong MTC....may PC naman ako...may internet access....so naisip kong....baka sakali...in my own way...makatulong ako sa aming lahat...(sa heaven most specially)....so far things worked naman.....although at first madaming nag doubt sa intentions ko....but eventually....nakita naman nilang lahat efforts ko....and yes....it felt good inside....yung ma appreciate ka....magtiwala sayo yung mga dating may doubts....

masaya ako sa ginawa ko....no regrets at all. And yeah....i gained respect kase....naging totoo naman talaga ako sa mission ko nun....di ko ginawa yun for a selfish cause. Call it "gratitude". Believe it or not

 

 

pero hindi awa ang kailangan mo challenge. ngayon kung ayaw mo pag-isipan mga sinabi ko pede ka ring magsuicide

for the history of MTC i was the 1st psp na nagpost ng mukha. i went for some tv interviews, ganyan kalakas ang loob ko iha to come out in the open as what you say.

 

 

 

yeah i heard that from someone.....and you almost got MTC busted for that....

oh yeah malakas loob mo.....but your purpose for doing that is for your own selfish agenda....at MTCs expense....right?

 

well... forgive me if i will always hit you when i will post after your post... like what you say... you'lljust have to live with that :thumbsupsmiley:

 

fine by me. Peace Yo!

Edited April 1, 2007 by iwalkalone

[torpe]

sometimes, guys fall in love with them because they manage to convince themselves that they are there to save them.

[REBEL_CHIC]

ikaw kaya mag back read para masagot mo tanong mo. but i feel some of them are....really close friends already...and i don't mind them asking me questions....sabi ko nga....i'm hoping to shed light on some issues...as how some men see MPAs/GROs/PSPs.... alam mo....

dahil nagmamagaling ka sa mga isyung sinasabi mo. explanation can be done in few words if you really has a POINT. kaso pointless ka.

 

 

magpasalamat ka I'm here...atleast....mas naiintindihan na nila ngayon kahit pano... yung "what makes us who we are".....

why do i? so? are you telling me that you're doing it for heroine act?

 

kase kung ikaw lang siguro ang nandito dati pa at ikaw ang sumasagot sa kanila....i wonder how....things will be....

i don't intend to be here at most. why? this thread wasn't made for me, for you, or for anyone alone. but what happened is you run the thread the whole time with so many OT posts or may i quote with your shitty life.

 

although i must ( i think) praise you....kase ikaw yung mukha ng mga pokpok na praktikal....

look who's talking? so you're not practical at all. wow! now i know why you're one MP lady. so what kind are you then? IPOKRITA!

 

and me?...well....it just so happened na we're very much different.....

yeah. very much different. i've got more than you.

 

 

who said so? strictly for fun lang ba talaga?....wala bang totoo dito? i don't think so....

lots of them are totoo. pero what you're doing is creating a play portraying yourself as what? a saint? :sick:

I'm sorry to disappoint you....I've stopped working already....last December pa....

that's very good to hear :cool:

yun nga lang di ako kasing yaman mo...I'm sure mayamang mayaman ka na diba?

and better to hear :thumbsupsmiley: at least you know i became what i opted to

 

basahin mo yung mga first posts ko sa room ko....sabi ko i ntend to make it as some sort of a diary....gets?....kung pede nga lang naka lock lang yun talaga eh....kaya nga keep out diba?....

funny ayt? you wanted it like a diary, you want people to keep out but you posted your diary at a place people can get access with. come on. make a book instead titled "insane iwa"

 

gain friends? hah....edi sana andami ko ng kabarkada ngayon....puros virtual friends lang po....isa lang po ang naging close friend ko talaga

let me repost...

but i feel some of them are....really close friends already...

where did this post go? ngayon iisa na yung close friend mo na kanina madami

 

at sana if i intended to gain friends edi sana puro kalandian lang din ang ipopost ko dito sa MTC kagaya ng madaming girls dito....pero FYI....i don't conform...kahit kanino.

hello iha ano tawag mo dyan? wag ka magmalinis. sarili mo papaniwalain mo na di ka nga malandi. eh brutal ka magpapansin sa board

 

e bat nga ba indi ako sa PSP thread?kung tutuusin nga kikita ako dun ng madami noh? hmmm....naisip mo na ba kung bakit hinde? baka kaya dahil....indi para mangareer ang pakay ko dito?

isiiip isiiiip....

i don't need to think. so simple as 123. isang ****** nagpapapansin sa board. hindi kikitain ang habol, hindi rin para mangarir? hmmm... dito ako napaisip. eh ano? TO ANSWER ALL MTC POSTS? exactly, pero ano yung root intention? ikaw na sumagot. ikaw naman mag-isip masyado mo din akong napaisip

 

*hay....those times are past already....pero sige ipapaliwanag ko ulit para sayo....MPA lang ako dun....nagkataon humina nun yung MP na yun....tas naririnig ko sa mga co-workers ko itong MTC....may PC naman ako...may internet access....so naisip kong....baka sakali...in my own way...makatulong ako sa aming lahat...(sa heaven most specially)....so far things worked naman.....although at first madaming nag doubt sa intentions ko....but eventually....nakita naman nilang lahat efforts ko....and yes....it felt good inside....yung ma appreciate ka....magtiwala sayo yung mga dating may doubts....

masaya ako sa ginawa ko....no regrets at all. And yeah....i gained respect kase....naging totoo naman talaga ako sa mission ko nun....di ko ginawa yun for a selfish cause. Call it "gratitude". Believe it or not

heroine acts? or ripley's believe it or not?

 

 

yeah i heard that from someone.....and you almost got MTC busted for that....

oh yeah malakas loob mo.....but your purpose for doing that is for your own selfish agenda....at MTCs expense....right

?

i am real and i don't wanna act as a hero yet i cannot prove anything to myself.

the living saint was born. no further comment since you guys can justify this girl really needs a psychiatrist.

 

a suicidal case? a heroine acts? a crazy lover? a decent prosti? and walking alone?

 

my... that was tremendous... go look for a psychiatrist... now na

 

 

hindi lang ako ang naiirita. majority tends to keep silent and trying to be gentleman. pls reffer to this page guys.

http://manilatonight.com/index.php?showtop...727&st=1140

[Wyld]

People.... can we please get back to the topic at hand...

 

I wont take down the posts since they do relate to the topic at hand but this isnt the venue for y'all to be bashing each other...

 

Take it to pm, please.

 

Thanks.

[iwalkalone]

dahil nagmamagaling ka sa mga isyung sinasabi mo. explanation can be done in few words if you really has a POINT. kaso pointless ka.

why do i? so? are you telling me that you're doing it for heroine act?

 

 

wutever i say to you...you won't understand....cus like i said...we are way too different....and i'm not gonna spend my whole day here trying to make you understand...cus you won't and you never will...

 

i don't intend to be here at most. why? this thread wasn't made for me, for you, or for anyone alone. but what happened is you run the thread the whole time with so many OT posts or may i quote with your shitty life.

look who's talking? so you're not practical at all. wow! now i know why you're one MP lady. so what kind are you then? IPOKRITA!

 

 

awww....Ipokrita?....allright wutever makes you feel better....

 

yeah. very much different. i've got more than you.

 

allright...good for you :cool:

 

lots of them are totoo. pero what you're doing is creating a play portraying yourself as what? a saint? :sick:

 

and that's bad?

 

funny ayt? you wanted it like a diary, you want people to keep out but you posted your diary at a place people can get access with. come on. make a book instead titled "insane iwa"

let me repost...

 

awwww...you're harsh...

 

where did this post go? ngayon iisa na yung close friend mo na kanina madami

 

i said...isa lang yung talagang naging close friend ko....yung madami na sinasabi ko...feels like lang cus they're all just virtual friends....but still we get to interact here....we get to help out pag may mga tanong or problems....y'know...or maybe not ....puros ka nga pala sa FUN pages lang...no?

 

hello iha ano tawag mo dyan? wag ka magmalinis. sarili mo papaniwalain mo na di ka nga malandi. eh brutal ka magpapansin sa board

i don't need to think. so simple as 123. isang ****** nagpapapansin sa board. hindi kikitain ang habol, hindi rin para mangarir? hmmm... dito ako napaisip. eh ano? TO ANSWER ALL MTC POSTS? exactly, pero ano yung root intention?

 

eh....bat ba affected ka masyado sa attention na binibigay nila sa kin?....may problema ba dun?....di naman ako kumikita dun ah... gusto mo sayo na lang lahat ng attention eh....kaso....pano?

 

 

ikaw na sumagot. ikaw naman mag-isip masyado mo din akong napaisip

heroine acts? or ripley's believe it or not?

?

i am real and i don't wanna act as a hero yet i cannot prove anything to myself.

the living saint was born. no further comment since you guys can justify this girl really needs a psychiatrist.

 

a suicidal case? a heroine acts? a crazy lover? a decent prosti? and walking alone?

 

my... that was tremendous... go look for a psychiatrist... now na

hindi lang ako ang naiirita. majority tends to keep silent and trying to be gentleman. pls reffer to this page guys.

http://manilatonight.com/index.php?showtop...727&st=1140

 

 

my my....kung gagayahin ko lang ikaw....at maiirita ako sa lahat ng nakikita ko dito sa MTC...at tapus...babalahurain ko rin gaya ng nigagawa mo ....

ang masasabi ko siguro...dapat wag mag post ng pics mga panget dito sa MTC! hahahaha!...gaya mo!

 

Inggitera! beeeh! http://foolstown.com/sm/gy.gif

Miss Wyld sorry po....I just had to say this to this beotch for once...

....

 

Miss Rebel Chick......it's clear that you have a problem with me....and i don't understand why...or where it's all coming from...

but that's fine by me....and you don't even have the slightest effect on me....

say wutever you want....i really don't give a damn....sa trulili lang wala ka namang mapapala sa ginagawa mo sa kin...eh...so i think you better concentrate nalang on how to haggle for MO MONEH...ayt?

[grayle]

Miss Wyld sorry po....I just had to say this to this beotch for once...

...

 

Uhm, just curious. Doon sa thread na nilink ni rebel_chic, kinocomplain ni iwalkalone si Wyld with medyo masasakit na words...

 

Nasolve na ba tong issue na to? Cuz it seems like this whole thing is rebel's way of getting back at iwa for iwa's previous flame on Wyld.

 

Girls, girls, let's not fight over things like this. If you wanna have something good to fight over, fight over us boys na lang... :thumbsupsmiley:

Edited April 2, 2007 by grayle

[Wyld]

Uhm, just curious. Doon sa thread na nilink ni rebel_chic, kinocomplain ni iwalkalone si Wyld with medyo masasakit na words...

 

Nasolve na ba tong issue na to? Cuz it seems like this whole thing is rebel's way of getting back at iwa for iwa's previous flame on Wyld.

 

Girls, girls, let's not fight over things like this. If you wanna have something good to fight over, fight over us boys na lang... :thumbsupsmiley:

 

 

This, I hope, is the last post on this issue... Please?

 

The linked post has no relation whatsoever to Rebel_Chic's beef w/ Iwa.

 

MOVING ON...

 

[THUG]

THUG naman....don't you ever think of it that way....hindi kame nakakainggit....

nakakadiri kame....gusto mo bang maging nakakadiri din?

 

nakakadiri nga, kaya ang ginawa mo dun sa pero na kinita mo sa nakakadiri na trabaho na yan e tinapon mo lang kase nakakadiri.. so chances are, you will come back again to that same nakakadiri na trabaho ..

 

maraming trabaho ang nakakakadiri din.. di lang yan ang trabaho na nakakadiri..

 

 

you had the chance..and you blew it

[Wyld]

THUG:

 

Your reply to Rebel Chic's post was deleted.

 

Kindly refer a few posts up when I said ENOUGH OF THAT ISSUE ALREADY.

 

MOVING ON....

[JoeyAbad]

Clients falling in love with MPAs/PSPs/GROs.... Seems some focus in others being or having been MPAs/PSP/GRO. How about the "falling in love" part?

 

Why in love with her? What made you want to share your life with her. If I love her, does her past really matter? Where are the "real men" reading this thread? Step up and defend your woman or defend that fact that you have fallen for her.

 

Iwa, stay true to yourself, you got this far without anyone of these guys/gals giving you projected advise. It was and always will be your call when it comes down to it. You will find your "real man" ....

 

"A real man would never hurt the one he loves.... Not intentionaly that is.... Find yourself a real man, that will love you, take care of you, keep you safe always, and bind his life with yours.... So that the two of you become one and complete each other.... only then will love last eternal....

 

It is not natural to hurt oneself, So a real man would not think of hurting you in any way, because you are one with him. And he will not hurt himself, (di bah?) for your pain is also his pain. " :heart: :flowers: :heart:

[iwalkalone]

nakakadiri nga, kaya ang ginawa mo dun sa pero na kinita mo sa nakakadiri na trabaho na yan e tinapon mo lang kase nakakadiri.. so chances are, you will come back again to that same nakakadiri na trabaho ..

 

maraming trabaho ang nakakakadiri din.. di lang yan ang trabaho na nakakadiri..

you had the chance..and you blew it

 

y'know what enuf has been said....whatever i did....with that "chance" (if you call it that)....is really none of your f#&king business....and i've used up too many space here trying to make YOU...yes YOU....understand....cus YOU were the one who's been flagging me with questions...sabi ko nga parang interview with a vampire na yung ginagawa mo diba?....still...i answered your questions sincerely....i thought you just wanted to understand....how some of us became who we are....i thought your intentions were just....but now....reading your last post....it's like...you just set up a bait for me ...so you can all judge me and humilliate me for ...what?...for not saving my money...for not using my brains?....for not being practical?....

like i said.... not all people are the same...i have my own convictions....right or wrong....they are mine...and you have no right to judge me...or tell me what i should've or not have done.

And if in case you see me as a perfect picture of what a "failure" is....then that's fine by me....i'll be a good "lesson" for the others....para di nila ko gayahin....diba?...."lesson" parin. See?

 

 

p.s. thanks JoeyAbad :flowers:

Edited April 2, 2007 by iwalkalone

[mahiliglagi]

Now, now, let us not get into any word war here.

 

For me, Iwa, through her thousands of posts, in different subjects under the Matters of the Heart, is telling us a story. Parang Memoirs of an MPA, baga.

 

Her story is quite interesting. It has drama, sex, sex comedy, drama turned comedy (re: suicide note). No offense to her but sending a suicide note, by snail mail pa yata, could make even Woody Allen blush.

 

She's now in that chapter of her autobiography where she's stuck in some sort of a limbo. She could not move on with her life mainly because she seems to be unable to deal with her past "deeds". It is like she's trapped herself in a washing machine that keeps on going round and round with no way for her to reach out to press the stop button.

 

As a reader, I, of course, would like to see some sort of a resolution. Mahirap naman yung bitin ang story. So I say, let us allow her to write whatever she feels like, live her life the way she wants, take care of her problems that way she deems right without antagonizing her even more.

 

I am hoping that the ending will be a nice one baka mapagkakitaan ko pa by turning it into a novel then a movie. Hope she doesn't run after me for royalties.

 

Cheers!

[Larry]

this thread is fun

 

NON OT:

 

Everyone deserves something at least once in their lives. Everyone deserves to feel love in their lives. At least once.

 

Not everybody does however; what's worse is when you think you had it and you want it back, when what you had was not love, but a something you so desperately wanted to be love.

 

and the last situation happens a lot with MPAs/PSPs/PS2s/XBOX etc. just by the very nature of their jobs.

 

OT: good job by wyld in not deleting the posts, although inflammatory it gives you a peek into what's going into other service provider's lives.

 

this thread is fun!

[THUG]

loving an MPA/PSP etc is already a hard thing to accept, both morally and culturally.

 

more so if you will know that that you will probably also carry much of the financial burden in the future.

 

Which is why it would have been a lot easier to love them if perhaps you know that they are somewhat capable of carrying on for themselves rather than their partner carrying them financially most of the time.

 

I guess they have gotten used with ultra rich dirty guys who lavish them with money, that they try to look for both true love and financial support at the same time with those guys. I guess its too much they are asking for.

[btljc]

falling in love with MPAs/PSPs/GROs

 

this is somehow similar to what i had posted at the "all about clubbing" thread

 

1. Mahirap ligawan ang gros/mpas/psps. lamang ang mga lalake dito because they can always choose and visit them whenever both parties are available. everyone has a chance just by being there.

2. Masarap magmahal ang gros/mpas/psps. if your gros/mpas/psps are not reciprocating your good intentions, granted that you 're not a jerk or an assh*le, and you are probably clean and hygienic, chances are, the object of your affection is already taken.

3. Pag niloko mo naman sila, madali ka din nilang mapapalitan because they meet different men all the time.

 

again, choose your partner. choose wisely. if you think that you made the right choice..

keep her. alagaan mo sila. don't be embarassed or shy to admit that you've fallen for them.

 

junb

[grayle]

If she loves you, if she REALLY loves you, she'll do what's necessary to clean her act up. True, her past shouldn't matter, but if she continues to work in that MP or KTV even though she's expressed her love for you, then that's something you can scrutenize her about. What about supporting her family? Then she loves her family more than she does you, which means she doesn't love you enough. Come back later when she can focus on you and put you as the first priority in her life.

IF she can do those things, then and ONLY then can you really even start ot think about falling in love with her.

[hammie_5]

hey guys... i had this gf last year. she had family problems and eventually she bacame an escort after we broke up. we had a fight because i wanted her to stop.

 

anyways, i know this is a long shot but any of you guys know a girl named sash? pls let me know coz i want to see her again. thanks.

[iwalkalone]

hey guys... i had this gf last year. she had family problems and eventually she bacame an escort after we broke up. we had a fight because i wanted her to stop.

 

anyways, i know this is a long shot but any of you guys know a girl named sash? pls let me know coz i want to see her again. thanks.

 

ya really believe she'd still be using her real name?

[THUG]

y'know what enuf has been said....whatever i did....with that "chance" (if you call it that)....is really none of your f#&king business....and i've used up too many space here trying to make YOU...yes YOU....understand....cus YOU were the one who's been flagging me with questions...sabi ko nga parang interview with a vampire na yung ginagawa mo diba?....still...i answered your questions sincerely....i thought you just wanted to understand....how some of us became who we are....i thought your intentions were just....but now....reading your last post....it's like...you just set up a bait for me ...so you can all judge me and humilliate me for ...what?...for not saving my money...for not using my brains?....for not being practical?....

like i said.... not all people are the same...i have my own convictions....right or wrong....they are mine...and you have no right to judge me...or tell me what i should've or not have done.

And if in case you see me as a perfect picture of what a "failure" is....then that's fine by me....i'll be a good "lesson" for the others....para di nila ko gayahin....diba?...."lesson" parin. See?

p.s. thanks JoeyAbad :flowers:

 

my apologies.. i fell in love with lady that was just like you.. which is why it was hard for me to understand and accept why, its very hard to change for women like you

 

i could have been a lot happier if i knew you had some good use of what you earned..

 

sorry , di kase ako plastic.. naiinis lang ako..

[LYCHEE]

Best movie on falling for a woman in the flesh business is "Pretty Woman" with Julia Roberts and Richard Gere.

[THUG]

Best movie on falling for a woman in the flesh business is "Pretty Woman" with Julia Roberts and Richard Gere.

 

if you were as rich as the character portrayed by Richard Gere it is easy.. otherwise it is very hard..

 

you will always ask yourself "why me?"...

 

when you know that lots of probably richer, better looking guys are around your lady..

[carlito's_way]

When I saw this thread, I was like "What's the big deal?" Prostitutes, though calloused by experience, are still human beings. As such, they have this need to love and be loved. I have experienced falling in love with a GRO. She also fell in love with me but things in her life were just too chaotic that I have no room in there anymore. I tried to help but I guess she just needs to deal with her own issues in her own way without anybody telling what she should do or not do. Back then, I was really devastated that I cannot help her. I just told myself that I cannot save somebody who does not know that she needs help or does not want help. It's most difficult to help people who just wants to wallow in their miseries. I don't what happened to her as she just disappeared. I still hope that she found a better life for herself.

 

Why did I fall in love with her? Well, she's beautiful and smart. It also suited me. I have problems committing to one woman. It was not a problem with her because she entertains different men everyday. (To me, love does not mean not loving or not having fun with other people.)

 

To iwalkalone, I appreciate your honesty and your transparency. Your words reinforced what have been on mind all along when my GF GRO just disappeared. I guess people everywhere finds change difficult. There is always a point in a person's life that she is forced into something by circumstances beyond her control. Sometimes, even if this thing you are forced into is not right by your standards, it's difficult to get out since you have already established some sort of a comfort zone in it. It is really up to the person to move himself to change or wait for circumstances to change his life.

 

In any case, true love means embracing everything about the person. Babaero, pokpok, magnanakaw, mandurugas, kupal - whatever the person is, one must accept all these if he/she really loves this person. Forcing somebody to change is not love for that person. It is loving yourself. It is being selfish. Why do you think there are strong women who stays married to womanizing men? It's because they have learned to accept the fact that when a man womanizes, it does not mean that he does not love her anymore. It's just that he is weak when it comes to women.

 

The point is - love is love. It does not matter who or what you are or who or what you love.

[revi]

@carlito's way: I salute your stand on love.. That is how I see how love is.. Love for me is acceptance, forgiveness, and even sacrifice.. But loving oneself (IMO) should not be taken out of the relationship.. The "Golden Mean" should also be applied in relationships.. In other words, walang sosobra.. Hindi pwede na sobrang in-love na kinakalimutan mo na ang sarili mo at hindi naman pwede rin ang sobrang in-love sa sarili.. In other words, self-veneration and worshiping others should not be mistaken as love.. As I have repeatedly said in other threads, obsession ain't love.. Just my thoughts..

 

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Now going back to the topic at hand:

 

Clients who fall for "Sex Providers" is not uncommon.. I knew someone who came from a rich and known family who fell in love and even married a GRO.. The guy was persistent and in no time, the GRO also fell in love.. The guy's family was at first very against the relationship but eventually they gave their consent and they got married.. The guy brings the girl along in cocktail parties, and even to school reunions.. So, in other words, he wanted his family and his friends to really accept the girl as his wife..

 

Time passed.. Last I heard, the couple got separated.. I asked why.. The workers in the guy's family business said that the girl never did adjust to the relationship.. She was being backstabbed (daw) by the guy's family and friends.. Siguro naririnig niya na sinasabi na dati namang "pokpok" yan, etc.. And she fought back.. How? She would let her GRO friends stay in the house and hold parties.. She would drink, smoke.. Sarcasm was her way of fighting back.. In the end, the couple fell out of love and left each other..

 

Sad story? A modern day Cinderella story and in the end, it became a disaster.. But it really happened..

 

IMO, sometimes, when you enter a situation you should be ready to face the consequences.. When Richard Gere fell in love w/ Julia Roberts in the movie, "Pretty Woman," he was not ready to face the consequences, but because there is love he fought for their love.. But that movie never did presented how Richard and Julia took care of the relationship, it only presented how they met, how they fell, and how they fought for their love..

 

The challenge is how to prolong this kind of a relationship.. IMO, falling in love with a sex provider should not just entail love.. The relationship should not just be about love, sex, and money.. It should involve acceptance and it requires a more stable and open mind.. This if for both the man and the woman.. They should learn to face ridicule and non-acceptance from others.. Equal footing dito.. Coz even the man can be subject to ridicule.. his wife being called an ex-whore might just lead to a boxing match right?

 

We still live in a conservative society.. Hell, "Pretty Woman" is an American film, but still, Julia Roberts got ridiculed in the film.. What more if you are in a Filipino setting..

 

If you can not face the ridicules correctly, you better stay away from this kind of a relationship.. Coz it will just be bound to fail.. How do you face the ridicules correctly? Madaling sabihin, ngunit mahirap gawin.. wag mong hayaan na maapektuhan ka.. Mahirap di ba? Dapat maging pusong bato ka.. Ilabas mo ang naririnig mo sa kabilang tenga mo.. That is the only way.. Or you can go somewhere where no one knows you, para maiwasan mo ang mga ganitong pangyayari..

 

Falling in love with a sex provider is easy as 1-2-3, fighting for the love is more difficult and prolonging the relationships is 100 times more difficult.. These girls also deserve love from anyone, but if you are going to just love them and you can not fight for the love, then hwag na lang, because at the end of the day, you still treated them like s@%t.. For the girls naman, be ready to face the ridicule from the guy's friends, neighbors, and family.. Coz its bound to happen.. If you can not face them (the ridicule) correctly, then in the end, you are just delaying the inevitable.. the hurt that may lead to your relationship's eventual downfall..

 

I am not discouraging falling in love with GRO's and GRO's falling in love with their clients.. But IMO, its easier said than done.. And in this case, its easy to fall in love, but again, the challenge is how do you cultivate that love and prolong it.. If the whole world is against you.. can you still handle it? If you can.. Then, by all means, continue the relationship..

 

Peace!!!

Edited April 3, 2007 by revi

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how do you guys adjust to doubts with regards to your gf, knowing that she is surrounded by guys everyday, some of which are probably richer and better looking than you?

 

i'm suffering from this same doubt.. i don't know why i need to go on..i just seem to hurt myself..