formyeyesonly Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 first date...well that would be too boring unlike the second and the next date..its more on getting to know her a bit and letting her know about you... Quote Link to comment
vanillaLatte Posted January 21, 2009 Share Posted January 21, 2009 sportsmoviesworktravels Quote Link to comment
peterparker Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 anything under the sun.. whatever breaks the ice.. :cool: a good way to establish rapport is to listen.. attentively.. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
einnad Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 first date is a getting to know you stage. It opens to many avenues of relationships. i always remind myself that the most important person during this particular time is the person in front of me. the more i dig, the more i will know the person.My knowledge of the person will determine my interest or disinterest toward the person. Intelligent choices start with a thorough undertstanding of my lady beside me. Quote Link to comment
yanzmyk Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 I normally ask about her family background and indirectly ask about the male influences in her life. Whether positive or negative, I find that the male influences in a girl's life has alot to do with the way she chooses her man. I also ask stuff to ensure that she's going to be a good match for me. i.e. palamunin ba sya or mapagkakatiwalaan or magastos and such? Hehehe! Quote Link to comment
purrtypwincess Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 I actually find first dates pretentious because you always put your best foot forward. I'd rather go out with someone who I really know and not call it a date. The getting-to-know-you process doesn't have to be a palm-sweating torture. Quote Link to comment
ndn Posted July 18, 2010 Share Posted July 18, 2010 Getting to know each other muna and anything under the sun. Quote Link to comment
dirtypop2 Posted July 18, 2010 Share Posted July 18, 2010 no specific topic, kung ano lng ang pumasok sa utak ko, un na Quote Link to comment
deepdiverboy Posted July 18, 2010 Share Posted July 18, 2010 Pag blind date ang first date, you can break the ice with the ff: a) talk about your common friend who set you up the latest hot book/movie/scandal (but don't overdo it w/ comments)c) a funny/memorable incident you had during the day/on your way to the dated) the place you're meeting at: whether it be food reviews, signature dish, etc.e) crack a joke at your own expense (self-deprecating humor is always a winner w/ girls)f) your work, particularly if it's an uncommon career choiceg) the school you graduated from and his/her school. (Being LaSallista, I always have a fun time with Atenistas)h) the merits of having nuclear energy vs conventional hydro-turbines for electric power generation **joke lang yung last Quote Link to comment
MarcAlmond Posted July 18, 2010 Share Posted July 18, 2010 uhmmmm...talk about the weather...and kung bakit binili ng bata yung lobo na lumipad sa langit...something to that effect. Quote Link to comment
LuSciousNess Posted July 18, 2010 Share Posted July 18, 2010 (edited) wala namang particular na topic .. kung saan mapunta usapan, doon. tapos, malilipat sa ibang topic, and so on.getting to know kasi madalas ang first date e Edited July 18, 2010 by LuSciousNess Quote Link to comment
orionquest Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 i ask her about her background, what shes into, her faves, movies, kahit chismis, politics (i found out girls are really into politics, believe me), sports, travelling... i dont usually talk about myself unless she asks... Quote Link to comment
dorkas Posted July 22, 2010 Share Posted July 22, 2010 basic muna syempre...bka mshock eh.... Quote Link to comment
dirigma Posted July 24, 2010 Share Posted July 24, 2010 hmmm... wala akong rule s kung anong dapat pagusapan pero meron akong rule s mga HINDI dapat pagusapan.basta politics, religion, mga kadiri at depressing e iniiwasan ko n pagusapan nmin. well, hindi nman tlaga sya rule, more on guideline lng..pero kung dinala nya dun ung usapan most likely dahan-dahan kong iibahin ang usapan.. sa mga girls ng MTC, tama b to???? Quote Link to comment
cartelkulas Posted July 24, 2010 Share Posted July 24, 2010 anything than can stimulate girl's emotion. Funny/Embarassment, tragic, past experiences. Quote Link to comment
mc_darklight Posted August 30, 2010 Share Posted August 30, 2010 anything that will interest the girl Quote Link to comment
Larry Posted August 30, 2010 Share Posted August 30, 2010 anything that will interest the girl really? Quote Link to comment
maniaclara Posted August 30, 2010 Share Posted August 30, 2010 if i'm out on a date with a fellow MTC-er, i ask stuff like...why they picked their handle/nickwhat has been their best/worst experience on MTC (dates or otherwise)who of the MTC-ers have they metwhat other interests do they have Quote Link to comment
goemon06 Posted August 31, 2010 Share Posted August 31, 2010 ... On the first date? I just be myself... Knowing more about the woman your dating... Listening to her.... And be RESPECTFUL, kahit manyak ka may SELF CONTROL ka dapat. Quote Link to comment
dark_cloud Posted August 31, 2010 Share Posted August 31, 2010 If im out with a date na pang serious relationship eh. im so gentleman. walang naughty questions. but if i want to get laid that night eh puro naughty questions ask ko sa girl. kapag kumagot eh yun na yun... Quote Link to comment
dirtypop2 Posted September 1, 2010 Share Posted September 1, 2010 (edited) all the infos on biodata Edited September 1, 2010 by dirtypop2 Quote Link to comment
RIP32M Posted September 5, 2010 Share Posted September 5, 2010 do you spit or do you swallow? Quote Link to comment
Sakristan Posted October 8, 2010 Share Posted October 8, 2010 do you spit or do you swallow? Hahaha... Sampal din on a first date makukuha mo nito Quote Link to comment
knoll1234 Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 funny, everytime I have a first date, be it in another race or my own, I feel butterflies all over. The small talk. were you come from. what college. what is the weather like. explore each other's strength and weaknesses. NO MISUNDERSTANDINGS YET. Quote Link to comment
robsalvador Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 Topic is not of top importance.. Each will be preoccupied trying to look their best.. Be in their best poise and behavior.. Try to be smart and interesting.. The best topic for me: MTC.. It has all the ingredients to start you off on the right foot.. ... "Have you heard of MTC?"... Quote Link to comment
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