ligtasan

You were the light in my darkness, the warmth to my cold, my heart, my love.

We were only destined for a brief moment. A wolf and a princess, never to be.

All that we had, must now end. A soulless pain, an empty bed.

A ghostly whisper and a familiar scent,

all I this I will remember.

Shigata ga nai, kirie hana. Shigata ga na.

I wrote that to my exchange student gf in college when she had to go back to Japan and I had to be redeployed. The poetry sucks but you get the idea.

My ex said she was a virgin so we waited for 6 months before we went all the way. Before that, all I ever did was oral on her. As long as she came I was happy. It is NEVER a good thing to force a girl. You have to wait until she feels she's ready to make that one big step.

Once she does, you have to take it really slow (do not ram yourself inside). It's all about making her feel comfortable. If you see that she's still scared about you going in; you have to calmly reassure her that you will be as gentle as possible. If she has second thoughts, respect her wishes. If she's willing to continue, foreplay is very important. Don't go in all the way, and before you actually do enter try distracting her by nibbling her ear (or something else) at the moment of entry.

Remember that this is her FIRST time. This will be a flood of new sensations and emotions for her. You have to be able to talk to her afterwards (pillowtalk); hold her in your arms and lay all her fears and concerns to rest. Don't just turn over and start snoring. NEVER forget that she's giving you something that's precious to her and she feels you are the person most worthy of receiving her gift. No "wham bam thank you ma'am here". It's going to get very emotional so be prepared for that.

nosebleed....

 

we can do some body language....just dont speak.

 

 

will you still love me even if im frigid?

Yes, it just means that I'll have to try that much harder to please you when we make love

Will you still love me if I'm hairy?

Time and again I asked that we deal with everything out together as a couple. I gave her my heart (and almost a ring) only to find out that her aunt and uncle didn't see me as a future nephew-in-law but rather just a visa. I then found out she was texting this artista wannabe in Bamban that was dying to get into her panties. We argued about it especially when it came out that if this guy, "would have never texted back" I would never have known about his texts to her (so much for honesty and dealing with problems together, eh?). I found that she'd flirted with this guy through text and that she lied about my brother having another gf to this sack of sh*t just to keep the conversation with him going.

WTF happened to just ignoring his texts? Found out the A-hole is just another cheap provinciano who thinks he's something because Daddy owns 2 jeepneys. Wore the fake shades from Divisoria and had his entire style copied straight from the latest FHM with fake brands and cheap knockoffs via the palenke.

I broke up with her and took out my pain on the Richard Guiterrez wannabe. Since I don't hit girls he got double the hits (guess he was just a lover , not a fighter). It felt VERY good to make sure he remembered that nothing comes without a price. He wants my ex, he can have her. If she wants him, fine. As long as she doesn't mind taking care of a guy missing 7 teeth (all in the front) and has a permanent limp.