What If Your Gf Cheated & Got Pregnant?

[Kharnall]

its easy to forgive , however it is much easier to Cheat in kind ( Revenge Sex ) hahahahha - just to level the playing field

[dirtypop2]

I'll end the relationship right away and upload all our sex videos on internet, of course my handsome face will be censored.

[adonis69]

That makes the three of us

that makes the 4 of us,,,

[erato]

We were all surprised to return to school from Christmas vacation to find Girl very much pregnant.

Thing is, she has an on-off-on-off relationship with her boyfriend and she had issues about having

other guys on the side.

 

I don't know what's on the guy's mind, but everyone who knows her sure is wondering if the boyfriend

is really the father.

 

To be fair to all parties concerned, I think Girl should volunteer the idea of a paternity test. If she's so

sure that her boyfriend is the father, then she won't have to worry about anything at all. Besides, it's

better to have hard, solid evidence than have the issue hanging in the air for years, with everyone

waiting 'til the kid grows up to see if he looks anything like his supposed father.

Edited January 7, 2011 by erato

[ambidextrous00]

I'm just wondering why we guys are so unforgiving and so harsh with our GFs who have cheated, and have been caught because they get pregnant.

 

And what about us? We do cheat our GFs, and just because we don't get pregnant, or have the slimmest chance of getting pregnant (unless you're like Dr. Alex Hesse -- Arnold Schwarzenegger -- in the movie "Junior" ) we can get away with it?

 

i like this post. very much

 

if my gf got pregnant, its definitely not mine hahahaha.

 

on a more serious note, it all boils down to cheating. if men get a second chance after they are caught cheating, then women should too. true, the matter of the baby is a huge difference but again, it all boils down to cheating. youre all saying yes to iwanan agad bec she got knocked up. what if she cheated but wasnt impregnated? would that be forgivable?

 

think about it. napaka unfair lang. we should keep an open mind. but i guess, for a man to sire a child as his own even if he isnt actually the father is a HUGE thing to expect. pero keep an open mind. consider evrything. almost everyone here is being sexist and unfair. kasi naman kahit na buntis sya with another man's kid, if you wanna make it work, you can make it work diba?

[thegreat]

so dapat honest na lang lahat?

[olop]

but the point of this thread (the way i understand it) is your GF cheated on you. if we want to discuss the issue of us cheating on our GF then its a totally different topic.

[complicated8]

i like this post. very much

 

if my gf got pregnant, its definitely not mine hahahaha.

 

on a more serious note, it all boils down to cheating. if men get a second chance after they are caught cheating, then women should too. true, the matter of the baby is a huge difference but again, it all boils down to cheating. youre all saying yes to iwanan agad bec she got knocked up. what if she cheated but wasnt impregnated? would that be forgivable?

 

think about it. napaka unfair lang. we should keep an open mind. but i guess, for a man to sire a child as his own even if he isnt actually the father is a HUGE thing to expect. pero keep an open mind. consider evrything. almost everyone here is being sexist and unfair. kasi naman kahit na buntis sya with another man's kid, if you wanna make it work, you can make it work diba?

I guess coz most men are providers. We can get the sluts in nudie bars & the like. Slut for me is someone who forgets the really impt people when having sex. We don't want to be in a serious relationship w/ someone who'd fool around & worse leave evidence that reminds us daily that we've been cheated upon. Why make it more difficult when there could be another who'll love you w/out the hassle of someone else's kid.

 

She'd have to be very special for me to overlook this. Even if iforgive the cheating doesn't mean that I can forget. just telling it like it is.

[complicated8]

A follow-up question, gf cheated and got pregnant. Would the gf give up her kid to be with the man you really love?

[DonRobertos]

Maybe I will accept her and her kid. True love is to accept the reality. After accept it and she still has continous have contact or relation with the other guy and maybe this time it is a wake up call. Everybody has a change to be forgiven but one is enough and two is too much.

[caloykoy22]

Forgiving might be easy, accepting may be not. it's because there is a responsibility left behind the problem that makes it worse than men cheating on women. you may love the child, but there would always be a part of you that will hate the child because it is born out of cheating.

[jgc813]

i like this post. very much

 

if my gf got pregnant, its definitely not mine hahahaha.

 

on a more serious note, it all boils down to cheating. if men get a second chance after they are caught cheating, then women should too. true, the matter of the baby is a huge difference but again, it all boils down to cheating. youre all saying yes to iwanan agad bec she got knocked up. what if she cheated but wasnt impregnated? would that be forgivable?

 

think about it. napaka unfair lang. we should keep an open mind. but i guess, for a man to sire a child as his own even if he isnt actually the father is a HUGE thing to expect. pero keep an open mind. consider evrything. almost everyone here is being sexist and unfair. kasi naman kahit na buntis sya with another man's kid, if you wanna make it work, you can make it work diba?

 

This post just struck me now as it is a reply to a previous post of mine.

 

While I agree that true love may give second chances. However, it's different in the case of a gf getting pregnant by another man. For a man to reaccept ones gf after having cheated and after having getting pregnant by another men is really "beyond the call of duty" so to say. The guy takes responsibility for a child that's not his! Hence, if we consider the aspect of fairness/unfairness, it is really unfair for a guy to take responsibility of a child that's not his.

 

Of course it is possible to make things work. Some guys even marry women with more than 1 kid, and they are real heroes if you ask me. But by regular standards, lugi ang guy in such case, and it's not sexist to say such a thing. The fact is just that women get pregnant and guys don't.

 

 

 

[jgc813]

A follow-up question, gf cheated and got pregnant. Would the gf give up her kid to be with the man you really love?

 

There are a few cases, but the more usual happening is that a mother would never leave her child behind. If a guy would accept her despite having borne a child from a different man, he would have to accept the total lumpsum -- mother and child.

 

 

 

[jgc813]

I guess coz most men are providers. We can get the sluts in nudie bars & the like. Slut for me is someone who forgets the really impt people when having sex. We don't want to be in a serious relationship w/ someone who'd fool around & worse leave evidence that reminds us daily that we've been cheated upon. Why make it more difficult when there could be another who'll love you w/out the hassle of someone else's kid.

 

She'd have to be very special for me to overlook this. Even if iforgive the cheating doesn't mean that I can forget. just telling it like it is.

 

I had love someone with 2 kids from 2 different guys. That's why I think it's NOT impossible to love and accept someone with "excess baggage."

 

I don't think it would be the same IF in the course of our relationship, she would cheat and become pregnant by someone else.

 

 

 

[complicated8]

I had love someone with 2 kids from 2 different guys. That's why I think it's NOT impossible to love and accept someone with "excess baggage."

 

I don't think it would be the same IF in the course of our relationship, she would cheat and become pregnant by someone else.

Of course it's possible when you know the deal from the start.

The problem lies in the 2nd situation.

 

There are a few cases, but the more usual happening is that a mother would never leave her child behind. If a guy would accept her despite having borne a child from a different man, he would have to accept the total lumpsum -- mother and child.

The thing is the girl didn't want a child with the biological father (borne out of cheating). But a guy who got someone else pregnant unintentionally has no problems letting go of the girl. Being responsible would be just to provide for the kid financially at the minimum.

Edited May 30, 2011 by complicated8