Indeed. Totally concur.
Mas madali mag-resolve ng issues if mag-isa ka; unless of course its life threatening ah...that's a different story.
This has been proven time & again; that only one who can help you is yourself.
So what's my basis on this?
I've been in several failed relationships; the last one (ended in 2022, thank goodness), and all I had was left was me, myself.
I made a vow na hindi na ako dapat makaranas pa ulit ng ganun klase ng pang-aabuso.
Na dapat mapayapa at matiwasay ang buhay ng sarili ko lang ang inaasikaso ko; at syempre, my four doggos.
Which is what I made a reality now; I live peacefully with my four doggos & albeit nakakabawi na din on the financial side.