cutemetrix Posted January 13, 2007 Author Share Posted January 13, 2007 This Hell of a situation happened to me way back August last year.. Its has been 4 years that we were together and i thought she's already the girl that i will be spending my time till end. She lives in the province, somewhere in north and im here in manila working ( though i always find a way to be with her every week). Things change during the 1st quarter of the month last year. For some reasons we felt that the relationship was a bit cold, we argue most of the time ( pero ganun talaga siya..selosa kasi ). She was always complaining na wala na daw akong time sa kanya. For four years na umuuwi ako ng province every week para sa kanya noon niya lang nabanggit sa akin un, however we still try to work everything out..Masaya ako sa kanya. Then duamting birthday nya which was June and i was not able to attend on the exact day..I told her na babawi na lang ako once na umuwi ako ulit ng province. Then days pass through and i felt something different to her..that was august. Feeling ko parang nilalayo niya sarili niya sa akin. Its friday night and nasa bus ako pauwi ng province again..I ask her bakit lately hindi siya nagtetext or nagrerespond sa mga messages ko?? She just told me " I have a problem and you cannot help me " which really bothers me a lot from the time i red the message. I really love her and everytime na may problema siya or nasasaktan siya ay nahihirapan ako. Sabi ko sa kanya na sabihin niya sa akin kung ano ba ang nangyari or ano yung problem niya?...ilang oras ko siya kinukulit and finally here it comes..I opened my inbox and the message said " Im 2 months pregnant and hindi ikaw ang ama" F*CK, PI at lahat ng mura na pwede ko sabihin gusto ko sabihin from the moment i got that message. I cant fully express myself nung mga oras na iyon kasi nasa bus ako..Deep inside umiiyak talaga ako and kahit anong gawing kong tago sa nararamdaman ko ay hindi ko kinaya at lumuha ako sa sobrang sakit. I texted her back and asked her " Bakit mo nagawa sa akin ito?"..then she replied back saying "sorry pls layuan mo na ako at malaki ang prblema ko ngayon and ayaw ko na makadagdag ka pa or madamay ka" I tried calling her pero hindi niya sinasagot phone ko.. I immediately text my friend para may masabihan ako ng problema dahil mahirap itago sa sarili ung nararamdaman ko.. I can sense na nahihirapan ang girlfriend ko and she is deep saddened too..Hindi ko alam kung ano ang irereply ko sa sobrang sakit ng nararamdaman ko..nag isip ako ng mabuti... Hindi ko magawang magalit sa kanya kahit na gusto ko. I love her so much that i cannot hurt her even though may nagawa siyang mali sa akin..Sabi ko sa sarili ko nandito na ito eh..kung magalit man ako wala din ako magagawa at lalo lang siya mahihirapan. She was crying on the time na pinagtapat nya sa akin yun.. So I ask her kung sino yung guy pero ayaw niya sabihin at baka lalo lang gumulo...Sad thing is ayaw siya panagutan ng guy..Call me stupid bro's pero hindi ko na inisip sarili ko noon at hindi ko inisip galit ko and i was even the once who comforted her na kaya niyang lampasan yan. ( pero as i said sobrang sakit tlaga at tinatago ko lang ) We ended the relationship on the same day and we are good as friends right now.. Nagtetext kami once in a while at nagkakamustahan( mahal ko pa rin siya until now and ganun din siya ) . Pero we know within ourselves na hindi na pwede. :goatee:You earn our RESPECT and from the 3 main islands of the Philippines(Luzon, Visayas and Mindanao) WE SALUTE YOU :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
cutemetrix Posted January 13, 2007 Author Share Posted January 13, 2007 Tama ka bro madaming pekpek dyan kaya kung san sya masaya dyan sya! Problema lang pag tanda tumayo pa kaya yan??? lol! Pare marami na solusyon jan.Basta may pera walang problema :cool: :cool: Quote Link to comment
dorkwad69 Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 This happened to me. I'm just glad she got pregnant because if she didn't, I would never have known she was cheating behind my back! About 5 years later she sent me an email out of the blue asking if we could be friends again because she was unhappy that it ended so badly. I told her I'd already forgiven her and had moved on, but being friends was no longer appropriate. I know she did this to clear her own conscience rather than out of any concern for me. goes to show what a selfish person she was. Quote Link to comment
MiG-29C Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 (edited) Whoever got her pregnant, he better take responsibility for his actions. Yeah, love's not the hurting kind but it doesn't mean you're gonna be a martyr forever. Pay the price. That's what I'd do if I caught my girl cheating. Edited January 14, 2007 by MiG-29C Quote Link to comment
tonsy Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 kung sken cguro mangyare (wag nman sna),i wil dfntly let her go kaya ko ma-withstand ang sakit pero ndi sa gnyang paraan..ngayon kung ndi sya pnanagutan nung nkabuntis..well,ndi ako ang aako nun pero cguro il be there for her nlng for moral suport alm ko mhirap lunukin ang pride pero,khit ppano may pinagsmhan nman kme.. Quote Link to comment
AutoPimp Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 knock on wood.. let it stay for a while and let everythin' to cool up, then maybe if we could handle it na, we could do tha talkin'.. i could be very very very very irrationale when im mad so i want to let things coold down muna. then whatever would come up with that talk, well that's what we'll do.. this happens to me though i cant really explain how deep it hurts me since we've been together for a couple of months pa lang.. and she's here at tha states na din, though wala na kaming communication since when that happen i was just like what? 20? so i guess i wasnt able to handle it that good. not a story for me to tell anymore.. @dark_soul- dude i salute you.. you handled it tha way it should be handled.. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
AutoPimp Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 knock on wood.. let it stay for a while and let everythin' to cool up, then maybe if we could handle it na, we could do tha talkin'.. i could be very very very very irrationale when im mad so i want to let things coold down muna. then whatever would come up with that talk, well that's what we'll do.. this happens to me though i cant really explain how deep it hurts me since we've been together for a couple of months pa lang.. and she's here at tha states na din, though wala na kaming communication since when that happen i was just like what? 20? so i guess i wasnt able to handle it that good. not a story for me to tell anymore.. @dark_soul- dude i salute you.. you handled it tha way it should be handled.. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
cadbury007 Posted January 18, 2007 Share Posted January 18, 2007 v well wala tayo magagawa kung talagang di para sa isat isa.. call it a blessing in disquise and just move on, madami pa makikita na ibang babae that would truly value relationship and not put it on something stupid. charge to experience sabi nga.. move on with high spirits and show the world na kaya mo... just my nickle. :headsetsmiley: Quote Link to comment
compadrei Posted January 19, 2007 Share Posted January 19, 2007 hmmm.. the question for me would be kakayanin ko kaya kung sakin mangyari un.. sana.. sana.. sana hwag mangyari.. Quote Link to comment
amoral89 Posted January 19, 2007 Share Posted January 19, 2007 kung nangyari sa akin yun I'll assure her that we'll still be friends and maybe we can still carry our relationship forward depending on the healing process . I think what she needs during that time is some emotional support considering malaking pinasok nyang problema pero at the same time I would have to take a week out of town to release the rage away from a lot of people. If I get someone pregnant, I'll surely provide financial support; and being consistent with it, I also expect other people the same thing. Quote Link to comment
cherrrrypickerrrr Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 when thats the case i have to understand that the situation is beyond our control and we must move on. relationship must be degraded to being just friends and must not complicate anymore. Quote Link to comment
naru2ako Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 I'll have to f#&k her first. then live her!!!! Quote Link to comment
NASTYMERLIN27 Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 WELL...IT HAPPENED TO ME UNFORTUNATELY...ITS JUST THAT MY EX WAS A LATE BLOOMER..AND THE FACT WAS SHE WAS MUCH OLDER THAN ME, I GUESS SHE THOUGHT ID BE BETTER OFF AFTER HER " ACCIDENT" AND BESIDES THERE'S NOTHING MUCH YOU CAN DO BUT JUST TO "GRIN & BEAR IT"... AT LEAST I WASNT ASK TO ATTEND THE WEDDING...I HD A PRIOR ON THAT ONE WHERE I WAS ASKED TO, AND I WAS INTORDUCED TO THE GROOM AS "JUST A CLASSMATE IN COLLEGE", AND TO THINK I COULD HAVE EASILY KICKED THE GUY'S ASS RIGHT THERE...JUST HAD TO CONTROL MYSELF. BUT THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT, AS FAR SA I HEARD THEIR DOIN WELL, AT LEAST THEIR NOT AS MISERABLE AS I AM RIGHT NOW. I GUESS BEING THE GOOD GUY..ITS EITHER YOUR DEMONIZED AS EITHER GAY OR SOME SPINELESS FREAK.. I GUESS IT'S JUST THE INNER RAGE THAT BURNS INSIDE. Quote Link to comment
TheDRAGON Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 can't live with that... gotta move on somehow. Quote Link to comment
phoenix_md Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 ill make like a banana and SPLIT Quote Link to comment
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