Be Honest, Have You Hurt Someone?why? How?

[Miss Zelda]

yes. he's very sincere and loyal to me, it wasnt his fault. its my job, its complicated. better off as friends then

[jakeyjunkie]

Yeah. And I lost two friends just now.

[poorguy]

Stupid question but do remember that the wisest of men ask the stupid questions bwahahahha :boo:

 

Be Honest, Have you hurt someone? Why? How?

 

 

quite stupid thing i did.....i met a holland woman, also working in china, i noticed that she is quite lonely too, so i offered her my friendship, so it went well, we usually go to dinner, drink beer,....until i get so naughty in one night, while watching movie together, i kissed her.....thats the biggest mistake that i did.anyway we havent gone all the way , not yet....until she went to a business meeting in one of the province here in china, that i get so "jealous?" and i dont know why, because she is with a chinese guy during the week, ...anyway, as soon as she arrived in her apartment, kc we live just across 2 streets, i went to her apartment that night, the weather was cold, kc kakaulan lang, tapos very late na around midnight, ..."man what was i thinking that night?" maybe the loneliness got into me, or horney lang ako hehe >=D anyway whatever my reason is, i felt so bad about it...well you guess it, big explosion ...kaboom =].....well thats it, now she hunts me kc akala nya may "love" involve, pero have no guts to tell her that i just get my guard down, and not use my brain but my emotion lang =[....so i hurt her for my irresponsibility =[

[HARDRIVE]

Yes yes and yes

Lots of them

 

Her name is carol she lied to me and used me

 

I took revenge on women

I made them cry

Used them for s

And dumped them like a rubish

For 7 years I was like that

[newcityboy]

yes, my wife. told her im in love with someone else. why? i dont know why...

[jakeyjunkie]

It's usually because of my stupid pride. Yeah. Usually, and stupid.

[QTkolehiyala]

we all hurt each other.

[g_funk]

i did big time recently. why? coz i have to be honest with her and myself.

[daysleeper]

I have recently hurt someone because I told her I cannot have a relationship with her.

She has a loving husband and children and she should be thankful for that.

[marvinmc]

tanga kasi ang ka opisina ko. gustopa yatang ligawan ang fubu ko. pinaglaruan namin ni fubu ang tanga.

[misschelle]

yes..sinaktan ko siya kahit hindi ko intention.

now i'm suffering because i did a big mistake..

kinokonsensya nako..

sa huli nga naman ang pagsisisi

[TheBlackDahlia]

yes... infidelity, dishonesty, disloyalty...

i've been very bad...

[WrathViper]

yup, dami ding reasons why from being honest with self up to rebound

[Guest biancaanne]

I've hurt many people recently. The saddest part is that most of them don't know I'm hurting them.

 

I've shamed my mom because she raised me to be a good Christian, wife, mother, and daughter. I am none of the above. I don't go to church, but I believe that I am still spiritual. I may not be moral, but neither am I amoral. I cannot be immoral, because of this belief. I have not been a good wife, but I know I am a good provider. I am not a good mother, because I have not been blessed with a child yet. I have not been blessed with a marriage capable of supporting a child or two, lest my sincere wishes to raise one or two of my own flesh and blood. I am not a good daughter, because I would rather sleep, than travel to Baguio and listen to my mom complain about my dad. I would rather waste my energy on sleepless days, posting on MTC, rather than spending a few hours listening to my mom rant.

 

 

I've hurt my younger brother, my only sibling. I'm supposed to be "Ate"...but he has always been "Kuya" to me.

 

I've hurt my partner because I'm sticking it out with him because of my different definitions of "love". My love for him has turned out to be altruistic. Isn't it supposed to be consumate (referring back to Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love)? I can see myself growing old with him, being his companion for life. But now that I'm still young, and the clock is ticking, how can I survive a marriage that solely lives on companionship and commitment without any passion? I've hurt him because I'm still here even if I'm cheating on him.

 

I've hurt you, my dear, because I refuse to be just your friend. I've hurt you because I allow you to see the pain in my eyes when I know I can be much stronger than that. I've hurt you because I love you too much.

 

I've hurt all the other men that I have given myself to, and I don't mean just my body. I've hurt them because I had lied about not loving them. I loved every single one of them...even if that love lasted for just 2-4 hours.

 

 

 

I've hurt myself a lot of times...

 

...because I've never made my life simple. It has always been one complication after another.

...because I don't have any goals to look forward to in life. I live life on a day-to-day basis. I've allowed all of my dreams to fade as a sacrifice for survival.

...because I've loved too much.

...because I don't love enough.

...because I always find justification for my mistakes.

Edited April 18, 2009 by biancaanne

[malambingdxb1]

im confused coz i have 2 ex fiances wanting me back or i want one of them back. kaya i'd rather be honest to myself to let them know what's inside me kaya sila nasasaktan, im very open with communications i dont know kung sino ang pipiliin ko ... but both of them had broke my heart...and there's a lot of factors which until now i dont know to whom shall i marry.

 

so i need to save myself..i should love myself more often ...

i am still single and wandering....