A Complicated Relationship

[bonito99]

then dont pay. if they cant foot the bill, they're not worth it.

I need help figuring out what to do. Everyone knows me for being so independent. I may not be the richest woman out there but I have a business.

Now, the thing is... My current guy is not someone who earns a lot. Let's just say his monthly income is just my income for 1 day.

This really bothers me because "ako na naman ang mag fifinance". In all my exes, I had been the one financing. I honestly don't like the idea but I see him working hard and doing his best.

I know I'm not being used but then again, I am the lady. Why is it I am the one always adjusting and paying for the bill.

[lifetime0013]

May bf ka Mariel? Hehe

[LaFlame]

I need help figuring out what to do. Everyone knows me for being so independent. I may not be the richest woman out there but I have a business.

 

Now, the thing is... My current guy is not someone who earns a lot. Let's just say his monthly income is just my income for 1 day.

 

This really bothers me because "ako na naman ang mag fifinance". In all my exes, I had been the one financing. I honestly don't like the idea but I see him working hard and doing his best.

 

I know I'm not being used but then again, I am the lady. Why is it I am the one always adjusting and paying for the bill.

 

It's not your fault that you're the big earner in a relationship. It's not a guy's fault also that he earns less. But one thing I can assure you. If he is man enough he will show you in a different way and if you guys really love each other. Material things or money should never be a relationship problem.

[LaFlame]

Dko masagot kung bf ko ba talga. Hahaha. Complicated e.

coffee date or milk tea date na kasi tayo. hahaha

[PROJECTCADMUS]

Dko masagot kung bf ko ba talga. Hahaha. Complicated e. Haha

baka ma ghosting ka bigla yan hehehe

 

anyway sabe nga seize the moment

[theoneandonlymistressmia]

i guess it will be a burden in a long run

 

no idea if love will prevail on that kind of scenario

 

in my point of view women should be treated well both love and financially, its a bonus if the woman is stable financially

 

a hard decision to make between the heart and the brain

Hello,

 

I know that it will be burden in the long run. Ang hirap kasi. Pag typical employee ang partner mo then ikaw negosyante. His other resort is find another "job".

 

then dont pay. if they cant foot the bill, they're not worth it.

Hello,

 

This is how I think. I'm not a materialistic person but iba kasi sense of security pag lalaki ang provider right?

 

It's not your fault that you're the big earner in a relationship. It's not a guy's fault also that he earns less. But one thing I can assure you. If he is man enough he will show you in a different way and if you guys really love each other. Material things or money should never be a relationship problem.

Hello,

 

Well this is how he is. He is supporting emotionally, mentally and he takes care of me naman. Pero yun nga lagi siyang no money. Hays.

[LaFlame]

Tara na kasi iviber mo kaya ako.

 

 

telegram lang meron ako haha. meron ka?

[LaFlame]

 

 

Hello,

 

Well this is how he is. He is supporting emotionally, mentally and he takes care of me naman. Pero yun nga lagi siyang no money. Hays.

 

if he's not taking advantage of your wealth, if he's not using you for the money. I don't think there's something wrong.

[big_sean]

Hello,

 

I know that it will be burden in the long run. Ang hirap kasi. Pag typical employee ang partner mo then ikaw negosyante. His other resort is find another "job".

 

 

Hello,

 

This is how I think. I'm not a materialistic person but iba kasi sense of security pag lalaki ang provider right?

 

 

Hello,

 

Well this is how he is. He is supporting emotionally, mentally and he takes care of me naman. Pero yun nga lagi siyang no money. Hays.

There's a saying that only children and women are loved unconditionally. Men are only worthy of love when they can provide something.

 

When the inherent human value of 50% of the world's population is reduced to a commodity like labor... it becomes dysfunctional for the rest of society too.

 

Peace <3

 

 

[PROJECTCADMUS]

Hello,

 

I know that it will be burden in the long run. Ang hirap kasi. Pag typical employee ang partner mo then ikaw negosyante. His other resort is find another "job".

 

 

Hello,

 

This is how I think. I'm not a materialistic person but iba kasi sense of security pag lalaki ang provider right?

 

 

Hello,

 

Well this is how he is. He is supporting emotionally, mentally and he takes care of me naman. Pero yun nga lagi siyang no money. Hays.

so i guess dapat mag shift sya ng career to business

 

or aim a higher compensationfor special skills

 

tsaka i think it will ruin the moment lage kapag babae mostly naglalabas ng money

[theoneandonlymistressmia]

 

if he's not taking advantage of your wealth, if he's not using you for the money. I don't think there's something wrong.

 

Hello,

 

For me kasi lugi ng babae. We experience all the monthly hassle and pain, we are the one na nabubuntis, nahihirapan and everything, we are the ones na nanganganak and all tapos kami pa din ang mag poprovide and all. I have this thinking so I kinda feel so irritated sa kanya kasi most men are ok with their actual income eh. Hays.

 

 

There's a saying that only children and women are loved unconditionally. Men are only worthy of love when they can provide something.

 

When the inherent human value of 50% of the world's population is reduced to a commodity like labor... it becomes dysfunctional for the rest of society too.

 

Peace <3

 

 

Hello,

 

Actually I never felt this with my exes. Kaya siguro I feel like dalang dala na ako despite this also being a good guy.

 

Sometimes being good doesnt feed you eh. Same as love.

 

 

so i guess dapat mag shift sya ng career to business

 

or aim a higher compensationfor special skills

 

tsaka i think it will ruin the moment lage kapag babae mostly naglalabas ng money

Hello,

 

Mahirap naman din kasi bigla bigla na lang nag papalit and he needs to do a lot. At 24 to 28 medyo high earner na kasi ako. Compared sa mayayaman maliit kinikita ko talaga but I used to earn atleast 2M to 4M a month noon ngaun mga 6k to 15k a day na lang. Its very different na pero alam mo yung part na naiintindihan ko yung part niya na mahirap tapatan. Hays. Pero naiintindihan ko din uny sarili ko na bakit ba ako nag sesettle sa ganito. Hays. Its truly complicated.

[jackdrid]

 

Hello,

 

For me kasi lugi ng babae. We experience all the monthly hassle and pain, we are the one na nabubuntis, nahihirapan and everything, we are the ones na nanganganak and all tapos kami pa din ang mag poprovide and all. I have this thinking so I kinda feel so irritated sa kanya kasi most men are ok with their actual income eh. Hays.

 

 

Hello,

 

Actually I never felt this with my exes. Kaya siguro I feel like dalang dala na ako despite this also being a good guy.

 

Sometimes being good doesnt feed you eh. Same as love.

 

 

Hello,

 

Mahirap naman din kasi bigla bigla na lang nag papalit and he needs to do a lot. At 24 to 28 medyo high earner na kasi ako. Compared sa mayayaman maliit kinikita ko talaga but I used to earn atleast 2M to 4M a month noon ngaun mga 6k to 15k a day na lang. Its very different na pero alam mo yung part na naiintindihan ko yung part niya na mahirap tapatan. Hays. Pero naiintindihan ko din uny sarili ko na bakit ba ako nag sesettle sa ganito. Hays. Its truly complicated.

 

Hi! Complicated talaga pati ang topic... Bigyan mo ng business na kaya niyang imanage at palaguhin... Pwede rin humingi ng advice sa mga church counselling... Base kasi sa mga experience mo, mahirap ng masabayan ang wave length ng perception mo buhay... @ 40's? hope mali ang hula ko

Anyway, nasa sayo parin ang desisyon kung saan ka sasaya at ikakabuti ng relasyon niyo na sana mauuwi sa magandang kinabukasan...

[theoneandonlymistressmia]

 

Hi! Complicated talaga pati ang topic... Bigyan mo ng business na kaya niyang imanage at palaguhin... Pwede rin humingi ng advice sa mga church counselling... Base kasi sa mga experience mo, mahirap ng masabayan ang wave length ng perception mo buhay... @ 40's? hope mali ang hula ko

Anyway, nasa sayo parin ang desisyon kung saan ka sasaya at ikakabuti ng relasyon niyo na sana mauuwi sa magandang kinabukasan...

Hello,

 

Grabe. Ako pa din need mag bigay ng puhunan? Hahahahaa. I mean, ginawa ko na sa exes ko yun before. Hahaahaha. No I'm 29.

[LaFlame]

 

Hello,

 

For me kasi lugi ng babae. We experience all the monthly hassle and pain, we are the one na nabubuntis, nahihirapan and everything, we are the ones na nanganganak and all tapos kami pa din ang mag poprovide and all. I have this thinking so I kinda feel so irritated sa kanya kasi most men are ok with their actual income eh. Hays.

 

 

 

if you love him. You will not look at that way. Just Look at Andi Eigenman. At her young age, I think her earnings is Big. But he choose to settle with a simple man. Maybe you don't love him enough because you don't want to grow with this man. If you love him. You'll help each other regardless of the situation.

 

But this just me.my own view. so Peace!

[theoneandonlymistressmia]

if you love him. You will not look at that way. Just Look at Andi Eigenman. At her young age, I think her earnings is Big. But he choose to settle with a simple man. Maybe you don't love him enough because you don't want to grow with this man. If you love him. You'll help each other regardless of the situation.

 

But this just me.my own view. so Peace!

Hello,

 

Maybe I'm not that inlove to actually forget about security. I'm thinking about the future kasi. As much as possible I want my future secured eh. We all want to be happy and I am not materialistic. Maybe its just me. Hays......