Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

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15 hours ago, plug said:

Sayang naman kung dito sa spakol ka maghahanap that meets your standard at sa pagiging pihikan. Virgins? Sa ngayon nga kahit newbies puro bugbog na a medyo may edad pa. 

Naiiba ka kay thera pag amoy salapi ka.

MTC theras are for fun and fantasies, no strings attached. A wife material my best shot is to ask for the suggestions of my relatives in our province, probinsyana of legal age. Don’t care if laking bukid Basta highschool graduate

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15 hours ago, markjoycehailey said:

In the context of MTC, walang pakinabang sa negosyo ang mga broke. 

Even outside MTC this is the harsh reality for us men. If a man is broke wala talaga… zero. Not unless if the man had a potential like a degree holder,   Masipag, the chick might give him a trial of chance but if he’s broke for a year he may be dumped din

[kikomatsingmatos]

ano nga naman kasi mapapala nyo sa araw araw kung broke kayo? kahit nga broke na babae tapos palaasa lang sa mga lalake di rin worth it. pangtikiman lang talaga.

[MR10]

We Found Love (feat. Calvin Harris)

Rihanna

Yellow diamonds in the light
Now we're standing side by side
As your shadow crosses mine
What it takes to come alive

 

It's the way I'm feeling I just can't deny
But I've gotta let it go

 

We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place

Shine a light through an open door
Love and life I will divide
Turn away 'cause I need you more
Feel the heartbeat in my mind

It's the way I'm feeling I just can't deny
But I've gotta let it go

We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place

Yellow diamonds in the light
Now we're standing side by side
As your shadow crosses mine (mine, mine, mine)

We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place

We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place
We found love in a hopeless place

[MagikMike]

I stop by this thread to remind myself na mahirap talaga mainlab dito. So enjoy each other's company, but don't cross the line.

At mag-ikot ka 🙂

[markjoycehailey]

1 hour ago, kikomatsingmatos said:

ano nga naman kasi mapapala nyo sa araw araw kung broke kayo? kahit nga broke na babae tapos palaasa lang sa mga lalake di rin worth it. pangtikiman lang talaga.

Kaya nga sobrang kakapalan ng mukha talaga kung uutangan mo pa yu'ng babae tapos ang dahilan eh "friends are friends".   Kung walang matinding depekto ang pagkatao mo eh mahihiya ka nga'ng mangutang kahit friends mo na hindi nagbebenta ng kaluluwa nila para kumita.  

[kikomatsingmatos]

5 hours ago, markjoycehailey said:

Kaya nga sobrang kakapalan ng mukha talaga kung uutangan mo pa yu'ng babae tapos ang dahilan eh "friends are friends".   Kung walang matinding depekto ang pagkatao mo eh mahihiya ka nga'ng mangutang kahit friends mo na hindi nagbebenta ng kaluluwa nila para kumita.  

+1 dito

[Ichiban of Tokyo]

 Hi good day!, Its been a while my dear 😘

Im back na po at your service here at Tokyo Spa Pasig. Im available every weekends Friday 9pm til Monday 5am. only.. Looking forward to give you pleasure here at Tokyo Spa dear.. hehe 😘😘

Hope to see you soon and let's get wet together 😘

 

- Miss Ichiban of Tokyo Spa Pasig

[handsomebob]

7 hours ago, markjoycehailey said:

Kaya nga sobrang kakapalan ng mukha talaga kung uutangan mo pa yu'ng babae tapos ang dahilan eh "friends are friends".   Kung walang matinding depekto ang pagkatao mo eh mahihiya ka nga'ng mangutang kahit friends mo na hindi nagbebenta ng kaluluwa nila para kumita.  

this is true, you are less of a man if you do this! 

[Rolf.go.06]

Wag ren natin down mga babae dito hayaan natin kung may mainlove na gm. 
 

Oo madami  babae sa labas ng mtc pero walker naman. 😂

o patol sa may asawa na mayaman. 😂

[markjoycehailey]

14 hours ago, handsomebob said:

this is true, you are less of a man if you do this! 

Meron dito ang bagay na handle niya is "SimpUtangero". 

Pero OK din naman ang handle niya kasi obviously wala siyang buto.😁😁😁

[WhosThere]

Doing research on relationships (BF-GF) between a GM and theras and this surfaced:

I think it hit the nail on the head why it will be difficult for guys to understand that when you have a relationship with a thera, you can no longer go to another for sex. Best quote is

Quote

For it to be equal, he would only be confined to having sex with people he does not find attractive. They may have bad hygiene, larger sized or really skinny, they may be much older, or just rude. Moreover, during that time their focus would need to be on pleasing the other person, not their own pleasure. Suddenly, sleeping around does not seem that great.

I'd like to get your opinions on this...

Here's the rest of it...

"The first time I did sex work, I stopped when a partner asked me to. However, I would not do that now.

When I stopped working, I still saw sex work as ‘something good girls should not do,’ so when my boyfriend at the time brought it up, I agreed. He also asked me to move in with him which also made a difference back then.

However, nowadays I understand the work much better. I am also more centered in who I am rather than what society says I should be.

Sex work is not a relationship where I have multi-partners. Sex work is my job and career. Work sex differs from private life sex.

In addition, while I choose the job, I do not choose my clients in the sense that no business chooses their clients. My partner is my choice.

I think that is where it gets confusing.

Some guys think if their partner is a sex worker than that is a green light for them to sleep around. But it is not. When a guy sleeps around in that scenario, each girl is his choice. If he only goes to brothels, the sex worker is the one he chooses.

For it to be equal, he would only be confined to having sex with people he does not find attractive. They may have bad hygiene, larger sized or really skinny, they may be much older, or just rude. Moreover, during that time their focus would need to be on pleasing the other person, not their own pleasure. Suddenly, sleeping around does not seem that great.

When I have a relationship, I will tell them about my job. Then it’s their choice. If they want to be with me, great. I am loyal and I expect that back.

However, I also understand if my job is too much for them. We both need to be okay with it.

I have dated since being back in the industry but being single is much easier. Between work and activism, I have little time to give my friends let alone a partner."

 

And here's the link from reddit: https://www.quora.com/As-a-sex-worker-do-you-stop-working-when-and-if-you-enter-into-a-relationship

 

 

[WhosThere]

On 9/23/2023 at 7:40 PM, Ichiban of Tokyo said:

 Hi good day!, Its been a while my dear 😘

Im back na po at your service here at Tokyo Spa Pasig. Im available every weekends Friday 9pm til Monday 5am. only.. Looking forward to give you pleasure here at Tokyo Spa dear.. hehe 😘😘

Hope to see you soon and let's get wet together 😘

 

- Miss Ichiban of Tokyo Spa Pasig

Please PM me @Ichiban of Tokyo

[Mar_DC]

Malaking factor din tlga sa performance ng thera is kung single sia or hindi

Nagiging cold or nwawala ung dating performance niya..  Nabuburnout or parang nagiging transactional na lang ung dating

[handsomebob]

9 minutes ago, Mar_DC said:

Malaking factor din tlga sa performance ng thera is kung single sia or hindi

Nagiging cold or nwawala ung dating performance niya..  Nabuburnout or parang nagiging transactional na lang ung dating

TRUE, only the upper echelon in their guests would they remove all restrictions pag type ka....haha

I have been on both sides of the equation so I can relate to this statement!

but it mainly depends on the relationship between the thera and her BF/husband/SO

[Mar_DC]

41 minutes ago, handsomebob said:

TRUE, only the upper echelon in their guests would they remove all restrictions pag type ka....haha

I have been on both sides of the equation so I can relate to this statement!

but it mainly depends on the relationship between the thera and her BF/husband/SO

Not specific pla sir sa performance.. nwawala ung pagka GFE 

[courtesanhunter]

1 hour ago, Mar_DC said:

Malaking factor din tlga sa performance ng thera is kung single sia or hindi

Nagiging cold or nwawala ung dating performance niya..  Nabuburnout or parang nagiging transactional na lang ung dating

9 minutes ago, Mar_DC said:

Not specific pla sir sa performance.. nwawala ung pagka GFE 

not true in general. depende pa din sa professionalism ng babae. may iba na malambing at kisser kahit pa in a relationship sila. meron na din akong nakatrabaho na pwede ang walang restriction kaya ako na lang yung nagrestrict. siguro mas tamang sabihin na depende yun sa pananaw ng babae patungkol sa casual s*x.

[Hammerstorm]

On 9/23/2023 at 12:21 PM, markjoycehailey said:

Kaya nga sobrang kakapalan ng mukha talaga kung uutangan mo pa yu'ng babae tapos ang dahilan eh "friends are friends".   Kung walang matinding depekto ang pagkatao mo eh mahihiya ka nga'ng mangutang kahit friends mo na hindi nagbebenta ng kaluluwa nila para kumita.  

+1

[Hammerstorm]

On 9/11/2023 at 8:22 PM, infrasound said:

I have been following this thread for a long time. My take is syempre pag madalas kayo sa establishment nakikilala nyo yung mga thera at eventually nadedevelop kayo. I became close sa dating theras ko pero not to the point na niligawan ko. Tropa tropa lang. I can't say na mas maalam ako sa inyo pero kung gugustuhin nyo ang thera at mainlove kayo go diskarte nyo yan. Pero think of the pros and cons, magfocus sa cons, kasi nasa sex industry sila kung ok lang sayo at masaya ka go lang, pero isipin mo din trabaho nila yan at hindi lang ikaw nakakapartner nila.

+1

[AngGwapo]

2 hours ago, Mar_DC said:

Malaking factor din tlga sa performance ng thera is kung single sia or hindi

Nagiging cold or nwawala ung dating performance niya..  Nabuburnout or parang nagiging transactional na lang ung dating

I beg to disagree @Mar_DC

I've had married, single, and with BF. It's still highly dependent sa chemistry ninyo during the deed and over time.

I was expecting low mileage sa married but in my top are married women (and there are so many others na married with kids pa). The same goes with BF. In fact, one with BF is she met her live-in BF in this world and yet, our chemistry is top notch. Just know the boundaries...

[handsomebob]

2 hours ago, Mar_DC said:

Not specific pla sir sa performance.. nwawala ung pagka GFE 

that's where if the thera likes you or you are improving yourself physically women will always notice that lalo na kung regular ka niya! ma mag level up ang service niya that i am sure! 

if u can point out specifics sir maybe i can discuss if u want advice...

[Prinsloo]

15 hours ago, Mar_DC said:

Malaking factor din tlga sa performance ng thera is kung single sia or hindi

Nagiging cold or nwawala ung dating performance niya..  Nabuburnout or parang nagiging transactional na lang ung dating

bat yung isang thera dito in love na in love sa BF pero grabe magservice. Hindi nga daw namimili ng client as per FR about her lol.

[Iloveyouamiga]

Don't do it.

Umamin ako na gusto ko siya, umamin din siya sakin.

Mileage was crazy high - even higher than some of my previous relationships. Eventually entrance fee nalang binayaran ko. 

After sessions, since last session ako kumukuha, magccoffee pa kami around the area. Nakailang meals together narin kami sa ibat ibang resto. Nahatid ko pa siya sa legit niyang bahay. 

Sobrang nagopen up rin siya sakin. About her life, her past, her troubles, her worries and all the shit you don't usually say to just anyone. Araw araw kami naguusap nun and I fell in love. I never told her na mahal ko na siya kasi takot ako haha. Marupok kuya mo.

Some people forget that there's a person behind the thera. I saw her for who she was behind her handlename and I really believed na I would be happy with that person. 

I knew na she didn't like me just for the money. I knew it wasn't just transactional sa kanya. I could feel it. Siya panga nanlibre one time. Andami niya rin restrictions sa MTC but they were lifted for me, plus more. 

She was and i think still is one of the top theras based on what I see here sa MTC. Grabe rin sched niya sunod sunod. Yet she still found the time to update me. 

Then reality hits. Life happens. Time together becomes harder to come by. You start to get more frustrated with the whole situation you're both in. You're always worried she'll fall for the next client like how she fell for you. 

Naging cold nalang siya bigla. Dati, nung nagtatampo pa ako she would make an effort pa to console me and rid me of my concerns. But that last time, she just let it be. She just stopped. Maybe she did fall for another person or maybe napagod din siya sa situation. Who knows, but at this point it doesn't matter.

But to be honest, every time tumutunog cellphone ko, i still wish na pangalan niya lalabas haha. I hate myself for that. 

There's a bright side to all this. Nawalan ako ng bisyo. I can't pay for company anymore becase just the nature of it reminds me of what we used to be. It reminds me of what I had and lost, and the pain i went through and still am going through right now. Drama no? But i think this is for the better. I'll be stronger from this. I just had to learn the hard way.

Take it from me. Don't do it. Kahit na gusto niyo isa't isa, life will make the whole ordeal a shitfest.

Nevertheless, this was fun while it lasted! Enjoy brodies, I'm graduating!

[BaileyG]

30 minutes ago, Iloveyouamiga said:

Don't do it.

Umamin ako na gusto ko siya, umamin din siya sakin.

Mileage was crazy high - even higher than some of my previous relationships. Eventually entrance fee nalang binayaran ko. 

After sessions, since last session ako kumukuha, magccoffee pa kami around the area. Nakailang meals together narin kami sa ibat ibang resto. Nahatid ko pa siya sa legit niyang bahay. 

Sobrang nagopen up rin siya sakin. About her life, her past, her troubles, her worries and all the shit you don't usually say to just anyone. Araw araw kami naguusap nun and I fell in love. I never told her na mahal ko na siya kasi takot ako haha. Marupok kuya mo.

Some people forget that there's a person behind the thera. I saw her for who she was behind her handlename and I really believed na I would be happy with that person. 

I knew na she didn't like me just for the money. I knew it wasn't just transactional sa kanya. I could feel it. Siya panga nanlibre one time. Andami niya rin restrictions sa MTC but they were lifted for me, plus more. 

She was and i think still is one of the top theras based on what I see here sa MTC. Grabe rin sched niya sunod sunod. Yet she still found the time to update me. 

Then reality hits. Life happens. Time together becomes harder to come by. You start to get more frustrated with the whole situation you're both in. You're always worried she'll fall for the next client like how she fell for you. 

Naging cold nalang siya bigla. Dati, nung nagtatampo pa ako she would make an effort pa to console me and rid me of my concerns. But that last time, she just let it be. She just stopped. Maybe she did fall for another person or maybe napagod din siya sa situation. Who knows, but at this point it doesn't matter.

But to be honest, every time tumutunog cellphone ko, i still wish na pangalan niya lalabas haha. I hate myself for that. 

There's a bright side to all this. Nawalan ako ng bisyo. I can't pay for company anymore becase just the nature of it reminds me of what we used to be. It reminds me of what I had and lost, and the pain i went through and still am going through right now. Drama no? But i think this is for the better. I'll be stronger from this. I just had to learn the hard way.

Take it from me. Don't do it. Kahit na gusto niyo isa't isa, life will make the whole ordeal a shitfest.

Nevertheless, this was fun while it lasted! Enjoy brodies, I'm graduating!

Pangtatagay nalang kita.🥃🥃

[WhosThere]

1 hour ago, Iloveyouamiga said:

Don't do it.

Umamin ako na gusto ko siya, umamin din siya sakin.

Mileage was crazy high - even higher than some of my previous relationships. Eventually entrance fee nalang binayaran ko. 

After sessions, since last session ako kumukuha, magccoffee pa kami around the area. Nakailang meals together narin kami sa ibat ibang resto. Nahatid ko pa siya sa legit niyang bahay. 

Sobrang nagopen up rin siya sakin. About her life, her past, her troubles, her worries and all the shit you don't usually say to just anyone. Araw araw kami naguusap nun and I fell in love. I never told her na mahal ko na siya kasi takot ako haha. Marupok kuya mo.

Some people forget that there's a person behind the thera. I saw her for who she was behind her handlename and I really believed na I would be happy with that person. 

I knew na she didn't like me just for the money. I knew it wasn't just transactional sa kanya. I could feel it. Siya panga nanlibre one time. Andami niya rin restrictions sa MTC but they were lifted for me, plus more. 

She was and i think still is one of the top theras based on what I see here sa MTC. Grabe rin sched niya sunod sunod. Yet she still found the time to update me. 

Then reality hits. Life happens. Time together becomes harder to come by. You start to get more frustrated with the whole situation you're both in. You're always worried she'll fall for the next client like how she fell for you. 

Naging cold nalang siya bigla. Dati, nung nagtatampo pa ako she would make an effort pa to console me and rid me of my concerns. But that last time, she just let it be. She just stopped. Maybe she did fall for another person or maybe napagod din siya sa situation. Who knows, but at this point it doesn't matter.

But to be honest, every time tumutunog cellphone ko, i still wish na pangalan niya lalabas haha. I hate myself for that. 

There's a bright side to all this. Nawalan ako ng bisyo. I can't pay for company anymore becase just the nature of it reminds me of what we used to be. It reminds me of what I had and lost, and the pain i went through and still am going through right now. Drama no? But i think this is for the better. I'll be stronger from this. I just had to learn the hard way.

Take it from me. Don't do it. Kahit na gusto niyo isa't isa, life will make the whole ordeal a shitfest.

Nevertheless, this was fun while it lasted! Enjoy brodies, I'm graduating!

Thank you for sharing.