spongebobby

CLIENTS FALLING IN LOVE WITH MPA/PSP/GRO.....

 

yes,it happens...i know cause i experienced that,,,my client fell in love with me way back 2007...but sad to say he's a family man...but we've been happy,we know how to handle situtaions...cause i myself i know where i stand...i know limitations and boundaries...we ended up as best of friends...i don't want to be a home wrecker..

I guess the question is: did you love him in return? Or was he just a good client that you didn't want to lose?

Don't get me wrong ah. Nothing wrong with trying to keep a good customer. I just want to know if you reciprocated his feelings.

No. may phone naman siyang sarili.

IT TAKE'S TWO TO TANGO. if you think that you're the sane in your relationship then lead the way. pag kumuha ka ng bato syempre alam mong masakit yon pag pinukpok sa muka mo, expected na dapat na di madali. ilang months palang reklamo na agad? may adik bang gumaling after one month?. my point is iba ang love sa nasarapan ka lang at nacute-an ka lang.. mas malalim, mas mabigat, mas madaming dapat tiisin, mas madami dapat isacrifice...dapat nakaalalay ka at iniintindi mo na di madaling magbago at lumabas sa comfort zone..in the first place ang gwapo mo naman para ipagpalit nya yung malaking pera na kikitain nya sa work nya para sa love mo?..ikaw ba yan edward cullen?...so dapat alalay ka lang dahil kung madami kang inilapag sa lamesa, mdami din sya nho...pero pag once naovercome nyo ang lahat, tumibay kayo at may malalim ng pondasyon....mahirap na kayo matibag.

Agree, except for the Edward Cullen part.

Been there, done that. It's never easy falling in love with someone in this business. First one has to get past all the lies and facades and half-truths. Then one realizes that a day has more than 24 hours--and you can only spend so many hours having sex. The rest you have to earn a living, and when you are together, that you have to talk. If there are so many awkward moments of silence then it's probable sex is the most compelling item in the relationship. But if you find yourself immersed when she talks about her dreams, her fears, then you may be on the road to love.

When you get there, you'll know that nothing else matters.

There will always be a kiss.

The only questions are: where, how long, and how deep? And of course, will there be kissmarks?

hmmmm. meron akong napapansin...

myth. hindi lahat ng tumitibok ay puso.

yes if she's in a miserable and unhealthy relationship and wants to be taken. otherwise, no point in pursuing a girl who is 100% happy in her relationship.

there's something about girls with eyeglasses that i find attractive. especially if she's a bibliophile.

while certainly there are girls in this trade who develop genuine feelings, there are a lot more who feign love and affection for a variety of reasons: ennui, mastery of their profession, or probably they look at some men as their ticket out of their work.

around mid last year, one of my friends who's a regular in the spa scene met a therapist. the service he got was more typical of MPs than spas. he couldn't get the grin off his face, especially after the girl started texting him saying that she just got carried away, that he's special, that she's never felt that way before, that she's in love, etc. etc. i told him that's crap and that he should know better. i reminded him that what he got is not special based on FRs in this thread and testimonials of others i know personally.

at first, my friend was amused by her advances but eventually he started taking her seriously, especially after she left the spa supposedly because of him. then things started to unravel. when they had issues, she always had two implied threats: her committing suicide and her return to the spa industry. long story, but eventually, it became clear that her feelings were not real and she looked at him mainly as a permanent ticket out of the spa. they've since parted ways.

later we discovered that her profession of undying love to him was in fact, a broadcast, and was also received by several other guys. pero dalawa lang ang kumagat. iyong friend ko at isa pang guy na beterano din sa spa. just goes to show that it doesn't matter how long a guy has been patronizing MPs, KTVs, spas, etc. he remains vulnerable. some guys will fall in love, even if they promised themselves that they won't.

always the eyes.

because her mom didn't like a fresh grad/moneyless man for her daughter.

that was many years ago.

hanggang ngayon, hinahanap-hanap pa rin daw ako. oh well...

that a relationship can survive--even without sex.

delete her number.

this works for me as i usually ignore calls and txt messages from numbers that are not in my address book.

iha,

wag mo namang hamakin ang mga mpa/psp/gro.

lalo na't mahilig kang mag-pm para sa seb.

sb

crunch time.

where have you gone joe dimaggio?

the sport needs someone like joltin' joe...

dude, back read and you'll learn there are guys who already gave their all to their girls. but still the relationship didn't work.

kasi nga isa lang ang PINAKAMAHALAGA dito. not LOVE but the capacity to bail them out of this industry.

 

don't ride the boat of these girls (mwuah and Imurangel) when you haven't read the whole 176 pages of this thread.

experience and knowledge is the teacher in this thread not self opinions. di mo kelangan sumangayon parati sa opinion ng iba. i will accept and respect their opinions BUT experience here weigh more... it'll teach me more.

dude, i've been following up this way way before you even became a member, so your innuendo about me not reading this thread is hollow.

and if you have read this thread, as you self-righteously imply, you will know that i have been involved in this type of relationship. several times. and i know people who have been in this complex love affair.

so i know what i am talking about.

and i do not intend to ingratiate or make papogi to anyone in this thread. not to any mpa/gro or any other female who frequent this forum.

Just a thought sir, if you truly love her - then why not start out on a clean slate and offer her your name and a good future?

good point. unlike more conventional relationships when the couple can go on an extended getting-to-know-you phase, the guy has to decide soon whether he can take this to the next level: whether he can introduce her to his friends, and whether he will ultimately marry her.

any guy who has not thought of taking this to the next level can only be one of several things:

1. already married

2. has no intention of marrying the girl, not even in a what if scenario

3. is only using the girl for free sex

4. is in self-denial that sooner, not later, he will have to confront the idea of marriage.

5. just a plain prick.

from this perspective, i can fully understand the cynicism of posters such as imurangel.

I find this topic so interesting and educational, LoL. I'm still sleepless 'coz I tried reading almost all the posts which has called my attention and which I guess would somehow help me in the future if and when I fall in love with any one of them.

 

As of this time, maraming makukulit at ini-ignore ko lang sila 'coz I have my own priorities, nevertheless, I treat them nicely. Minsan nga nakakasilaw ang mga offers nila, but I keep focus at trabaho lang naman ito.

sad to say that nothing will prepare you when you fall in love with your clients.

not even the hardened facade when you entertain your clients, and pretend that you're enjoying your time with them. especially if they're buraot.

the advise of close friends will guide you. anonymous posters may influence you.

you know what to do. you know the risks. and you know what must be done.

in the end, you will make decisions with your heart. and the most eloquent, most sincere posts won't even matter.

divorce? not sure.

there oughta be a law.

that people should be monogamous from the waist up...

but can be polygamous from the waist down.

Being for the Benefit of Mr. Kite/I want you (she's so heavy)/Helter Skelter from the album Love

dearie,

emoticons are no substitute for wit.

and your pedestrian writing is getting on my nerves.

j,

after a long absence, you came back.

and just like that, you disappeared again.

sigh.

j

divorce, if and when legalized here, will remain the refuge of the rich.

many poor people don't bother with the legalities of marriage and separation: they have other priorities.

went to goodah! and pigged out.

hindi kasi nalulungkot ang busog.