friendly0603 Posted February 28, 2008 Share Posted February 28, 2008 what if you don't believe in monogamy or if you reserve love for one partner but just sex for others? losing the one you love is what you don't want but losing the others is ok. Just a phase maybe that each person goes thru. what if commitment is not something you are capable of? What can you offer the one you love? Quote Link to comment
Tigershark Posted February 28, 2008 Share Posted February 28, 2008 depende sa degree ng kasalanan nya, pero kung sa feeling ko kahit patawarin ko sya tapos her deeds would still haunt us, e let go ko na lang sya. Quote Link to comment
gigolojoe Posted February 28, 2008 Share Posted February 28, 2008 no.. a cheater will always cheat Quote Link to comment
ckgo Posted February 29, 2008 Share Posted February 29, 2008 i'd let him go... wala naman magandang return ang pagiging martyr diba? Quote Link to comment
guyontheprowl Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 to say I'm sorry knowing that you really hurt her! Quote Link to comment
kyubi9tails Posted March 2, 2008 Share Posted March 2, 2008 a playah will always b a playah.. Quote Link to comment
pac-manoy Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Most people who responded here says "NO" to second chance. But I truly doubt if thats what they're going to do when time comes that this thing is going to happen to them. It is not that easy to let someone go, no matter what he did, especially if you truly love that person. correct ka talaga jan.....bkt ba tau nagpapakagago. We can forgive but can we forget? And if you don't forget, then you'll always be uneasy and suspicious. Hay lang talaga ang tao. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 (edited) Heh heh, maybe that's what you did. Love in a relationship is between two people. If that other person cheated on you, then it hurts all the more because they've basically spat on your feelings for them. Your love was a joke to them. All that time being in a relationship with them, all those "I love you's" were nothing but words. You let her go, you'll hurt, you'll grieve...but you'll get over it and move on. Only the weak try to cling to dead relationship and believe the lies the cheater tells. There is no "okey lang" when it comes to betrayal. If you will ask those people who got cheated by their partners, alam nila na ginagago sila ng ka partner nila, that their partners are just plain liars, that they will grieve and get hurt more. But why they are still with these cheaters? Hindi kaya dahil sa kahit na nagloloko ung partner nila, eh masaya pa rin siya kapag silang dalawa na lang ang magkasama? Hindi kaya dahil hindi nya makita sa iba ung mga traits na nagustuhan nya sa partner nya ngayun? Sometimes, it is better to grieve but happy, than to not to grieve at all but sad. IMO, to keep or to let go a relationship will depend kung anong naging reason ng panloloko niya. You just don't let go because he cheat, but you must "clearly understand" first the real reason why he did that before you come up with a conclusion. Edited March 4, 2008 by Mike Chester Quote Link to comment
lioness Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 hard for me to say i love you to someone, except of course, sa immediate family members. Quote Link to comment
qtguy888 Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 as the song goes "its hard for me to say im sorry" Quote Link to comment
qtguy888 Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 simple lang... get even. hehehe Quote Link to comment
ligtasan Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 (edited) If you will ask those people who got cheated by their partners, alam nila na ginagago sila ng ka partner nila, that their partners are just plain liars, that they will grieve and get hurt more. But why they are still with these cheaters? Hindi kaya dahil sa kahit na nagloloko ung partner nila, eh masaya pa rin siya kapag silang dalawa na lang ang magkasama? Hindi kaya dahil hindi nya makita sa iba ung mga traits na nagustuhan nya sa partner nya ngayun? Sometimes, it is better to grieve but happy, than to not to grieve at all but sad. IMO, to keep or to let go a relationship will depend kung anong naging reason ng panloloko niya. You just don't let go because he cheat, but you must "clearly understand" first the real reason why he did that before you come up with a conclusion. If you made some mistakes in your relationship and think that's what made them cheat then fine. Try to work it out. But ask yourself: why couldn't you have talked about this first? Why did she cheat before trying to work things out? if it's your fault that you didn't see it coming or ignored her when she tried to work things out before she cheated on you, you didn't deserve her. You were too wrapped up in yourself to be a good partner for her. But if you were willing to move Heaven and Earth just to be with her. If you sacrificed so much to make things work and she still betrayed you. Why stay? What? you think maybe you can change things? That they won't cheat again if you "work things out"? That garbage only happens in the bad romantic movies they make here. They cheated on you. They passed the point of no return. Too bad, so sad. Grieve the loss, suck it up, move on. Bottom line: She betrayed you. She lied to you. She did not love you as much as you loved her. Whatever attraction that got you two together is a moot point. It's in past. If you insist on clinging to what amounts to a lie then go ahead. Be a doormat. Let people walk all over you. When she cheats on you again and does the same act a second time, forgive her yet again. Be a fool. Edited March 4, 2008 by ligtasan Quote Link to comment
Tiara Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 I love you. I can't even remember the last time I said those words Quote Link to comment
dixiechiq Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 i love you... only because i know, he wouldn't say it back. and he would just shrug it off and forget about it. or worst, "oo i love you as a FRIEND din..." wtf Quote Link to comment
double_trouble Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 "I'm Sorry" is really hard for me to say Quote Link to comment
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