scariot15 Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 It really depends but if you feel like kissing each other why not! Quote Link to comment
fleur Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 it all depends on the mood and if the two of you feels like kiss...but as much as possible dont.. Quote Link to comment
NextGen88 Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 (edited) Back in the US, yes, I usually kiss on the first date if I somewhat like the girl. Many times, the girls initiate them anyway so GO, if again I have a little feeling for her even LUST hahaha! Heck, you can round the bases many times on the first date! Since returning to the Philippines, I have been quite conservative. Not really kissing on the first date, or perhaps just on the cheeks; however, in a teasing way. It is hard to explain and teach in a forum but it never miss and it keeps the girl (and me) wanting more next time. I also found out that being a gentleman gives you more pogi points :thumbsupsmiley: for the next date, especially, if the first one was a double date with her friend and the friend's bf; on the second date the chaperon goes away! Second date is a given, still sweet kisses here and there throughtout the date. I actually like it better like this with Filipinas rather than the DIVE-DIVE-DIVE :evil: mentality in westernized societies. I LOVE PINAYS! Edited October 25, 2007 by NextGen88 Quote Link to comment
bababoom Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 NOPE....kissing for me is very intimate thing. Except if he is already my bf before our first date..... Quote Link to comment
ghost_in_you Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 i let my date decide on that. smack, french kiss or nothing at all? i wouldnt mind. normally one could sense what a woman wants. Quote Link to comment
jojo Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 yeah... why not? if i can sense if my date is willing or waiting for a kiss, then i'll go for it... pakiramdaman lang yan... Quote Link to comment
spongebobby Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 ok lang. a kiss on the cheek is usually harmless. some girls though move your head, so you catch their lips instead. i guess another relevant question is this: is it really a first date, or just another "meeting?" Quote Link to comment
TheIceMan Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 (edited) If the mood is set and the timing is right go for it... Edited November 15, 2007 by TheIceMan Quote Link to comment
KalogGuy Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 If it was a great date then why not end the night with a good kiss, right? Quote Link to comment
BallBreaker Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 a guy is lucky if he could get even a peck on the cheek from me on a first date. ... definitely waaaaay lucky if he could get much more than that. am old enough anyway. Quote Link to comment
cadbury007 Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 On first date...hmmm i do ask permission first even if I know okay lang sa date ko..iba na yung me permiso. that way.. eliminated yung word na TAKE ADVANTAGE, when she refused,you know your status already. :cry: Quote Link to comment
YeN_TaW Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 It depends on the mood i usually go for beso on a first date. pero if the opportunity is there then why not. pakiramdaman niyo muna kung gusto ng girl o nde. Quote Link to comment
kiara Posted January 4, 2008 Share Posted January 4, 2008 kissing on the first date is ok with me if i like the guy and i enjoyed the date. but of course, smack lang muna with my current SO, i was even the one who kissed him on our first date. he was really super duper sweet and funny and full of surprises that time so when it was parting time, i really can't help myself. actually, i saw the look in his eyes na that he wanted to kiss me, but pinigilan nya sarili nya.. parang may pagkatorpe kase sya eh.. so i went ahead and kissed him na lang. again, it was only a smack Quote Link to comment
pat123 Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 nagagawa niyo yan? galing niyo a.. Quote Link to comment
mr. john Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 it depends sa mood or if anu feel m, if u feel that shes ok with it, game. but if not, dont force. Quote Link to comment
spanxmaster Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 no matter how tempting (or possible) it may be, I ALWAYS avoid doing this. For the same reasons as respect and maintaining a level of delicadeza. Also, your date will respect you more for this, and might even like you more for being a gentleman. Think about it guys. Quote Link to comment
dianne09 Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 if i liked the guy on our first date its ok to kiss him.. no prob Quote Link to comment
steven_crimes Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 it all depends on the mood. of course, it has happened that i THOUGHT she wanted a kiss but she didnt pala. and vice versa Quote Link to comment
jakeyjunkie Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 Depende sa naging flow ng date niyo. If it's leading there, eh 'di ayos! Jackpot ka. Pero siyempre kung mamimilit ka at ayaw niya, bad 'yun. Quote Link to comment
thegiftedwitch Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 (edited) I used to think that it's a big no no...but i realized na it would depend on what I feel or how I feel towards the guyand I'm really friendly so I make beso even with people I've just met and i usually allow then to kiss me, basta sa cheek lngi have this reflex of punching guys who wants to kiss me *NOT on the cheek mejo magulo ata yung statement ko ah Edited January 12, 2008 by thegiftedwitch Quote Link to comment
nobody17 Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 hmm depende eh.........if you've known each other for so long prior to couritng and you both already are 'into' each other in an electric way i guess oks lang....i guess.... Quote Link to comment
hushpuppy20 Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 If you wanna kiss each other,why would you hold back anyway? Quote Link to comment
gherome Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 There are sebs nga, then why shouldnt there be kissing on a first date... Nah..Stupid logic Kidding aside, if you feel like it, then go for it.... But a bit of a concern though, if I really am serious about the girl...I prefer if she wont allow me to kiss her on the first date (beso siguro pwede). Why? Coz I would be thinking that this girl is kinda easy and if we did kiss, that might also be a norm for her on her other dates. Quote Link to comment
foxy17 Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 it depends...kiss on cheeks can be fine depends on your mood and if youre comfortable with the person... Quote Link to comment
jojobata Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 I would not hesitate to kiss on the first date if I felt a connection...more importantly if she felt a connection... I'm not the type to hold back especially if she's feeling it also - life is too short why not enjoy it Quote Link to comment
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