Yama Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 Do's- her passion- her hobbies- her dreams- her opinions- open-ended questions- SELF-DISCLOSURE- cube game (my favorite rappport builder)- boyfriend destroyer (if shes in a relationship) Dont's- weather- work- school- health- politics- death- problems- past relationships- over self-disclosure- yes/no questions- boring facts Get that Vibe!! Quote Link to comment
Guest bleeding_angel Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 anything under the sun EXCEPT for really personal stuff like past relationships or family problems... Quote Link to comment
sunking Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 anything under the sun EXCEPT for really personal stuff like past relationships or family problems... Hear hear. Never talk about past relationships. That topic is a looooong way off in any relationship. Quote Link to comment
czashi Posted May 21, 2007 Share Posted May 21, 2007 anything.. just as long you get to know the person better with every conversation you make.. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 just about anything....his interests and yours....recent and past events about family, lovelife (ive never dated anyone who wasnt interested in this, even at the first date), work and all.....therein lies the "wavelength" thing....kung talagang click kayo, the talk could go on forever Quote Link to comment
objectofmydesire Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 All about me and him...getting to know you kind of stuff Quote Link to comment
kodyang Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 man, its your first date, anything goes for a topic, as long as you dont freak each other out! Quote Link to comment
vader2007 Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 first dates are important so one can gauge if a 2nd, 3rd or more dates are worth it...its an opportunity to evaluate if she has something more to offer other than looks...first dates provide me information to decide whether this person is worth a second and serious look... Quote Link to comment
aswang Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 Well simple lang naman topics namin like: If man evolved from monkeys and apes, why do we still have monkeys and apes?Can you cry under water?If a deaf person has to go to court, is it still called a hearing?If olive oil comes from olives, where does baby oil come from? :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
Guest bleeding_angel Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 Well simple lang naman topics namin like: If man evolved from monkeys and apes, why do we still have monkeys and apes? ahsus... mali naman tanong mo... mas malalim kung... "if men evolved from monkeys and apes, why are there men who look like horses?" :boo: profound diba? Quote Link to comment
ultraelectrocute Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 kanya-kanyang buhay...interests...the usual things actually. pero dpat hindi to pinaplano. mas ok pag natural lang. Quote Link to comment
aswang Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 ahsus... mali naman tanong mo... mas malalim kung... "if men evolved from monkeys and apes, why are there men who look like horses?" :boo: profound diba? Mukhang galit ka talaga sa men ah haha... O baka para kang si Renee Zellweger sa Jerry Maguire ng sinabi nya na "Men are the enemy. But I still love the enemy." Quote Link to comment
bruiser Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 usually before a first date, i would already be calling her on the telephone so by the time we meet, we would be more attuned to our particular interests and hopefully the conversation will start off from there. pero kung talagang set-up blind date as in doon lang kayo nagkita...i guess the guy has to be responsible for probing what are the interests of the girl... Quote Link to comment
skitz Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 SECRETI've been fairly successful at the game. And here is what I know. Point of first conversations is to make her feel at ease with you. So nothing big. Don't ask her about religion or the meaning of life. And NO! Don't brag about that imaginary BMW you have at the garage of your imaginary beach house. Well, I guess we all know that. But here's the thing. There is a GOAL. And many, without clue, just continue on blabbering without a hint of what that goal is. Hence, the conversation becomes POINTLESS... This is the secret. The goal. If you can get a girl to tell you what her hopes and dreams in life are, then she is yours for the taking. Nope. You can't ask "So, what are your hopes and dreams in life are?". That would be just dumb. You'd be better suited as a Ms. Universe pageant host. You have to make her reveal those things, without you directly asking it. Gets? Quote Link to comment
gilgrissom Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Straight from House season 1 (Dr. Wilson mentioned this dating tip when Dr. House was about to go on a date with Cameron): Talk about her HDA: Hopes, Dreams and Aspirations! Quote Link to comment
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