Rearden

At least you had sex. I've never been that lucky.

 

 

No illusions there. I know she's not in love with me. As I said, I didn't do anything to win her affection for a year and a half. I only realized I was feeling something for her six months ago. I only started doing something about it 4 months ago. I only told her how I felt about her 2 weeks ago. It would be unrealistic of me to think she'd suddenly feel the same way towards be just because she broke up with her boyfriend / guest.

 

I know she's not in love with me. What I don't know is if I have a chance. I won't know until I try.

 

 

There two things about her "2nd choice". At first I wondered why she didn't call me to join her at the club, but then I realized she was there to drown her sorrows in alcohol, and I don't drink. This could all be her way of making her boyfriend jealous. Funny thing is that when she was still working, her boyfriend would get jealous if she had other guests except me. He considered me safe because he never saw me lay a hand on her.

 

The other thing is that her "2nd choice" is also Chinese. While she was waiting for him and his friends to arrive, she asked me if I was Chinese. I don't know why she asked that. She knows I only look Chinese. Again I apologize if I'm stereo-typing the Chinese.

 

So yeah, I could win by default. And I agree, nothing's stopping someone else from walking into her life right now, including her boyfriend. That's why I have to improve my game. Only problem is I'm not a player. I really wish I knew how to play the field.

classic case of males trying to mate with one female! just be aware of your resources compared to your competitors, and whether your investments would be better served on another female!

what's the name of the game? isn't it to beat your competitors and win the girl? so be realistic! your competitors might be just as in "love" with her as you are, they could be just as kind, caring, fun as you are to the girl, except that they have more money! if you were in your girl's place, who would you chose?

great generals become great, not because they won against a more superior enemy! they become great because they know to retreat when they are faced with a more superior enemy! :thumbsupsmiley:

Sometimes, I think the reason guys like me have no girlfriends is because of guys like you who take more than your fair share.

hehehe! you'll have yours too sir!

just want to share, from a gene-centric perspective

1. our bodies are merely the carriers of the basic unit of life, the genes, and its main purpose is to propogate itself

2. genes evolved into two types, the sperm and the egg, where the sperms, are cheap, millions of it are created everyday, while the egg is rare, only 1 per month

3. while the cheap sperms main function is to fertilize the rare eggs, a man's best chance for the survival of his genes is to fertilize as much egg as possible, ergo natural selection has favoured polygamous men, hence the likes of Estrada, Revilla and Tan

4. since a woman only produces 1 egg per month, and once fertilized she has to carry it for 9 months inside her, stopping her monthly production of eggs, a woman's best strategy is to find the best man to copulate with, ergo women are more likely to choose an Estrada, Revilla, or Tan, even if they are wife number 2 or 3 or 4...and so on...("best men" being a strong male with the most resources, and in human terms, that is money!)

so, to those men (married or not), who are able to take care of their angel/s, bravo!

Mayroon din naman cguro magkakaruon ng happy ending, at least baka.

 

There is this girl I met in a MP, way many many years ago. Bago lang siya nuon and I am a regular at that place. She was fairly new and by chance I saw her and took her the next time I went. At the first encounter, it was a great experience. She was malambing, sweet and just about the girl you would want to bring home to mama. Kwento kwento about life and a 2nd and a 3rd visit. She wanted to save up for her family and then go back to school. Back then and maybe even today the top grosser makes lots of bucks monthly as they have quite a few guest and some guests are more generous than others. To make the long story short, I asked if she was serious to going back to school and I would help her get through it. Of course I liked her then, maybe great affection as I am a married man. So she quit her job, barely 6 months into it. she had a kid, less than a year old then, separated. Now kids is no longer a kid and we are still together, so to speak. In the time I dont have to see the wifey, it was being with her. We have travelled a lot overseas together and she is truly happy being with me. She was done with school and working now for a few years.

 

The beauty of things are, as long as my family is not disturbed and she never insist on it though it is quite natural for her to ask for a weekend or some longer time together than just a few hours and an afternoon. She does not want to be seen with me outside eating just in case we bump into someone I would know and Manila is a small place. Very understanding, very caring and we are a perfect match in bed. Never had sex with anyone so good ( i mean compatibility wise).

 

The past is over for her and I never ever brought up where she had been once upon a time, I live for the present and the future never dwelling on the past.

 

Money is not issue for me and I have helped her but she never ask for it even knowing how easy it would have been for me to give. Things I want to spend for her or do for her, sya pa and umaayaw. Things that would have made her future secure without having to work anymore but she insist on not doing or take.

 

Hard to find a girl like that. I am happy being with her. As a columnist once said, the reason why men has the other girl is that because when the man goes to see her other girl, she is at her best and wants to make it the best time possible being together, as the time is limited and few. Unlike the wife, who after all may have had too much of the man already or takes the man for granted. So imagine if every single hour, single minute is being happy. When I am stressed up with work, and I see her or be with her, I am just relaxed and even just lying down in bed doing nothing is already good enough to call off a business meeting.

 

Will this last a lifetime, why not? As long as she is able to balance between the peace I want in my home and just be happy with the restrictions, then I can see myself growing old with her.

 

Maybe so far this is one with a happy ending ( but mind you I have had my share of the horrors you guys talk about.) But hey its been almost ten years and each moment with her is just like it was the first time or to be realistic like the first few months, full of passion and joy.

you are the man! idol! too bad you were born in this monogamous-in name society, where the natural order of being polygamous is persecuted!

but why should men like you, have to hide?

Estrada, Revilla, Tan (to name a few)...are all polygamous! and being the patriarch, their families have to accept their lifestyles!

Maybe there are happy endings but those experiencing it don't bother to write about it here.

That's because the relationship is still on-going! a happy ending will be when we are still together when we die!

Ginarahe ko na yun angel ko! but i wouldn't call it a happy ending...the future is yet to come!

galing nga. kelangan niya ng pera pero di siya nag-aask. ako magpiprisinta na magbigay. kinukuha naman niya. haaayyy. langya pati jacket ko. nakuha! hehe! :cry:

hahaha! i remembered that i lent my jacket to my angel inside the VIP, when her time was over, she asked if she could keep the jacket! NO WAY! hahaha!

didn't give in to her demands for gifts or money! in the end, napasaakin pa rin sya! hahaha!

so guys, don't give in to your angels! once you give in, they will suck you dry! it is human nature!

To the guys who have fallen for MPAs/GROs/PSPs and the like, ask yourself these questions to ascertain if you really love the girl or are just infatuated:

 

1. Do you see yourself for the long-term with the girl?

 

2. Could you introduce the girl to your relatives?

 

3. Are you willing to face the verbal backlash of your friends/relatives?

 

4. Are you willing to accept and take responsibility for the excess baggage (kids, financial needs of their families, etc.)?

 

If your answers for all the questions are in the affirmative, then you do love the girl. If you answer just one question in the negative, most probably what you're feeling is infatuation.

1. doesn't matter! gro or not, i am confident enough that my happiness is not defined by any one person.

2. yes!

3. yes! not family nor friends have the right to dictate my life!

4. hell no! gro or not, only i get to enjoy my money, and it is my prerogative on how to spend it!

pano nga gagawin ko bosses eh ayaw pa naman nya gumarahe, madami pa syang responsibilities and ayaw nya i asa lahat daw un sa isang tao lang, gusto nya raw to make it on her own eh, i dunno what to do masters.

i am not privy to your details...but assuming you are a financially capable man...

make your arguments and convince her...a child has no obligation to support her parents! that is bullshit perpetuated by irresponsible parents! a person does not live for the sake of another! she should prioritize her happiness over others (assuming her happiness is to be with you), and if there are excesses (monetary), only then does a person share, and only the excess. martyrdom is stupid, they all die young!

ayaw nya i-asa lahat sa isang tao, but it's ok na i-asa lahat sa kanya??? call it what it is! a STUPID argument, by-product of the messiah complex she is suffering from, what most poor Catholic filipinos suffer from! this communist propoganda that her whole family has a right to share in her earnings! that is why they never improve their lives! they've given in to the cycle of poverty!

also, "making it on her own", could be achieved by being the woman of a rich man!

...of course, all of this is contingent on your own financial capabilities!

P.S. and if you are financially capable, don't just give money to her family, make them earn it! only then will they respect the value of money and hard work!

GOD help me im so in love infatuated with her cantt work, cant sleep, cant concentrate di ko na alm gagawin i just wanna be with her everyday but d nmn pwede, i just wanna be with her please help me, help me GOD

i agree with bangbang...if you want her! take her! i-garahe mo na!

don't stand around and do nothing, then whine about it when someone else takes her!

been there done that... best advice, dont even think of falling for women in this industry, it will bite you on the ass big time when that time comes. believe me. half the stories here end in sorrow. just enjoy the ride.

hmm...does that mean that "falling in love" for women not in the industry, will never bite you on the ass big time when that time comes? and those stories never end in sorrow?

Am in love with a psp right now. so madly in love that i'd do anything, well almost... am married and still is but contemplating... i know its wrong, its crazy, and darn outright stupid but the feeling is really so intense... so real that you like it (or love it) so much you can taste it and know can't live without it. that is why i know its real love because its all there.

heck, you guys can say anything, but who cares? am so happy (and in love) i don't give a f_ _ k....

Peace!!!

what's wrong, crazy and darn outright stupid is getting married in the first place where divorce is not an available option!

hmmm... why do i get the feeling you are either a philosophy major or an ex-seminarian?

 

am always thankful for your insights, sir.

 

best regards,

oh, i'm neither sir! just a student of life who refuses to live it base on dogma!

o, wise sir rearden...

your line of reasoning never ceases to amaze me! :thumbsupsmiley:

 

damn! if i could only let her see it this way...

just keeping it real sir! we are all suffering from the greco-roman corruption of christianity which includes "enforced monogamy"! we would be better off with the original Hebraic form of christianity where polygamy was well accepted in the sight of god and man! don't you think so?

think about it! in polygamic societies, a man is obligated to take care of his women! while in monogamic societies, men f#&k around without taking responsibility of the women he f#&ks!

i would rather have my daughter be the 2nd, 3rd or nth wife of a strong and capable man, than be the first wife, married to a weak and pathetic man who would f#&k her, have a number of children with her, then leave her to fend for herself when he fancies a younger woman!

in this world-view...

1. we will be able to take care of our angels without prejudice!

2. our angels will not have to suffer from the social stigma of being our unofficial wives!

3. men will think twice before entering into sexual relations with women, in the process eliminating the discriminated social class our angels belong to

HER: ....Sobrang mali na trabaho ko tapos dadagdagan ko pa ng pakikipagrelasyon sa taong pamilyado. Labag na labag na sa ten commandments yun, noh? Malaki pa rin naman takot ko kay Bro.

sir, I would have replied it this way...

technically speaking, the 10 commandments states that...

1. Thou shall not commit adultery

2. Thou shall not covet thy neighbour's wife

(i'm guessing this is what your girl was referring to)

first, in the correct context it was written (some 2000 years ago in a male dominated society), adultery is when a man has relations with a married woman. as long as your woman is unmarried, even if you are, then she is not in violation of the first commandment mentioned.

secondly, it states neighbour's "wife", not husband! she is not in violation of the second commandment mentioned.

that is why most biblical heroes had more than 1 wife

examples:

Abraham had Sarah (mother of Isaac), Hagar (mother of Ishmael), Keturah (mother of Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak, and Shuah) (references are Gen. 16:1, Gen.16:3, and Gen. 25:1.)

King David had Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, Abigail the Carmelitess, Maachah the daughter of Talmai king of Geshur, Haggith, Abital, Eglah, Michal, and Bathshua the daughter of Ammiel.

she is however, continually committing a "sin" by continuing to sleep with a number of men, and it is more to her best interest (bible-wise) to be your second "wife"

"bro" is in favor of her being your wife instead of being everybody's wife!

yes! for fun, but not for keeps! she's not loyal!

on a more serious note...

 

i know i'm going to come out of this experience hurt (although i hope not too bloodied).

i also believe this will make me a stronger, better person.

 

and when my children are older, i will come clean.

that once upon a time, i fell in love with someone besides their mother.

that i loved this woman unconditionally without any regard whatsoever as to her past.

that i even committed the heresy of contemplating leaving them for her.

 

perhaps my children will learn a lesson or two from what i've gone through.

my own dad did that (told me about an affair)...i think he was shocked with my reaction...

i told him that it didn't matter to me if he had another woman/women, and i didn't really care if he had other families...polygamy is very natural...the only thing that could have upset me was if he abandoned us or any1 of his hypothetical mistresses and their children...the thing that despises me most are WEAK MEN...men who have the audacity to have multiple wives, but not enough resources to take care of them!

impressive, sir.

very nice physiological insights on the nature of love.

 

still, the bottom line for me is:

I LOVE HER;

I WANT TO GET HER OUT OF THE MP BUSINESS;

I DON'T CARE IF SHE ENDS UP WITH ME OR NOT.

i feel the same way, i love all my angels! i want to keep all of them for myself!

LOVE OR LUST?

true, the sex came first, but heck, it wasn't even all that great. still, i came back again and again for her.

i've seen her tulo-laway while asleep, i've heard her snore, yet, i still feel the same for her. LUST pa rin ba matatawag run?

yes sir! lust is love! more specifically, the first stage of love...romantic feelings or lust is the first stage of love. Romantic love is driven by testosterone and estrogen. Mating is the evolutionary purpose of this stage of love; it creates strong physical attraction and sets the stage for emotional attachment. In this stage of love, endorphins soak your brain and you're immersed in intense pleasurable sensations. Your lover is perfect, ideal, made for you. In this stage of love you feel exhilarated and even "high" (similar to the feeling you get after you eat really good chocolate or have a great workout). You feel infatuated in this stage of love.

GETTING HER OUT

gee, if i had the resources, of course! but as a working class guy, married with two kids, i know my finances just won't cut it.

still, as far as my budget could handle it, when she makes lambing like "pa-rebond mo naman ako" or "i like this pair of shoes," i readily oblige.

i guess that's my way of making life a little easier for her.

ergo, the secon stage of love...

Physical attraction and power struggles make up the second stage of love (the "lovesick" phase). You may lose your appetite, need less sleep, and daydream about your lover on the bus, during meetings, in the shower. In this stage of love, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin are racing through your body and brain. You're also trying to shape your lover into your ideal partner – which is where the power struggles come in. In this stage of relationship, you're becoming more realistic, and you two may fight about things like whether or not to buy organic food or listen to country music. The infatuation is wearing off, a strong emotional attachment begins to set in, and feelings of infatuation fade.

HAPPY ENDING?

now, this is the tough part. after all the posts i've read here, i know i'm not going to end up with her.

someone more handsome, younger, richer will eventually take her away from me.

ay leche! di nya nga pala pa ako sinasagot!

finally, the last stage...

Emotional attachment or unconditional acceptance is the third stage of love. Emotional attachment involves commitment, partnership, and even children (a fear of intimacy prevents many from reaching this stage of love). In this stage of love, you're aware of both positive and negative traits in your partner, and you've decided you want to build a life together. Confrontation is most likely to occur in this stage of love (though if you're authentic and honest, it'll also happen in the second stage of love). You and your partner will either work towards a healthy, loving relationship or decide to call it quits.

I just want to share my story to all of you guys and I hope you can give me advice on this difficulty I may say that I am experiencing.

Does she really love me???

maybe yes, maybe no...but does it really matter? it's the same story over and over again, guys like you always worry about the most irrelevant of things, LOVE??? the real world don't care whether you love each other or not, the only thing that matters is are you "CAPABLE!" of what?...first off, supporting YOURSELF! secondly, supporting your WOMAN! lastly, supporting your OFFSPRINGS! (and since she already has children, are you really willing to waste you resources, life and money, on another guys offsprings? instead of using your limited resources on propagating your own??? - Cuckoo - a bird that tricks another bird to take care of his offspring! it also means a man who is a stupid incompetent fool)

Think about this, LOVE...is an evolutionary by-product to ensure that when a male and female gets together, both of them stay together to ensure the survival of their offspring...the truth is, from an objective point of view, all women pretty much all look alike for men, and vice versa, the LOVE aspect just ensures that the man will stick with the woman until such time that their child is capable of living on its own.

Also, based on psychologists study, romantic love (which is the phase you are in) lasts on average between 18 months to 3 years...how long have you been with this girl again?

Will it be possible for our relationship to work?

oh definitely! nothing is impossible! you could drop-out of school! (you'll have to, how the hell are you going to support your woman and her children when you are still studying in school?) if you are attractive enough, work as a "hosto" and whore yourself to rich gay men! instead of your woman whoring herself to rich old men!...or, you could enter the drug trade, a college degree is not really important in that line of business, and if you make the right moves, you can be one of the richest men in the country...or, if these 2 options are not to your liking, if your girl earns enough, you can just be her bitch!

What is your opinion on this guys? I am really in quite a dilemma to let go or just continue with what we have going on right now.

what dilemma? are you to proud to be her bitch?

solve the first three problems (real world dilemmas) I've mentioned above...1.) supporting yourself 2.) supporting your woman 3.) supporting your offspring/s...then you can worry about whether the girl loves you or not!

also, girls who work in clubs, are harassed by old men every night...but just like these old men are aroused by young women, these girls are also aroused by young men, and most of these girls keep young bf/fubu/husband...and maybe she just happens to fancy you...just enjoy it!

Face...the fact that you can see a beautiful face indicates that her fat content is low, her bone structure and facial muscle are prominent and not blurred by fat deposits, ergo she more or less has a sexy body (signifying health)

i envy you sir on this part. I have a steady GF GRO right now and mga 8 months na din kami but until now i cant recognized if she's really true to me.

There are days na feeling ko love nya ako but there are also times na feel ko pinapasakay lang tlga nya ako....

 

Well congrats na nga lang sir sa mga katulad mo and hopefully im making the right decision to stick to her

sir, may i ask? what's the difference between a gro gf being true and a non-gro gf being true?

8 mos. na kyo sir? in that 8 mos., what has your gro gf gained from you for you to expect her to be true?

all women, gro or not, have a shelf-life, from puberty to a few years after, women's physiology makes them very sexually attractive to men...and it is during this period, that all women must take advantage of...

this is more evident for gro girls, since their investing on their youth...in that short period of time, they should be able to maximize their profits for use in the future, because for most of them, this will be the most profitable venture they will ever have.

so sir, if you really want this girl, then take her. i-garahe nyo na para inyong-inyo na sya! if she "true" to you, sasama sya!

if you are not capable, then ikaw ang nanloloko sa babae, bakit sya magpapalaspag sa inyo kung wala rin sya mapapala...sayang panahon nya!

if you are capable, and ayaw nya sumama sayo, alam mo na na ikaw ang niloloko! dump the bitch!

on a side note, men who are capable, who takes women, uses them, and then throws them away even though the women completely surrendered to them, are the most pathetic breed!

the question should be "why some people love valentine's day?"

sa akin meron pa...

to each has its own..

kaya lang some people

naging judgmental na sa kanila...

if they are love ... they love them back...

kasi alam ko po kung gaano sila magmahal

at masasaktan...

 

i had a roommate who work as...GRO

i was too judgemental on her, pero

being christian nagstoop down ako sa level nya..

there i know how she was being independent

at the young age...and most of them are seeking

security in life just to feed their families, and determine

to continue schooling...nadadapa lang sila dahil

some men are very mean, paiibigin lang ...gagamitin

lang sila then left them with nothing...

 

truly naawa ako sa kanila...they shouldnt be treated

kaya mostly sa inyo nachachallenge to get your girl you

want especially "well-experienced" on that field, you cant

win them unless you have a key to their hearts...

 

i dont know if i answered your question bro...

pero tingin ko sila ay magdalena with true dignified well-being and with good principle sa family nila.

althought kinamumunghian sila sa society, i still salute with them...lahat ay gagawin para maiayos nila ang family.

 

isipin mo naman...sinakripisyo nila ang pagkababae nila alang alang lamang sa kanilang mga pamilya...

ma'am, i think the confusion lies in your use of the phrase: "greatest principle and dignity"

the superlative form "greatest", or any superlative fom, should only be used in the comparison of specific objects wherein a specific quality can be quantified. (i.e. comparing the volume, size, speed...)

using it in the metaphorical sense, as I presumed you have done, renders the terms meaningless...

these women have principles and dignity

...not the "greatest principle and dignity"...there is no such thing!

also ma'am, when you say that you stooped down to your friends level, that is a very judgmental thing to say!

finally,.....

the best answer for this thread,.......

i don't know you,..... but i'm with you,......

 

in my end,......

before i elaborate,....... i'm a guy and so it means i'm no girl hiding in these statements to clear the work that is being verdict negatively by most judgementals,......

and honestly,......

i am considered as veteran clubbers and i enjoy hopping to different clubs and bars checking ladies of certain kinds,......

i've been to asian entertainment, east asia, pharoah, d'boss and some other clubs and bars,.......

and i still take time to dropped by and even stay till gates closed,...... and evn looking for more spots to fill my hunger for more,.......

but one principle struck me like a landed UFO hit me from no where and nobody believes me,.......

and the principle that hit me,...... is the principle that is handing me over way back from college in my subject Philosophy,......

Justice comes first and everything follows,.......

now this message goes to each and everyone,....... awakening??? maybe,..... you weight it,......

 

so you say you know how to love???

you can't love someone if you're not being JUST (act of justice) with him/her,..... even simple unfairness defies justice,.......

and being judgmental out of nothing is defiant of justice,.......

 

so they're human too???? OBVIOUSLY,......

INDEED ACTUALLY!!!!!

 

where would you find the bunch of real ladies in this sick world?????

in the church??? come on,.... most of them just doing their washes,......

business establishments??? i'm a call center agent but i'm a great liar,....... i mean all of us,.......

at home??? haven't you lied with you parents or brothers/sisters??? come on,..... you never said you have a project that costs this and that???

no overpricing??? cutting classes??? telling mom no BF/GF yet??? staying late at school (duh) for project or activity but moving somewhere else???

come on,..... justice applies even to the smallest thing that you did,.......

and you think you're better than anybody else specially these ladies,........

i'm not saying their better than us,...... not even saying they're saints,........ and i won't come across stupid in your mind,.......

but who's the real person in this situation,.......

these ladies,..... they lie, they do s@%t, they sick off, they ruin lives,.......

but who's the victim actually,.........

they k*ll themselves,...... their pride,...... their humanity,..... faith,...... everything,...... and you think just for money,.....

hell NO!!!!!! they do it to build LIVES,...... LIVES of what means more to them,....... that they don't give a damn about themselves anymore,........

they've been cheated, been ruined, been crashed,.......

nobody knows all of the reasons behind it,...... but everyone would agree that most of them wouldn't want to have that kind of life if there's a better alternative,.......

some of them was raped, some by their father, brother, who ever, some was forced to do so, some was left by their husband, boyfriend, and all the burden, responsibilities, obligations, even the children to feed with, to give education with, even giving educations for themselves, for family,...... everything,.......

and who would give a damn???? have you helped any of them???? and by being judgmental, do you think you're helping them,..... everyone says think think think,...... about what???? about what's good for you???? you're penis???? come on,......

these ladies deserves respect,....... and in my end,..... i believe they deserve more respect than most of us,........

because they're choosing the path that they would never thought of or they never wanted in the first place but there's nothing they can do about it,........

so you outstanding guys out there saying you know better,....... think again,....... what if you're brought up to life because of this acts,.......

would you be proud of it,.......

me?? well,..... my mom has never done things like these,.... and what if it is??? well i'll be mad,...... i'll be ashamed,...... well, i'm just a human,.......

it hurts right???? it really hurts,...... or what if it's my sister, or who ever,... it hurts,...... so i'm not a JUST person,.... not always,.......

but atleast now that i know what they're going through is a burden of a life time,...... i'm thankful that i was brought up as a common guy,.......

because i wouldn't have better perspective for them,....... and now i know,.......

they have my gratitude,..... my thankfulness,........ my respect,.......

and i can tell maybe there will be sometime after proper realization that people who these girls gave or should a say waste their life with will be proud of them,.... and wake us up and make us proud of them in a way,........

you ladies (club ladies, dancers, starlet, variety, models, showgirls, MPAs, etc,.......

if no body can say it,........ or you've never heard of it,.......

i'll give you your rights to hear it,.... even if it's just plain reading,........

i won't pity you,...... because it's not what you need,...... but then on,....... thank you,....... because so far not everyday is a lucky day that you hear it sincerely,..... and i respect you,.... because you deserve it,......

and someday,.......

all these miseries and hardship will be paid off,....... and you'll have a better life,........ away from this tragedy that you're in,........

and you will be loved,....... right after you deserve your JUSTICE,.......

 

^^

 

sir, justice, implies impartiality, and you are doing an injustice by this hero-worship, this excessive glorification...

if you are going to love these women, then love them as you would love any other woman...nothing more and nothing less...that my friend is justice!

everytime you say that they deserve more respect...more of anything...you are doing an injustice! not only to these girls, but to every other girl not mentioned in your post.

they deserve respect, just as any other women, regardless of race, religion, or profession.

you might have learned "about" justice in your philosophy class, but you never understood "what" justice is!

they don't deserve more, they deserve the same! that is justice!

vanity?...beautiful women don't want their men to be prettier than them... :thumbsupsmiley:

It's a myth.

 

Men who wants to have sex are branded as normal.

Women who wants to have sex are called all sorts of names.

 

Why? Does this attitude exist only in the Philippines?

Because of the church!

We can count ourselves lucky. In the middle ages, even sex in marriage is frowned upon unless its for procreation!

Sex for procreation alone??? I guess they thought of people as cattle back then...