What If Your Gf Cheated & Got Pregnant?

[tukmulin]

Hindi ko alam, napakahirap sagutin.

[gulfer]

guys it happened to me ITS HER LOST NOT MINE , gonna find a new one and move on its hard but we have to live by it thats life, life must go on and think POSITIVE may be we are not meant to each other aaahhhhhh so sad

[lonesuperman]

One night my ex asked me for a company because she has a problem. As a trying hard superman, at one zip I could be at her side when she’s in need. I immediately went to their place. When I got there she immediately get in to my car. She was in tears. I already had a gut feeling that this is not just a simple problem. I asked her what her problem is but she kept on crying. I was stunned when she told me that she got pregnant by other guy. I didn’t know what to say I’m the first person to know about it. By that time I was still hoping that she would come back to me. I didn’t have an idea that she was seeing another guy. All I thought everything is ok between us, but I didn’t think about it anymore because my major concern now is her sake.

I also learned that the other guy just used her and ran away from his responsibility. Its hard to imagine how the other person junks what all I am dreaming of. If I were in his shoes, I would be the happiest person in this world.

At first she wanted an abortion, but I strongly disagreed against it. A mistake cannot be corrected by another mistake. Eventually I made her changed her mind and also convinced her to tell about it to her family.

I love her so much and maybe I am stupid enough to shoulder her that was why I offered myself to take the responsibility, but she refused it. I asked her if she still loves me. She told me that she just loves me as a friend, she loves the other guy and she would try to fix things up between them. She also told me that there are lots of other girls out there who are more deserving for me. She just needs someone who could listen and give her sympathy. I love the girl; I want to be with her when she needs me, just like I used to do. But this time I can’t stand the situation; it seemed like it was crushing me deep inside. As much as possible I will do anything for her sake, but the pain is killing me.

We cant be friends because Im so deeply inlove with her, the pain of staying seems greater than the pain of letting go. Up to the last minute I gave her choices, should I stay or should I go? She chose me to go and have separate lives. I really feel bad, because I’m used of being with her when she is needing somebody but now I cant make it at the time that she’s really in need.

I don’t have a choice but to move on, I should have done this long time ago on our first break up, I was just too stubborn not to realize that things aren’t meant to be for both of us. This time I don’t even have an option to hope for another chance.

I learned that need is way different from love. Letting go, sometimes means accepting the fact that things aren’t meant to be.

[ivanoinks]

One night my ex asked me for a company because she has a problem. As a trying hard superman, at one zip I could be at her side when she’s in need. I immediately went to their place. When I got there she immediately get in to my car. She was in tears. I already had a gut feeling that this is not just a simple problem. I asked her what her problem is but she kept on crying. I was stunned when she told me that she got pregnant by other guy. I didn’t know what to say I’m the first person to know about it. By that time I was still hoping that she would come back to me. I didn’t have an idea that she was seeing another guy. All I thought everything is ok between us, but I didn’t think about it anymore because my major concern now is her sake.

I also learned that the other guy just used her and ran away from his responsibility. Its hard to imagine how the other person junks what all I am dreaming of. If I were in his shoes, I would be the happiest person in this world.

At first she wanted an abortion, but I strongly disagreed against it. A mistake cannot be corrected by another mistake. Eventually I made her changed her mind and also convinced her to tell about it to her family.

I love her so much and maybe I am stupid enough to shoulder her that was why I offered myself to take the responsibility, but she refused it. I asked her if she still loves me. She told me that she just loves me as a friend, she loves the other guy and she would try to fix things up between them. She also told me that there are lots of other girls out there who are more deserving for me. She just needs someone who could listen and give her sympathy. I love the girl; I want to be with her when she needs me, just like I used to do. But this time I can’t stand the situation; it seemed like it was crushing me deep inside. As much as possible I will do anything for her sake, but the pain is killing me.

We cant be friends because Im so deeply inlove with her, the pain of staying seems greater than the pain of letting go. Up to the last minute I gave her choices, should I stay or should I go? She chose me to go and have separate lives. I really feel bad, because I’m used of being with her when she is needing somebody but now I cant make it at the time that she’s really in need.

I don’t have a choice but to move on, I should have done this long time ago on our first break up, I was just too stubborn not to realize that things aren’t meant to be for both of us. This time I don’t even have an option to hope for another chance.

I learned that need is way different from love. Letting go, sometimes means accepting the fact that things aren’t meant to be.

 

 

That sucked bigtime pare, I'm all for you man. You're still willing to be with her in spite of everything she did to you. Pero if I had to give one peace of advice to you, I would say move on and search for happiness.

[bakal357]

Give her the most unforgettable sex...make her know that you are the best guy in bed... after that... LEAVE her...

[acousticevents]

i'd still choose to be with her if she still wants to be with me.

[gilghost]

nangyari na nangyari.. .partly fault mo rin bakit nag cheat GF mo... so kung mahal mo parin cya you should support her and the baby... i know it's a hard situation but then.... sino pa ba tutulong sa kanya....

[batman01]

This is worst. Biruin mo inaalala mo siya habang nakikipag sex pala siya sa iba. Syempre iwan mo na. Punta ka n lang sa mga MP para makalimutan mo siya at maghanap na rin ng iba. Alangan naman panagutan mo yung di mo anak.

[tequilasunrise]

This happened to my brother, and he was so crazy to still offer his name for the child. Good thing it didn't push through, the ex gf had a miscarriage while processing her school papers. Anyway, it really sucks when this happens. Cheating might be forgivable (might, okay), but getting pregnant? It's like dumping a cow's dung in your bf's head.

[KCR101]

I would first try to assess the situation internally; see where I've gone wrong or where I've failed as a partner. I might even ask her. This depends if I was caught off guard since I carefully select my partners. If she was a fling, I wouldn't be surprised.

 

Whether I've failed or she just succumbed to temptation, our relationship is over, and I will move on with my life.

[Kharnall]

it is an unusual situation , a friend of mine had the same predicament. my friend and i were commissioned at the same time and ive known for the fact that he was courting a gurl who was a well known figure in the favorite hangouts in cebu. the girl got pregnant but he was not the father. but since love conquers all , they got htched, married , and until now they;re both deliriuosly happy

[HARDRIVE]

I would dumped her so fast before she can even say why

 

I have no respect for cheaters

[Dr.Love]

Iwan ko, as easy as that...

[Moonwalker]

desisyon niya yun eh kaya panagutan niya...

at dahil desisyon niya yun....

 

MAGDUSA SIYA!

[donromantico]

its time to leave her...get a new GF...move on and start a new life... :hypocritesmiley:

[Chickquero]

From Askmen.com

 

She cheats

 

The granddaddy of all deal breakers: This is such a slap in the face to you, your trust, whatever you built in your relationship, and her integrity. When she cheats she encompasses almost every other deal breaker there is and compounds the problem. The second she's cheated there should be no second chances. If you give a second chance, you're cultivating bad behavior and inviting round after round of infidelity. Most people will cheat, or they won't. It's a binary condition and if you're girlfriend has cheated you've found yourself on the losing end of that deal. It's the No. 1 relationship deal breaker and you just need to walk away with your dignity intact.

[jetlag143]

run like there is no tomorrow!!!

[KapE]

I once watched a Discovery channel show about one bird species which would lay her eggs in another, smaller species' nest and let the mommy bird of that species take care of her eggs. The predatory eggs would hatch first and the chicks would oftentimes destroy the still developing original eggs. The poor mommy bird would raise the chicks of the predatory bird wondering why they look so different ..as they fly away as soon as they are able.

 

Birds can fall victim to that. Us humans? ..... hmmmmm we can do crazier things.

[sane]

a hard case, might as well let go of the girl.

[manilakano]

time for a new gf

The bad is when your wife gets preggy with another man...lawyers and all the related procedures cost a lot!!!!

[buchike]

prng pag guy ang nagkamali prang ok lng kc wlang excess baggage pero pag ung girl iba parati eh nasa kulturang pinoy ba un ganon mindset...it happened to a friend of mine at dq rin alm ang sabihin sa knya...

[batang_borax]

what's done is done...

 

i'll let her go her way and ill go my way.... i dont give second chances.....

[jhay69]

this happens to me na!! my ex claims that she got drunk on a party and before she knows it she already f#&king someone she met on the party;

 

she claims that she miss me kasi and once lang yun nangyari; unfortunately yun once eh nabuntis siya;

 

well i tried to understand pero hurt to much; and beside keep thinking about the guy who done it with her;

[doc4u]

Dump her ASAP!

[bicolana]

It just went on to prove, that she is not worthy of trust.

Wala pa ngang nakatutok na patalim eh.

 

Dump her.