Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Boyung17]

Wala namang masama.. Basta mahal mo sya at bibigyan mo ng limistayon ung babae o lalake mang therapist na yan.. Ang mahalaga mahal nyo ang isat-isa..

[holygrail_24]

Falling for a thera is like finding a needle in a haystack. Been there, and done that. Sa huli parang ikaw rin talo, well sakin in a way at least nagpakatotoo ka naman sa feelings mo na nag-mahal ka at minahal mo sya ng totoo. Pero kadalasan siguro may theras na they're not really into you. They just love how much you're falling for them . Free dates, gifts, and help when they're in need at times. Tsaka yun isipin mo rin na hindi lang naman sila sayo tumatanggap ng gifts or other favors. Lalo na pag maluho yung thera.
Tsaka totoo yung sabi ng isang GM, pag ikaw naubos, super bilis nila makahanap ng kapalit.

I'm not generalizing that theras are all the same , pero in this sense, the success rate is indeed very low. Salute ako sa mga taong who can make this scenario work.

Kaya minsan isipin mo na enjoy enjoy nalang, pag super seryoso kasi ikaw rin talo most of the time

Edited November 4, 2018 by holygrail_24

[CardingTigas]

For me, once na maka ramdam ka ng namimiss mo sya na walang halong libog, bail out na, mahirap na, long and lasting drama na ang kasunod nyan...sa umpisa ikaw pa ang may hawak ng manibela, but sooner or later hndi mo na kontrolado yun situation...might as well end it habang maaga kesa san pa mauwe yun kwento nyo dalawa =)

[holygrail_24]

For me, once na maka ramdam ka ng namimiss mo sya na walang halong libog, bail out na, mahirap na, long and lasting drama na ang kasunod nyan...sa umpisa ikaw pa ang may hawak ng manibela, but sooner or later hndi mo na kontrolado yun situation...might as well end it habang maaga kesa san pa mauwe yun kwento nyo dalawa =)

Tumpak boss. tinamaan ako hahah

[CardingTigas]

Tumpak boss. tinamaan ako hahah

Ayos lang yan boss, basta kontrolado mo pa din yun sarili mo at the end of the day...

[mikemurphy0305]

i gave up on life na waiting nlng kelan kukukunin ng dios ang sakit eh dko kaya salamat sa lahat ng ng advice salamat po but i guess hangang dt nlng ako

[CardingTigas]

i gave up on life na waiting nlng kelan kukukunin ng dios ang sakit eh dko kaya salamat sa lahat ng ng advice salamat po but i guess hangang dt nlng ako

Brad, madame pa dyan, eto nalang isipin mo, kontinente nga nag hihiwalay, tao pa kaya, wag ka magpatalo, maiksi lang bunay ng tao dapat ine-enjoy hndi sina-sayang

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

Different strokes for different folks. The one thing I have come to see after reading over 500 pages of the old thread is really that people will accept the love they think they deserve. And there's nothing that can be done until they come to their own epiphany. Indeed, I stand with those who have the view point that these kinds of relationships are inadvisable at best and possibly self destructive at worst. Further, money is a big big (bugbog?) factor in these relationships, so if you go for this, the financials might destroy it in the end. And that really makes it dangerous, because being wise with your finances is important to your future, engaging in wasteful expenditure could leave you unprepared for opportunity.

 

Anyway, if you are young, its much better if you explore many avenues and relationships. If you are older and more mature, well, its up to you, after all you have made your mistakes, do you really want to repeat them? Travel light. You only live once, make it happy.

[Hamaji]

Hahaha... Ngyn ko lng na realize ang babaw pla ng tingin ko sa pagmamahal... Haha..

Kay boss mikemurphy, you dont have anything lost on your part, just look at this guy above me, sumasama dn sa iba ung girl nya, at 2 times a day pa and inuupakan pa cya, cya pa dinidiktahan kung ano dapat gawin and the worst part is, sya pa bumubuhay. If you dont see yourself lucky sa situation mo e I dont think youll ever be lucky...

Kay boss hamaji nmn, i guess bilib ako sa pag titiis mo. Real talk, if that happened to me, i swear I will lay the smacketh down on her... Hahaha...

But again who am I to judge. Tama ung sabi sa previous post. The reality is a successful love is a shared love. Pag isa lng, eventually its going to give kaya sinasayang nyo lng panahon nyo parehas kung wala ka dn makuha or wala dn cyang makuha.

Damn, inuupakan ka... Ikaw pa bumubuhay... Daaaammmmmnnn... Sumama ka nlng sakin, papakilala kita sa friend ko.. hingi lng ako ng 5% every month sa allowance na bigay mo sa kanya if ever.. Hahahaha... Biro lng boss...

Love is blind nga sabi nila, anyways di na rin naman ako gumagastos masyado lately kasi nga mas malaki pa kinikita nya sakin kung tutuusin. Ang di ko na lang nagugustuhan is ung grabeng selos at pananakit nya, lagi nya ako pinagbibintangan na kumukuha ng ibang babae kahit na sobrang busy na ako sa trabaho at lagi pa kami magkavideocall. Siguro guilty lang sya na sya may kasamang ibang lalaki kaya binabalik at binibintang nya sakin ung gawain nya. Tikim tikim na lang siguro ngayon hehehe less stress, less hassle at less gastos. Edited November 5, 2018 by Hamaji

[kazuki_kazama]

Falling is the easy part as most are experts with gfe. That illusion that fills the void in our lives or relationships. As many have mentioned, the hard part is facing the reality that your sharing one of the most precious part of your life with random guys. However If she can reciprocate that same feeling, even for a brief moment...why not...that's why we keep coming back to them.

[TheMayor-Retired]

Love is blind nga sabi nila, anyways di na rin naman ako gumagastos masyado lately kasi nga mas malaki pa kinikita nya sakin kung tutuusin. Ang di ko na lang nagugustuhan is ung grabeng selos at pananakit nya, lagi nya ako pinagbibintangan na kumukuha ng ibang babae kahit na sobrang busy na ako sa trabaho at lagi pa kami magkavideocall. Siguro guilty lang sya na sya may kasamang ibang lalaki kaya binabalik at binibintang nya sakin ung gawain nya. Tikim tikim na lang siguro ngayon hehehe less stress, less hassle at less gastos.

Good for you Sir. I was about to say the same thing, style nya talaga yung maging selosa. May katrabaho kami dati na ganyan. Madalas siyang pinag seselosan ng wife nya kahit sa ofis namin tawag ng tawag ang kulit grabe kung mag selos. Kamukat-mukat namin si wife pala nya ang may kabit di sya maka deny kasi nabuntis hahaha. Style lang nya maging selosa para di mabaling sa kanya yung issue.

[TheMayor-Retired]

i gave up on life na waiting nlng kelan kukukunin ng dios ang sakit eh dko kaya salamat sa lahat ng ng advice salamat po but i guess hangang dt nlng ako

Remember Sir, si Mike Murphy he never gave up, He died fighting. Kaya fight lang to survive, malay mo Sir yung the right One you is the next one na. Sayang naman kung di mo sya na meet.

[jc44 - RETIRED]

i gave up on life na waiting nlng kelan kukukunin ng dios ang sakit eh dko kaya salamat sa lahat ng ng advice salamat po but i guess hangang dt nlng ako

 

You sound like a passionate guy. I'm sure that somewhere, there is someone you have yet to meet who is willing to share in your passion and help it grow, make it productive and creative.

 

Give yourself time. Masakit yung nangyari sa iyo, no doubt. Pero yang sakit na yan, lilipas din yan. Best you can do is pick yourself back up and move forward.

[Hamaji]

Good for you Sir. I was about to say the same thing, style nya talaga yung maging selosa. May katrabaho kami dati na ganyan. Madalas siyang pinag seselosan ng wife nya kahit sa ofis namin tawag ng tawag ang kulit grabe kung mag selos. Kamukat-mukat namin si wife pala nya ang may kabit di sya maka deny kasi nabuntis hahaha. Style lang nya maging selosa para di mabaling sa kanya yung issue.

I think isang factor din ung age gap namin, 11years. Kaya siguro ganun din ang outlook nya sa buhay, di ko naman nilalahat ng millenials pero most of them are self entitled and live by the YOLO code. Kaya ang gusto lang eh panay travel, party.

[haroots2]

i gave up on life na waiting nlng kelan kukukunin ng dios ang sakit eh dko kaya salamat sa lahat ng ng advice salamat po but i guess hangang dt nlng ako

 

Lilipas din yan in time. Keep yourself busy. Find a new hobby that engage meeting new people. In a few months wala na yan. Hindi lang ikaw nakaranas ng ganyan. Marami na kaming nag post dito, at the end natauhan din.

[Kingkongphils]

I think isang factor din ung age gap namin, 11years. Kaya siguro ganun din ang outlook nya sa buhay, di ko naman nilalahat ng millenials pero most of them are self entitled and live by the YOLO code. Kaya ang gusto lang eh panay travel, party.

I dont think the age gap has something to do with it.. Crzy B lnh tlga natapatan mo hehehe... Wag mo ipatronize cguro. Sabi mo tumitikim ka na pla ng iba.. So problem solved... The fact na kaya mo na kumana ng iba e just proves na you can move forward anytime... Sabagay, masarap kasi ung feeling na may nagseselos kaya cguro you cant stay away. Sabi ni boss mayor pra mawala sa kanya ung issue kya cya nag seselos. Sakin nmn, its part of her GF experience na paramdam nya syo.... Ayus na pla e... Hehehe...

[maam019]

'di talaga maiiwasan ma-fall sa thera minsan, most of the time intimate moments yung pinagsasamahan ninyo. Assess lang ng cards, wag mag all-in kung di ka sigurado.

[CardingTigas]

Minsan mas OK pa yun PSE kesa GFE, kasi at least sa PSE alam mo na init ng katawan lang, pag ang GFE kasi ginantihan ng BFE, tapos ang Boxing

[walldave]

Masarap makuha ang pantasya. Masaya maranasan mo yung parang sa porno. Huwag nang haluan ng mga pag ibig. Basta magbayad ka ng tama. Huwag kasi paulit ulit sa isa, tuka lang ng tuka.

[Sharp Snipes😎]

Akala mo sa iyo lang siya sweet pero mas sweet pala siya iba..

 

Kaya nga minsan ang PAGIBIG ay parang LIGAW NA BALA....

 

Sa IYO itinutok pero sa IBA pumutok.😅

[RED2018]

"The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less."

[iceman247]

mahirap mainlove sa thera...

kapag naging kayo papano na?

alam mo madaming lalaki na sya ay kasama habang nasa work

if seloso ka it's a no

if not ok lang

 

tandaan natin tao din mga thera naiinlove lang din sila

pero iniiwasan nila kasi maling pagkakataon at oras na kayo ay nagkakilala

[Nashtyler22]

Minsan, matatanong mo sa sarili mo kung love ba o libog lng..? Pero kung after nyong matapos sa session, in that exact moment, do you feel the same way a few mins earlier?

[jc44 - RETIRED]

Boss I cannot blame these theras kung napaka sweet nila sa iba't ibang guests. Trabaho nila yan. They need money to make a living. Kaya I don't confuse yung GFE and PSE nila sa akin kasi binabayaran ko sila to be like that. Maraming GM akala nila extra special na sila lalu na yung bago lang nakaranas ng ganun sa babae. Ako I don't want to make my life and the theras lives complicated by thinking different of what they are supposed to do.

 

I regret that I can Like this post only once. Spot on, sir.

[mikemurphy0305]

still hurting its been a week since i last saw her, i miss her so much, i miss the dinner we had every night, i miss holding her hand while nsa kotse kmi, i miss everything pero malabo na talaga she hasnt texted me nor messaged me hoping pa dn ako maayos, lasing na nmn para madali makalimot at mabilis lumipas ang oras