Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Drew13Nash]

Hehehe...good luck sa love story nyo.

 

Sana nga May.. sana nga nababasa din niya yung mga post ko dito..

[Drew13Nash]

I shared that my first thera relationship was way back in college (late 80s). Hindi ako sawi. Iniwan nya ako since she went to Japan. Wala naman akong k pigilan sya since wala akong kayang ipakain.

Now share ko naman na i met a thera last year, (not the thera that i used to know), who I really liked too and we only became friends (di raw sya pwedeng magfall sa akin kasi we met sa spa). Wala syang tiwala sa loyalty or sincerity ng gm. Kulitan, textan, masaya naman ako, masaya naman sya siguro kasi lagi syang nakangiti and tumatawa whenever nagkikita kami pag dinadalaw ko ang lobby ng spa nila sa Banawe area. What i liked about her is hindi sya paasa and frank na hwag mo akong ligawan kasi dito kita nakilala.

 

Sir Usebyo i think she somebody that you used to know also. Yun ang gusto ko sir. Wala ng paligoy ligoy pa kasi siyempre tayo gusto natin sila eh.. sabi ko walang kaso sa akin yun kung dito kami nagkakilala.. mahirap dinnkasi yung ganito na nakahang ako.. sinasabi niya namimiss niya ko and friend din naman kaminsa facebook which is very rare na mangyari am i right?? So ayun.. medyo naka hang pa rin kasi ako eh.. sa totoo lng..

[Lesluthor]

Taga Main Avenue ba? I think kilala ko sya. Somebody I used to know.

Wow dami nyo nakakilala sa knya...pde ba ako makijoin?Lol

[Solaryan]

Wow dami nyo nakakilala sa knya...pde ba ako makijoin?Lol

 

 

lol Idol Les wag ka na sumali sa kanila.. meron ka na eh.. ikaw ang chairman and president ng grupo nya.. okay na yun

 

Kaming mga ordinaryong mamayan ng MTC eh wag mo na agawan

 

 

Buti pa nga sila oh naka add na sa FB nun thera na type nila..ako wala, hanggang text lang sa isa sa mga cellphone numbers nya. Na bihirang mareplyan

[Lesluthor]

Hahaha...juk lng.d naman ako mahilig mag jump around from one thera to another.Once I find a regular na click kami, i stick like a leech.

 

Gud luck sa mga GMs chasing the lady in red.sport lng, may the best man win.

[smooth_dawg]

Wow dami nyo nakakilala sa knya...pde ba ako makijoin?Lol

Hahaha...MAY sayad ka ba at gusto mo masapak ng certain someone?o kaya MAY away kau kaya ka nagpopost ng ganyan?kng meron kau alitan,MAY solusyon ang lahat...Lol

[Solaryan]

Hahaha...juk lng.d naman ako mahilig mag jump around from one thera to another.Once I find a regular na click kami, i stick like a leech.

 

Gud luck sa mga GMs chasing the lady in red.sport lng, may the best man win.

 

 

Kaya ko to idol eh! Nag sstick parang leech

 

Pero swerte kasi sya, click sila ng thera nya, minsan May pag asa talaga. Lalo na kung single at mabait ang thera ng buhay mo

[Lesluthor]

Hehehehe mukhang gusto mong sumali, eh! Siguro ang haba-haba na ng buhok ni Spark girl.

May the best man wins her soul.

 

Hahaha...no sir, it was a harmless post.d ako mkkijoin sa followers ni Lady in Red/Spark girl...kaw brod, wla bang comeback plans?

 

Kaya ko to idol eh! Nag sstick parang leech

 

Pero swerte kasi sya, click sila ng thera nya, minsan May pag asa talaga. Lalo na kung single at mabait ang thera ng buhay mo

 

Hahaha...thats the way it should be.Stick to one.No need to have Plan A,B or C.All your focus should be on the one who owns your heart.

[SirMK]

Hahaha...no sir, it was a harmless post.d ako mkkijoin sa followers ni Lady in Red/Spark girl...kaw brod, wla bang comeback plans?

 

Hahaha...thats the way it should be.Stick to one.No need to have Plan A,B or C.All your focus should be on the one who owns your heart.

 

 

Ha3 idol, gusto ko ang last sentence mo.

[MonsieurLee]

i fell hard, she fell hard.. but at the end of the day.. any guy who is truly in love with his thera wouldnt be able to look pass the hickeys, the messages posted online or relies on her cellphone... even if you did love each other, shes there for a reason, if you cant secure a future for her, or at the very least sustain what shes earning (thats why shes there in the first place, regardless what all the theras say, not a single one of them enjoys what theyre doing), then we have no right to ask her to leave. Precisely because that is the venue you met at, it wasnt planned, it wasn't on purpose, surely it would be stupid going into a spa looking for love, most especially from a thera, but it happens, there a connection between the two of you thats real. but its a struggle sitting home at night waiting for her to finish with a client.. the thoughts that go thru your mind... if you can love a thera and say you can look past her work, you're just infatuated with her and not really love her.

 

i went to as far as booking her the whole damn day so she wouldnt have to do service, of course she got in trouble, and she would lose her clients, her livelihood, i cant block her off every day and i cant replace the tips she would have earned. if it was that easy then i couldve just brought her out of the industry all together.

 

its just so sayang... we ended somewhat badly, but i knew she was trying to be strong and acted like that so she can carry on... who wouldve thought going in for ES and you came out falling for each other, thats way more than a spark. i disturbed the simple life she had. woo the guest, make them believe shes their gf for an hour or 2.. then move on to the next... I was selfish because i wanted her all to myself knowing very well where we met and why she had to stay. I was selfish thinking of my own feelings instead of hers. It was my mistake to be such a "pa asa" .... its all my fault. And i hate the fact that i fell for her, and hate it even more that i disrupted her problem filled life.

 

but thats life... you never know when that spark will hit, in my opinion, a true spark happens when it hits both of you, not just the gm or at times the thera. I loved her very much and i really felt the love she had for me. this is the few times i can totally say it was real.

[Yahoo 111op]

I will end this long post with this quote.

 

If we deny love that is given to us, if we refuse to give love because we fear the pain of loss, then our lives will be empty, our loss greater.

 

I like this quote . I texted this sa Thera ko. Ang ganda raw ng meaning.

[Yahoo 111op]

For some reasons mahirap I gauge yun GM-Thera relationship. Thera's are doing GFE to gain and retain his clients.

 

Sa mga GM how will you know that there's a spark between you and thera. GFE is very different when your inside the spa, automatic na yan sa kanila.

 

Are you going out for a date with your thera? If yes sweet pa rin ba siya outside the spa?

[oninpoto]

Nagka ka gf na kong mp,thera, and psp. Its a hit and miss talaga my last relationship with one lasted for 15 months and still she cant get over it. its not really about her profession di naman ako seloso by nature and I do love her but we are in a situation that we are not both financially able. Im the understanding type. ish she have kids to feed I help financially pag may pera. We were both happy kahit na ganung situation kami. mahigpit sya sakin ewan ko kung bakit napaka selosa pero malambing at maalaga. The thing is bantay sarado ako lagi and by the end of the day pag bibintangan ako nambabae parin. she knows my fb password and my dummy accounts and other account lahat. pero di naging sapat sa kanya yun. nagiging problema na hanggang sa work ko and family ko mga actions nya para lang makasigurado syang di ako nambabae. I find it unfair naman na awayin ako ng walang basihan and pagbibintangan akong nam babae tapos hihingan akong ebidensya kung wala. hanggang sa napuno na ko sabi ko na lang mag bigay ka ng ebidensya na nambabae ako. after so many arguments i decided na tapusin na because its so toxic and stressful to handle for both of us.

[mrblu3]

Mahirap yung ganito. I've entertained the idea the first time I experienced this. Naging suki din kasi. Pero mahirap malaman kung part of the game or realtalk na pala haha!

[walkingdildo]

Mlungkot aq dhil akla ko pg uwi ko ng pinassngle pa cya. I heard she's alredy married.