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  1. Kaya naman siguro :P I mean I was already 21 when I first had sex. I was able to go through puberty and early adulthood without sex, can't be that bad?

     

    But because I live with my girlfriend, I'm not sure. LDR kaya 1 month without it, but if sex is readily available, lemme! :P

  2. Not a reply to the above posts:

     

     

    Honestly try switching places - what if YOU are the therapist? And your fave Client falls for you?

     

    No judgment now, just take in real time, in real life.

     

    The ES part is just part of job to therapists - l know that, and l also know that if they fall in love, it's real. Just like yours, and mine.

    If it were me and my favorite client falls for me? It would depend on the situation still.

     

    If I feel the same way towards my client, like I feel like it could brew into genuine love, I would tell him how I feel. And if he doesn't mind that this is my job for now, we can move on from there.

     

    If I don't feel the same way towards my client, I would tell him I can't reciprocate his feelings, but in the gentlest way that I can, and that if he'd let me, I can still service him. I'd rather be honest with him than lead him on. Isn't it easier when everyone is honest about how they feel?

     

    But that's me, and I'm pretty simple when making my decisions. Of course, therapists' lives aren't as simple as ours. They might have people depending on them financially. They might have boyfriends/husbands already. Or they might think they are being played as well. They might not want to reject clients that fancy them for fear of lost profit. There are a lot of things they need to think through.

     

    I'd just like to add that there is a difference between a client claiming that he's in love with a Thera and a client actually going a mile further to show her that he's in love with her. Just saying that a lot of men go to spas because they're lonesome. In that circumstance, falling in love with a Thera is inevitable. What are therapists to do when GMs are confessing to them left and right? Should she reject them all and feel bad after breaking all their hopes and perhaps also sabotaging her profits? And what about those other GMs with less than good intentions? Those GMs that played theras for the fun of it? So in a way, I understand why some theras have walls built so high around them. I understand why they they are afraid to trust the wrong person. They are already vulnerable.

     

    The side of the GM and the side of the Thera when falling in love, both have consequences. There are those rare few couples that have managed to conquer these consequences, and are happy together now. They found love where they shouldn't, but they made it work. Good endings are possible. I just don't want to rule out that possibility. It's very rare, but there are relationships in this industry that have actually worked. Both parties just have to be willing to make it work, both the GM and the Thera.

  3. yeah.. She really is something, sometimes i really wish that I met her before she ended up on this industry... but it is all in the past now.. and tanggap ko naman sana anak nya and everything about her past...

     

     

    kaso wala talaga eh.. hahaha yung alam ko namang di ko pa sya kayang suportahan kasi di din ako stable pa sa buhay.. 22 palang ako and 19 sya.. parang madami pa talagang mangyayari sa buhay namin... tsaka mga parents problem pa etc ang daming haharapin... and i think di ko pa kakayanin talaga... Im just thinking ahead and looking at the bigger picture. (buti nga gumagana pa isip ko hahaha)

     

    magagawa ko nalang is to hope na maging maganda na lang din ang future nya... kahit hnd ako ang makaka dala sakanya don..

     

     

    I like this part -

    maybe she feels that she's not worthy of your love and that's why. Like the saying goes, "We accept the love we think we deserve."

     

    this line is so true... i love reading your posts bro...

    Glad I can help diffuse a bit of your burden, dude. I find it admirable that you chose to walk away instead of staying. You are quite young still yet you think maturely. Esp na you mentioned she has a kid and tanggap mo yun, that's deep right there. Sayang lang talaga yung pag iniisip mo what could have been, lost chances are a bust.

     

    You both can take this time to grow. Malay mo sa future pag maayos na ang circumstances nyo pareho, you can start over. Or maybe you can start with other people altogether.

     

    Thanks for sharing your story, dude. This will help a lot of guys who are in the same situation as you :)

  4. Thanks bro.. pero ititigil ko na tong nararamdaman ko.. hahaha.. mahirap eh. malungkot pero kelangan... tsaka baka pareho lang din kami masaktan pag mas tumagal pa. (Im not saying that falling inlove with a thera is wrong, sa kalagayan ko lang hnd sya practical and mas mahirap kung itutuloy kesa ihihinto.)

     

    sabi nga "Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go"

     

    pero im happy padin na na meet ko sya.. Lahat ng feelings na naramdaman ko kasama sya were true.. happiness,kiligness(may word bang ganto haha), excitement.. yung pag susunduin ko sya medyo tumatalon puso ko pag nakkta ko na sya... hahahaha. yung parang nainlove ulit ako na highschool... yung feeling na I could just look at her eyes and listen to her stories all day.. yung boses nya marinig ko palang napapa ngiti na din ako...

     

    ang maexperience ang mga bagay na yon okay na sakin... itetreasure ko na yon...

    Sounds like you're still in deep, bro. This girl really must be something, di ka naman maiinlove kung wala kang nakita na special sa kanya. I don't know much about therapist perspectives but I'm sure that most nice experiences, if not all, that she felt with you were in a way genuine. I know they're all capable of feeling.

     

    You do have a point. If you continue what you have with her, it'll hurt both of you in a way na you'll continue to fall deeper in love with her, and if she can't reciprocate your feelings because of her work or other reasons, she might feel burdened for leading you on. Or maybe she feels that she's not worthy of your love and that's why. Like the saying goes, "We accept the love we think we deserve." I think that could be the case with some theras too.

     

    You can charge it to experience nalang. You'll come out as a better person. Or we can say that it's one of those cases na "met at the wrong place and at the wrong time". If you look at it that way, it's nobody's fault :)

  5. hay.. hirap din magka gusto sa thera.... hahahaha. mahirap mag tiwala sa sinasabi.. (di ko nilalahat ha. maybe most)

    yung tipong ready ka naman na isuko lahat para sakanya... kaso di mo alam baka sinusuko mo lang lahat para sa wala..

     

    siguro nga wag lang mag padalos dalos talaga and make sure na talagang mahal nyo isat isa and hnd one sided.

    yung wala ng nakatago and nakwento nyo na lahat...

     

    Siguro kelangan both ways makita na willing kayo to make it work. If you sacrifice something for her, you should also see na dapat willing din siya na mag give up ng mga bagay that she wouldn't otherwise do. Then you'll know na maybe it can work.

     

    Best of luck, dude! Sana yung gusto mong girl is a keeper :)

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  6. PS Vita. For a lot of reasons but mainly:

     

    1.) Remote Play. I can play my PS3 and PS4 games over wifi anywhere I want.

    2.) Powerful game engine. This handheld was made for the AAA games (that were unfortunately not made, but meh)

    3.) Visual Impact. I like the way the Vita looks better than the 3DS. Never been a fan of the latter's flip design.

  7. First off, I'd just like to lay out that there are reasons why people are the way that they are. Maybe they're players because they were played, or they're stuck and uptight because they were betrayed etc. so I don't really have the right to make judgements on people.

     

    That being said, women to avoid for me? Well ayaw ko sa stuck-up, manipulative and dishonest. Mostly those three.

  8. ^_^ ^_^ ^_^ i really dont know where you are coming from but i really admire your posts... happy easter sir.. :)

    I just read my posts again, I realize I must have sounded weirdly poetic, sorry for that haha was very drowsy while I was writing. But that aside, I want to thank you as well for your contributions to this thread as well as your kind replies to us :) I find that your outlook on love is quite similar to mine. I hope to read more of your thoughts in the future.

     

    Happy Easter to you too :)

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