Falling In Love But Not Getting Horny, Not Wanting Or Having Sex

[kits11326]

maybe at first if your intentions are clean, but sex will come later... naturally it will be awaken from the two of you...

[tripmate]

i agree on above comment, 1st was clean and it came eventually.....

[ChardPurple]

This really happens. But of course if the girl insists to have sex I don't think the guy will turn it down.

[KillTheDEVIL]

That's possible but less practical.

[KillTheDEVIL]

maybe at first if your intentions are clean, but sex will come later... naturally it will be awaken from the two of you...

 

Correct. It may undergo a gradual transition then will evolve into a relationship that includes physical sexual contact.

[cHinitababe86]

possible. but its really hard finding a person who has the sincerest and the most pure intentions.

yes you fall inlove. but IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT HAS TO HAPPEN. or to happen immediately.

if its real love in the first place, it would come in the right time.

you dont rush things, and enjoy each other's company. hindi ko naman sinasabing hindi dapat mangyari.

nangyayari yan, pero mas maganda kung sa tamang panahon.

lust and love are two different things. iba pag sinabing nakipag sex dahil nahorny lang plainly.

at iba din ang passionate love making, out of expressing your love for each other.

pareho ding may ibang meaning. though sometimes, kahit completely inlove na pareho,

hindi parin naman nawawala na may kaunting lust ka parin for your partner that adds excitement to it. haha

Edited August 27, 2011 by cHinitababe86

[draxxm]

i fell deeply in love and got horny everytime... i wanted sex all the time, but not getting any

[barg]

Sometimes when you respect and love someone so much, you don't want to mess anything up. the typical thoughts that pop into one's mind are, " I'll wait until marriage", "what if I come on too strong?" "Where would she like me to pop one?" ...etc, etc.. It's almost impossible, in my belief, to not be horny when you're with someone you're attracted to.

Edited August 31, 2011 by barg

[vanillaLatte]

Interesting thread. I didn't realize there would come a time when I'd get un-horny. I used to want action all the time, every time, to the point I thought it was an illness. I just want it so baaaad.

 

Then it just... stopped. I was in a steady relationship then when I dried out. (I'm not even 30 so I don't think this is aging or menopause .) A month without sex to me was unthinkable, but now I don't even get horny anymore, save for several bursts, but that's it.

 

Being in love and not getting horny sounds weird, but then, maybe you aren't in love with the person anymore? An ex used to say to me it's ok if we don't do it as long as were together. It was sweet, but leaves me bitin and wanting. Our mismatched level of libido was one of the reasons why we broke up.

 

I don't know if my mojo would go back if I ever fall in love again. I hope.

[cHinitababe86]

It will eventually go back.....

Dahil nga siguro s sobrang active mo nun at naabot mo ung peak ng sex drive... and age is one factor.

or kelanga mo lng ng ibng approach pra maibalik.... to awaken ur sleeping hormones..

wla lng may masabi lng heheh

 

mahirap yan. minsan, sa sobrang high na ng libido, saan ba mapupunta.

edi sa pagbaba. haha

pero minsan, d naman un basta bumababa, for as long na gumagawa ng way

ung couple how to keep the fire burning.

kaya i think walang excuse sa babae or sa lalake if ever na nagkakaron

na ng pakiramdam ng panlalamig.

[BrightestStar]

It's possible, but it rarely happens.

[BrightestStar]

Interesting thread. I didn't realize there would come a time when I'd get un-horny. I used to want action all the time, every time, to the point I thought it was an illness. I just want it so baaaad.

 

Then it just... stopped. I was in a steady relationship then when I dried out. (I'm not even 30 so I don't think this is aging or menopause .) A month without sex to me was unthinkable, but now I don't even get horny anymore, save for several bursts, but that's it.

 

Being in love and not getting horny sounds weird, but then, maybe you aren't in love with the person anymore? An ex used to say to me it's ok if we don't do it as long as were together. It was sweet, but leaves me bitin and wanting. Our mismatched level of libido was one of the reasons why we broke up.

 

I don't know if my mojo would go back if I ever fall in love again. I hope.

 

Nice explanation Madam. Psychotherapist are probably unanimous in saying that sex is what gives more pleasure to the relationship. IN fact, the more you have sex, the closer you become. so without sex, the bond is also less.

[shinkee]

its very possible. may girls talaga na pang-kama, meron din yung pang-mahalan lang. bihira lang yung both.

[Quicksilver_]

possible. but its really hard finding a person who has the sincerest and the most pure intentions.

yes you fall inlove. but IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT HAS TO HAPPEN. or to happen immediately.

if its real love in the first place, it would come in the right time.

you dont rush things, and enjoy each other's company. hindi ko naman sinasabing hindi dapat mangyari.

nangyayari yan, pero mas maganda kung sa tamang panahon.

lust and love are two different things. iba pag sinabing nakipag sex dahil nahorny lang plainly.

at iba din ang passionate love making, out of expressing your love for each other.

pareho ding may ibang meaning. though sometimes, kahit completely inlove na pareho,

hindi parin naman nawawala na may kaunting lust ka parin for your partner that adds excitement to it. haha

 

very well said!

[cHinitababe86]

Sometimes when you respect and love someone so much, you don't want to mess anything up. the typical thoughts that pop into one's mind are, " I'll wait until marriage", "what if I come on too strong?" "Where would she like me to pop one?" ...etc, etc.. It's almost impossible, in my belief, to not be horny when you're with someone you're attracted to.

 

yea. somehow i can relate to this post.

pwede panga isipin nung tao na baka hindi siya type kaya

nothing happens eh.

pero usually, based from how i experienced things,

nangyayari na masyado ang respeto dahil the person treats

you special. in kalye term, HINDI LANG PANG KAMA.

ung horny, oo naman. tuod ang tawag sayo pag kahit kaunti

dka naapektuhan lalo na kung magkasama or magkatabi kayo.

 

very well said!

 

thanks dear.