punkus Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 depende siguro...if the relationship is worth the sacrifice bakit hindi....as long as you address the problems and rectify them para hindi na maulit...pero kung talagang wala naman pinatutunguhan yung relationship nyo then why bother.... Quote Link to comment
best_X_girlfriend Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 ...because our relationship deserves another chance. Quote Link to comment
Paulo_Go Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 ey, I think no one is perfect. I'd say I would give it another chance. There's a saying that goes like "...sometimeswe meet people due to fate, and sometimes, this people are here to make us a perfect human being." My ex-wife cheated on me a couple of times, I gave her 2 chance...however, Fate plays an important tool of making us a better man/woman. my lesson in life was: Attention ... why? I was away most often becoz of my work. and maybe this is the lesson that I should learn...Give attention to the one u love. Quote Link to comment
Chad Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 It's happened twice. And though we've broken up, I told her I'd wait and if she wants to, we can give it another try. Yeah yeah, I can see the martyr looks and all that. Hahahahahaha. And the famous saying "if she cheats once, it probably won't happen again, but if she cheats twice, it'll probably happen a 3rd time" is being bandied about repetitively. Well, what the hell. I love the girl. So yes, another chance. Though if we do get back together, it'll be the last (if ever she does it again). Quote Link to comment
alexiv Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 no never: like a song that : in the end it doesnt even matter: let go live another day there may be scars left from that relationship but its worth it.. you learned something to make you grow stronger and know what to do in a relationship:sabi nga ang isang paso pag nabasag, basag na yan kahit i-glue mo o pagdikitin ng anuman.. may lamat na yan... Quote Link to comment
ryc100 Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 ive read all your post and i can say that all of you have good points,maybe it all boils down to the person being cheated on,does he/she love the person so much that they are willing to sacrifice for the relationship. for me my answer would be go,its easy to forgive but hard to forget.a broken heart would never heal fully(based from my personal experience po) for me the hardest thing to do is to trust a person with all our heart.just imagine what the feeling is if that guy or girl would just throw it all away and for what? lust? the fact that they cheated means that they dont give a dam about the relationship anymore.. well thats my own opinion po,and i would like to apologize if i sound so bitter,na experience kona kasi and it almost cost me everything i have.... :cry: Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 10, 2005 Share Posted October 10, 2005 Sometimes, by giving a second chance it will make your relationship more stronger..... Kasi the more your partner will realize na hindi mo siya ganun kadali i give up, the more love and respect you can get from him. Kasi if you will go and find a new partner, how will you be sure na ung new partner mo will not do the same? Unlike kung mag stay ka na lang, andyan na ung foundation ninyo e. Minsan talagang mapanukso lang talaga ang buhay. Just try to find out what precipitated him to do that, baka naman kasi ikaw din ang may pagkukulang. Quote Link to comment
Guest simply_miss Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 depende sa degree ng pagiging unfaithful ng lalaki. sa akin pinatawad ko so many times, mahal ko kasi kuno, he did tried to make up for it, pero after a while again, uulit na naman.. the 5th time he did it, i said quits and he is the only guy i hated until this day. most of the time am friends with my ex.... pero dahil extreme ang ginawa niya, ayaw ko nang makita ni anino niya. i thought it will make our relationship stronger pero hindi din, and the more bad side of it, na trauma ako....bad effect sa new relationships ko after that kasi minsan napapraning ako, lagi kong naiisip na baka may ginagawang kalokohan ang bf ko.... good thing na get over ko yun, the last relationship helped me overcome it......simply because made me feel so loved, special and he showed me his undying devotion. Quote Link to comment
buttakkal Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 sus.....pag nagloko ang babae (ibig sabihin kuman toot ng ibang lalaki) sipain nyo na.....dami babae sa mundo....umaapaw...dami pa bata....ogag lang ang lalaki na hindi maniniwala rito.... seriously, i know of a guy who let go his gf's tryst with an office mate. He forgave the girl. One time the bf overheard the other guy boasting about how soft the gf was...(parang siopao..)...the bf got super duper mad that he stabbed the officemate right there and then.... talk about excess baggage dudes.. Quote Link to comment
enduranz Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 Nope. Unless he kills or publicly denounces the woman ( or in your case, man) No. But serouisly, no. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Christ forgave our sins, who are we not to give someone ( husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend ) another chance. Is that the price he/she must have to pay? :sick: Quote Link to comment
honey Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 for me, i can forgive the person if he is really sorry for what he did. mahirap kasi magpatawad kung nde naman nagsosorry di ba? i know men have this unwritten rule pag nahuli ng mga girlfriend na nanloloko, wag na wag aamin kahit anong mangyari. for some girls, this works...but for me, best na sabihin or aminin mo na yung totoo. it's more insulting kasi he cheated na nga tapos magsisinungaling pa. but that's just me. im sure kanya-kanya yan... Quote Link to comment
Switlass Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 (edited) Christ forgave our sins, who are we not to give someone ( husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend ) another chance. Is that the price he/she must have to pay? :sick: Anyway. This is my opinion. To Err is human, to forgive divine, and though I try, I'm far from that. If you can be with someone who has shared physical pleasure with another while telling you she loves you, then you're a better person than I will ever be. Or more inlove than I ever have been. Edited October 12, 2005 by Switlass Quote Link to comment
simple_denise Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 For me, depende siguro sa stages nang pagche-cheat....I can forgive him and be back in each other's arm, pero baka matagalan bago maibalik ang trust ko sa kanya...pag hindi ko na kayang ibalik...I better let it go. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 ... i know men have this unwritten rule pag nahuli ng mga girlfriend na nanloloko, wag na wag aamin kahit anong mangyari. for some girls, this works...but for me, best na sabihin or aminin mo na yung totoo. it's more insulting kasi he cheated na nga tapos magsisinungaling pa. but that's just me. im sure kanya-kanya yan...<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Mas ok pa rin talaga ung wag kang aamin kahit na on the spot e nahuli ka na...hindi naman sa gusto mong magsinungaling sa girl, pero ayaw mo lang saktanlalo ung feelings niya. Kasi kapag hindi mo aaminin, ire-retain mo pa rin ung "feeling of doubt" sa girl na baka nga hindi tutuo na niloloko ka niya, at kahit paano mas okey na ung feeling na ganyan, kesa kapag totally inamin ng guy, mabubuo na talaga sagirl ung notion na niloko mo talaga siya, and mas masakit sa girl yun. Quote Link to comment
miss_b Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 may napood akong movie, local lang, i cant remember the title, the father adviced his daughter about accepting your partner who cheated on you. isipin mo na lang na mas importante yung pagmamahal mo dun sa tao keysa sa panloloko nya. if u know in urself that u love ur partner, then learn to accept and forgive him/her ng buong buo. make a fresh start with full of love & trust to each other leaving the bitter things behind. its hard to heal the wounds (based on experience ), u just have to deal with it if u want to keep d relationship. pero kung paulit ulit ka ng niloloko, aba, iwanan mo na yan noh!!! :grr: Quote Link to comment
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