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  1. On 11/18/2023 at 8:32 PM, lethalweapon03 said:

    I have to admit that i am currently in a serious relationship with a therapist.

    i love her, she loves me too. Its not ideal. Its too complicated. Too complicated in many aspects. (Go figure)
     

    I am learning a lot in our relationship. I learned that she is in this industry for a good reason. She was judged a lot of times.. 

    I always wonder why they only see stars when they look at her, because I see a whole beautiful universe whenever I look in her eyes.

    I just want you guys to know that when you bump or interact with a therapist, be sensitive too.. dont judge them with what they do alone.. they are people. They struggle, persevere, sacrifice a lot for their families and they are true persons too. They still know what is the true meaning of love..

    Its sad because we cant be together for long. But I know our love will never fade. Im leaving the country for good.. 

    Her love is like the wind, I may not see it. But i always feel it..

     

    If you are reading this, im always gonna love you. No matter what

    Good for you @lethalweapon03. Who cares what anyone thinks. If the both of you can find some happiness in this fucked up world then go for it. We all deserve some happiness in our lives, howsoever fleeting it may be.

  2. On 8/1/2023 at 4:17 PM, ShyGuyy69 said:

    Curves

    Curves yes... at what point does a curve become a fucking circle (not aimed at you @ShyGuyy69).

    I feel it's funny that some women feel they are curvy and sexy but fuck me,  that's just FAT... some men are into plump women and that's great but ladies who are FAT, stop calling yourselves curvy or sexy(rant of the day over). It's even worse that you hide behind a 100000 year old pic of when you used to be slim.

  3. Broke up with my gf and then went on a bender. KTVs, bars, nightclubs. After 4 months of relentless skirt chasing and fucking all sorts of chix,  I realized that I am tired.  Anyone ever feel that? Realization that you have fucked so much that you are tired of the same thing over and over? I guess this too shall pass..

  4. On 1/23/2023 at 1:57 PM, Suadi said:

    Napunta nako Cocowalk, tapat kasi ng hotel namin. Para cyang Metrowalk, Meron acoustic bands, billiards, darts,…. The place caters more for thais. For our next trip, Anong area ok mag book ng hotel?

    Stay in Sukhumvit, Soi 11. Best place for action...

  5. On 1/21/2023 at 8:21 PM, Suadi said:

    Any suggestion in the Pratunam area for good time (girls)?

    @Suadi the only place near Pratunam is CocoWalk. Just off Phayathai road... Small collection of bars... Good for bar hopping( these are bars to drink alcohol in, not like nana)

    Or you could take an Uber to Khaosan road(15mins).

    In short, Pratunam is not really a place for a good time!!! 

     

  6. 1 hour ago, Mitch of Golden said:

    HAHAHA AKO EWAN KO, LAPITIN TALAGA AKO NG MAY SABIT KAYA LAGI AKONG NASASAKTAN TANGA KODIN KASI TALAGA MINSAN E  😂

    Thank you for sharing your current predicament. Looks like you are already happy and hurting with your current relationship. 

    My 2 cents, it may seem like a great idea but better to hurt now than hurt when you are deeper in love. The longer it goes, the more hurt you will be. Not sure about your financial situation but that's also an important factor to consider.

    I've lost in love and learned, as we all have. But again, it's a learning. Best of luck!!

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  7. 3 hours ago, Blue Boy said:

    Thanks for the tip, I will surely report back on my experience after my trip.

    Another thing I'd like to know is how much budget should I bring (not including cost for airfare and hotel/hostel)? I will be staying in Thailand for 6 days. I have a Pinoy friend who said he will tour me around Bangkok and nearby areas. Wala pa akong itinerary but I plan to do touristy things such as sight seeing, some shopping, eating and ofcourse tikim ng local girls. How much kaya ang dalhin kong pocket money na hindi naman waldas at hindi din tipid, yung tama lang? 

     

    I would say, around $100 per day should be enough.Actually, that is more than enough and includes what you will pay for Grab or Bolt. Go to Pratunam Market and enjoy the low cost Greenhills(better quality).

    This does not include girls because that would depend on your taste. 

     

  8. On 1/2/2023 at 10:37 PM, Blue Boy said:

    Will be going to Bangkok in March. Any tips on getting local chicks (and not ladyboys please). Like where to get them, budget, is it massage parlor/spa style or are there brothels there ala SG's Geylang?

    @Blue Boy Depends on your budget. If high, then visit night clubs like Levels on Soi 11. Many FLs there who will ST or LT you depending on your need. Prices from 3K(Baht) to 7k. 

    If you want normal, girl-nxt-door types, go to Thermae Cafe in the basement of Ruamchitt hotel. You walk in, turn left and get a drink(it's like your price of entry).. better to get a beer so the girls don't think you are cheap. Girls are lined up on all sides of this center table. They won't approach you(no Ladyboys allowed) so you have to make eye contact and go talk to them. Rates go from 2.5K ST upwards. Do not pay 7K or some crazy number.

    If no to the top 2, go to Nana Plaza and stop by Billboard. Best bar to get bargirls.

    If you don't like any, go to a Kapoo club and get a straight BJ from some of the hottest chicks you will find. Just BJ, unless you can convince them to meet you outside. You do not need an escort agency in BKK. 

    If not, go find sideline chicks on the web... Many hot ones. They do Incall/outcall. Incall is always cheaper. 

     

    Best of luck...too many options to list so I left it out.

     

     

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  9. On 12/31/2022 at 8:39 PM, handsomebob said:

    she has the qualities I really look for in a woman...

    1. hindi nagpopost sa social media

    2, is driven to be rich as fuck

    3. family oriented

    4. frugal pagdating sa pera / matipid

     

    unfortunately, she has other plans in mind and I respect that, let us just hope that we will still be together in the end, we both would explore that possibility if that day would come eventually, but honestly, in a long while...she was the woman I truly loved with all my heart!

    Let's hope it works out. Thanks for sharing/baring your heart. I just let go of one I love so I can relate.

  10. For all the GMs who have loved, loved and lost and will love and lose, here are a few chosen excerpts of a poem where I quote the legendary Yeats:

    Never give all the heart, for love
    Will hardly seem worth thinking of
    To passionate women if it seem
    Certain, and they never dream
    That it fades out from kiss to kiss …

    and finally,

    he that made this knows all the cost,

    For he gave all his heart and lost


     

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  11. 17 hours ago, Exec said:

    I am writing this not to seek advice but to share to those who might still be trying to find answers.

     

    She’s a veteran, disciplined, single and endowed with top tier beauty both outside and inside -  good heart, above average height, slim, very fair complexion, pretty face, etc.  My thera GF lives less than ten-minute drive from me.  Her work discipline accumulated her a few properties which she is leasing and producing just enough passive income to support her parents and brothers.

     

    I am in my early 50’s,  an executive of concurrent corporations.  Hindi ako guwapo pero hindi naman pangit -  just ordinary.  I’m in good shape because my work requires me to be physically active. My married life is blessed and happy.  I was loyal to my wife for many years and am not prolific in the flesh trade.

     

    When I first availed my thera GF last Apr,  the previous one was decades ago when I worked overseas.  After much thought,  I decided to let loose of my feelings and our relationship progressed in recent months.  We see each other almost daily occasionally more than once.  The decision required considerable effort to find the answers to difficult questions.   The actual task of carrying out with the relationship came with heart aches as I rewired my mindset.

     

    There are very few articles about relationships with sex workers.  This thread is a treasure and I wish I’ve found it earlier. So here is my share.

     

    If a GM decides to pursue this kind of relationship,  then the GM must embrace the mindset that what the thera does is just work.  It is simply society’s prejudice that labels it dirty.  Minsan marangal ang tingin natin sa mga politiko pero alam natin na karamihan sa kanila ay kawatan.  When a GM needs to release,  the thera is there to offer the service for a fee within the bounds of her rules.  Even GFE can be purchased so don’t fool yourself that it is not fakery.

    To avoid grief,  both the GM and thera must carefully delineate between work and personal.  In the West/NA,  personal starts when the hooker goes for a date without a fee.

     

    Most of them started at the poorest of conditions.  The home of my GF was subject to squatter demolition in the long past.  When a thera gets to a relatively comfortable level,  she can be earning much more than an average manager in a corporation.  Theras know they are earning more than some of their clients.  Do not be surprised if you find a thera not wanting to be saved.  At this point,  she would have already acquired the trait of being independent.

     

    Many theras do not know much about any other work likely because of limited education and lack of training.  My GF really tried and was swindled a few times -  eSabong, pautang, etc.  She has purchased another vacant lot and aims to build apartments there.  Now going to her dawn,  she has set herself to retire in just a few years with that little project as an end goal.  She’s independent and won’t accept money from me.  She knows it is within her means to earn it with her ‘work’.

     

    Many of her friends did not succeed in the profession – got hooked with the wrong guy, drugs, hosto, casino, etc.  She’s relatively well off compared to her peers mainly due to her discipline and being a hard worker.  Be that as it may,  I concluded that even the better thera does not come to that high point without being severely scarred -  as in battle scars.

     

    She has developed addiction to solitude.  She has loved several times and failed.  When we talk about relationships,  she would always brag – ‘been there,  done that’.  I am the amateur in those discussions.  She has a good heart and loved faithfully in the past.  Her last break up was in 2018,  she found out that her GM BF lied of being a married.  It took severe depression and two years with most nights in tears for her to move on.    I can still see telltale signs of that past.  She still has occasional bouts of depression.  There are also signs that she is now a man hater and perhaps I am the luckiest to have penetrated her barrier of distrust.

     

    Why do I do this.  I loved my wife faithfully for two decades.  I thought that love was constant,  but the reality is the feelings fade in time.  When I crossed path with my thera GF,  I ‘really felt in love’ again and,  boy,  I was missing so huge.  This is like how it truly felt in my 20’s.  Love songs which I ignored for years has now acquired new meaning for me.  The sun shines differently now and in full colors.  It is grace.  It is priceless.  The least I can do is pay it back by truly loving her.

     

    She is resigned to the notion she will grow old single and alone.  I always disagree with her.  She claims she has really prayed to God for me to arrive ‘kaya lang may sabit ang dumating’ -  i.e.,  married.  She is in no illusion that she’ll still find a mature and kind hearted bachelor,  thus her ‘will grow old single and alone’ disposition.  I promised to her that that will not happen because I intend to be there for her for life.  That is, unless she finds a better man than I am -  it will hurt bad but I will let go.  For now,  we try to enjoy each other. She is toying with the notion of bearing a child a few years from now.

    I feel what you feel, having had to through the same thing a couple years ago but with a few twists. I would just say that the ending might not be as happy as you hope for. It's difficult to maintain a married life(even if for the sake of it) and have a gf on the side. If there are kids involved, then it's just a deep hole that you will dig for yourself. You can pull it off for a few years but it may not last and when the end is in sight, you need to choose and it won't be easy!!!

    My apologies if I am off track but your words felt familiar!!!  All things said and done, I'll raise a toast to you and hope you get the happy life you wish for!!! If there is something all of us on this forum deserve, it's happiness and someone to share it with!! Theras and patrons alike!!!

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  12. 13 hours ago, ryandixon said:

    super strugging with containing my emotions. making so many mistakes because im being so emotional

    It's alright partner. We all make mistakes and we are all emotional if the situation is such. Accept who you are, love yourself, learn from your mistakes and work your way back to happiness. Being emotional is not a sin but you need to know when to pull yourself back so it does not affect your life more than it should. Stay strong...

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