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lions when taking over a pride would k*ll all the cub of the previous head lion...

male dragonflies would scrape off all the sperm inside the females to guarantee that the offspring would be his...

this is typical all over nature...

the whole point of life is to ensure that your genes would survive into the next generation...

only a human, supposedly the smartest animal, would be stupid enough to use up his life for the sake of propogating someone else's genes...

(no offense to those infertile couples who adopted, those cases would be valid exceptions, this serves as a solution to addressing the programming of our genes when you are infertile)

you say martyr...i say cuckoo...a cuckoo lays its eggs on someone else's nest...making some other bird to waste time and energy in raising their young

cuckold..refers to a man with an unfaithful wife...

need i say more???

nov 2007, i met this girl. name is dimple from one of the mp in caloocan. at first she looks so mataray. kinuha ko siya kasi wala yung regular ko. she's 18 then, student (inglesera), morena, maganda ngumiti, malmbing, sobrang libog (tipo ng babae na pag nasa ibabaw mo nakangiti na parang demonyita).

 

akala ko flavor of the month ko lang siya. hindi eh, sa sobrang lambing at bait niya halos inaraw araw ko na siya hanggang nagagalit ako sa mga bisor dun pag binibigay sa iba. lalo na yung panahon na sumikat siya sa mtc.............. galit na galit ako pag- naiisip ko na may gumagalaw sa kanyang iba. hanggang nag-resign siya, natuwa ako kasi focus na siya sa school niya! lagi ko siya pinupuntahan sa school niya sa intramuros, mas lalo siyang napamahal sa'kin. nakita ko yung simpleng pagkatao niya, hindi maluho kahit na anak mayaman pala siya. minsan pinasundan ko siya sa tauhan ko taga parañaque pala sa isang exclusive subdivision. nabigla ako, kasi napaka-simple niya at napaka-babaw ng kaligayahan niya.

 

nag-offer ako ng sustento and mga material things. wala siyang tinanggap kahit isa. binili ko yung paborito niyang cellphone, mga stuffed toys, bags, relo, pabango................ pero wala siyng tinanggap! di ko alam kung ma-pride lang siya o ano..................... sinabi niya, ayaw niya ako gamitin kasi di naman daw niya ako mahal, yun pala may bf siya sa u.s. ba o sa canada. tinanong ko kung sinusustentuhan ba siya, sabi niya hindi rin daw. nagalit. ang sabi niya di niya daw kailangan ng lalaki para makuha ang mga bagay na gusto niya. mula nun di na siya nagtetext, o tumatawag. na-obsessed na ata ako kasi araw araw ko siya inaabangan sa school niya para lang makita ko siya........ i sent her emails na may mga pic ng mga tinanggihan niyang gifts. until 1 day nag-reply siya, she said: "i am pregnant. please leave me alone" sabi ko handa akong maging tatay ng bata but she refused.

 

i left the country and tried to live a peaceful life with my family. di ako nag-mtc and everything pero wala eh.............. mahal ko pa rin siya and hinahanap............

 

pakiramdam ko sinayang ko ang pagkakataon na makakilala ng babaeng almost perfect to be my wife (2nd)..............

 

ano sa tingin niyo?

hmm...i'm confused, if she came from a well-off family, then why did she have to work as an mpa/psp? there's a contradiction here...

from what I can deduce from your story, i would say, your girl is naive...enlighten her then...

1. did she work as an mpa/psp for money? if you're offering to support her then problem solved...

2. does she want a monogamous man? tell her the reality that in monogamy, men are "allowed" to f#&k around without taking responsibility, while in polygamy, men are obligated to take responsibility for the women they f#&k...and you want to take responsibility for her, right?

3. does she feel that you/men see her as trophy? that is how all men look at women (either consciously or sub-consciously). the reality is, men look at women as property (and vice versa), although its politically incorrect in today's society to say it out loud, but that is the psychology behind adult relationships. marriage was invented to declare that the "woman" is this man's property. make her realize that being someone's property is the most respectful thing there is, think about it...what's more valuable that which is owned and used by everybody, or that which is owned and used by you alone?

4. let her know that you won't impede her dream of being a lawyer...will you?

...give her all the facts of life, minus the naivete notions of social conditioning in the Philippines

...but if after all that, she still doesn't want to be with you, then it's her lost...let it go...

...make all the rational arguments you can, the one thing you can't do is force her!

fell in love with a psp before unfortunately, ayaw niya because she has too many problems to take care of and the relationship would only make it worse, but i fell for her hard...

 

another one is an mp girl who is a member here before sa MTC, i know that she really likes me and cares for me, but the problem is she doesn't want to be the other woman..because i am married na nga...but the bridge was burned and i guess it's better that way really....

 

now, i don't really learn...to be continued, hahahahah

hmm...i wonder if these women realize that even if they are not in an exclusive relationship with their guests, in principle, they are the other woman...

also, don't they realize that, historically and statistically, polygamy (more specifically polygyny), is the most prevalent form of relationship...ergo, their profession exists!

...and that monogamy is oppressive to women...and here is how...in monogamous society, men are protected by being "allowed" to f#&k around without taking responsibility, whilst in polygamous society, women are protected by making the man take responsibility for the women they f#&k!

jaimecorleone, ur story reminds me of my cousin...

my cousin had a gf of more than 5 years, they were planning on getting married sometime in the near future...then one time they had an LQ (they weren't spending as much time together because work was so hectic), the girl went back to her province...

...after a couple of months, news gets back to my cousin that his gf got pregnant by her ex-bf from HS, and they got married...

...that really messed-up my cousin...