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maybe i was thinking about something else...at that time...maybe i simply couldn't comprehend...maybe my mind was so set about the title of the topicClients Falling in Love with MPAs/PSPs...i could have been drunk for allyou know...what's all the fuzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz anyway????

so maybe i'm not that smart...sooo what?... I REALLY DID NOT UNDERSTAND SPONBEBOBs QUESTION....but i did try to answer as honestly...as MUCH as i could...I TRIED ...AND IF I ANSWERED ALL OF THEM CORRECTLY it does not mean I WAS LYING when I SAID I DID NOT UNDERSTAND SPONGEBOBs QUESTION... HELL I couldn't even understand what he meant when he mentioned "more than just another client."...i didn't imagine he was aking about the chances for an MPA/PSP...to fall inlove w/ a client. madaldal lang siguro talaga ako...kaya kahit papano na sagot ko rin yung Q ng di ko sinasadya.

 

But you know what...If I DID understood the Q...the way I do now ( Thanks to Joie :D )i would have answered all his Questions with a brief "Kailangan pa bang imemorize yan?"

By God...lahat ng tao Client/PSP/MPA/Ordinay people/CEO/Magbabalut...iisa lang naman yan diba? Love is absolute...nararamdaman yan...there is nothing we can do to enhance or diminish what someone holds for us. Kahit pa maghubad ka sa harap ng lalake o magpakamatay ka pa...kung di ka kayang mahalin...di ka kayang mahalin...ganun din sa babae...kahit pa lumuha ka ng dugo o isanla mo pa bahay at lupa mo para sa kanya..kung di ka kayang mahalin...di ka kayang mahalin.

With that...binabawi ko na lahat ng sinabi ko...isa na lang ang isasagot ko pala sa Question ni SpongeBob...."SpongeBob....Kailangan pa bang imemorize yan?"

 

no fuzz... i'm just saying.

there is no disparaging remark with what i said.

are you always this excitable? :)

 

back to topic: nakakatuwa lang when a GRO or an MPA feels that you are giving too much money and they would try to give back some or all of it, and you can feel that they are being earnest about it. makes you feel that they care for you, or that they don't want you to jeopardize your bankroll, or that your presence is sometimes enough.

or maybe that's just me reading too much into it. :sick:

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With that...binabawi ko na lahat ng sinabi ko...isa na lang ang isasagot ko pala sa Question ni SpongeBob...."SpongeBob....Kailangan pa bang imemorize yan?"[/b]

 

the question is this: kung mahirap lang ang guy, at nakakapunta lang siya sa mp or get a date with a psp dahil sa sobrang pagtitipid at halos di na kumakain, may pag-asa ba siyang mahalin ng mga girls na ito? let us assume na napakagentleman niya, pero wala talaga siyang pera, may pag-asa ba siya?

 

the answer is either yes or no. a non-response would still be ok. kailangan pa bang imemorize iyan?

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Spongebob, the answer to your question is yes... but you'd have to have something to compensate for your lack of money, good looks (and I mean really GOOD looks!), or maybe lots of charm.

 

It CAN happen. I hear lots of interesting stories from my gf and one of them was about one her attendant friends falling for this waiter... look at that, she pulls in around 80-100k a month and she falls for some waiter. And this girl is HOT, as in smoking... I've seen her in the aquarium. To be fair, I hear guwapo naman yun guy, and who knows, he's probably really sweet or something, or has a nice package hehe.

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am just guessing here but hey yeah it could probably happen

 

but not as often as we would hope

 

Do MPA's/PSP's really pull 80k a mo.?

 

*thinks about career change*

 

Not all of them can make that much, but I know for a fact that my girl usually makes 70+k a month. That's tax-free, haha. Just yesterday, she made about 9k total, thanks to a generous singaporean guest who gave her a little xmas 'bonus'. The problem is, with a lot of these girls, it's 'easy come, easy go'. Sure, they make a lot, but since it's so easy for them, they end up spending a lot too. They don't seem to realize that this ain't gonna last forever, and that they should be saving so they can get out of this business. Their looks aren't gonna last, especially if they're getting screwed 3 times a day.

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the question is this: kung mahirap lang ang guy, at nakakapunta lang siya sa mp or get a date with a psp dahil sa sobrang pagtitipid at halos di na kumakain, may pag-asa ba siyang mahalin ng mga girls na ito? let us assume na napakagentleman niya, pero wala talaga siyang pera, may pag-asa ba siya?

 

the answer is either yes or no. a non-response would still be ok. kailangan pa bang imemorize iyan?

 

YES! why not... they are not made of stone (MPA's/PSP's)

just like you and me they are all humans who wants to love and be loved.

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Spongebob, the answer to your question is yes... but you'd have to have something to compensate for your lack of money, good looks (and I mean really GOOD looks!), or maybe lots of charm.

 

It CAN happen. I hear lots of interesting stories from my gf and one of them was about one her attendant friends falling for this waiter... look at that, she pulls in around 80-100k a month and she falls for some waiter. And this girl is HOT, as in smoking... I've seen her in the aquarium. To be fair, I hear guwapo naman yun guy, and who knows, he's probably really sweet or something, or has a nice package hehe.

 

thanks for the answer masturvader. the answer is yes.

 

corny as it may seem, love can still prevail: noone is immuned from love. to paraphrase rea_listic, everyone wants to love and be loved.

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Spongebob, the answer to your question is yes... but you'd have to have something to compensate for your lack of money, good looks (and I mean really GOOD looks!), or maybe lots of charm.

 

It CAN happen. I hear lots of interesting stories from my gf and one of them was about one her attendant friends falling for this waiter... look at that, she pulls in around 80-100k a month and she falls for some waiter. And this girl is HOT, as in smoking... I've seen her in the aquarium. To be fair, I hear guwapo naman yun guy, and who knows, he's probably really sweet or something, or has a nice package hehe.

 

 

I think this is the best answer for SPonge's Q :thumbsupsmiley: YES ...err don't forget about the BUT :)

tsaka dagdag ko lang...another factor would be....ay kung yung MPA ay di pa nadala...sa isang ganoong klaseng lalake :D

ako nga natanso na ng wala na ngang looks wala pang money...tas pag tagal ala pala talagang kwenta as in ZERO :D

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I think this is the best answer for SPonge's Q :thumbsupsmiley: YES ...err don't forget about the BUT :)

tsaka dagdag ko lang...another factor would be....ay kung yung MPA ay di pa nadala...sa isang ganoong klaseng lalake :D

ako nga natanso na ng wala na ngang looks wala pang money...tas pag tagal ala pala talagang kwenta as in ZERO :D

 

grabe naman iyang lalaking iyan. sana na lang di siya iyong tipo ng guy na humihingi pa ng pera sa iyo. otherwise, baka nagayuma ka na.

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dikO alam panO mag'sstart... dikO nalang sasabihin kung sinO sya... well pinagdaAnan kO na din tOng situatiOn na tOh... perO dikO sya client....

a guy whOs trying tO help me Out of this kind of jOb hanggang sa mafall kami sa isat isat....

naging kami.... sa umpisa masaya... sa kalagitnaan mejO sumasablay na kase nawawala na yung trust....

i mean trust nya saken.... nung naging kami start nung day na un stOp kagad akO as PSP... which is good fOr me...

he prOvide all my needs... wala akOng masabi.... mahal kO sya.... mahal na mahal.... sObra.... then One time nahuli nya akO na sumasideline parin sa mtc... On that day sObrang galit na galit sya... wala na kOng magawa kundi gumive up....

lam kO tatanungin nyO bakit akO bumalik sa pagiging PSP.. sObrang hiya nakO sakanya alam nyO un...

lahat kase sa kanya na... which is di tama... mas gugustuhin kO nalng bumalik muna sa ganito kesa naman mahirapan sya saken diba?? alam kO mahirap yung pingdaanan nya saken... and im sorry for that....

 

perO One thing i can say... im nOt a liar and i dOnt use him fOr the sake Of myself........

 

 

bakit kO tO shinare sa inyO??? ditO s tOpic na tO..???

 

kase ngayOng paskO i really miss him.......

 

wala na kami cOmmunicatiOn.... and i think nakalimutan nya na akO...

 

maybe nakapagmOveOn na sya perO naka2sigurO akO na naiwan pa din sa kanya ung mark ng pain na naibigay kO....

 

 

 

just One wish fOr him..... sana ngayOng paskO... napatawad mO na akO.... imissyOu.....

 

 

imiss yOur hug and kiss... imiss the whole part of yOu... specially yOur heart..... :(

 

 

merry christmas...

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dikO alam panO mag'sstart... dikO nalang sasabihin kung sinO sya... well pinagdaAnan kO na din tOng situatiOn na tOh... perO dikO sya client....

a guy whOs trying tO help me Out of this kind of jOb hanggang sa mafall kami sa isat isat....

naging kami.... sa umpisa masaya... sa kalagitnaan mejO sumasablay na kase nawawala na yung trust....

i mean trust nya saken.... nung naging kami start nung day na un stOp kagad akO as PSP... which is good fOr me...

he prOvide all my needs... wala akOng masabi.... mahal kO sya.... mahal na mahal.... sObra.... then One time nahuli nya akO na sumasideline parin sa mtc... On that day sObrang galit na galit sya... wala na kOng magawa kundi gumive up....

lam kO tatanungin nyO bakit akO bumalik sa pagiging PSP.. sObrang hiya nakO sakanya alam nyO un...

lahat kase sa kanya na... which is di tama... mas gugustuhin kO nalng bumalik muna sa ganito kesa naman mahirapan sya saken diba?? alam kO mahirap yung pingdaanan nya saken... and im sorry for that....

 

perO One thing i can say... im nOt a liar and i dOnt use him fOr the sake Of myself........

bakit kO tO shinare sa inyO??? ditO s tOpic na tO..???

 

kase ngayOng paskO i really miss him.......

 

wala na kami cOmmunicatiOn.... and i think nakalimutan nya na akO...

 

maybe nakapagmOveOn na sya perO naka2sigurO akO na naiwan pa din sa kanya ung mark ng pain na naibigay kO....

just One wish fOr him..... sana ngayOng paskO... napatawad mO na akO.... imissyOu.....

imiss yOur hug and kiss... imiss the whole part of yOu... specially yOur heart..... :(

merry christmas...

 

 

ang ganda ng story...pero sana di ka nalang nahiya...sana hayaan mo na lang syang mahirapan...mahal ka naman nya eh..at mahal mo rin naman sya...i'm sure masaya sya sa ginagawa nya para sayo....sana di ka na sumideline....sana sana...ipaliwanag mo na rin sa akin bat ang lalaki ng lahat ng O mo? :wacko:

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dikO alam panO mag'sstart... dikO nalang sasabihin kung sinO sya... well pinagdaAnan kO na din tOng situatiOn na tOh... perO dikO sya client....

a guy whOs trying tO help me Out of this kind of jOb hanggang sa mafall kami sa isat isat....

naging kami.... sa umpisa masaya... sa kalagitnaan mejO sumasablay na kase nawawala na yung trust....

i mean trust nya saken.... nung naging kami start nung day na un stOp kagad akO as PSP... which is good fOr me...

he prOvide all my needs... wala akOng masabi.... mahal kO sya.... mahal na mahal.... sObra.... then One time nahuli nya akO na sumasideline parin sa mtc... On that day sObrang galit na galit sya... wala na kOng magawa kundi gumive up....

lam kO tatanungin nyO bakit akO bumalik sa pagiging PSP.. sObrang hiya nakO sakanya alam nyO un...

lahat kase sa kanya na... which is di tama... mas gugustuhin kO nalng bumalik muna sa ganito kesa naman mahirapan sya saken diba?? alam kO mahirap yung pingdaanan nya saken... and im sorry for that....

 

perO One thing i can say... im nOt a liar and i dOnt use him fOr the sake Of myself........

bakit kO tO shinare sa inyO??? ditO s tOpic na tO..???

 

kase ngayOng paskO i really miss him.......

 

wala na kami cOmmunicatiOn.... and i think nakalimutan nya na akO...

 

maybe nakapagmOveOn na sya perO naka2sigurO akO na naiwan pa din sa kanya ung mark ng pain na naibigay kO....

just One wish fOr him..... sana ngayOng paskO... napatawad mO na akO.... imissyOu.....

imiss yOur hug and kiss... imiss the whole part of yOu... specially yOur heart..... :(

merry christmas...

 

pag ibig nga naman... point taken!!! MPA's/PSP/GRO may puso sila... marunong magmahal...

 

in this case... if there are no money matters involved... may problema ba???

 

sakin lang... pag pinasok ng financial issues... kahit na anung matibay na relationship... kaya wasakin... kahit pa hinde PSP Client ang involved.

 

To you miss pumpkin... I salute you for being true to yourself and to your partner... mas maganda na yung lahat nakalabas... kesa naglilihim pa...

 

one day you will find the person who you can say... mahal ako neto no matter what at mahal ko din sya no matter what...

 

ang ganda ng story...pero sana di ka nalang nahiya...sana hayaan mo na lang syang mahirapan...mahal ka naman nya eh..at mahal mo rin naman sya...i'm sure masaya sya sa ginagawa nya para sayo....sana di ka na sumideline....sana sana...ipaliwanag mo na rin sa akin bat ang lalaki ng lahat ng O mo? :wacko:

 

 

hmmm... makikisali lang ulit

 

sakin lang po... d ko kaya kung alam ko yung other half ko eh d masaya or nahihirapan ng dahil sa akin... kung ako ay nasa lugar nung taong tinutukoy ni pumpkin... mas matutuwa ako sa reason nya... pero with the solution she made... ibang usapan na yun... hehehe

 

 

oo nga naman... sana d ka na bumalik.... pero come to think of it... kung yun yung bagay na alam mo magaling ka... at mas madali makakatulong sa yo at sa family mo... then take the rist... and after a year or two... dapat wala ka na sa ganung work...

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ang ganda ng story...pero sana di ka nalang nahiya...sana hayaan mo na lang syang mahirapan...mahal ka naman nya eh..at mahal mo rin naman sya...i'm sure masaya sya sa ginagawa nya para sayo....sana di ka na sumideline....sana sana...ipaliwanag mo na rin sa akin bat ang lalaki ng lahat ng O mo? :wacko:

 

 

tama si iwa. i was once in the same shoes as that guy. hindi tama na umasa ka lang sa guy!? ano kay yung mas hindi tama? yung lumakad ka at magtaksil or umasa ka na lang palagi? if hindi mo talaga matake you could have at least had the decency to tell him.

 

i'm sorry but I just had to react. There are just some people who are so selffish and shallow minded. There are only a few nice guys out there. when you meet one i hope you treat them nice.

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.... pero come to think of it... kung yun yung bagay na alam mo magaling ka... at mas madali makakatulong sa yo at sa family mo... then take the rist... and after a year or two... dapat wala ka na sa ganung work...

 

Miss kase...pag nag mahal ang isang PSP/MPA...kailangan kase handa syang makuntento sa kung hanggang san lang finances...kung ano lang kaya...( kaya nya...or kaya i-provide nung nagmahal sa kanya)...maraming kailangang i-adjust....kaya nga hindi basta basta ang desisyon na magmahal ang isang MPA/PSP...lalo na kung may mga umaasa...

sa story ni Pumpkin...i think hindi sya handa sa pinasok nya...kaya eventually she had to make sideline pa...na BAD talaga para sa isang totoong relationship...alam mo yun....minsan kailangan talagang mamili eh.....yung kita sa pag MPA/PSP o pag ibig..sometimes you just can't have both worlds... :)

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dikO alam panO mag'sstart... dikO nalang sasabihin kung sinO sya... well pinagdaAnan kO na din tOng situatiOn na tOh... perO dikO sya client....

a guy whOs trying tO help me Out of this kind of jOb hanggang sa mafall kami sa isat isat....

naging kami.... sa umpisa masaya... sa kalagitnaan mejO sumasablay na kase nawawala na yung trust....

i mean trust nya saken.... nung naging kami start nung day na un stOp kagad akO as PSP... which is good fOr me...

he prOvide all my needs... wala akOng masabi.... mahal kO sya.... mahal na mahal.... sObra.... then One time nahuli nya akO na sumasideline parin sa mtc... On that day sObrang galit na galit sya... wala na kOng magawa kundi gumive up....

lam kO tatanungin nyO bakit akO bumalik sa pagiging PSP.. sObrang hiya nakO sakanya alam nyO un...

lahat kase sa kanya na... which is di tama... mas gugustuhin kO nalng bumalik muna sa ganito kesa naman mahirapan sya saken diba?? alam kO mahirap yung pingdaanan nya saken... and im sorry for that....

 

perO One thing i can say... im nOt a liar and i dOnt use him fOr the sake Of myself........

bakit kO tO shinare sa inyO??? ditO s tOpic na tO..???

 

kase ngayOng paskO i really miss him.......

 

wala na kami cOmmunicatiOn.... and i think nakalimutan nya na akO...

 

maybe nakapagmOveOn na sya perO naka2sigurO akO na naiwan pa din sa kanya ung mark ng pain na naibigay kO....

just One wish fOr him..... sana ngayOng paskO... napatawad mO na akO.... imissyOu.....

imiss yOur hug and kiss... imiss the whole part of yOu... specially yOur heart..... :(

merry christmas...

 

kakalungkot naman itong kuwento. siguro kung di lang malalaki ang "o" mo, umiyak na ako ng tuluyan.

 

whether we like it or not, werious relationships between psps/mpas and their clients always start in shaky ground. the guy tries to make the girl feel that her past doesn't matter, while the girl tries her best to prove that she's worthy of trust. and when that trust is breached because of money, especially when he's trying his darn best to be a good provider, the relationship is over.

 

in a way, ok na rin siguro na iyong guy lumayo at di na gumanti.

 

pero sayang. sana pag may nagmahal sa iyo, mas maganda ang ending.

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