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[macaron]

Hi guys! Need some advice regarding two TG escorts na nakausap ko. 

1. First person na nakausap ko, let's call her A. Nakita ko yung TG post niya na nagpatest siya sa isang social hygiene clinic sa SAIL, which is good because that means she prioritizes her own safety as well as nung client. Tinanong ko rin siya and nagpapa test diya sa once a month doon. For the rates, reasonable naman and meron din overnight option pero masakit yung damage. Malaki yung bayad for transpo fee (1K) pero legit naman siya according sa isang GM na nakausap ko. May mga restrictions nga lang siya, and need pa mag dagdag ng additional fee if gusto ma bypass yung mga restrictions na yon.

2. Second person, let's call her S. Less restrictions and mas sulit yung mga packages na inooffer niya for the price. Mas mura yung rates and may overnight option din na mas mura compared kay A. I asked her kung nagpapa test siya, and ang sabi lang niya is "never pa daw siya hindi nagpa CD" but regardless of that, may chance pa rin na carrier siya and mahawaan kahit naka CD pa. So I informed her about the free testing na meron sa mga social hygene clinics din. I even sent her a link nung SAIL clinic. Tapos ang sabi lang niya is, "madali lang yan. go and buy for me"

Looks wise, maganda naman sila pareho. Nakita ko na yung face ni A and S sa post nila. Mas prefer ko si S in terms of looks, but I'm concerned by the fact na hindi siya nagpapa test and unwillingness to go to any clinic like SAIL or LoveYourself na may free testing. Meron daw sa Watsons ng mga HIV testing kit and sinasabihan pa niya ako na bilan ko daw siya. I looked up online sa Watsons kaso parang wala naman.

There are only two places na alam kong may HIV self test kit. Una is yung sa mga social hygiene clinics nga, but the person has to go there personally or teleconsult doon sa clinic para mabigyan. The second one is yung self testing kits dito sa https://hivtestkit.ph/ pero may nabasa ako di naman FDA approved yung Fujibio HIV Test Kit, so no good siya.

May mga ganyan ba talagang tao na hindi willing magpa testing para sa sarili nilang kalusugan, or wala lang talagang pake sa possible hawa na pwede nila maispread sa ibang tao? Ako pa mismo gagawa ng effort para mapatesting si person S so na off ako doon.

Or siguro stick na lang muna ako with mga kilala nang spa dito kasi nasubok ko na yun.

Salamat sa sasagot!

Edited November 21, 2024 by macaron

[DrSuccubuslovesaprodite]

On 8/13/2024 at 2:37 PM, Mikeeboy25 said:

Hi, Guys! Just an update as I quit to this kind of activity.i didn’t hesistate to get a consultation.  I went to dr.g yang this afternoon told him about the encounter I had with a sex worker recently  whereinthe “Thera” just gave me a bbbj oral without protection. He was like oh no, kelan pa? 4days ago doc I said and sabi nya sayang if 72hrs pa baka mabigyan pa kita ng shot ng pep etc. then he checked my penis there was a discharge inside waiting to come out in a few more days postive for gono/ chlamydia buti nagpunta ko kay dr yang. Lmao gave me a shot of antibiotic and 3 antibiotics to take for 10 days! Grabe bbbj lng yun thanks to boss @vanderboy for recommending to get a consultation. Sa mga gm get tested for peace of mind  mga thera ngaun Ssbhin sayo safe sila pero they’re not sure. Ingat Ingat 

Brother hm inabot consultation and that antibiotic shot

[plug]

On 11/20/2024 at 2:52 PM, coorgi said:

How does one prepare for intercourse if one is afraid of sti or std. Any meds? Or.....

Hindi na ata kailangan mag prepare ka kung takot ka na rin lang makakuha ng sakit. Kasi possible baka hindi ka makaraos thinking baka may maluha ka habang nag sesex kayo. Pwede rin lumambot sa takot kahit naka cd.

I think the first thing to do is to get a girl/thera/mpa na tiwala kang malinis para mawala ang takot mo.

I have my own way gaya ng nangyari sa amin ni nurupist. She was about to start the es at sinabihan ko di ako hahalik at magpa bj at ako na lang gagalaw at papatong.  Sabi agad "marahil nagkasakit ka na". Marahil part ng ritual niya so nagsarili muna siya facing me while I prepare my thing. Marahil nag init kasabi sabi "o sige ipasok mo na sa pepe ko". Siyempre hindi ko sinunod at wala pa ngang cd. Ang thinking ko marahil nagtiwala siya na maingat ako sa sarili so she would take the risk.

Minsan we have to take the risk dahil di mo naman buong kilala yang mga tinitikman mo.

[plug]

On 11/22/2024 at 5:06 AM, macaron said:

Hi guys! Need some advice regarding two TG escorts na nakausap ko. 

1. First person na nakausap ko, let's call her A. Nakita ko yung TG post niya na nagpatest siya sa isang social hygiene clinic sa SAIL, which is good because that means she prioritizes her own safety as well as nung client. Tinanong ko rin siya and nagpapa test diya sa once a month doon. For the rates, reasonable naman and meron din overnight option pero masakit yung damage. Malaki yung bayad for transpo fee (1K) pero legit naman siya according sa isang GM na nakausap ko. May mga restrictions nga lang siya, and need pa mag dagdag ng additional fee if gusto ma bypass yung mga restrictions na yon.

2. Second person, let's call her S. Less restrictions and mas sulit yung mga packages na inooffer niya for the price. Mas mura yung rates and may overnight option din na mas mura compared kay A. I asked her kung nagpapa test siya, and ang sabi lang niya is "never pa daw siya hindi nagpa CD" but regardless of that, may chance pa rin na carrier siya and mahawaan kahit naka CD pa. So I informed her about the free testing na meron sa mga social hygene clinics din. I even sent her a link nung SAIL clinic. Tapos ang sabi lang niya is, "madali lang yan. go and buy for me"

Looks wise, maganda naman sila pareho. Nakita ko na yung face ni A and S sa post nila. Mas prefer ko si S in terms of looks, but I'm concerned by the fact na hindi siya nagpapa test and unwillingness to go to any clinic like SAIL or LoveYourself na may free testing. Meron daw sa Watsons ng mga HIV testing kit and sinasabihan pa niya ako na bilan ko daw siya. I looked up online sa Watsons kaso parang wala naman.

There are only two places na alam kong may HIV self test kit. Una is yung sa mga social hygiene clinics nga, but the person has to go there personally or teleconsult doon sa clinic para mabigyan. The second one is yung self testing kits dito sa https://hivtestkit.ph/ pero may nabasa ako di naman FDA approved yung Fujibio HIV Test Kit, so no good siya.

May mga ganyan ba talagang tao na hindi willing magpa testing para sa sarili nilang kalusugan, or wala lang talagang pake sa possible hawa na pwede nila maispread sa ibang tao? Ako pa mismo gagawa ng effort para mapatesting si person S so na off ako doon.

Or siguro stick na lang muna ako with mga kilala nang spa dito kasi nasubok ko na yun.

Salamat sa sasagot!

Palagay ko di mo na dapat pansinin yung mga ganoong mga provider kasi in doubt ka na. Doon nga sa may tiwala ka you're still taking the risk kaya nag papa check up ka pa rin.

[vanderboy]

On 11/22/2024 at 11:43 PM, DrSuccubuslovesaprodite said:

Brother hm inabot consultation and that antibiotic shot

Answering on his behalf since I've gone to the same doctor before.

The consult costs around 1.5k, while the meds would likely costs you around 3k+ for all the antibiotics, all in all prepare roughly 5k.

Assumption that you're not getting the hpv shot + pep.

[vanderboy]

4 hours ago, plug said:

Palagay ko di mo na dapat pansinin yung mga ganoong mga provider kasi in doubt ka na. Doon nga sa may tiwala ka you're still taking the risk kaya nag papa check up ka pa rin.

Legit, when in doubt, pull out!

[Kalmado]

May nabasa ako sa reddit posted 6 days ago, another GM tinamaan ng STD. If you are looking for signs to leave baka ito na yun.

I've been thinking of saying goodbye to this hobby for sometime now. Nalessen ko sya throughout the years pero ang hirap i-quit. At least finding this thread gives me more reason hehe

[fontliner]

mukang madami pa din nadadali dito a hahaha just passing by, vacation sa pinas kaya naicip sumilip dito hahaha

ingats mga GMs, mukang may kumakalat pa din dito sa mtc!

[vanderboy]

On 11/28/2024 at 6:03 PM, fontliner said:

mukang madami pa din nadadali dito a hahaha just passing by, vacation sa pinas kaya naicip sumilip dito hahaha

ingats mga GMs, mukang may kumakalat pa din dito sa mtc!

Ayun o, nabuhay ang account ni boss!

Never matatapos ang pagkalat, hanggang bawas lang talaga.

Ingat bossing!

[Mangkanor3]

Mag ingat

[Pervertus Maximus]

On 2/11/2024 at 11:33 AM, John8 said:

Thanks for the comprehensive and informative post! Was just curious, for skin contact does it need to be open wounds or even simple skin contact can also transfer some sickness? 

what the fuck do you care? you're gonna die soon anyway, you 70 year old faggot !    

[Memento Mori]

Hello fellow GMs. I have been in MTC since 2017. But I signed up for a new MTC just to post in this thread/section of the forum.

sorry if medyo malabo or disoriented yung construction ng post na to since medyo di ko parin tanggap yung situation na alam ko naman ding ako din ang at fault.

firstly, may be this is the universe punishing me for being unfaithful to a good marriage.

had been on and off to this hobby of spakol/MPs since 2017 at usually solo gaming lang at wala talagang nakakaalam.

Sabi ko lagi sa sarili ko every after session Last na to last na to.

and then just this week. After an MP session a couple of days went by… Tapos one morning just noticed some “pimple like” lesions sa may pubic area ko. Peri nung una sabi ko baka sa pag kaka shave ko lang kasi madalas talaga ako nag sshave ng pubes. Syempre praning pero sabi ko “hmm nag condom naman ako. Baka nga irritation lang siguro..”

tapos after a day lang napansin ko parang medyo iba na parang may burning sensation na sa area na may pimple hanggang sa ilang days pa nakalipas I felt burning sensation from the area papuntang balls ko. And yung lymph nodes ko sa bandang singit swollen and tender din.
Tapos ayun syempre nag search search muna ako YT, google, etc. Kasi minsan lumalabas baka folliculitis lang pero madalas talaga na same sa nararamdaman ko is Herpes. 

Until today finally,  went to a STI Doctor, para akong nagconfess sa mga kagagaguhan ko and when the Doc examined my genital area ilang segundo palang “Onga, herpetic lesions nga ito. We need to start antiviral meds and some antibiotics, you will need to have shots of HPV vaccine and blood screening for HIV and other STDs.”

Tumigil mundo ko for ilang seconds na parang nabibingi ako. Parang nag flashback lahat ng mga ginawa ko. Kasi even di pa sinasabi ng Doctor alam ko na once na nakakuha ka ng HSV it will stay dormant sa katawan mo… forever.

Sabi ko nalang sa sarili ko “ What the fuck have I done to my life. Paano ko to sasabihin sa asawa ko.”

Now I am devasted. I feel sick to my stomach habang iniinom ko yung first dose ko ng acyclovir at cloxacillin habang nag ttype at binabasa yung brochure ng clinic about STDs.

Di ko alam gagawin Im at lost and kaya ko na post to kasi if ever man may katulad ko na situation.. how did you deal with it?

and sa mga nag babalak na pumasok sa “hobby” na to.. make sure you understand na not all STDs maiiwasan ng just wearing a condom.

Sana may nag advice sakin dati pa… 

 

[vanderboy]

11 hours ago, Memento Mori said:

Hello fellow GMs. I have been in MTC since 2017. But I signed up for a new MTC just to post in this thread/section of the forum.

sorry if medyo malabo or disoriented yung construction ng post na to since medyo di ko parin tanggap yung situation na alam ko naman ding ako din ang at fault.

firstly, may be this is the universe punishing me for being unfaithful to a good marriage.

had been on and off to this hobby of spakol/MPs since 2017 at usually solo gaming lang at wala talagang nakakaalam.

Sabi ko lagi sa sarili ko every after session Last na to last na to.

and then just this week. After an MP session a couple of days went by… Tapos one morning just noticed some “pimple like” lesions sa may pubic area ko. Peri nung una sabi ko baka sa pag kaka shave ko lang kasi madalas talaga ako nag sshave ng pubes. Syempre praning pero sabi ko “hmm nag condom naman ako. Baka nga irritation lang siguro..”

tapos after a day lang napansin ko parang medyo iba na parang may burning sensation na sa area na may pimple hanggang sa ilang days pa nakalipas I felt burning sensation from the area papuntang balls ko. And yung lymph nodes ko sa bandang singit swollen and tender din.
Tapos ayun syempre nag search search muna ako YT, google, etc. Kasi minsan lumalabas baka folliculitis lang pero madalas talaga na same sa nararamdaman ko is Herpes. 

Until today finally,  went to a STI Doctor, para akong nagconfess sa mga kagagaguhan ko and when the Doc examined my genital area ilang segundo palang “Onga, herpetic lesions nga ito. We need to start antiviral meds and some antibiotics, you will need to have shots of HPV vaccine and blood screening for HIV and other STDs.”

Tumigil mundo ko for ilang seconds na parang nabibingi ako. Parang nag flashback lahat ng mga ginawa ko. Kasi even di pa sinasabi ng Doctor alam ko na once na nakakuha ka ng HSV it will stay dormant sa katawan mo… forever.

Sabi ko nalang sa sarili ko “ What the fuck have I done to my life. Paano ko to sasabihin sa asawa ko.”

Now I am devasted. I feel sick to my stomach habang iniinom ko yung first dose ko ng acyclovir at cloxacillin habang nag ttype at binabasa yung brochure ng clinic about STDs.

Di ko alam gagawin Im at lost and kaya ko na post to kasi if ever man may katulad ko na situation.. how did you deal with it?

and sa mga nag babalak na pumasok sa “hobby” na to.. make sure you understand na not all STDs maiiwasan ng just wearing a condom.

Sana may nag advice sakin dati pa… 

 

I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you sir.. but you will need to tell your wife.. she will be angry(rightfully so).. but hopefully your marriage will survive..

I truly hope that all goes well for the both of you.. and thank you for sharing this message.

[Memento Mori]

13 hours ago, vanderboy said:

I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you sir.. but you will need to tell your wife.. she will be angry(rightfully so).. but hopefully your marriage will survive..

I truly hope that all goes well for the both of you.. and thank you for sharing this message.

I don’t know how and when I can tell… I think wala din ako sa tamang kaisipan ngayon because of the pain physically and psychologically. I feel like gusto ko nalang muna mapag isa di ko ma process yung pangyayari..

naiiyak na ako kahit katabi yung asawa ko. 
Feeling ko ang dumi dumi kong tao literally and figuratively.

[vanderboy]

2 hours ago, Memento Mori said:

I don’t know how and when I can tell… I think wala din ako sa tamang kaisipan ngayon because of the pain physically and psychologically. I feel like gusto ko nalang muna mapag isa di ko ma process yung pangyayari..

naiiyak na ako kahit katabi yung asawa ko. 
Feeling ko ang dumi dumi kong tao literally and figuratively.

Try to talk to either a close friend or better, a professional(therapist/std experts) which can help you navigate this new reality of yours sir.

It's not yet the end of the world for you.. hsv can be managed.