sheena Posted March 18, 2003 Share Posted March 18, 2003 being single is what you make it you can spend it moping at home... or manic dating you can spend it engaging in a new hobby or concentrating on priorities such as family and career you can spend it improving yourself in preparation for your next relationship you can spend it healing from old wound and dealing with excess baggage you can spend it and use it as a reason to behave in promiscuous, mournful and pathetic ways you can spend it reinventing yourself... and your life priorities any which way, it's your choice... being alone need not be a lonely thing to have happen.... amen to that!you can be alone but not lonely..you get a chance to know yourselfbe happy just by yourselfso when you do get to find that someoneyour happiness does not rely on just one single personand when it doesn't work outits not as devastating sabi sa iyo baby_sam eh, drama ako today Quote Link to comment
DELISYUS Posted March 18, 2003 Share Posted March 18, 2003 ok lang yang drama sis Quote Link to comment
junnp Posted March 18, 2003 Share Posted March 18, 2003 FREE ! mas magastos nga lang kasi mas marami dates ...<snip> yes, free it is...magastos? tingin ko pareho lang... gagastos ka rin naman eh... you are actually spending for the pleasures that you get... the pleasure of having a date. pero i dont think it would be lonely, id say it would be more exciting coz youll have the chance to select which one to go out with. in fairness, at younger age siguro youll find it lonely coz in your head, life is not complete without your partner. but reaching maturity, having those extra experiences, youll develop a different way of facing the battle of loneliness being a single. why should you be lonely in the first place? (siguro pag matanda ka na, i would agree) channeling your needs into other things opens new windows of self contentment and somehow eliminates loneliness. you may have close friends, close relatives, your best friend, etc, etc... tama na yang explanation ko... humahaba na eh... opinion ko lang naman yun hehehehe Quote Link to comment
SnOOcHi Posted March 18, 2003 Share Posted March 18, 2003 pareho lng. lonely and free...wats important is you know how to move on or carry yourself... Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted March 19, 2003 Author Share Posted March 19, 2003 FREE ! mas magastos nga lang kasi mas marami dates ...yes, free it is...magastos? tingin ko pareho lang... gagastos ka rin naman eh... you are actually spending for the pleasures that you get... the pleasure of having a date. pero i dont think it would be lonely, id say it would be more exciting coz youll have the chance to select which one to go out with. in fairness, at younger age siguro youll find it lonely coz in your head, life is not complete without your partner. but reaching maturity, having those extra experiences, youll develop a different way of facing the battle of loneliness being a single. why should you be lonely in the first place? (siguro pag matanda ka na, i would agree) channeling your needs into other things opens new windows of self contentment and somehow eliminates loneliness. you may have close friends, close relatives, your best friend, etc, etc... tama na yang explanation ko... humahaba na eh... opinion ko lang naman yun hehehehe thanks ok lang yun! we value each others opinion and from that we learn di ba! continue to express what's in us. :* Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted March 19, 2003 Author Share Posted March 19, 2003 being single is what you make it you can spend it moping at home... or manic dating you can spend it engaging in a new hobby or concentrating on priorities such as family and career you can spend it improving yourself in preparation for your next relationship you can spend it healing from old wound and dealing with excess baggage you can spend it and use it as a reason to behave in promiscuous, mournful and pathetic ways you can spend it reinventing yourself... and your life priorities any which way, it's your choice... being alone need not be a lonely thing to have happen....amen to that!you can be alone but not lonely..you get a chance to know yourselfbe happy just by yourselfso when you do get to find that someoneyour happiness does not rely on just one single personand when it doesn't work outits not as devastating sabi sa iyo baby_sam eh, drama ako today i definitely agree to that sis! I've experience having a very suffocating relationship so after we parted ways parang grabe ang sarap ng feelings im totally free, right now im enjoying my freedom also, but of course there are times na na you feel lonely din pero madali lang naman ma-overcome yun. Quote Link to comment
jelly bean Posted March 19, 2003 Share Posted March 19, 2003 amen to that!you can be alone but not lonely..you get a chance to know yourselfbe happy just by yourselfso when you do get to find that someoneyour happiness does not rely on just one single personand when it doesn't work outits not as devastating sabi sa iyo baby_sam eh, drama ako today oo nga eh... but i definetely agree with what you said.. happiness is really a choice.... Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted March 19, 2003 Author Share Posted March 19, 2003 [quote name=tabachoi[--],Mar 18 2003, 04:38 PM] girls seem to always have the right things to say dahil siguro we're being emotional and we really take things seriously! Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted March 20, 2003 Author Share Posted March 20, 2003 minsan kase, di makuntento ang mga tao... pag-attached, gusto single pagsingle, gusto attached.....ikaw baby_sam? ano ba ang opinion mo dyan? sweet, depende naman yan sa situation. if ur still attached to ur past love e being lonely yun. if you got over him/her, ur free You have a point there bro. I can relate to that.... :* :* :* Quote Link to comment
donvitz Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 alam niyo, once u got attached already and got free again, you'll never want to get attached anymore. Nowadays, the benefits u enjoy when being attached can now be enjoyed too when you're not attached. Physical needs have nothing to do with being attached or not. Quote Link to comment
Mike Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 Physical needs have nothing to do with being attached or not. As well they shouldn't. Sex and emotional attachment are two completely different things. Quote Link to comment
sheena Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 As well they shouldn't. Sex and emotional attachment are two completely different things. hmmm...so what you're saying is thatyou can be emotionally faithful to someoneand at the same time 'physically' unfaithful?so you mean its okay with you if your girlfriend sleeps aroundfor as long as ikaw lang ang love niya? well, interesting...wachutink girls? Quote Link to comment
Guest sexy_legs Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 Being alone doesn't mean sadness. There are some moments na parang empty ka especially kung may problems and stress ka and you got no one to run to, that's where we tend to look for someone to be with. Most of the time "companionship" lang talaga ang hanap mo. Gaya ng sabi ni boyet, case to case basis. If you got a partner na really compliments you and you both love each other, why choose to be alone? If I got a choice, I want to have a partner but he should be very understanding and secured for us to enjoy both of our freedom. It does not follow also porket nasa relasyon ka, mawawala na ang freedom, if that's the case, the relationship won't last..... a relationship should make you both grow and compliment each other not make a world tigher place to live in. Quote Link to comment
jelly bean Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 hmmm...so what you're saying is thatyou can be emotionally faithful to someoneand at the same time 'physically' unfaithful?so you mean its okay with you if your girlfriend sleeps aroundfor as long as ikaw lang ang love niya? well, interesting...wachutink girls? sorry ha, pero i dont believe in that eh.... loyalista po ako Quote Link to comment
Guest sexy_legs Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 hmmm.. ok.... this is just a point of few. Ideally, mas masarap ang feeling pag you are making out with someone you love. But I agree with Mike, sex and love are two different things. Going to bed with someone doesn't mean that you are inlove or you love that person. There are some "moments" that you just want it, most of the time if you do it, the passion is not the same though Pero, if you love your current partner and respects him (am talking about women) she can't afford to sleep around. Not unlike men, lalaki yan e, kahit anong gawin mo, they still have that urge to sleep around, play and flirt and get laid by different women. They can take a woman to bed without emotional attachments and be friends after. hope di naman bastard or a**hole ang guy. Quote Link to comment
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