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Sitti of TVS

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  1. Falling for a therapist and falling for a client, parehong mi ups and downs.. Positive and negative.. Ganun nmn tlga sah lht sah real life :) pero sbe nga okay nah mgmhal and msktan.. Kesa nde maranasan mgmahal at all :) and sbe qu nga nung cmula pah lng.. At least mi memories nah pdeng balikan :) ngng masaya nmn aqu sobra.. So worth it ung pain pra skni :)

  2. ...and let her out of the rut!... para di ka ma-praning sa scenario na kung sinu-sinong lalake ang clients nya araw araw

    Honestly isa dn yan sah mga what ifs qu hihi.. Ung what if wla aqu sah industry nung nkilala qu sia.. And f anu kya nrrmdaman nia pg iniisip nia ung clients qu araw araw.. Siempre masakit dn un.. So pareho tlgang nssktan..

  3. the chances are little when it comes to this kind of relationship. there were success stories siguro, but most of the time its a very low chance of successful relationship, that is from my point of view and experience in the past. i've been in this kind of situation before if you try to make a back read in the other thread (similar to this thread) i was one of the guys who admitted that i had an ex gf na therapist. we became friends muna then things got deeper "naging kami" but it's not a successful relationship kase nag break din kami after almost a year. (11 months yata).

     

    regarding GMs naman not all of them are "mangloloko" meron din naman seryoso. regarding therapist naman meron din naman kasing medyo alam mo na pag alam nilang mabait yung GM medyo aboso. but i'm not saying lahat ha. :)

    Hihi d nmn dn nia qu niloko :) d lng tlga npigilan and kht panu nrmdaman qu nmng pinahalgahan nia aqu..

    Hmm yes i agree d nmn lht gms manloloko.. Ganun sah thera.. Sah lht nmn ng bagay ganun dva.. Kht nde sah spa.. Meron tlgang good and bad :) and honestly dme qu dn ngng friends nah gms.. Mga 'emotional support' qu.. Merun pah nga aqung isang friend nah gm nah kht madaling arw natatawagan qu pg sobrang down aqu.. Hihi such a very good guy :) and merun pah isa lagi aqu chinicheck and dnadalaw pra kmustahin.. Best buddy.. Nkktuwa kze iba iba dn tlga mkikilala dito sah industry.. Client turn to nightmare, bf, best buddy, and kung anu anu pah :)

  4. Your description of "feeling alive while dying inside" is ironic and sad. :(

     

    I think one reason why it's difficult for the therapist is that there's so much defense mechanism in place and when the guy gets pass the walls...it can be pretty intense. I can only imagine the joy...and the pain.

     

    Naisip ko lang iyong kaibigan kong therapist. Daming humahabol sa kanya. Pero iyong pinili niya, halatang nagsawa na at napipilitan lang ipagpatuloy iyong relasyon nila. Kahit sa sex tumatanggi na rin iyong guy. Parang hinihintay lang na makipag break iyong girl.

    Exactly :)

     

    And to my case, he makes me feel human kze.. Ung feeling nah aq 'ako' nde bilang 'sitti' and yes the feeling is so intense.. Ung happiness, and siempre ung pain. But if i would have given a chance nah bumalik sah past. Uulitin at uulitin qu pdn kze kht panu worth the pain nman.. Bsta iba tlga.. 22 nah qu.. Pero ung 'love' nah nrmdaman qu for him and still nrrmdaman.. Iba tlga. Yeah 'intense' is the right term.. And til now. Honestly i consider him as my sanity. Hahha hanggulo.. ;)

    OK, actually when it comes to love wala nman yang pinipiling profession, place and time.. Kahit sino, labo labo na yan..

    Kumbaga tamaan na kung sino man ang tamaan.. It may be sweet at the first time but then painful at the end, but that is the

     

    essence of being inlove. As the saying goes, it is better to loved and hurt than never been inloved at all..

     

    +1 :)

  5. its good to know there are some therapist like you that shares there love experience with a guest/client.

    ☺️☺️☺️

     

    Minsan kze d lng dn tlga uubra.. Though one sided. Kze aqu lng ung ngmahal.. Super pnahalagahan nia nmn aqu before.. And inalagaan tlga.. Kya lng at the end kze 'therapist-client' relationship bihira or maliit nah chance lng tlga ung umuubra.. :) and hbng tumatagal nsasanay ndn aqu.. Minsan anjan pah dn sia pg kelangan qu.. Pero mjo distance nah sia skn.. Cguro ayw nia ndn msktan aqu.. Pero siempre ung pain andun pdn.. Ung mga what ifs,.

     

    Ok lng nmn mgbgay ng opinion. Sna wg lng masyadong harsh. And wg nmn puro husga agd. Kze case to case dn tlga.. :)

  6. Kaya ako never na inlab sa guest. :)

     

    Was chatting with a thera-friend last night. She's having problems with a client turned bf. Seems the guy has gotten tired of her after she's given the relationship her all. So yes, the heartbreak does go both ways.

    :) mjo mas malaki lng tlga ng konti ang impact sah therapist. Kze sah dmi ng lalaking naeencounter everyday. Mjo mhirap nah tlga macapture ung heart ng therapist. Kze unang una mjo hirap kya mgtiwala. Nung bago pah nga lng aqu ngkakabiruan nah golden rule dw ng therapist is 'never fall for a client' eh wla mtgas ulo qu d npigilan haha. Todo todo tlga. To the point nah wla ng maitira. Kya lng siempre ending iiyak at iiyak tlga ng dugo. Siempre client un. Client. So pg wla nah. Mi possibility nah kumuha sia ibng therapist so mjo masakit tlga. So d dn tlga masisi f bqt ibng therapist nggng bato nah:) defense un. Hay ewan. Gugulo pah dn utak qu til now. Pero he is a great guy tlga. Kasalanan qu nmn tlga. Case to case basis dn. bsta bsta. As to my case. Ang ironic lng. Kze he makes me feel alive pero at the same time.. Im dying inside :)

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