Right, that's what I thought, it is generally safe. Sobrang malas mo na nun kung may naipasa pa sayo yung thera through HJ.
Resorted to HJ na lang dahil sa akala ko may STD ako dati, pero false alarm pala. Nagkablister ako sa lower shaft ng penis. I thought may STD na ako. Nung nagpatest (secretly) ako sa loveyourself, negative naman ako sa lahat, even sa.HIV. Narealize ko na hindi hiyang skin ng penis ko sa condom, too much friction nagagasgasan skin ko. Even though false alarm, that incident was a wake up call for me. Said to myself na no more sexual intercourse, even oral too. Too risky.
Kaya GMs, double ingat tayo. The risk is real.