TanglewoodBoy

naghihintay -- jacob

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Yeah...nag-mellow down nga ako dahil sa kanya e. 'Trying to stay away from the alcohol muna and re-direct my energies to writing, work, sleeping more...

 

Mahirap pag nakita mo nga naman ulit yung mahal mo. As much as possible, di nga ako tumitingin sa building ng office niya kasi baka maaninagan ko pa siya. We even talked about that..kung magkita kami. It's better for the one who saw who first to look away and veer away before contact happens. Buti sana kung pwede kaming maging magkaibigan e. Pero due to special circumstances, kahit yun hindi pwede (bukod sa mahal pa rin namin at isa't isa but it really isn't meant to be).

 

It's harder on my part because I feel that I'm the more loving one...to a fault

 

So it was also me who had to let go and stay away...because I'm the more loving one. He could only reciprocate and let me go as well... :cry:

well, we can't make somebody love us the way we wanted it to be, so I SALUTE YOU for letting go of him and staying away, in my case, it's a different story and i had no control of her decision though i think that's the best decision for her.....mahabang story eh, hahaha

anyways, if she ever comes back in my life, i will love her twice as much as before!! promise yun!! kahit alam ko na di magiging kami...

One day at a time, one step at a time...agree!

 

Aside from best friends, it's good to be around people in general. It helps you realize that you are not the only one suffering. On the other hand, it also helps you realize how big the ocean really is.

it will be hard the first few days but try to stay sober as much as possible, before i cried while i was drinking alone, ang hirap hirap...

then i saw her again after a few months, i still love her so much but it's not meant to be....alam ko na di magiging kami, though i knew i tried and did my all...

I think the key here is getting by one day at a time, try to as much as possible let the day pass as fast as possible...

me, i usually drank every night so i could sleep early, nevermind if i was crying while drinking (alone)

it helps if you have a best friend who will see your side and give you perspective on things..

How about its variation - " I don't deserve you and I know you know that"

well dear, depends on how you say it, it might sound insulting kasi you're showing your superiority sa other person, hehehe

if the other person is a loser / jobless etc... then that's appropriate, hehehehe

also, "puro ayaw lang hahantungan natin kaya it's best we go our separate ways!!"

hey, MITSU thread ito guys, hehehehehe

MITSUBISHI for LIFE!!!

i finally saw her last night.

i was able to give her that card i worked so hard for last holiday season.

la lang - no reaction - she thought i was gonna give her this Lord of the Rings pendant she coveted from a fellow MPA.

 

i think i'm going to be alright.

i have closure.

but, then again, the final test would have to be -

to read an FR about her and feel my heart not even make a twitch.

 

to all the guys who gave me meaningful advice, notably TwB, my heartfelt gratitude.

 

to the members who are still in this situation, i wish you enlightenment - which may or may not necessarily lead to a happy ending.

 

pahinga muna ako sa MP scene.

it has been one hell of a ride, gentlemen.

would i go through it again? i'd rather not.

pero, di natin masabi. mahirap turuan ang puso, eh.

 

i tried; i failed.

i loved; i lost.

i lived; i learned.

 

i'll be lurking around...

peace out...

well, at least you still have your family brother, i suggest you spend more time with your loved ones, specially your child(ren)...

take care always bro...good luck!!!

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Thanks man!

 

It was tough then though. Buti na lang at naka move on na. Whew!

yeah bro, you may have moved on but the memories of you and her remain....

kudos and cheers!!

idol,

this is the toughest dilemma i've had to face. call me a hypocrite because i did meet her in this kind of work, but once i've learned to love her, the mere thought of other men touching her makes me hate myself so much because i couldn't do anything about the situation. reading an FR about her makes me feel even worse.

well, you just have to be blind about the FR's bro, don't read it and don't think about it, at least you know in you that you have someone special with this girl...

i have that same dillema too with heR, kaya i never read the FR's regarding her, lalo lang sasama loob mo kasi...

Boy meets girl. All of a sudden I began missing her then just found my self head-over-heels for her. We became very close friends. I met her family. We dated several times and I still treasure each of those moments. We spent hours on the phone. Talks were good. Sometimes we even stay on the line in silence. Just knowing that the we have each other on the line meant something to us then.

 

It didn't became us for some reason. She had relationship with other guys. I remember that there was a time when I visited her while her BF was there. We argued over a certain issue and I even yelled at her BF and said "hwag kang makialam, BF ka lang". Even I was surprised that I said that.

 

Her family migrated. During their dispedida, her x BFs weren't there. She spent most of the night with me. That good bye was a mix of joy and pain.

 

I thought then that I was a total loser but looking back I realized how much I gained. That love shaped me.

 

I guess there are times when the love and the romance goes beyond the body. It touches a deep space in the heart and it stirs the soul.

wow, great story bro....

tama ka dun sa last statement mo...

we spoke today and she is asking me if im ready to be with her, i asked her na ready ako but she needs to quit her job and ang sabi nya is nabigla sya sa request ko kasi right now hindi pa sya ready to quit and she is still waiting for a genie who would fulfill her wish, pag nakita na nya un saka na lang daw sya mag iisip para sa sarili nya, idol ang gulo nya dko maintindihan, does these means na im not good enough for her and she's still waiting for that someone who would give or provide what she needs for her family, darn ang gulo dude, gusto nya magsama na kmi pero bakit kelangan sbihin nya skin ung ganun, dko maintindihan idol, ano ibig sabihin nun she loves me or she just needs me for the meantime, dude im so hurt right now i cant sleep, i asked her to explain the genie part but up to now wala pa din sya reply sa messages ko, i tried calling her up pero her fone was closed i dunno it its closed or lowbat, please help me masters dko na alam gagawin, i really love her so much, should i let go para ma fulfill ung mga dreams nya, like what ive told u all i am willing to let go just to see her be happy, ako ok lang cguro id just die na lang dko ko kaya eh

bro,

that means she really cares for you pero the financial aspect really affects your relationships, i would suggest you na be with her, give her support para naman kahit ganun trabaho niya, she still has a reason to smile and that reason is you...tiisin mo na lang kung ano yung trabaho niya and the thought of what she do to other men...mahal mo talaga eh..

in the end bro, nothing in life comes easy, in my case, as i tried my best to make it easy, di pa din eh..so if you really love this girl, prepare to make sacrifices..so in the end, it will work out, if not, at least you have loved someone truly in your lifetime and yun ang di nababayaran ng pera, yung experience na ganun!!

hope that helps bro, good luck!!

:thumbsupsmiley:

"and how can i stand here with you and not be moved by you..

would you tell me how could it be...

any better than this???"

agreed, idol. :thumbsupsmiley:

we must be thankful, and i admire your optimism.

 

if i did have a relationship with her, those are not the words which would come out of my head, though.

i would prepare myself for a COMPLICATED life, but i am willing to go through it because I LOVE HER.

well, you will never know how complicated it is not unless it would happen to you but only you can answer that if ever you would really want that or not considering your situation in life...

just update na lang regarding your situation my friend...Good Luck as always!!

miss you R - - - - A so much!!!

well, we must think first and foremost to thank this person because SHE has been a part of our life and vice versa, still, i always think what could have been kung naging kami....it would have made my life happier, brighter and my outlook on life would have been more positive...

i do miss her but what's done was done and you just have to live with the consequences of your actions..

i don't deserve someone as great as you, hahahahaha

what if that other person is showing signs na type ka din niya and yet commited siya?? hehehhe

i think my journey is about to end.

i just need to see her one last time...

 

just lay it on the line my online friend, and see what happens, i know you know whatever consequences may arise...

i really really wish the best for you both!!

to heR,

YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY HEART AND SOUL!!

R

Guys....I really don't want to let go of this girl. I've really fallen in love with her and I don't want to lose her. Mas matagal na kayo sa mga ganitong sitwasyon and suggestions will be very much appreciated. I already told her the feelings that I have for her. She didn't hesitate to tell me that she is willing to give me a chance. I was very grateful for that. Anyways she is a PSP and still loved her knowing that. I'm not telling bullshit but this was the very first time I fell in love with a girl. I had prospects before but I sorted out my feelings. One, the girl is just gorgeous (of course sino ba naman ang di maaakit dun di ba), malambing at mabait (kahinaan ng mga lalaki). But kung sasabihin kong didiskartehan ko if ever may chance ako, di ko ginawa dahil di ako sigurado. Turned out to be true. But with her, I know we can work something out. Kung lust lang to, I could get another PSP and get laid. Then I'm off. Ang hirap. Minsan tinanong ko siya kung bakit nya napili tong ganitong trabaho at sabi ko marami pa ring alternatives. Malabo yung sagot eh. Di naman ako nangungulit kaya hinayaan ko na lang. Then one time nagtext sa kin at kung pwedeng humingi ng favor. Tinanong ko kung ano. Kung pwede ko raw siyang bigyan ng client. Ouch! Tinamaan ako. Sabi ko sa kanya pag ginawa ko yun para ko na ring sinampal yung sarili ko. Sabi ko sa kanya nun di ko siya pipigilan sa trabaho niya at di na namin pag-uusapan kong anuman yung "extrang" ginagawa niya. Para ba namang ibinugaw ko siya pag ginawa ko yun. Ang sakit naman na tulong yun sabi ko sa kanya. I don't know if what I said was right because she really needed the money. Pero di ko talaga makakaya na manggaling sa kin yun. Ang sakit! Mahal na mahal ko yung tao! Estudyante pa siya at nag-aaral sa isang private school. Then tinanong ko kung bakit wala siyang budget. I told her na nag-aral din ako sa isang private school but may budget pa rin naman kahit papano. Ang reply "ako daw yun at di siya". Patay....sabi ko nagalit ata. Everything turned out cold. I'm still single and working right now but my salary is not enough to get her out of it. Kung sasabihin nyong libog lang, nasasainyo yan. I'm in a dilemma right now. Cannot think, or judge and I don't want to mess things up. I want to straighten things up with her....... :sadsmiley02:

well, here's my 2 cents bro...

since di mo naman siya kaya pang buhayin, i really suggest you stick it out muna, just hold on, but please tell her na wag na wag ka niyang sabihan to get clients for her, tell her di mo kayang sikmurain yung thought na yun....

if you're financially ready, then i guess that's the time you take it one step further, you're playing a lose lose game bro pag sumabay ka ng gastusan kasi nga di mo kaya...

i think this is better kaysa mawala siya sa yo ng tuluyan, just tell her i will always be your friend, you will always be my girl!!

good luck bro!!

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THANK YOU MOTOLITE PEOPLE!!!

ito ay mga article sa Family Code of the Philippines.

 

ang ibig lang sabihin ng mga article na ito, pwedeng magpakasal ang Pilipino sa ibang bansa at ang kasal nya run ay may bisa sa Pilipinas kung ang kasal na ito ay hindi ipinagbabawal sa Pilipinas.

 

halimbawa ng mga bawal:

 

kung kayo ay may-asawa na, at nagpakasal kayo sa ibang bansa, walang bisa ang kasal mo kahit legal sa bansang yun ang kasal mo.

kasal sa pagitan ng dalawang lalaki/dalawang babae. kahit pa legal sa bansang yun ang kasal sa pagitan ng parehong kasarian, pagdating sa Pilipinas, walang bisa yun.

 

kasal sa pagitan ng magpinsang buo. kahit pa legal sa bansang yun ang kasal ng magpinsan, pagdating sa Pilipinas, walang bisa yun.

 

ang siguraduhin mo lang, may kapasidad kayong magpakasal sa ilalim ng batas ng Pilipinas. kung kayo ay pwedeng magpakasal sa Pilipinas, maari kayong magpakasal sa ibang bansa at yun ay may bisa pagdating mo dito sa Pinas.

looks like di din pala pwede sir, thanks so much, hehehe

i thought pag kinasal ka sa ibang bansa valid pa din yun even if you are already married here...

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to love myself first, not give my all kasi ang hirap pag umalis siya sa buhay mo...

it's like you have built your life around that person tapos pag nag break kayo, it's like di mo alam how to live your life kasi nga sanay ka na andyan siya palagi...

another chance by roger sanchez

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of course not, sir.

your thoughts are always welcome.

 

what you're saying might very well be true - na ibinigay siya sa akin ng Diyos para guluhin ang buhay ko nang umayos-ayos ako.

 

and also, as i have mentioned in my other posts, her ending up with me is a secondary concern.

the "happy ever after" ending i'm looking at is for her to get out of the business.

if she chooses to love me and stay with me awhile after that happens, i would consider that as icing on the cake.

 

as for your last question. i don't know the answer, yet.

my mind tells me to cut clean because if i really want a new life for her, i should not be part of it since i also contributed to her sordid past. there should be nothing that would remind her of her former life.

on the other hand, my heart tells me otherwise. once she's free from her past, that's the only chance i may have of knowing what it would be really like for her to love me.

 

tough...

i knew that this would be your dilemma bro kaya i was asking your thoughts but i am sure you will make the decision if this indeed happens, if you truly love your family, chances are, just try to forget her my friend!!!

good luck as always!!

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and i am ready for both, i truly am.

i just want this woman to take a chance with me.

 

i wish you likewise, sir.

thanks always... :thumbsupsmiley:

sir,

i may say you this and please don't find anything offensive with this post..

maybe the reason why she would not fall for you is because GOD wants you to keep your family and not break it assume she comes into the picture?? don't you find that as a blessing???

kasi ang hirap hirap ng pinasok mo sir, how do you get out of it??? and the happy ever after ending seems so bleak...

if makaalis man siya ng work niya which you want, what will happen next?? will you still have a relationship with her kahit friendship or sex = money thing???