Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[50fd]

pag MPA ang GF mo...lets be honest na most of the time great professional sex performance lang ang reason for having her.  if love comes into the picture...be prepared to keep this in mind....are you in love enough to accepts that she gets gangbanged almost every day..?  Ako I cannot imagine having a gf like that coz siguro if nakataon meron akong gf na MPA igragrahe ko na sya for my exclusive use. 

 

Unfair yata to say that you love and MPA and let continue her "gangbang" work everyday....parang toothbrush yan e...di ba ayaw mo naman i share yong toothbrush mo kung kanino....

 

I am saying "gangbang" because I know an MPA gets to service at least 2 guys in one day up to more than 7 guys a day....imagine mo yon seven guys drooling over  and licking your gf...yucccckk..

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yup.. lalo na pag top ten! kaya nga if you feel like you truly love her, and you dont have the dough don't get into it get out while it's early. she will continue working to support whom ever, and that you have to live with.

[kupalking]

kahit na most desirable pa yung mpa sa work niya eh the point is arkilahan pa din siya, kaya there is no point naipagyabang na may gf na mpa,gro, o escort eh mga pila balde girls mga yun eh,

[jingjing]

bakit hindi. basta ba titigil na sya. ang hirap naman kasi pag may iba pa rin

[boonie]

dude movies are meant to entertain so anything is possible, pero sa totoong buhay eh hindi lahat ay happy ending

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Well, dude, based naman sa true stroy yun.. pero i got your point na syempre may dagdag na ang kwento.. Anyway, kung talagang you love each other bakit hinde..peace!

[Guest Smith!]

kahit na most desirable pa yung mpa sa work niya eh the point is arkilahan pa din siya, kaya there is no point naipagyabang na may gf na mpa,gro, o escort eh mga pila balde girls mga yun eh,

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yah tama ka sa gro side me gusto ako sa isa sa mga babes ko.pero dahil i love her with my

money and power i can erase anything from her past ibig sabihen kung gusto mo talaga go

for it :evil: :evil: :thumbsupsmiley:

 

btw im against talaga pero im only human what can i do peace :evil: :evil:

[batnball2005]

i don't mind falling for ang mpa. tao din naman sila. pero the thing is one must be ready to accept what comes with it. kung kayo ninyo maglakad sa mall at makasalubong ang ibang mga naging guest niya. well you have crossed the first obstacle.

 

ako aminin ko nakakagusto ako sa isang mpa ngayon. may asawa ako alam niya. she did not offer me great sex noon nagkakilala kami sa mp. regular lang ako i go for extreme sex. pero di ko alam bakit magaan ang loob ko sa kanya. she text me everyday just to say hi some of my friends say na pr lang yon sa mga customer. pero parang hindi. we share alot of thing together.

 

anyway. walang masama mainlove sa mpa/gro handa lang kayo sa mga maririnig niyo.

[jepopoy]

Wwoooooooooooooohhhh i must say wwoohh.....  after I’ve read your story I’m compelled to share my view/opinions and personal experiences, thoughts whatever that might help you out. 

 

1st  I’ll share some thoughts, MPA’s/GRO’s are human can yes they can truly love you, and you can also love them back.  But mind you it would be VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY HARD!!! And also COMPLICATED.  I totally agree to what you’ve said and I believe most people also know that these women or at least most of these women went through this kind of job/business because they need MONEY, to support family, kids, relatives whatever.. most of them don’t like there job and would instantly quit if they have money.  And as humans yes there are occasionally some who also love there job and somewhat proud of it.

 

2nd I’ll share my experience, yes I’ve also fallen truly in love with a MPA/GRO, some went almost 2years.  And these is what I’ve learn, you must truly accept what she does and her past, EXPECT THE WORST and try to ACCEPT that. If she’s a GRO/dancer expect her to have done it with hundreds of men, and do not think na table lng or sayaw lng and ginagawa nila,  especially if she’s in the business for quite some time already same with MPA’s.  If you can accept that SEX is her JOB or part of her JOB you’ve pass stage 1. 

 

Next thing I learn is that women became GRO/MPA is because of LOVE. Yes LOVE for their children/ family or friend that they are willing to sacrifice themselves (na kahit babuyin katawan nila) just to help/raise their love ones. So talking about love now you must gauge her love towards you.  Which comes first?? YOU?? There will be a SLIM chance that she would LOVE YOU or CHOOSE YOU OVER HER FAMILY.  (just imagine the sacrifice she gave to her family).  This is a BIG DEAL my friend why?? Because that if you want her to quit you must provide her needs, and also provide the needs of the people that are dependent on her. If you do not SATISFY their needs, I’ll tell you she will go back to work and she will be “Working Hard”  even if she loves you even if she loves you as much as she love her family/kid/s. I’ll tell you she will even if you gave everything that you could once you’re out expect it to happen.  why because she needs to survive and people are dependent on her and there are no other option for her. UNLESS SHE LOVES YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING. that she is willing to give up everything including the people she love and have sacrifice her self to. (Very Hard)>>>

 

Also I must say that u must find the reason why she loved you and vice versa.  Does she love you because you’re kind to her and perhaps only one of the few people who’ve been kind to her? Is it because u can provide for her? Is it looks? And on your side why do u love her and are willing to look beyond her job and accept her fully? Is it sex/pleasure?  (I sure hope not) well u must find the true reason and be sure it is NOT SUPERFICIAL!

 

3rd I guess this is going way too long (I hope you don’t get bored) so I already must give some personal advice. 

1. FULLY ACCEPT HER AND HER JOB.

I can see you can’t still fully accept her job, because you ask and do detective work on her. I might be wrong and maybe your just curious. 

 

2. BE PREPARED TO GIVE FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE.

As you’ve mention you don’t have a job right now and I don’t know how mush you’ve save but I suggest you must first establish yourself being capable of supporting her and her family. Just to avoid financial problems. And I’ll tell you that is very hard. (also truly loving her would mean caring for her family)

 

3. GREAT SEX MUST NOT BE YOUR PRIORITY REASON OF LOVING HER.

Find some better reason like chemistry or something something that will last.

 

4. (I agree with hitman) ALWAYS HAVE AN EXIT PLAN. ALWAYS.

 

5. THINGS ALWAYS CHANGES. BE PREPARED.

 

Be prepared to be talk about by your friends, family, business partners, they will be talking some nasty stuff about you and your girl. Some might look down on you, some might not accept what you do (specially your family), be prepared that one of your friend, friends or brother or what ever might have avail her service. These are just some of the things that can easily change and you must be prepared for.

 

6. PROTECT YOURSELF.

Think about yourself always, never forget about yourself.

 

7.  BE SURE YOU CAN BE HAPPY. BE SURE YOU CAN FIGHT FOR HER.

 

8.              KNOW HOW MUCH SHE TRULY LOVES YOU.

And ever if she really do remember it can change, know how strong it is.

 

I guess i went too long.. anyway wish you all the best man. plan carefully. :mtc: 

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nice words man, this is so true

[50fd]

nice words man, this is so true

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Thanks. i hope the topic starter had read my post.. i somehow know what he's going through i was once also blind and had given everything for girl who work in this fields. slowly i realize that i was not her priority and she would not sacrifice for me despite of...... :mtc:

[popoyking]

Watch "Ligaya ang tawag nila sa Akin" or "They call me Joy" of Rosanna Roces. Relationships like this only work if you start else where like in the US so that there won't be any prying eyes. That is if she is truly reformed and really loves you. (or if just using you,...that will never work )

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it is not meet for us to judge others... there will always be someone who will love more than the other... and if you are that person who is more in love than the other, then being with anyone is not a problem...

 

just choose who you will love and be responsible with that choice... ciao!!!

[Tukuykuy]

mostly naghahanap lang sila ng pampalipas oras din. kunyari bf-gf kayo, patxt-txt kayo, tapos padate-date din. pero alam din naman nilang di seryoso eh, kasi iniisip nilang walang magseseryoso sa kanilang lalaki dahil nga sa trabaho nila. gusto lang nila makatikim ng konting normalidad sa mga buhay nila. pero ang hinahanap talaga rin nila ay yung mga lalaking hindi alam ang trabaho nila, dun siguro pwede silang magseryoso, kasi mas maliit ang risk na hindi sila lokohin lang. mas secured sila na hindi sila masasaktan.

 

 

sa akin naman, ok din lang ang setup na ganito. wag lang syempre tayo magpapahulog masyado ng loob kasi alam naman natin na di rin tatagal yung relasyon. madalang ka lang makakakita ng successful na relasyon kapag mpa/gro ang babae. mas lalo nang mababa ang probability kapag mpa ang babae kasa sa gro. kahit naman itanong mo mga lalaki eh, mas pipiliin nila ang gro kaysa mpa kasi nga mas malaki discrimination sa kanila. alam naman ninyo na kung bakit eh.

[jumborat]

Thanks. i hope the topic starter had read my post.. i somehow know what he's going through i was once also blind and had given everything for girl who work in this fields.  slowly i realize that i was not her priority and she would not sacrifice for me despite of......  :mtc:

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spoken like a true lover.

 

in terms of priority, i don't think that any mpa/gro would make his man his priority. in the first place, they entered the business to support their family. why would they bend their backs for you if you're not helping them reach their mission in life? keep in mind that if you're willing to take a girl in this business under your wing, your not only taking her but also her family. you instantly win a family to support!

 

i'm not saying that it's impossible to have a good relationship given these circumstances. you just have to accept these realities. having all the money in the world won't make you happy or make someone truly love you, but it sure helps to have it!

[BunnyLover]

my friends tell me i have a soft heart....kaya ang payo at pinupukpok sa ulo ko palagi ay: "kapal ng mukha, itim ng puso, at tamis ng dila." ....so far medyo pa lang...still a long way to go. :upside:

[Bloodraven]

50fd great words.

 

Honestly, I can relate to Viz888 because I'm currently undergoing the same "situation". Never thought it would happen. Didn't want it to happen. That's why I'd go to thier respective places of work to have some fun with no strings attached. But then.. without warning.. WHAM!

 

All the things you've pointed out are true if not accurate. That's why although I've totally lost my mind over this lady, Im just letting each day pass one day at a time. Don't really know how far this here road is going to take me but then again is anybody really sure of thier chosen route in this little hell hole called life.

 

Yes, the frequent FRs you get to read on the side (when ur girls mentioned) does sting, especially when they are regarded with so little respect by such infantile males who call themselves men, and yes, these girls are really only doing all this for thier family (at least mine is). If you only get to see how they've sacrificed themselves for thier families well being..talaga it will blow you away. That's why I still regard her as a person "working" hard for love of family.

 

Her insecurities regarding how serious I am will always be there given your earlier point, but then again, believing will only be up to her. Believe it or not since I started seeing her outside of work, never had I asked her for sex, guess I got passed that. sheesh...

 

I don't know how long this relationship will last if it will anyway. But one things for sure. While we're together I will love her. Support her. And teach her about life. So that whatever may become of us, she can look back and remember that once long ago I geved her something that she thought she had already forsaken in return for her family's well being.

 

The honest, repectful, sincere and warmth of a mans love.

[webalex]

Just an observation and based on my own personal experience.

 

Men who have had a serious relationship with a mpa do so in the following turn of events:

 

1. went to a massage parlor to have great sex.

2. got a pretty attendant and had great sex.

3. heard her sad stories and got closer to her.

4. felt pity and wanted to help her get out the rotten life.

5. fell in love in the process.

6. relationship got more serious.

7. realized it would never work out.

8. the relationship ended and both parties got hurt in the process.

8. the guy recovered, got wiser and promised not to back to the mp ever!

9. after a few weeks, months, or sometimes years, the guy went back to sequence #1.

 

Some relationships may end up in a happy one. But for most, it fails. Why? Well, i'm sure there a lot of reasons.

 

But what i wanted to point out here is that in the end, it's always the mpa who suffers the most.

 

They end up worse than when they first started working as a mp. Their attitude towards life becomes even darker. Some go into wilder sex and some take drugs just to forget about their problems & sufferings.

 

My point is (just like what TSINITO24 said), if you are sure that what you have is pure love (not just sex), and not just because you pity her, then go for it. But if you are not sure of it, then better not go into one. We, men, can recover and go back to our old ways of hopping from one mp to another. But for the mpa's, it's an even sadder story for them. By giving them a false hope of having a chance of a new, better, and decent life, they will end up believing that there is no such a thing.

 

I fell in love once.

[BunnyLover]

pareng webalex, nice input....ako muntik at malapit lagi....trying my best not to get attached too much and at the same time without looking like an assh*le...good luck to all!