Risen521 Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 i'm sorry..and goodbye. especially if he's really nice Quote Link to comment
agamulach_experience2000 Posted March 19, 2007 Share Posted March 19, 2007 anak ng pating. sakit nito ah.pero nahirapan din ako sabihin yan. ts hard to say "im sorry" especially if ur rly born to be a brat. The truth hurts sometimes but saying them will lessen the pain. Its really hard to say something which means a lot to you. Especially if it means letting the person go. Another thing, is there a right way of apologizing this way for loving a person? It seems really absurd, but luckily I had the guts to have said it. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted April 13, 2007 Share Posted April 13, 2007 no.. there's no space for second chances. History repeats itself. I beg to disagree . Don't let your relationship become a history because of that one mistake. Quote Link to comment
gigle Posted April 13, 2007 Share Posted April 13, 2007 Oh, not yet happen to me.... in case, yes i will keep the relationship go smooth sailing and rock. Quote Link to comment
shy_chic Posted April 13, 2007 Share Posted April 13, 2007 Cheat as in there's a third party o cheat as in sa ibang bagay like cheating sa exam? Naniniwala akong everyone deserves a second chance. Subukan munang pag-usapan at ayusin. Quote Link to comment
tabouki Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 dont get mad, get even naaah- bad yan, forgive and forget na lang. yung forget ang mahirap. broken trust. hard to put back the pieces. kusang inamin ba o nahuli mo? nagdeny nagpalusot ba muna bago tuluyang umamin? can you feel the sincerity in his/her repentance? hirap magbitaw ng salita... Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 HAPPENED TO ME ONCE,YUNG NOGNOG,KUBA AT PANGET KO PANG EX ANG GUMAWA SAKIN KAPAL NG FES! NIWEIS.. I TRIED TO FORGIVE HIM ..TRIED TO WORK IT OUT.. PERO DI NA TALAGA BUMALIK FEELINGS KO FOR HIM,AS IN TALAGANG NAWALAN NA KO NG GANA SA KANYA...UTTER DISGUST NA LANG TALAGA ANG NATIRA. Quote Link to comment
mizuno882004 Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 What you won't know won't hurt! so don't try to find out too, it's better to keep keep complicated things simple...less ache, less pain, full gain...bright, right? Quote Link to comment
male_spud Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 Been there, done that. Tried to work it out with him, but in the course of this working-out phase, I strayed as well. So I swore, never try to work it out again. lol On a serious note, yeah, its easy to forgive of course, you love the person eh. but the trust and commitment? they'll never be the same. i agree... but 2nd chances should always be given... if your married... even more important for 2nd chances... wag lang masyadong magpaloko... hehehe... kaya dapat wag mahuli Quote Link to comment
flipchiq Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 all my exes cheated on me but i stayed beside them after all. pero what did they do? they still dumped me! now ive learned not to trust anybody. :cry: Quote Link to comment
tum0y Posted April 14, 2007 Share Posted April 14, 2007 it depends on the person cguro... Quote Link to comment
luvsex Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 no way... i don't cheat, and i don't like it done to me. Quote Link to comment
grayle Posted April 26, 2007 Share Posted April 26, 2007 Sometimes it gets more complicated specially if there are other people who'll get hurt (i.e. children). It's so much easier to leave a person if there are no strings attached. But sometimes, specially if there are kids envolved, people would prefer a stable family (or the appearance of it) than loyalty. Quote Link to comment
Boysbe Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 You can never find someone whos trustworthy nowadays, so either you give him/her a taste of something that you, yourself can only guarantee, or cheat back.. Quote Link to comment
SugarPrincess Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 ill try my best to save the relationship..... kung wala na pag'asa... sorry.. Quote Link to comment
Mamang Tahimik Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 Yes, if I love her, i'll give her a second chance. Quote Link to comment
Brando_Matias Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 Depends on the level of the relationship you're sharing... Quote Link to comment
product_specialist Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 you should probably ask my partner..i did it once..she gave me a chance.. so it wud really be fair if i do the same.. Quote Link to comment
Yona Posted April 28, 2007 Share Posted April 28, 2007 simple lang naman...masaya ka pa ba?comfortable ka pa ba sa partner mo?worth ba na pakisamahan ang cheater? life is too short... Quote Link to comment
kikay28 Posted April 28, 2007 Share Posted April 28, 2007 it really hurts when your partner says that nothing's goin' on when in fact there is...add insult to injury when the cheating is very evident & he doesn't seem to care at all...second chance, yes but not a third...lalo na pag nawala na yung amor mo sa partner mo, it would be very impossible to save what's left... :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
katasan Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 my wife cheated on me, i forgave her but the pain remains, whenever we fight it will always comes back to my mind. its easy to forgive but hard to forget. after sometime , you will realize that the relationship is not worth continuing even if you have kidz. your love for her will not be the same and i don't think you will still be happy. Quote Link to comment
grayle Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 my wife cheated on me, i forgave her but the pain remains, whenever we fight it will always comes back to my mind. its easy to forgive but hard to forget. after sometime , you will realize that the relationship is not worth continuing even if you have kidz. your love for her will not be the same and i don't think you will still be happy. I have an uncle who's in this kind of situation. The way they have things set up right now is that they still live under one roof because of their son, but they have 2 seperate bedrooms and live completely seperate lives apart from each other. So far, the setup is working naman. My cousin just graduated form college anyway, so he kinda understands the situation. Quote Link to comment
putput0626 Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 it depends on the person cguro... I agree and depends on the gravity of the situation Sometimes it gets more complicated specially if there are other people who'll get hurt (i.e. children). It's so much easier to leave a person if there are no strings attached. But sometimes, specially if there are kids involved, people would prefer a stable family (or the appearance of it) than loyalty. But only upto a certain point. Quote Link to comment
dixiechiq Posted May 4, 2007 Share Posted May 4, 2007 he cheated, slept with a whore during our anniv, flirts with others sa text. i'm here. still here. i kept our 4year relationship not coz i feel bad or hinayang with time we spent together but rather coz, as rare as it goes, i know everyone deserves a second chance. Quote Link to comment
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