Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[MidKnight Train]

similarly i had a friend like him and with the same story along with the fact that i told this gm to think about things before rushing into it. later on, he did stop seeing the thera and went on doing his usual thing which he still do, visits mps, spas, ktvs ( big or small ) - classy or not. but for him it was a lesson learned and whenever we have the chance, while having dinner or a booze, he always speaks of her and tells me that he wants to spend time with her again. but it might be too late.

[haroots2]

Point well taken. Please don't take it literally. I want to point out that therapists give happiness to many GMs. If a Gm fall in love to them, what will happen to other GMs who want to avail their services. That is true that we GM are also availing their services to release our tensions in our daily work. Ayoko naman sabihin na "parausan " kasi parang malaswa. I can say they are doing therapeutic service for men's health and well being.

 

Well I guess you should think first before you post it. There are people reacting and sensitive about it.

[JO7215]

Fallen for an MPA...pero alam ko wala sya gusto sa akin...

[123mandarin]

I did once almost 5 years ago and the thera from mandaluyong. I swore it wont happen again and so far so good. Kung alam kong medyo nag iiba na timpla, i just vanish without explanation

[kuneho92]

pwede. y not dba? love knows no boundaries.

[IR○N B3^ST]

Theres nothing wrong in fallng inlove with a thera, basta mging carefull ka lang..gamitin ang ulo sa taas di puro baba..

[haroots2]

Theres nothing wrong in fallng inlove with a thera, basta mging carefull ka lang..gamitin ang ulo sa taas di puro baba..

 

Okay lang gamitin parehong ulo huwag lang puro puso, mas nakakabulag kasi yun.

[IR○N B3^ST]

Okay lang gamitin parehong ulo huwag lang puro puso, mas nakakabulag kasi yun.

i agree with you dude,

[bughaw1]

just dont be played....easier said than done.

[Jhothi7]

Just sharing..

 

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy.. 😜

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. 😊 I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten.. 😍

 

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable.. 😊

Just sharing..

 

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy.. 😜

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. 😊 I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten.. 😍

 

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable.. 😊

[Cool Fool]

Chances of making this work is as slim as winning the lottery. Speaking from experience.

[Kentmarlo]

Just sharing..

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy..

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten..

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable.. Just sharing..

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy..

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten..

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable..

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Nice!

[bigbaddann]

There are just two things to consider if you are doing this:

1. Do both of you reciprocate the feeling? As in, its not just one-sided, but a mutual understanding. If it is (one-sided), then it's either:

A. She's into you, and you're just there for the thrill.

B. You're into her, and she just sees you as a means to an end.

2. Can you take it that what she does to you behind closed doors, she also does to other men, with the exception that you get extra servings (because you're in a relationship with him/her).

[silvio.blackwater]

Just sharing..

 

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy.. 😜

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. 😊 I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten.. 😍

 

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable.. 😊

Just sharing..

 

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy.. 😜

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. 😊 I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten.. 😍

 

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable.. 😊

How nice! Nakaka inspire to. Sana nababasa to ng ibang thera.

[Kentmarlo]

How nice! Nakaka inspire to. Sana nababasa to ng ibang thera.

Yes I hope mabasa ito ng iba at tularan.

[global4]

You can not rule it out not to fall in love with a thera especially if you are not getting from your wife the sweetest things you need in your life.

[hamtaro]

here i am again. i said to myself na di ko na sya pupuntahan para makalimutan ko na sya pero di ko alam anong nagtulak saken para pumunta na naman sa spa nila. to cut the story short ok na naman kami and she's consistent in saying na saken lang sya ganon na ako lang mahal nya pero everytime na makakabasa ako ng fr sa kanya alam ko na nde lang sya saken ganon. i feel lost.

[Kentmarlo]

here i am again. i said to myself na di ko na sya pupuntahan para makalimutan ko na sya pero di ko alam anong nagtulak saken para pumunta na naman sa spa nila. to cut the story short ok na naman kami and she's consistent in saying na saken lang sya ganon na ako lang mahal nya pero everytime na makakabasa ako ng fr sa kanya alam ko na nde lang sya saken ganon. i feel lost.

Brod pasensya kana ha, sabi ko nga noon habang masaya ka hindi ka titigil at hindi mo makikita kahit alam mong mali na.

 

Mahirap talaga yan at everyday mo maiisip yan, kaya bago ka mawala sa sarili mo its either alisin mo sya dun or ikaw ang tumigil, kung sa tingin mo may pagtingin din sya sayo habang maaga alisin mo na. Kung tingin mo walang pagtingin sayo ikaw ang tumigil.

 

Kailangan mo maintindihan na hindi lang sya sayo ganun kasi paano babalikan yan ng customer. Alam ko mahirap at madali lang sabihin pero pagdating sa huli tsaka ka magsisisi at marealize na sinayang mo lang lahat.

[spanoy]

going thru one right now but alam ko wala siyang gusto sakin. what really hurts is ive been helping her out financially but doesnt appreciates it. anyway to cut the story short we ended up fight. so im trying to forget her and move on. hard but have to. walang utang na loob yung thera!

[Kentmarlo]

going thru one right now but alam ko wala siyang gusto sakin. what really hurts is ive been helping her out financially but doesnt appreciates it. anyway to cut the story short we ended up fight. so im trying to forget her and move on. hard but have to. walang utang na loob yung thera!

Hindi ko rin maintindihan yung ganyan, iniisip mo kabutihan nila at tinutulungan mo para makaalis sa ganung trabaho pero parang balewala lang sa kanila.

[JO7215]

going thru one right now but alam ko wala siyang gusto sakin. what really hurts is ive been helping her out financially but doesnt appreciates it. anyway to cut the story short we ended up fight. so im trying to forget her and move on. hard but have to. walang utang na loob yung thera!

Same thing happened to me... But I still talk to her and meet her may kailangan sya...

[haroots2]

going thru one right now but alam ko wala siyang gusto sakin. what really hurts is ive been helping her out financially but doesnt appreciates it. anyway to cut the story short we ended up fight. so im trying to forget her and move on. hard but have to. walang utang na loob yung thera!

At least lumabas na yung totoo niyang ugali. She's not the only thera that take advantage to a vulnerable GM that way. Been there too before, its hard but what if she say I'm sorry, babalikan mo ulit siya sa Spa? Cruel cycle but it happens.

[spanoy]

At least lumabas na yung totoo niyang ugali. She's not the only thera that take advantage to a vulnerable GM that way. Been there too before, its hard but what if she say I'm sorry, babalikan mo ulit siya sa Spa? Cruel cycle but it happens.

 

she did say sorry na but thru txt lang and from the tone of the txt doesn't seem sincere. anyway I may go back but will just treat her like any other thera. bahala na. tnx guys

[haroots2]

 

she did say sorry na but thru txt lang and from the tone of the txt doesn't seem sincere. anyway I may go back but will just treat her like any other thera. bahala na. tnx guys

 

Take some time off with her. May soft spot ka pa rin sa kanya. Mahirap yung bahala na. If she's a veteran to this kaya ka niyang pabalikin ulit. Iba na muna kunin mo and don't compare that she is always better kasi ganyan sa umpisa.

[tabajing]

here i am again. i said to myself na di ko na sya pupuntahan para makalimutan ko na sya pero di ko alam anong nagtulak saken para pumunta na naman sa spa nila. to cut the story short ok na naman kami and she's consistent in saying na saken lang sya ganon na ako lang mahal nya pero everytime na makakabasa ako ng fr sa kanya alam ko na nde lang sya saken ganon. i feel lost.

 

Hamtaro, I feel you, currently going through this right now as well, Parang sana, hindi na lang sila nagbibitiw ng super GFE. kasi feel na feel mo na e. tapos, shempre you'll hunt for an FR for her. then pag nakita mo, parang.... damn, ganun din sya sa iba, tapos maiisip mo pa, ano ginagawa nya dun sa iba na baka mas close pa sya sa iba.

 

So for me, I managed to think that, it's her job, and that's the way she gets a lot of regular clients. Unless she quits this job for you, that's the time I think that you can say that it's already a different level.