What Do You Talk About On Your First Date?

[tequilasunrise]

Lahat naman ng naka-date ko, kilala ko na one way or the other (kahit through chat or text), so when we first met personally, usually, "kumusta ka na?" or dig something from the previous topics discussed and take it from there.

[RuinasLasCorazon]

likes, anything under the sun without the sleazy topics unless i know she's into that..

[cleanpinoy]

find a common topic between you and her. That will start the free-flowing conversation.

[ca5an0va]

nothing in particular but i guess more about urself and herself...the getting to knw thing :headsetsmiley:

[pixel888]

talk about anything but yourself. Dont talk about the me ,me , or I yet. Leave that out for the next date. Listen to her more. Be attentive to her expressions,body language and gestures.

[formyeyesonly]

first date...well that would be too boring unlike the second and the next date..its more on getting to know her a bit and letting her know about you...

[vanillaLatte]

sports

movies

work

travels

[peterparker]

anything under the sun.. whatever breaks the ice.. :cool:

 

a good way to establish rapport is to listen.. attentively..

 

 

 

 

:mtc:

[einnad]

first date is a getting to know you stage. It opens to many avenues of relationships. i always remind myself that the most important person during this particular time is the person in front of me. the more i dig, the more i will know the person.

My knowledge of the person will determine my interest or disinterest toward the person. Intelligent choices start with a thorough undertstanding of my lady beside me.

[yanzmyk]

I normally ask about her family background and indirectly ask about the male influences in her life. Whether positive or negative, I find that the male influences in a girl's life has alot to do with the way she chooses her man.

 

I also ask stuff to ensure that she's going to be a good match for me. i.e. palamunin ba sya or mapagkakatiwalaan or magastos and such? Hehehe!

[purrtypwincess]

I actually find first dates pretentious because you always put your best foot forward. I'd rather go out with someone who I really know and not call it a date.

 

The getting-to-know-you process doesn't have to be a palm-sweating torture.

[ndn]

Getting to know each other muna and anything under the sun.

[dirtypop2]

no specific topic, kung ano lng ang pumasok sa utak ko, un na

[deepdiverboy]

Pag blind date ang first date, you can break the ice with the ff:

 

a) talk about your common friend who set you up

the latest hot book/movie/scandal (but don't overdo it w/ comments)

c) a funny/memorable incident you had during the day/on your way to the date

d) the place you're meeting at: whether it be food reviews, signature dish, etc.

e) crack a joke at your own expense (self-deprecating humor is always a winner w/ girls)

f) your work, particularly if it's an uncommon career choice

g) the school you graduated from and his/her school. (Being LaSallista, I always have a fun time with Atenistas)

h) the merits of having nuclear energy vs conventional hydro-turbines for electric power generation

 

**joke lang yung last

[MarcAlmond]

uhmmmm...talk about the weather...and kung bakit binili ng bata yung lobo na lumipad sa langit...something to that effect.