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Aey.Sean

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  1. Ang pinakadehado at talo pag nanakit ang lalake ng babae ay lalake din mismo. Kasi no matter what the reasons maybe, no matter how badly provoked he is, sa mata ng tao at ng batas sya ang lalabas na masama. Sya ang laging demonized.

     

    Advice nga lagi, pag talagang puputok na busti mo sa kakadakdak ng asawa o GF mo, its better to really walk away. Just walk away and cut all avenues for communication. Time does wonders to cool everything down. Go to the gym and hit the heavybag till your heart explodes out exhaustion. Whatever you do, never fight fire with fire.

     

    Huwag na huwag mo hahayaan talaga mawalan ka ng control sa sarili mo. Parang drugs kasi talaga ang sobrang galit, nakaka-high, at talagang nawawalan ka ng control sa sarili mo. Kahit nga sa mga sparring di ba? Sinasabi huwag na huwag ka mapipikon. Kasi pag galit ka, iisipin mo lang gusto mo gawin sa tao, hindi mo iisipin ano pwede mangyari sayo pagkatapos

     

    Sa kaso ng babae, hindi yan syempre makakaganti ng sapak, pero pag umiyak na yan sa pamilya nya, sa kaibigan, at lalong lalo pa sa pulis o barangay yari ka talaga.

     

    +1, Thumbs up for this one.

  2. I'd like to do some intellectual distinguishing in answering this question.

     

    1. If "begging" is the same as "ipaglaban," then yes. But I think there's a difference between "nagmakaawa" and "ipaglaban." I think "nagmakaawa" or "begging" entails lowering your head too much. That's something I wouldn't consider myself doing. In the case of my latest ex, her brother, whom I really consider an upright individual, asked me, "hindi mo ba ilalaban ang pagmamahal mo?" To that question, I answered, "syempre... ilalaban ko. Hindi naman basta-basta kong isusuko kapatid mo." I confided with him I knew his sister was already cheating on me, and having an affair with a middle-eastern guy.

     

    2. Marami ang dahilan kung bakit iiwanan ka ng mahal mo. And, if your (ex)partner is really determined to leave you, I guess, there's no point in begging not to be left behind. You may prevail, but that will mean the reason for a potential break-up is just something minor. HOWEVER, if a 3rd party is involved, the chances of success are very very slim. (Kaya nga nagka-3rd party kasi hindi ka na kaaya-aya. Tsaka, masmasarap naman talaga ang 3rd party, di ba? Kaya nga laganap ang pangangaliwa!)

     

    To a certain extent, it is mark of true love if one does not give up so easily on someone you love. But, I guess, there should be a limit to everything. Hindi mo rin mapipilitan ang sinomang ayaw na sa yo. As for yourself, have some self-respect also. Don't abase yourself too much.

     

     

    Well said, thumbs up and keep your head up. Kudos

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