tsunade Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 It's hard to say " I love you" sakin these days... saying sorry is easier if it's really your fault :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
pumpkin pie Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 "i don't love you anymore." Quote Link to comment
MaDaMe_PeeYaa^ Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 hardest thing for me to say... "i cant live without you" ...lets talk about pride here Quote Link to comment
agamulach_experience2000 Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 im sorry is hard to say if you really mean it. on the other hand, saying i love you sometimes becomes routinary and such a boring word, i dont normally say i love you to my girl but my actions speak for itself. Quote Link to comment
DaChosen1 Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 I sometimes feel the phrase "I love you" has lost its true meaning or importance. I don't mean to brag, but lately I have been meeting/dating ladies of all ages saying this little phrase to me within the first five dates. I have not responded the same way because I am confused about my real feelings towards them and I do not want to mislead them if the feeling I have towards them is not really love but more sexually. I treat them well. Dinner, nice company, romantic moments, etc. etc. etc. Kiss on the first date; not just a kiss, I do a special kiss which I cannot graphically describe here. The same ladies have told me that they never been kissed like the way I kiss them before. And after the first few dates, they will then tell me they love me, and I feel bad I cannot respond the same way because the phrase has a lot of meaning to me. Quote Link to comment
DaChosen1 Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 I sometimes feel the phrase "I love you" has lost its true meaning or importance. I don't mean to brag, but lately I have been meeting/dating ladies of all ages saying this little phrase to me within the first five dates. I have not responded the same way because I am confused about my real feelings towards them and I do not want to mislead them if the feeling I have towards them is not really love but more sexually. I treat them well. Dinner, nice company, romantic moments, etc. etc. etc. Kiss on the first date; not just a kiss, I do a special kiss which I cannot graphically describe here. The same ladies have told me that they never been kissed like the way I kiss them before. And after the first few dates, they will then tell me they love me, and I feel bad I cannot respond the same way because the phrase has a lot of meaning to me.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>I forgot to say that it seems the phrase has become so easy to say; at least in my experience and perspective that is why the ladies could say it so soon. I typically get scared off when they start saying the phrase. Quote Link to comment
hiddenself Posted April 7, 2006 Share Posted April 7, 2006 I sometimes feel the phrase "I love you" has lost its true meaning or importance. I don't mean to brag, but lately I have been meeting/dating ladies of all ages saying this little phrase to me within the first five dates. I have not responded the same way because I am confused about my real feelings towards them and I do not want to mislead them if the feeling I have towards them is not really love but more sexually. I treat them well. Dinner, nice company, romantic moments, etc. etc. etc. Kiss on the first date; not just a kiss, I do a special kiss which I cannot graphically describe here. The same ladies have told me that they never been kissed like the way I kiss them before. And after the first few dates, they will then tell me they love me, and I feel bad I cannot respond the same way because the phrase has a lot of meaning to me.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> i say don't take the expression of affection too seriously. if you can kiss just about anyone (no matter how special YOU think that kiss is), then it should not surprise you if people can throw the amorous line haphazardly. you should not trust their line if they cannot trust your kiss. Quote Link to comment
DaChosen1 Posted April 10, 2006 Share Posted April 10, 2006 i say don't take the expression of affection too seriously. if you can kiss just about anyone (no matter how special YOU think that kiss is), then it should not surprise you if people can throw the amorous line haphazardly. you should not trust their line if they cannot trust your kiss. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>I do kiss, if I am somewhat attracted to the girl and I want to explore just a bit more. How would I know if they really meant what they say? Perhaps, I should say the real reason why I get scared with the term is that a girl hurt my feelings after uttering those words. How do I know? Am I too paranoid? Quote Link to comment
airforce_chick Posted April 10, 2006 Share Posted April 10, 2006 If I were to choose between the two saying you are sorry is harder.Telling I love you can be in other means not just the word itself.But sorry on the other hand must be direct... Quote Link to comment
anjinsan Posted April 10, 2006 Share Posted April 10, 2006 saying im sorry is easier than the other one. the words i.l.u. is kinda sacred to me and i just dont utter those words ng basta basta. Quote Link to comment
shodandille Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 "I love you" those three words scare me so much. it's easier to say i'm sorry because you know what you're giving up and what you're hurting -- your pride. but when u say "i love you" it's your heart that you're putting on the line. there's the possibility of rejection. you dont know how the other person will react when u finally say this to them. and, of course, its human nature to fear the unknown Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 Neither is easy to say. However, between the two, it's easier to say "I'm sorry" than to say "I love you." Quote Link to comment
frithjoanne Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 it's hard to say i love you if you don't know what the other person's reaction would be.. Quote Link to comment
Sweetie_Mar Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 I do kiss, if I am somewhat attracted to the girl and I want to explore just a bit more. How would I know if they really meant what they say? Perhaps, I should say the real reason why I get scared with the term is that a girl hurt my feelings after uttering those words. How do I know? Am I too paranoid?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yah i really agreed with you Mr. DaChosen1. If someone told us the phrase "I LOVE U" we really dont know if its really sincere or just mindless words. I did felt inlove before and If I said "I LOVE U" its not just an ordinary words for me. And i can say its really hard to say the phrase if i dont mean it. I will say 'IM Sorry' if someone will say to me 'I LOVE U' and i dont feel to respond the same. Regarding to this matter "Action speaks louder than Words" is not really applicable for me. Other girls based the feelings of the guy in his actions so when the guy kissed the girl or more than that etc... she may concluded that the guy loved him. But infact it was just "LUST" or just drove by being "HORNY". Anyway its up to ourselves to determine if its LUST or LOVE This is just my opinion and I know all of us have different perspectives. Hmmm...actually Im still confused. Im just want to ask some tips from u guys. When did u say that u are really inloved with a girl? Quote Link to comment
bootylicious214 Posted April 12, 2006 Share Posted April 12, 2006 i guess both for the person who has too much pride Quote Link to comment
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