Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[KlayTrey11]

First time to try this thread. Pero napaisip nga ako no. Pano mga bf ng theras. Some knows it while some doesn't. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

[MartinAvedis3]

Most stories of Theras aware yun bf/husband nila, its because walang work or small ang financial income, most of the time ang bread of the family is yun babae (kapit patalim). May isang Thera na ubod ng ganda ng mukha at sexy, malaki yun boobs at mestiza, nakausap ko after our session sa isang MP, nagkwento siya may asawa siya na mahal na mahal nya at may anak silang dalwa, as in prankly sinabi nya yun asawa nya walang work, malaki tiyan at hindi mahitsura..ang term pa niya ginamit may hawig kay “shrek”🤣 Kahit ganun daw mahal nya hindi iiwan kasi mabait na tatay sa mga anak at maalagain sakanya pinagluluto sya, house-husband. Tapos yun babae yun nagwwork for their living and mapaaral anak nila. Nakaka 4-9 guests a day siya and more than 10 yrs sa industry.

I asked her..so ano difference na ng sex niyo sa dami ng kasex mo na guests? She told me, ang tingin ko sa mga guests iisa lng sila magkakamukha, kung yun asawa ko kaya niya ko buhayin at pamilya namin titigil ako right away sa trabahong ito, kaso wala siya work e kaya ito lng alam ko gawin na malaki kita instant money. Also asked her pano kung itake home ka ng mayaman na guests or magkgusto sayo? Malaki offer. She replied..” common na yan ang dami na nagkagusto sakin na aasawahin ako at lahat gusto ko ibibili pero okay na ko dito sa bayad-kant₱@t lng kada oras” hindi ko pagpapalit asawa ko kahit pangit” 🤣🤣 

8 hours ago, KlayTrey11 said:

First time to try this thread. Pero napaisip nga ako no. Pano mga bf ng theras. Some knows it while some doesn't. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Edited December 1, 2023 by MartinAvedis3

[BlackDiamond]

12 hours ago, MartinAvedis3 said:

Most stories of Theras aware yun bf/husband nila, its because walang work or small ang financial income, most of the time ang bread of the family is yun babae (kapit patalim). May isang Thera na ubod ng ganda ng mukha at sexy, malaki yun boobs at mestiza, nakausap ko after our session sa isang MP, nagkwento siya may asawa siya na mahal na mahal nya at may anak silang dalwa, as in prankly sinabi nya yun asawa nya walang work, malaki tiyan at hindi mahitsura..ang term pa niya ginamit may hawig kay “shrek”🤣 Kahit ganun daw mahal nya hindi iiwan kasi mabait na tatay sa mga anak at maalagain sakanya pinagluluto sya, house-husband. Tapos yun babae yun nagwwork for their living and mapaaral anak nila. Nakaka 4-9 guests a day siya and more than 10 yrs sa industry.

I asked her..so ano difference na ng sex niyo sa dami ng kasex mo na guests? She told me, ang tingin ko sa mga guests iisa lng sila magkakamukha, kung yun asawa ko kaya niya ko buhayin at pamilya namin titigil ako right away sa trabahong ito, kaso wala siya work e kaya ito lng alam ko gawin na malaki kita instant money. Also asked her pano kung itake home ka ng mayaman na guests or magkgusto sayo? Malaki offer. She replied..” common na yan ang dami na nagkagusto sakin na aasawahin ako at lahat gusto ko ibibili pero okay na ko dito sa bayad-kant₱@t lng kada oras” hindi ko pagpapalit asawa ko kahit pangit” 🤣🤣 

Ang interesting ng psychology ng ganto no? And i think you asked a very good question.. parang pag chef ka, kahit pareho yung sarap ng luto mo for clients vs family, how do you feel about doing the act you do as a profession when you do it to someone you actually love?

[bhudz_paulfinch]

Ano masasabi niyo kung isang former thera ay may mga masusugid na sponsor parin hanggang ngayon? Pero hindi naman na active sa kahit anong MP. Panay parin ang text or call sa kanya ng mga sponsor na umaasa parin pero di na niya sinasagot. Kaya lang yung number niya kung saan siya nakokontak eh ayaw niyang bitawan. Itong former thera ay nahinto na ng 3-4 years na wala sa industry.

[BlackDiamond]

39 minutes ago, bhudz_paulfinch said:

Ano masasabi niyo kung isang former thera ay may mga masusugid na sponsor parin hanggang ngayon? Pero hindi naman na active sa kahit anong MP. Panay parin ang text or call sa kanya ng mga sponsor na umaasa parin pero di na niya sinasagot. Kaya lang yung number niya kung saan siya nakokontak eh ayaw niyang bitawan. Itong former thera ay nahinto na ng 3-4 years na wala sa industry.

It's like telling a person to say no to potential income.. 🤷‍♂️

[joncaparas]

On 11/20/2023 at 3:31 AM, HappyPill said:

Don't fall for a therapist kung mahinang nilalang ka. Dapat selfless ka, hindi yung bigay k ng bigay ng restrictions ksi alam mo nmang kbuhayn nya yn. Alamin mo pinasok mo at dapat pgusapan nyong mbuti yn kng sino mang thera ang minamahal mo.

Sa mga thera nman, magwowork lng yn kng magiging honest dn kyo sa bf nyo. Bf nga yn hindi GM n bolahan portion lng ang gagawin nyo at puro sekreto ang paiiralin. Ksi when reality sets in, bka mawindang ang relasyon nyo.

This.

I remember nung kausap ko yung isang Thera. Nagka-bf daw siya before and dumami restrictions - to the point na halos kalahati nalang kita niya. Sinunod naman niya as a compromise, mahal niya eh, pero naging toxic din yung relationship kasi parang nagseselos yung lalake everytime na may work yung thera. Lagi daw tinatanong kung nakailang customer, anong ginawa nila, saan and so on... Tapos pag sinagot niya yung questions, nasisira daw yung mood nung lalake. 

 

I mean, come on.

[dominickcruise]

1 hour ago, joncaparas said:

This.

I remember nung kausap ko yung isang Thera. Nagka-bf daw siya before and dumami restrictions - to the point na halos kalahati nalang kita niya. Sinunod naman niya as a compromise, mahal niya eh, pero naging toxic din yung relationship kasi parang nagseselos yung lalake everytime na may work yung thera. Lagi daw tinatanong kung nakailang customer, anong ginawa nila, saan and so on... Tapos pag sinagot niya yung questions, nasisira daw yung mood nung lalake. 

I  mean, come on.

this is true bro and it just so happens na ganun work ni girl kaya mahirap talaga sa ganitong set up...lalo na if 'HIGH MILEAGE" yung mtc gm na naging guest niya, she will be tempted to give him more than the standard mileage if there is a spark there.

[kikomatsingmatos]

On 12/1/2023 at 8:21 AM, MartinAvedis3 said:

Most stories of Theras aware yun bf/husband nila, its because walang work or small ang financial income, most of the time ang bread of the family is yun babae (kapit patalim). May isang Thera na ubod ng ganda ng mukha at sexy, malaki yun boobs at mestiza, nakausap ko after our session sa isang MP, nagkwento siya may asawa siya na mahal na mahal nya at may anak silang dalwa, as in prankly sinabi nya yun asawa nya walang work, malaki tiyan at hindi mahitsura..ang term pa niya ginamit may hawig kay “shrek”🤣 Kahit ganun daw mahal nya hindi iiwan kasi mabait na tatay sa mga anak at maalagain sakanya pinagluluto sya, house-husband. Tapos yun babae yun nagwwork for their living and mapaaral anak nila. Nakaka 4-9 guests a day siya and more than 10 yrs sa industry.

I asked her..so ano difference na ng sex niyo sa dami ng kasex mo na guests? She told me, ang tingin ko sa mga guests iisa lng sila magkakamukha, kung yun asawa ko kaya niya ko buhayin at pamilya namin titigil ako right away sa trabahong ito, kaso wala siya work e kaya ito lng alam ko gawin na malaki kita instant money. Also asked her pano kung itake home ka ng mayaman na guests or magkgusto sayo? Malaki offer. She replied..” common na yan ang dami na nagkagusto sakin na aasawahin ako at lahat gusto ko ibibili pero okay na ko dito sa bayad-kant₱@t lng kada oras” hindi ko pagpapalit asawa ko kahit pangit” 🤣🤣 

true love daw yan kung maganda pumatos sa pangit.

pareho kami ng asawa ni thera na pangit at malaki tiyan, hawig din ni shrek. kaibahan lang namin single ako pero may hanapbuhay kahit papano. hahahaha.

pero mahirap talaga mahulog, lalo kung ikaw mismo walang wala rin. kaya sila naging thera dahil walang pera.

[plug]

14 hours ago, bhudz_paulfinch said:

Ano masasabi niyo kung isang former thera ay may mga masusugid na sponsor parin hanggang ngayon? Pero hindi naman na active sa kahit anong MP. Panay parin ang text or call sa kanya ng mga sponsor na umaasa parin pero di na niya sinasagot. Kaya lang yung number niya kung saan siya nakokontak eh ayaw niyang bitawan. Itong former thera ay nahinto na ng 3-4 years na wala sa industry.

Bali wala sa said to be na sponsor kasi may iba pa siyang babae. It’s like kung available si girl ok lang kung hindi na tanggal lang sa listahan pati na support or look for a new girl.

 

[plug]

3 hours ago, joncaparas said:

This.

I remember nung kausap ko yung isang Thera. Nagka-bf daw siya before and dumami restrictions - to the point na halos kalahati nalang kita niya. Sinunod naman niya as a compromise, mahal niya eh, pero naging toxic din yung relationship kasi parang nagseselos yung lalake everytime na may work yung thera. Lagi daw tinatanong kung nakailang customer, anong ginawa nila, saan and so on... Tapos pag sinagot niya yung questions, nasisira daw yung mood nung lalake. 

 

I mean, come on.

May thera paguwi daw niya agad check ni gf ang ari kung nakipag sex siya. How the checking was done she did not tell. Kaya si thera never pumayag sa atw. Ewan ko kung may nakauna bago siya nakipag relasyon sa kapwa babae. Ako nga hanggang tingin lang sa ari when she appeared as an 18 year old newbie and a virgin. 

[Mrkiss]

Dami magaganda thera. I know this feeling, lalo na pag madalas ka na sa kanya. Lol

[KlayTrey11]

On 12/1/2023 at 8:21 AM, MartinAvedis3 said:

Most stories of Theras aware yun bf/husband nila, its because walang work or small ang financial income, most of the time ang bread of the family is yun babae (kapit patalim). May isang Thera na ubod ng ganda ng mukha at sexy, malaki yun boobs at mestiza, nakausap ko after our session sa isang MP, nagkwento siya may asawa siya na mahal na mahal nya at may anak silang dalwa, as in prankly sinabi nya yun asawa nya walang work, malaki tiyan at hindi mahitsura..ang term pa niya ginamit may hawig kay “shrek”🤣 Kahit ganun daw mahal nya hindi iiwan kasi mabait na tatay sa mga anak at maalagain sakanya pinagluluto sya, house-husband. Tapos yun babae yun nagwwork for their living and mapaaral anak nila. Nakaka 4-9 guests a day siya and more than 10 yrs sa industry.

I asked her..so ano difference na ng sex niyo sa dami ng kasex mo na guests? She told me, ang tingin ko sa mga guests iisa lng sila magkakamukha, kung yun asawa ko kaya niya ko buhayin at pamilya namin titigil ako right away sa trabahong ito, kaso wala siya work e kaya ito lng alam ko gawin na malaki kita instant money. Also asked her pano kung itake home ka ng mayaman na guests or magkgusto sayo? Malaki offer. She replied..” common na yan ang dami na nagkagusto sakin na aasawahin ako at lahat gusto ko ibibili pero okay na ko dito sa bayad-kant₱@t lng kada oras” hindi ko pagpapalit asawa ko kahit pangit” 🤣🤣 

That's why i ask this question. Relate

I had a regular(s) dn sa mp/spa. Yung isa May ka live-in and he doesn't know ganun work ni girl sa mp. While yung isa sa spa; alam ng bf na ganun work ni girl so i asked her. Di nya sinagot directly, sabi nlng nya baka daw yung bf nya is ganun na din work. Natawa nalang ako haha

but all of the mp theras and spa theras na natanung ko. Financial problem talaga, yung regular ko sa mp noon nag iipon lng para makapag abroad sila ng ka live in nya. She stopped na i think and can't contact her now. Siguro nasa abroad na nga. Good for them

[Bonked]

masarap mahulog sa isang thera na maalaga, maasikaso at sweet pa. bonus na rin yung maganda at sexy.

 

[fordBlue]

On 10/14/2023 at 2:16 PM, Iceman7 said:

For all the newbies even thinking about pursuing a Thera for a stable relationship all you need to do is back read there is plenty of stories of failure and hurt and loss of money.

To keep things simple. GM gives money to Thera. Thera gives money to real boyfriend. This here is the reality!! 

Like just today one of my regulars BF tag her on a post thanking her for the new nike shoes she bought him saying that he was going to give her sex when she gets home for as a reward 😂 Not like she gets enough of it at her work place.

What is really troubling if you guys can find it. Someone here bought a Thera a car. And of course who is the one driving it? The real boyfriend.

Not saying it's always like this there are high value Theras that know their worth won't mess around with broke asses. I myself somewhat pursued a legendary top Thera but kudos to the guy she is with now because I don't think I could spend the kind of money to keep her. Because I also had to consider the big family as well. Not sure if he is a GM and knows about her past but so far they been together for a while now.

Other high value Theras I spoke to told me this was their dream to be swept off their feet and taken cared off by a GM. Like what happened with Ms.Gem at tokyo Spa and I think Mariel. 

But to each his own you have been warned. If you don't have to deep pockets to play this game. Best to just be a regular customer.

Cool

[chessboxin]

You have to get into the weeds of the minds of theras kasi to understand them.

In the first place, almost all of them have daddy issues. Kaya nga pinasok ang ganyan kasi walang kwenta ang tatay hindi sila napaaral at nasustentuhan. So what they value is the attention they never got.

If you're thinking about using money, forget about it. Marami na sila niyan. They literally earn more than the average mid-level professional.

Yun lang talaga yun, dedicated attention. Unfortunately that's something most working people can't do. How can you be on-call 24/7 when you have an 8 to 5 stressful mind boggling office job?

[Prinsloo]

On 12/1/2023 at 12:12 AM, KlayTrey11 said:

First time to try this thread. Pero napaisip nga ako no. Pano mga bf ng theras. Some knows it while some doesn't. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

most of them sugar coat their job to their partner. like nagmomodel na natatakehome paminsan-minsan, GRO sa KTV na bihira ma all the way receptionist sa spa. pero wala ata umaamin na oras oras sila binobook sa BF nila

yung raid ng southern spa na kasama mga taga ABS CBN nitong December lang, grabe iyak ng BF nung madiscover nya na nagbibigay ng ES ang GF nya. akala daw nya hilot hilot lang lol.

[Rolf.go.06]

On 12/1/2023 at 12:12 AM, KlayTrey11 said:

First time to try this thread. Pero napaisip nga ako no. Pano mga bf ng theras. Some knows it while some doesn't. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Partner nila yung wala idea sa ganto industry at ung hindi abot ng income nila ung ganto bisyo.

Kaso lagi naman sinasabi ng thera wala bf o asawa sila pero ung anak hindi nila tinatanggi.

[chnky]

Para sken medyo complicated tong topic na to. Depende kase kung saan ka dadalhin ng emotions mo. Para ka ding nag susugal hindi mo alam kung may balik ang ininvest mo ( emotions and monetary ). Pero isa lang masasabi ko, wag masyadong padalos dalos ang desisyon. Ikaw pa din makakaramdam nyan kung tama ba or tama na sa mga ginagawa mo. Dont learn it in a hard way, ok naman maging cautious, in the end of the day ang unang mafall sya ung mas nasasaktan sa huli.

[MartinAvedis3]

On 12/7/2023 at 7:06 PM, chessboxin said:

You have to get into the weeds of the minds of theras kasi to understand them.

In the first place, almost all of them have daddy issues. Kaya nga pinasok ang ganyan kasi walang kwenta ang tatay hindi sila napaaral at nasustentuhan. So what they value is the attention they never got.

If you're thinking about using money, forget about it. Marami na sila niyan. They literally earn more than the average mid-level professional.

Yun lang talaga yun, dedicated attention. Unfortunately that's something most working people can't do. How can you be on-call 24/7 when you have an 8 to 5 stressful mind boggling office job?

You’ve nailed it Bro, And it’s all about contentment..income/money? There’s no contentment.. Beautification, enhancement, material things and most of them are bread winners. Even Popular celebrities/models nagwwalk in a higher-end nga lng…price is right basis..Wala sila pinagkaiba mga nasa MP girls. 

Edited December 9, 2023 by MartinAvedis3

[Iceman7]

On 12/1/2023 at 12:12 AM, KlayTrey11 said:

First time to try this thread. Pero napaisip nga ako no. Pano mga bf ng theras. Some knows it while some doesn't. 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Most are ok with it since they won't have to work just sleep and watch their child. And there are good benefits to the BF as well. Some GM simps will bring food to the Thera or give the Thera extra in hope for increasing their milage. In turn the Thera will bring the food back home to the BF or give the extra money she received from the simp GM to add to her BF allowance.

The BF is the true winner while the GM gives his hard earn money to the Thera and the BF not only gets an allowance but gets sex for free and as much as he wants. Also with his allowance he sometimes spends it on other woman 🤯

Edited December 9, 2023 by Iceman7

[HappyPill]

On 12/9/2023 at 5:38 PM, Iceman7 said:

Most are ok with it since they won't have to work just sleep and watch their child. And there are good benefits to the BF as well. Some GM simps will bring food to the Thera or give the Thera extra in hope for increasing their milage. In turn the Thera will bring the food back home to the BF or give the extra money she received from the simp GM to add to her BF allowance.

The BF is the true winner while the GM gives his hard earn money to the Thera and the BF not only gets an allowance but gets sex for free and as much as he wants. Also with his allowance he sometimes spends it on other woman 🤯

Hindi laging ganyan. May mga thera na ang BF nila eh mga GM din. Hindi laging palamunin ang bf nila gaya ng sinasabi mo Sir. 

May thera na araw2 kung sunduin ng bf nya ng magarang auto. Meron naman ganon din, mayaman n GM. Pero tuloy p dn nman sa biz si Thera. May mga bawal lng gawin. D ko lng sure bkit di n lng sila mgsama. Malamang may sbit dn si GM.

Meron dn nman siguro n kumplikado ang sitwasyon. O kya desisyon n dn ng thera n ituloy ang trabaho for financial reasons.

[Iceman7]

2 hours ago, HappyPill said:

Hindi laging ganyan. May mga thera na ang BF nila eh mga GM din. Hindi laging palamunin ang bf nila gaya ng sinasabi mo Sir. 

May thera na araw2 kung sunduin ng bf nya ng magarang auto. Meron naman ganon din, mayaman n GM. Pero tuloy p dn nman sa biz si Thera. May mga bawal lng gawin. D ko lng sure bkit di n lng sila mgsama. Malamang may sbit dn si GM.

Meron dn nman siguro n kumplikado ang sitwasyon. O kya desisyon n dn ng thera n ituloy ang trabaho for financial reasons.

Of course not all of the theras situation I mentioned is like that. I am just speaking from what I have seen. Just to use as an example since this thera is no longer active.

Demi Lousissa would be seen with wealthy GMs. They would pick her up with their fancy cars and take her to nice restaurants. So from a distance one might think ok here is a thera with rich bfs and even dating doctors. She had a wealthy sugar daddy as well.

But the reality is her baby daddy is this broke ass that just plays computer games all day that she supports.

I remembered she even lied to a Dr. GM that she would go out with. She told him she needed money to help out her mom. The GM gladly gave her 10k later to find out she took her real bf to Boracay at the expense of the GM.

This is just how the majority of the theras situation are like. The GMs would just believed their lies. I did once.

But of course not all are like that. I been involved with top theras that know their worth and will not get into a relationship with one that does not have a certain amount of money. But those are few and are at the top

Edited December 11, 2023 by Iceman7

[dominickcruise]

1 hour ago, Iceman7 said:

Of course not all of the theras situation I mentioned is like that. I am just speaking from what I have seen. Just to use as an example since this thera is no longer active. Demi Lousissa would be seen with wealthy GMs pick her up with their fancy cars and take her to nice restaurants. So from a distance one might think ok here is a thera with rich bf even dating doctors. She even had a wealthy sugar daddy. But the reality is her baby daddy is this broke ass that just plays computer games all day that she supports.

I remembered she even lied to a Dr. GM that she would go out with that she needed money to help out her mom. The GM gladly gave her 10k to find out she took her real bf to Boracay at the expense of the GM.

This is just how the majority of the theras situation is like the GMs just believed their lies. I did once.

But of course not all are like that. I been involved with top theras that know their worth and will not get into a relationship with one that does not have a certain amount of money. But those are few and are at the top

kaya it's really never a good thing to have some sort of closeness with a certain thera, you get exploited or taken advantage of (if you're a nice dude)

just pump and dump them, use them as transactional as possible! detach any emotions!

[BartSimp]

nagawa ko na ito nung active pa ako, i dare say i wont do it again. service service lang wala nang emotion

[Xsist77]

May dini-date ako ngayon pero gro sa ktv sya. Lagi ko sya naiisip at gusto makita. Anyway, tignan naten ano mangyayari.