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Bluelantern

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  1. She found someone else that she wanted to get serious with.
  2. Both. A relationship without love or sex is a platonic relationship. Both are required for a typical romantic relationship to last.
  3. "I don't love you anymore". Oof that was rough.
  4. By default you should go with the legal wife. I mean why else would you make the commitments and promises of marriage? However if things have gotten so bad that you have a mistress, but also are considering leaving your wife for her, it's best to figure out and resolve the marriage. Whether that's counseling, opening the relationship, separation, breaking up/ending the marriage etc. Trying to balance 2 relationships, especially when one or both are expecting commitment and monogamy will almost never end well.
  5. Probably face and/or hair. I'm not attracted to very curly hair. A pretty face will always get a bit more attention.
  6. It might have been an issue when I was a teenager. However I've lived long enough that virginity doesn't matter. Same with number of previous sexual partners or whatever. People live their own lives, and it's only now that we've crossed paths and met. Who am I to hold what they did before they even met me over their head?
  7. As a visitor/tourist, I'd assume any first dates would be a nearby mall. Gotta enjoy that A/C.
  8. I'd assume Ages are often adjusted or edited.
  9. I'm not sure how unusual they'd be considered, but here's a few for me: Straight hair Ponytails Good communication (ie: regular updates if meeting up, or informing me they have to go/are busy) Minimal makeup (not a fan of lipstick since I like to kiss a lot) Comfortable clothing (I dislike heels, and regularly worried about getting stabbed in the foot) Decent/Good English
  10. It all depends on the agreement between the people involved. In today's world, there's polyamorous people, there's people in open relationships, there's people who are married but don't have sex with each other, and there's people in monogamous relationships. I like to think that if I commit and promise to be exclusive with someone I'll follow my word and be exclusive only to them and I'd expect the same from my partner. That being said I'm realistic and if things happen in the relationship and one or both people aren't happy, then something needs to change. The couple needs to communicate and figure out a solution that they can agree on, or otherwise it's better to just end the relationship. Life is too precious to waste years in an unhappy relationship.
  11. Peace, comfort, financial stability, good health and good sex.
  12. I don't care if someone is weird, socially awkward, unfashionable, ugly, poor, whatever. I don't see them as losers. Many of them are just living their lives and are normal people with flaws. We all have flaws, no one is perfect. IMHO the "losers" of the world are those who hate and want to spread that hate and pain in the world. Incels, racists, misogynists, anti-LGBT, people who hate based on a person's religion or nationality, etc. It doesn't matter if they're rich and power, if they let hate thrive in their heart, and seek to spread that out into the world through words, violence or actions, they're complete and utter losers in my opinion.
  13. Cheating is pretty much a deal-breaker for me when we've already decided on exclusivity. If we were non-exclusive, I'd be supportive as a friend and maybe fubu, but have zero desire to be a father.
  14. When I was in my 20s I was attracted to older women. A woman can be sexy to me anywhere from 20s to 50s. I mean Jennifer Aniston is 54, JLo is 54, Julia Roberts is 56, etc. I admit there's a sexiness to a woman who is comfortable in her body and sexuality, that often isn't found in younger women. It often takes time and experience for that to develop.
  15. Ugh 15W and 17L so far for the season. Here's hoping the young players get more playtime as our vets try and figure things out.
  16. For here in the Philippines, I can't leave home without: 1. Keys 2. Wallet 3. Phone 4. Toilet Paper 5. Immodium LOL. Seems like every trip here I get stomach problems sooner or later.
  17. First thing is probably empty my pockets and change into comfortable clothes.
  18. Zero. I'm child free now, and hope to remain that way for the rest of my life. Bringing a child into the world is a huge responsibility that I've decided is not for me.
  19. Regenerative Healing Factor for me. https://powerlisting.fandom.com/wiki/Regenerative_Healing_Factor IMHO, having the super power to live a long, healthy life with your body in a constant state of optimal health would be the jackpot. Sure it's not super flashy or fancy. However it's really something that would be incredible. We all take having good health for granted until we don't. Whether it's due to an injury, accident, sickness etc. It's one of those things that you sorely miss once you don't have it anymore. Not to mention if you're you've got regenerative healing factor, with work you'd have a peak human body that would allow you to be a world class athlete or whatever with super high stamina. Lastly of course that'd also mean you'd get as many boners as you'd want since your super power would nullify your refractory period. You could become a top porn star too if you wanted.
  20. Definitely on the side of great sex. I don't mind ok food. I enjoy good food. "Great food" though often is overrated especially when you get onto the side of "fine dining". Meanwhile great sex is something that can bring, joy, happiness and pleasure into your life. It can also improve your body health wise through physical activity. Lastly great sex means that not only did you have great sex, but also your partner(s) had great sex as well. Definitely a win-win in my book.
  21. 1 for current use. 1 older previous phone that is unlocked and available as a backup.
  22. Condo. House and lot is a lot of maintenance. Yard care is also a lot of work too depending on the type of yard and the clean up or maintenance required. Also with a condo, you have security and various other amenities included depending on the building. It's just a much more functional option, especially when living in big cities. I mean if you live out in no where, where the condo choices are few and areas of interest are much more spread out, then a house makes much more sense.
  23. I had a lot of hope going into the 23-24 season. The core plus CP3 and some potential rising newbies. Unfortunately Green has been even more crazy than usual on the court, Klay has been missing a lot more shots, Wiggins hasn't been productive. The one bright spot is that there's a lot of potential upsides for the young players. Here's hoping the team figures things out by the end of the season.
  24. I've been a fan of the Green Lantern comics for ages. At some point they introduced the Blue Lanterns whose power rings are charged by the emotion "hope," and they greatly increase the strength of any nearby Green Lanterns. I liked the themes of hope and helping others be better when it comes to hobbying.
  25. I’ve enjoyed Estancia Mall a lot. Feels local while having plenty of stores and not hugely overwhelming like some of the bigger malls. Honestly with its location just around the corner of motel row and an easy taxi stand at the mall I’m more surprised that it’s not a hotspot for freelancers.
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