Bad Boy Or Good Guy!

[preacher]

I'm not sure if there is an existing thread, but I just can't figure out what women want.

 

Maybe it is true that nice guys finish last, sometimes never at all....

[iwalkalone]

That's just not true...i like good guys

the more sensitive...the more attractive..

but ofcourse...it takes more than just being a good guy

[preacher]

That's just not true...i like good guys

the more sensitive...the more attractive..

but ofcourse...it takes more than just being a good guy

 

 

pero miss kara, aminin mo, someitmes you want the astigin types....

lahat ng babaeng nakilala ko sa tanang buhay ko, they can't help but notice the astig, bad boy type, who'll later on, lie, cheat and hurt them.....

 

unfair naman sa mga nice guys tulad namin diba?

[saucybabe]

maybe because bad boys are exciting?

[iwalkalone]

pero miss kara, aminin mo, someitmes you want the astigin types....

lahat ng babaeng nakilala ko sa tanang buhay ko, they can't help but notice the astig, bad boy type, who'll later on, lie, cheat and hurt them.....

 

unfair naman sa mga nice guys tulad namin diba?

 

 

no. ayaw ko talaga ng ganun...gusto ko sensitive type....di naman geek, nerdy type ha....http://www.freesmileys.org/emo/ad/no.gif

ayoko ng astig. :thumbsdownsmiley: ..astig na kase ako eh , gusto ko composed and cool...when i say cool di ibig sabihin astigin...pero dapat yung di k*ll joy...yung sasamahan/papayagan akong mag yosi, maglasing... pero...alalay lang sya...ayoko ng sobrang astig magsalita ( nasasapawan ako eh ....gusto ko may breeding...kase ako wala eh )

Ayoko rin nung laging galit at mainitin ulo....ayoko yung sisigawan ako o uutusan ako...potah...baka magkabasagan lang kami ng ulo!

In short....kung napanood mo yung American Pie...type ko si Josh Harnett....sya yung sensitive type of guy dun

[Hotness]

I think this comes with age. Like if the girl is younger, maybe teens to early 20s mas type nila ang "bad boys." Pero as the girl gets older and more mature, mas alam na niya talaga yung type nyang guy--usually she'd prefer being with the good guy.

[iwalkalone]

I think this comes with age. Like if the girl is younger, maybe teens to early 20s mas type nila ang "bad boys." Pero as the girl gets older and more mature, mas alam na niya talaga yung type nyang guy--usually she'd prefer being with the good guy.

 

not necessarily...huling bad guy po na ginusto ko was when i was 13...bad guy pero consistent honor student hah :goatee: lahat po ng sumunod ay puro good guys na....kaso ako naman ang naging bad

[caramelkisses]

er... can't newbies vote in the poll? i tried and it gave me a failure message. oh well. for the record, i would definitely go for the good guys. i hate it when guys try to dominate me. i'm looking for a life partner, not an authority figure.

[preacher]

er... can't newbies vote in the poll? i tried and it gave me a failure message. oh well. for the record, i would definitely go for the good guys. i hate it when guys try to dominate me. i'm looking for a life partner, not an authority figure.

 

 

here here for the nice guys.

 

btw, I'm not sure with the posting, perhaps we can ask one of our esteemed moderators to check this out for us.

[Waterbearer]

If women really go after the good guys....where were you when we were desperately looking for love? Either you were really after bad guys or you did not trust us even if we where sincerely being good to you? ....come to think of it, maybe you found us too harmless to abuse us or perhaps you don't find us a challenge.....Or perhaps.....the only thing you were looking for in a good guy is security....because you are not getting any younger and after having a lofty share with wild men, you tend to worry about your future so you look for someone who can guarantee you the basic necessities...

 

Whatever it is, you always notice us a little too late....and whats funny is that, we are starting to think what you are proclaiming is nothing but lip service.

 

But if you are really what you say you are then that's unfortunate.....coz' i guess our fates dictate otherwise.

[Yama]

Women prefer bad asses coz they look tough enough to protect them, unlike nice guys who tucks their dicks between their legs

[preacher]

I think what they're really looking for is a bod boy to tame and change into a nice guy.

but it's happend more than once that a woman would take a nice guy and change him

into something more presentable to todays society, thus being a bad boy type

 

 

Women prefer bad asses coz they look tough enough to protect them, unlike nice guys who tucks their dicks between their legs

 

If that is the case then the women you know who say such things have a lot to figure out.

And the operative term you used here is look...

Just because a car looks fast doesn't mean it can go any faster than a regular looking car.

Same with people dude.

Just beacuse nice guys look, well nice, and not astig or tough doesn't mean we can't bust a bone or two

when it comes to protecting the ladies.

And also, just because a guy looks tough doesn't mean he wont tuck thier cock between their legs.

Edited November 6, 2006 by preacher

[Yama]

You are right about women who want men who have gaps in their life, so that they can have the duty to fill them in.

 

I have a lady friend who came crying to me in the phone one night, telling me how a dick her assh*le of a boyfriend is. This boyfriend of hers is such a bad ass that he once threatened a guy's life with a bottlecap. I quickly put the phone down on this girl. I know shes gonna turn me in to an emotional tampon, while she will be sleeping with this bad guy afterwards. Damn, it shouldve been the other way around!!

 

And you know what? We really cannot blame women for being attracted to these kind of men. In a relationship, someone has to take the lead and wear the pants, and thats what women want. They cant see that in a nice guy, coz nice guys can be just too fawnile and obsequious, and are too busy putitng the pussy in the pedestal, which is sad to say what Ive been seeing alot about in these forums. As men, our job is not to worhsip the goddess. Our job is to f#&k the goddess.

[preacher]

This kinda reminds me of Sean Connery in "The Rock"

".... do your best? That's what the losers always say. Winners go home and f#&k the prom queen."

 

You are right about women who want men who have gaps in their life, so that they can have the duty to fill them in.

 

I have a lady friend who came crying to me in the phone one night, telling me how a dick her assh*le of a boyfriend is. This boyfriend of hers is such a bad ass that he once threatened a guy's life with a bottlecap. I quickly put the phone down on this girl. I know shes gonna turn me in to an emotional tampon, while she will be sleeping with this bad guy afterwards. Damn, it shouldve been the other way around!!

 

And you know what? We really cannot blame women for being attracted to these kind of men. In a relationship, someone has to take the lead and wear the pants, and thats what women want. They cant see that in a nice guy, coz nice guys can be just too fawnile and obsequious, and are too busy putitng the pussy in the pedestal, which is sad to say what Ive been seeing alot about in these forums. As men, our job is not to worhsip the goddess. Our job is to f#&k the goddess.

 

This may very well be the answer I was looking for. Though the social norm doesn't state that all nice guys are like that, it leaves the rest of them wondering what the bad boy had to offer. One thing leads to another, compromising this and that until one day he turns into the very person he detests. The bad boy, screwing every girl in sight, who needs to feel astig so he would hit his girl, hit on other girls, lie and cheat. But at least he's wearing the pants......

[hottlipss]

 

I've always preferred "good guys" and I think it's just my upbringing to not take any men's bullsh!t.

Although, I don't want a sissy naman that I can walk all over. Heck, who wants that!

I want a good guy with a backbone and who can hold their own. And be able to handle my personality

and not be afraid to put me back in my place when necessary.

 

Honestly, the ladies (and gents, too) that are into these so called "bad guys" are either attracted to dramas in their life

Or want something or someone they can't have. Maybe it's a syndrome that most of us women have

(and surely, a lot of men also suffer from this) of wanting to "fix", "change", "nurture", or "mold"

someone into what we want and view that as our life's worth and accomplishment.