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If your around 20's, I think...

When we hurt someone or when someone hurts us, it is not anger, sadness or disappointment that is revealed after an argument - it is actually a 'question'. A question which starts to validate your presence, worth or value in that moment. A question of why and how things happened or 'where that person is coming from'. 

We can somehow disregard the feelings of sadness, disappointment and anger after an argument, but we cannot, atleast, control our mind to accept those varied questions. That is why some of us cry not because they are sensitive or vulnerable. Let's just say that tears fall when the mind cannot sustain and the heart is occupied.

Likewise, maybe these happened  because we are emotionally unprepared and situationally disoriented or when our inner child and childish emotions took over wisdom and understanding which affected that instance and maybe the relationship.

How to avoid this situation? It is up to you, the people around you and between that person. Say sorry, maybe not now but soon. 

Just learn to acknowledge your mistake and learn from it. Remember, your relationship should matter over any form of sh*t.

.Sirc
#WTSWProse

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Nagaway kami ng partner ko kasi ang busy ko raw, napproject ko ung pagod ko sa mga ginagawa namin together. Di naman ako workaholic, super taas lang talaga ng demand ng trabaho dahil sa pandemic. Working ako 12 to 16+ hrs a day. Nakakapagod. Sa part ko lang, imbes sana na marerelax ako with her, nakakastress pa lalo. 

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On 9/20/2021 at 7:54 PM, csb_miley said:

If your around 20's, I think...

When we hurt someone or when someone hurts us, it is not anger, sadness or disappointment that is revealed after an argument - it is actually a 'question'. A question which starts to validate your presence, worth or value in that moment. A question of why and how things happened or 'where that person is coming from'. 

We can somehow disregard the feelings of sadness, disappointment and anger after an argument, but we cannot, atleast, control our mind to accept those varied questions. That is why some of us cry not because they are sensitive or vulnerable. Let's just say that tears fall when the mind cannot sustain and the heart is occupied.

Likewise, maybe these happened  because we are emotionally unprepared and situationally disoriented or when our inner child and childish emotions took over wisdom and understanding which affected that instance and maybe the relationship.

How to avoid this situation? It is up to you, the people around you and between that person. Say sorry, maybe not now but soon. 

Just learn to acknowledge your mistake and learn from it. Remember, your relationship should matter over any form of sh*t.

.Sirc
#WTSWProse

Yass mam...

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