TanglewoodBoy

wowowee hahahahahah

dying to live -- pac and biggie on the same track, hahaahhaahhaa

what's wrong, crazy and darn outright stupid is getting married in the first place where divorce is not an available option!

looks like i learned this lesson too late bro, hahahahaha

but nobody has a perfect life di ba???

:flowers:

Yes. Generally, all marriages solemnized outside of the Philippines, in accordance with the laws in force in the country where they were solemnized, shall also be valid here in the Philippines, except those mentioned under Arts. 35 (1), (4), (5) and (6), Arts 36, 37 and 38 of the Family Code.

Thanks so much sir, anyways, para binding din yung new relationship ko if ever i would find someone again...

but what are those ARTICLES you mentioned?? what kind of problems i may have regarding this???

ditto, sir.

 

i guess these women come into our lives for a reason.

in my case, i got to know myself even more.

demet, full-blooded Ilocano - kuripot - then i meet this woman and bam!

i didn't know i could be as generous as hell, without expecting anything in return.

(well, except siguro, yung ma-acknowledge lang na special ako sa kanya.)

hahahahhah biglang naging galante ang ILOCANO, nyahahaahha

anyways, maybe there will be something good that will come out of this....

sometimes, sir, i do think this is God's way of punishing me for my indiscretions.

other times naman, i think there must be a reason why He put me in this situation:

...to help her get out?

...to know myself and what i'm capable of?

i really don't know.

 

time and time again, i ask myself "bakit sya pa?" and i couldn't answer myself.

 

don't worry, sir.

even if my wife and i do have problems, never kong idadamay yung mga anak ko.

my time with and attention for them will never be compromised.

 

thanks again...

kaya nga bakit ganun talaga?? i also ask myself a lot of questions why i did met her in the first place, i guess we are never contented with what we have siguro as a person, we often find what's more in store for us -- it maybe money, a new love, a new car etc...

with regards to my situation, ok na sakin siguro yung alam ko na naging special ako sa kanya, kahit alam ko na di magiging kami...

thanks again BUDDY!!

thank you, sir, i think.

unfortunately, it's not "friendship" i'm after.

 

i want her to acknowledge that i'm special to her.

she's not gonna be a homewrecker or anything.

gees, i don't even know what i'm gonna do if she changes her mind.

for sure, it's going to be complicated - but i'm willing to go through it with her.

 

that's how much i love this woman.

ganun talaga bro di ba?? sometimes fate has a way of slapping us in the face, who would have thought na may asawa ka na and yet you find someone na kasing mahal mo ng asawa mo??? bakit kaya ganun???

but tama yun, wag ka lumaban ng perahan kasi magiging madugo yun if you're not financially capable of beating out the other guys....

but i am sure you will make the right decisions bro, just devote your time to your kids na lang siguro...

thank you, sir.

and a MERRY CHRISTMAS to you, too! :hypocritesmiley:

and have a great new year as well sir!!!

i still am intrigued by the name of your LOVE!!

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for the first time in my life, i was able to finish the Simbang Gabi! :thumbsupsmiley:

 

i collected the 9 missalettes, stuffed them in a Christmas card, then i put a note on top of these:

"dear God,

....i did this for her.

....please get her out.

....i will be forever grateful.

....Amen.

 

me"

 

since i don't have the financial resources to get her out of the business, i reckon this is the next best step i can take.

 

this is the last thing i will do for her out of love.

 

TWB's parting words struck a deep chord within me. i've searched myself and realized: i will never be special to her.

 

i did my best to win her love, and i can live with that.

unfortunately, i don't have what it takes to break through that fortress around her heart.

i can - and will only - be her friend.

 

and though the heavens curse me for falling in love with this woman under the direst of circumstances,

may God redeem me for wanting nothing for her but true love and happiness.

I don't have words to say that would make you change your situation but i think you made the right decisions my friend.....

maybe the times she was used and abused made her heart strong and cold that's why she can never love you the way you wanted it too...

i think it's best when you just wish her happiness in life...

BMW 3 series IS OK.....hehehehehe

guys, guys, medyo OT pero i just wanna share this.

just watched THE GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE starring Sasha Gray (a real porn actress) and directed by Steven Soderbergh (Traffic, Oceans Eleven, etc). great movie, parang style documentary on the life of a upscale PSP. if you're looking for hardcore sex, this is not for you. but, if you want to see things from a PSP's perspective, you would enjoy this.

 

para di naman ma-warning-an...

 

for StoicVampire, let this quote apply to you:

"it is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all."

 

just put your heart out on your sleeve, if she acknowledges you, then give it (the relationship) all you've got.

if she doesn't, be happy knowing that she knows how you truly feel for her. no more "what if's" clouding your mind.

well said bro, LOVE truly is a complicated emotion, it can bring out the best or worst in any person...

50% sex, 50% love....

boy, you are indeed lucky, sir.

gawin nya lang sa kin yun, i'd be one happy SoB.

 

a small gesture lang, kahit ano, just to make me feel different.

na kahit may umaaligid sa kanyang mas bata, mas macho, mas mayaman - maramdaman ko na angat ako sa kanila.

 

yun lang po wish ko (paging Vicki Morales, pls )

actually i texted her na pamasko na lang niya sa akin na makita siya, nyahehehehhe

i was already asleep when she called na papunta na daw siya, syempre, sibat ako agad sa bahay, heheheeh

anyways, good luck to you as well sir...only you can determine if special ka sa kanya, but i am sure you will make the right decisions bro!!

Oh man! Eventhough this thread could be one of the longest ones we have in this site, thoughts of you people (i haven't read all the comments yet just browsed some) encouraged me to tell the feelings I have for this girl. Love or lust? I really don't know. Nung una ko siyang nakita, I didn't even think of her being in that kind of business. A PSP if we may call it. A typical teenager na mukhang flirtatious and fun loving. Then into our deed, I don't know if this is due to lust that I wanted to be with her. We had sex but I think that is only a small part of it. Gusto ko talaga siyang makasama as in sa mga lakad, dates, without cash involved. Just wanted to be with somebody who I can talk and share fun with. I'm still single right now and there have been instances that I got interested with a girl but haven't had the courage to tell her (torpe kasi). I don't know if it is due to the fact that I already got her...if you know what I mean. But I could care less with what happened. I don't care about her past or what she does. I'm not that type of a person that will buy everything that you want just to impress you or to get a better lay. Actually I only buy presents for my sibling and parent (singular lang dahil ibang istorya na yan) at syempre inaanak pag pasko. But when she asked me for a gift, this coming Christmas, I didn't hesitate to get one for her. I'm not a boastful or a flashy type of a person. And with all honesty, guys...i told her that she will get one indeed. Maybe some of you will say na ginagatasan lang ako (which could be true considering her business) but I could care less. Minsan nga nagpahaging na ko sa kanya na pwede bang mayaya sa isang date. As in formal date. Bigla nagtaka. Ako naman lumabas na naman ang pagkatorpe ayun bigla iwas sa topic. Gusto ko lang talaga siya makausap palagi kahit sa text lang. Keep in touch with her. Know what's happening with her everyday (not a stalker type ok?). Forget sex and the service. I want her to know that there is something deeper involved with the relationship that I have with her. Say anything you want. Tell me I'm stupid and an idiot. (I'm sure ma ko quote yung huling sentence. Hehe!) Di ko na alam gagawin ko eh. I'm still thinking twice maybe because it's just lust? Pero di talaga guys. I want to let her know. That's it.

my advice is go for it bro, if she rejects you, then move on...

kaysa naman you will regret not telling her how you feel later on..

good luck bro!

that's an interesting insight, sir.

in one of our discussions, she confided in me that there were guys interested in putting her up in a condo.

kaso, ayaw nya because they were married and she didn't want any trouble eventually. she also values her freedom.

 

i already told her i can afford to break my wife's heart, but not my children's. di sila dapat madamay dito sa pinasok ko.

 

i guess what i'm looking for is some sort of validation. tao lang naman po tayo - na makaramdam ako na iba ako sa mga guests nya.

but, then again, that's just wishful thinking.

 

as for your other observation, hmmm... it is possible that you may know her.

but, for my sake, i hope not!

 

peace...

actually, i was in that situation before, but like you i needed VALIDATION and i had it, pinapunta niya ako dun sa spa na pinapasukan niya before to just meet up, she's not asking for anything just to see me and that made me happy..

for me, tama na sa akin yun to know that she values me as a friend kahit di maging kami...

but, what does she feel for you, sir?

napag-usapan nyo ba yun?

 

in my case, i know where i stand.

no matter how much of myself i give to this woman, i don't think she'll ever see me as anyone more than a guest.

i am sure she knows you're married sir kaya ganun feeling niya sa iyo, if you were single, things would have been a lot different i am sure...

if you have no intention of leaving your family to be with her, then, ok na siguro yun sir since what you care about is her HAPPINESS...

baka kilala ko siya sir since well rounded ako sa QC area nga lang (spas, mp's, ktv's etc...hehehehe)

good luck sir!!!

Nope, it's Splender.

oh sorry madam, i stand corrected, hahahahha

impressive, sir.

very nice physiological insights on the nature of love.

 

still, the bottom line for me is:

I LOVE HER;

I WANT TO GET HER OUT OF THE MP BUSINESS;

I DON'T CARE IF SHE ENDS UP WITH ME OR NOT.

i think this confirms you really love her sir, kasi you're putting her own happiness first before your own..

very nice sir though your avatar scares me, hahahahaaah

backread and i saw the answers, thanks po...

so i would be spending 150-200k and the process takes around 6-8months, malabo yata na ako re-marrying again, hehehehehe

but if i marry abroad, will that be legal here?? thanks sa sasagot!! pero both filipino citizens kami???

sir REARDEN,

that's a very harsh truth and i am sure the one who posted the question will be glad you said it, hahahahahah

if my dad could post, he would post just like you, hahahahhaa

kudos sir!!

I just want to share my story to all of you guys and I hope you can give me advice on this difficulty I may say that I am experiencing.

 

Does she really love me???

Will it be possible for our relationship to work?

What is your opinion on this guys? I am really in quite a dilemma to let go or just continue with what we have going on right now.

just my 2 cents bro,

1. siguro she doesn't love you in the sense na she would jump into a relationship, maybe sobrang bait ka lang sa kanya, being a gentleman and a real true person kaya she said the things she said but as for jumping into a relationship with you, i don't think that would happen in the near future...

2. will the relationship work?? i don't think it will because you said STUDENT ka pa lang, if you're working or earning that much, i do believe pwede pa if tanggap mo maging daddy sa kids niya...but that alone is hard what more the financial difficulties??

my advise is to take things slow bro, if you have a stable job and earn that much, maybe you will find a girl na tama lang for you...

good luck bro!

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I watched Paranormal activity after some convincing by the GF, hahahaha

it was scary but i was scared by films like THE RING and the GRUDGE (both japanese versions of course, hahaha)

:thumbsupsmiley:

on a more realistic note, SUBARUU FORRESTER like my friend has, nyahahahaha

Dudes here's my fare share:

 

Bus specially in EDSA: To crowded,King of the road but in a super barbaric manner( mga bastos!) for the ones commuting...its a double wammy situation: specially for those bus lines whom their compensation is commision based..The sardines bus!! , they screen each other within the city limits highway that makes them supreme violators of traffic rules endangering their passangers and other motorists..designated bus stops will take you around 20mins to 30 mins specially in cubao area..adding stress to commuters.

 

Jeepneys: swervers/smoke belchers and morons of the road, picks up and drops off passangers wherever they want to...not to mention trip cutters. :grr:

 

Taxi: different rates but they use a gadget(Cab drivers call it BATINGTING) with hidden switch for the to manipulate the meter...

plus foul smelling taxi interiors...dang!!!

how so true bro, hahahahahahha

That's why i will never ever ever buy a gun, kasi madami kang mapapatay or worse you get to be the one killed by these A holes, ayyy...

siguro just play cool soothing music para di mapaaway and the mood for driving will be light, nyahahahaah