Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[haroots2]

Mga manloloko at pera lang talaga habol nila kahit nga isang friend ko na veteran thera siya mismo na sabi sakin wag kang tanga pag wala na sila makuha sayo iiwan ka din nila and it took me two theras to realise that totoo yung sinasabi niya aawayin ka pa sasabihan ka ng masasamang bagay at sisirain ka sa ibang kasama nilang thera grabe anyway lesson learned what happen inside must stay inside at iwan sa labas ng spa yang tangang puso at dalhin ang matalas na utak

 

Karamihan ng mga thera na ganito ay yung mga veteran na. Na consume na sila ng industry kaya alam na nila ito laruin. The best catch will be yung mga newbies pa lang na pwede pang salbahin sa ganitong gawain.

But there is always some exemption, may mga veteran GM na na-iinlove din and may veteran thera na nagkakagusto rin sa GM.

In the end trust and acceptance pa rin ang magiging downfall ng relationship.

[paopao1459]

 

Karamihan ng mga thera na ganito ay yung mga veteran na. Na consume na sila ng industry kaya alam na nila ito laruin. The best catch will be yung mga newbies pa lang na pwede pang salbahin sa ganitong gawain.

But there is always some exemption, may mga veteran GM na na-iinlove din and may veteran thera na nagkakagusto rin sa GM.

In the end trust and acceptance pa rin ang magiging downfall ng relationship.

 

kahit newbies din. may thera ako na sobrang baguhan pa pero marunong nang mambola.

 

my advice: try doing non-sexual activities with the thera in question before saying you're emotionally invested in them (i.e. watching movies, dinner, etc.)

 

bawal netfilx and chill.

[Mistress Mia]

Mga lalaki dito kung makapag salita againsts sa theras wagas, baka nakakalimutan nyo, madalas kayo ang may dala ng sakit, mas malinis pa nga thera sa I yo dahil trabaho nila yan. Kung makapag judge kayo kala mo kayo ang pinag loloko. Tandaan nyo, mas marami sa inyo ang manyakis, nangangaliwa at nanggagamit. Kaya para gawin nyong one sided ang isip nyo, patawa kayo. Ang lilinis nyo ah. Kung gusto nyong magpakabanal, wag kayong mag Spakol. Un nga eh Spakol na ginagawa nyo pang mp. Tapos ang sa mp inaabuso nyo dun. We've seen and experienced the world far from 10-50 theras you availed. Out of that portion the ratio of non cheating guy is more likely 5%. So wag mag malinis.

[Mr.Tondo]

Mas mrming sex life ang mpa sa isang araw nkaka 2 3 5 10 13 cla vs sa mga newbies or other gms na ilang beses lng a month. Sorry mistress mia ang tinutukoy ko dto mga nkikipag atw, minsan nkipag live pa mga thera d nla alam carrier na sila. At kadalasan sa espakol mdilim, ung iba live mag bj sa kadiliman d napapansin, plus pag natyempong foreigner na gwapo pa mayaman yari na , ayun pde cla mhawaan. D kmi nag mamalinis totoo nman. My frend ako nag fall sa isang thera plgi un lng kinukuha na mpa, nag live cla ayun nagka std sya.

[QueenB💕]

Grabe, ang sakit magsalita ng iba. :|

[Edmund Dantes]

Mga lalaki dito kung makapag salita againsts sa theras wagas, baka nakakalimutan nyo, madalas kayo ang may dala ng sakit, mas malinis pa nga thera sa I yo dahil trabaho nila yan. Kung makapag judge kayo kala mo kayo ang pinag loloko. Tandaan nyo, mas marami sa inyo ang manyakis, nangangaliwa at nanggagamit. Kaya para gawin nyong one sided ang isip nyo, patawa kayo. Ang lilinis nyo ah. Kung gusto nyong magpakabanal, wag kayong mag Spakol. Un nga eh Spakol na ginagawa nyo pang mp. Tapos ang sa mp inaabuso nyo dun. We've seen and experienced the world far from 10-50 theras you availed. Out of that portion the ratio of non cheating guy is more likely 5%. So wag mag malinis.

 

Di po sa pagbubuhat ng bangko dito

 

But personally, I have consistently said na babae ang mas madedehado dito kesa sa lalake sa mga ganitong klase ng relasyon. This is why I do not support these kinds of relationship. Kasi if the relationship falls apart, ano ba nawala sa lalake na di na nya maibabalik? Eh sa babae, emotionally taxing na nga yung mismong trabaho, dadagdagan mo pa ng sakit ng isang breakup, so ano kauuwian? Total depression talaga at baka nga magself-destruct mode pa. Di ba lalong manliliit sa sarili nya yung babae?

 

Tsaka tama ka, what do you expect eh puros palikero ang pumupunta sa SPA. Sabi ko nga, yun mga inaakala ng mga babae na prince charming nila nagiging halimaw pala pag nagtagal.

 

Kaya kung babae ka, do yourself a favor. Ingatan yang damdamin na yan. Ang pag-ibig at pakikipagrelasyon hinahanapan yan ng tamang lugar at panahon. Lahat naman ng tao sa mundo kaya magmahal pero iba ang relasyon. Kaya umalis muna sa trabahong yan di ba? Para capable magnurture ng isang romantic relationship ng walang dahilan para mainsecure

[pabebe_egg]

May mga friends din naman akong thera non sexual na talaga as in inuman sa labas going on an outing beach and such sila na nag sabi sakin never trust a thera when in comes to love hindi naman kami magiging friends kung pati sila ganun ang nasa isip ko i trust them dahil sila na nag sabing wag kang tanga nakikita mo na niloloko ka na inaabuso eh sige pa rin ng sige note when told them na manliligaw ako to the point na i do go to the place pero tambay nlng with no sexual attachment what so ever eh end up nanloloko pa din and they would only approach the two theras that became my ex me when they need something from me sorry if i ever hit the other theras with my comment but thats just my own opinion on my experience

[Mistress Mia]

Thats your opinion and this is what I have to tell you. Wala ka sa disposisyon to judge them dahil una di mo pa nararanasan ang maging thera. Pero kami naranasan na namin ang maging customer. See the difference?

 

Ngayon, kung carrier man sila or what so ever, uulitin ko ng paulit ulit, yang nga thera na yan ay mas malinis pa sa mga nanghawa sa kanila. Mas maingat yan sa inyo dahil kapag di sila naging maingat, that's equivalent to losing their job and requests. You never f#&kin experienced na mapwersa kahit ayaw mo. You never freaking experienced na gamitin na nga, gaguhin pa ng walang napapala.

 

So kung mag ingat man yang mga yan at kung manggamit man yang mga yan, tandaan nyo kung sino ang nag turo sa kanila pano maging ganyan. Panigurado mga lalaki din.

 

Marami ba silang kasex? Oo marami nga. Dahil maraming mangagamit, palikero at nanloloko. Ilan lang ba ang mga thera? 100-500+ sama mo na mga psp, walkers at escorts eh ang nga tulad nyo? Milyon diba? Di naman sa pagiging kupal sa nga GM, God and some of the GMs here knows how I treat every person I meet nicely pero pakitignan muna mga sarili nyo kung ang lilinis nyo nga bago nyo pag tulungan at hamakin ang nga theras dito na kesho manggamit at may sakit sila. Tandaan nyo mas marami pa rin kayo. Mas marami pa rin ang bilang ng GMs na hayok sa laman, nag tataksil at nag hahanap ng pag lalabasan ng libog sa katawan.

Edited November 4, 2015 by Mistress Mia

[syowx999]

ay mali kala ko yung isang topic lol

Edited November 4, 2015 by syowx999

[syowx999]

woah...

 

 

 

oh well... la ako maisip na sabihin...

 

 

keep your mind open?

 

 

looking at both sides of the coin... tama ba yon?

 

empathy...

 

 

i need a drink...

 

just remember that everybody is different... but certain situations, and environments can change a person..or something like that...

 

...

tsk ano nangyari sa utak ko.

 

You chose!

You made the decision!

There are always pros and cons!

 

and now i am making no sense and probably ranting... good evening nalang!

[Trey150]

I’m not being a knight in shining armor here but I think the lady has a point. And most probably it’s the same feeling for most girls in this thriving industry. The way I understood her post is “bigyan naman natin sila ng konting respeto” now is that too much to ask? I think not. Being in this kind of work is hard enough already let us not make it any harder for them. Symbiotic ang relationship ng Gm’s and theras it can both be beneficial and at the same time harmful to both parties. I think they have had enough of the judging and the generalizing Society has already done that. Now to Gms that got duped by theras , it was your decision na nagpaloko kayo in the first place and its quite unfair to put the blame on every girl that works in this industry. Lets drop that male ego and be compassionate. Same goes for the Theras, there are still good men around don’t stop believing you still have your own story to write. So let’s just enjoy the real reason why we are all here… ending

Edited November 4, 2015 by Trey150

[Mr.Tondo]

Dapat may thread ding Falling For a GM at Callboy.

Edited November 4, 2015 by badguy

[kupitos]

On fear of STD, espas are not completely exempted from this. Guest comes in and he is automatically at risk. Naging normal na kasi yang BBJ na di ganoong kadali sa MP. Maybe if espas impose CDBJ most likely CD will be used and it's like authorizing ATW as in MP. Ako nga iniiwasan ko nga yang HJ e mas lalo na ang BBJ better ATW for the same risk. (Joke minsan)

 

 

aren't you the one who was bragging on one of the threads about always going for Live ATW's. LIVE. its too bad the Mods hid that thread. Might it be that the guest is not the one at risk but is the one giving the risk? Especially for people like you go would push for ATW at spas?

 

No wonder there was an infected thera reported in one of the areas you go to (Banawe). It could very well be a big possibility that an infected person is the one spreading his disease among the populace.

 

Who knows, there might be spas that are already infected because some people like visiting all the places they could get their dirty infected selves into.

[dibdba]

I’m not being a knight in shining armor here but I think the lady has a point. And most probably it’s the same feeling for most girls in this thriving industry. The way I understood her post is “bigyan naman natin sila ng konting respeto” now is that too much to ask? I think not. Being in this kind of work is hard enough already let us not make it any harder for them. Symbiotic ang relationship ng Gm’s and theras it can both be beneficial and at the same time harmful to both parties. I think they have had enough of the judging and the generalizing Society has already done that. Now to Gms that got duped by theras , it was your decision na nagpaloko kayo in the first place and its quite unfair to put the blame on every girl that works in this industry. Lets drop that male ego and be compassionate. Same goes for the Theras, there are still good men around don’t stop believing you still have your own story to write. So let’s just enjoy the real reason why we are all here… ending

 

You'd be surprised at the lack of respect in this thread.

 

For maybe a decade now, I've been following this thread and its cousin (falling in love with MPAs, GROs, etc.) with which it has since merged. Majority will say don't be in this relationship. A few will say they are and are trying to beg for understanding, if not empathy. And then there are people who are obsessed with putting down girls in the industry and the guys who patronize it. You can see people call guys in this relationship as a bunch of gullible idiots incapable of finding love elsewhere. And girls are given horrible labels I won't even repeat and give dignity to. And the worst are those who proudly say that these relationships are beneath them.

 

I probably answered a few of their posts, but for the most part I've ignored them. One thing I've learned in life is that if a person hates something or someone with a passion, he hates part of himself. Such hatred can only come from within. In this case the guy may be one of those spurned or fooled by a therapist, or is close to someone who was. Or it may even be a therapist posing as a guy. Or a gf who lost her man to a thera. You'll never really know as the forum gives everyone a cloak of anonymity.

 

What we do know is that there are haters. And they will always judge. And you can invoke the logic of Locke or Rosseau, but they will always hate because that's who they are. They will never acknowledge that there's this tiny, tiny possibility that love can be found in this place.

 

So guys, wag magmahal kung di mo kayang ipaglaban at suportahan. And girls, mag-isip muna bago magtiwala. Good luck to all.

[pabebe_egg]

Miss mia sorry if i offended other theras who work hard and swollow thier dignity for this kind of job i just put out what i experience with the two theras that gave my all thats my mistake they ask for something i and give i spoil them both ways its my fault

 

And again sorry i offended you with what i said

[bignextboy]

we are only human, we commit mistakes.

[Flirtpool]

Falling in love is possible in all human being.

Depends also in the Situation to where or to whom you fall inlove

you will really fall for Thera lalo na pag Mabait,Maganda ang Serbisyo at Sweet.

you will fall also sa Thera pag sya ang lagi mong Thera

hindi kasi nadidiktahan ang puso at lalong kusa itong natututo magmahal.

Be careful nlng pag may nararamdaman ka nang ganito. masarap umibig pero mas masakit ang ireject.

 

 

 

salamat sa pagbasa

True.

[manananggol]

Based on personal experiences, :

 

1. Do I really think a client can truly fall in love with a thera ? A resounding YES...

 

2. Can a thera truly fall in love with client? I believe they could too...

 

3. Can a client-thera relationship survive without her getting out of the spa world? not likely because of all the cited reasons, selos, failure to address the financial needs, threat of STDs, insecurity and dishonesty, etc...I think if the couple have truly fallen in love, this is a nonpnegotiable, she must get out and the guy must help her get out and rebuild her psyche and self -esteem..

 

4. can a client and thera who fell in love and went out into the sunset after the financial needs have been addressed, have a chance to succeed? yes they could, and the chances of success have increased....but then may irritant pa din kasi all couples tend to fight at some point and her "past" is always an unfair and constant ammunition against the girl..

[misteryosso]

it must be difficult to fall for a thera lalo na if you are the seloso type. man just thinking about it makes my head hurt

[Mistress Mia]

Based on personal experiences, :

 

1. Do I really think a client can truly fall in love with a thera ? A resounding YES...

 

2. Can a thera truly fall in love with client? I believe they could too...

 

3. Can a client-thera relationship survive without her getting out of the spa world? not likely because of all the cited reasons, selos, failure to address the financial needs, threat of STDs, insecurity and dishonesty, etc...I think if the couple have truly fallen in love, this is a nonpnegotiable, she must get out and the guy must help her get out and rebuild her psyche and self -esteem..

 

4. can a client and thera who fell in love and went out into the sunset after the financial needs have been addressed, have a chance to succeed? yes they could, and the chances of success have increased....but then may irritant pa din kasi all couples tend to fight at some point and her "past" is always an unfair and constant ammunition against the girl..

Her past and the guy's hobby of looking for another woman as a past time. Let's not cite it like as if its the guys's trust issues. Remember, marami lalaki at kayo mismong mga lalaki ang nagsasabi samin na gusto nyo lang naman tumikim ng ibang putahe.

[haroots2]

If you really FALL IN LOVE with a thera, understanding with her job comes naturally. If you can't trust her you are only infatuated or obsessed with her but not in love. Of coarse if she isn't in love with you then you are just playing dumb. It takes two person who are really in love to work this out. Making that perfect pair though has a low probability.

[manananggol]

Her past and the guy's hobby of looking for another woman as a past time. Let's not cite it like as if its the guys's trust issues. Remember, marami lalaki at kayo mismong mga lalaki ang nagsasabi samin na gusto nyo lang naman tumikim ng ibang putahe.

I agree Ms Mia..trust begets trust..

 

sa umpisa pa lang, the guy meets the thera in that environment and the girl meets the guy in the same place while s as you say 'tumitikim ng ibang putahe" ...hardly the positive first impression that a normal couple goes through di ba..

 

so imagine them in a fight or LQ at some point and let's just say this can easily become an issue..

[galawangbreezy]

Just sharing..

 

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy..

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten..

 

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable..

Just sharing..

 

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy..

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten..

 

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable..

 

GREAT STORY!

[EL_PY]

Hindi maiiwasan yan sa ganyan.

Remember at the end of the day, lalaki at babae pa rin tayo

[little_boy]

Just want to open another discussion related to this thread. Mia recently posted and has posted in the past her preference for clients who stick to one thera. Is this a smart thing to do? Sticking to one thera? Mia finds it repulsive when a gm treats the spakol/mp scene as a buffet platter kung saan lahat gustong tikman. Kayo anong say niyo dito? Is sticking to one thera a smart thing to do or better to change every now and then? What are the cons and pros?

By sticking to one thera, you form a bond with her and become more at ease. And if that thera knows what gets you going, her service is better. Sure ka din sa bayad mo na sulit. But this is a cause for you to fall in love with the thera or vice versa. Kung madalas mo na siyang nakakasama sa ganun ka intimate na setting, you may eventually fall for her. NOW, don't judge me. OK lang ma-inlove sa ganyan. Basta't ba'y single kayo parehas at kakayanin niyo ang pagsubok etc etc. But most thera here in MTC claim that most of their clients are married. Kaya nga ninja moves eh. So, wouldn't it be better na paiba iba ka to not develop intimacy?