ndn Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 IMHO,if you still love the girl,then GO for it,give yourselves a second chance. Kaw na rin nagsabi na naging miserable yung guy,so why not reconcile with her? Quote Link to comment
dfgvan Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 the problem is that the guy likes where he is as of the moment the reason he didn't pick up the pieces was that he is building anewonly to realize that in this rebuild he finds solace in his lonesome... being single the girl on the other hand knew the guy would be miserable... but she kept strongknowing that being apart will be better for both of them... being single again is what she needs(or so she thinks) but she came back and asked "do you want another chance?" Quote Link to comment
ndn Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 well it's a tough decision you have to makebut it is obvious that you still have feelings for the girlthe question is,would you really be happier without her in your life?And can you handle it if you let these chance pass and see her with someone new? Quote Link to comment
dfgvan Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 to tell you the truth... he'd probably beat up the guy...as of the moment, he's happy without her Quote Link to comment
ndn Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 hahaha if he need help just tell me,ako hahawak dun sa guy LOLYun naman pala bro eh,malay mo mas maging happier na sila this time aroundWhether he admit it or not,mas masaya ang may kasama kesa nag-iisaMaybe the guy is just scared of being hurt again,pero if i were him,i will give it another chance kesa magsisi ako sa huliSabi nga ni Bob Ong-"Wag mong bibitawan ang isang bagay na ayaw mo makitang hawak ng iba" (Im not sure with the exact words,but something to that effect) Quote Link to comment
dfgvan Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 Those are things that come to mind...For now he's fine but in the long run is questionable If they decide to push it through right now... he'd do things halfheartedlyand it may ruin the relationship again... Quote Link to comment
chapschaps Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 (edited) tsk tsk...bigat nito...how can you say that the Guy is happy? naipagpalit na ni Guy yung Girl sa ibang bagay o sa ibang tao o sa ibang libangan? ika nga eh love the one you're with... Edited February 21, 2011 by chapschaps Quote Link to comment
ndn Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 mahirap nga ito brojust weigh the pros and the cons nalangdi nga naman maganda na di 100% ang ibibigaypero sa totoo lang ha,parang pinahihirapan lang niya sarili niya,prolonging the agony Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 Give in to what she wants but let her know that you really are undecided and want to take things slow. Quote Link to comment
dfgvan Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 tsk tsk...bigat nito...how can you say that the Guy is happy? naipagpalit na ni Guy yung Girl sa ibang bagay o sa ibang tao o sa ibang libangan? ika nga eh love the one you're with... none of the above... he's just content right now mahirap nga ito brojust weigh the pros and the cons nalangdi nga naman maganda na di 100% ang ibibigaypero sa totoo lang ha,parang pinahihirapan lang niya sarili niya,prolonging the agony yes saer, he's hurt... but content with what he has... he figures he has to work with what he has to be happy...changing that might cause a lot of confusion... pros - romance and stuff... a family down the roadcons - it might be too early to do it again Quote Link to comment
mardigras Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 go for it. ayoko ng may nagbother pa sa kin na "what ifs" down the road. baka pagsisihan mo din sa huli. we're guys, we're survivors you know. Quote Link to comment
jgc813 Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 i'm searching the forum where i can ask this... but nothing seems to fit... here's the scenario... you two broke up... both are picking up the pieces...the girl is picking up the pieces to move on with her life without the guy...the guy didn't pick up the pieces he just wallowed... miserable... but happy for the girl... how long have this couple been together? This will matter. If they have just been together for a few months, then, perhaps, they are caught up by their emotions and hormones. If they have been together for some years, it's different. but... the girl out of the blue comes back into his life...and say's "I WANT TO BE HAPPY... WITH YOU!" the guy couldn't answer... he already liked how things are, although at the back of his mind he wanted her back... but he knows it's intelligent and better for him not to The girl comes back from "out of the blue?" Sounds fickle to me. Quote Link to comment
dfgvan Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 they've been together for more than 7 years...wedding was cancelled once Quote Link to comment
jgc813 Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 they've been together for more than 7 years...wedding was cancelled once Then, it makes sense. 7 years is pretty long. For as long as there is no third party involved, I think they both must thresh out their issues, and discuss properly. No sweeping under the rug should take place. I think they should give each other another chance of returning to each other. 7 years is pretty long, and I think they should be mature enough to handle themselves. Quote Link to comment
dfgvan Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 (edited) that's the thing... they don't want any discussionsit ain't a negotiation what they wanted is start anew/freshbut both can't stop the past from haunting them Edited February 21, 2011 by dfgvan Quote Link to comment
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