iwalkalone Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 All you Genius Cassanovas and Femme Fatales :boo: ....i'm clueless up to this time. Why don't you share your ideas and tips? Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted May 8, 2006 Author Share Posted May 8, 2006 The topic title was really meant to be like this: "Too shy to ask for his/her number or give yours to him/her ( you feel he/she wants to ask you but is also too shy )...What to do?" I guess i missed to type some words...and some of it just won't fit for the allowed space Quote Link to comment
mrxtacy2003 Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 There really is no magic behind asking numbers, just ask away. If you feel shy about it, write it up on a piece of paper and hand it over but it would look like your hitting on that person. One mistake most people make though is asking numbers by asking someone to do it for them. that is just pathetic. So if you are shy, try to ask without looking into the person's eyes for the meantime. Quote Link to comment
boy popoy Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 you just gotta do it, otherwise youll feel worse thinking "what if...." for the rest of your life. besides, the worst thing that can happen is that she'll say NO. pakapalan nalang ng mukha yan! (hey iwalkalone! can i get your number? ) Quote Link to comment
khulet Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 ganyan din ako noon..shy to ask his number. but i like the guy, so i just ask it and he gave it to me. don't be shy, you're just asking... its up to them if they will give the numbers... Quote Link to comment
Manticore Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 (edited) The topic title was really meant to be like this: "Too shy to ask for his/her number or give yours to him/her ( you feel he/she wants to ask you but is also too shy )...What to do?" I guess i missed to type some words...and some of it just won't fit for the allowed space <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Sometimes, the anticipation of how the other person will react is what gives us cold feet. Just pop the question casually, as if you were breathing those words. Let them roll off your tongue, and you'll be done before you even know it. It's like preparing to jump off a diving board 20 feet above the pool; if you're not accustomed to it, the easiest way to overcome your fear of the height is to just take that leap without any hesitation. Don't be afraid to take the initiative, especially so when you're certain that you sense a mutual romantic interest in each other. If you've done your homework properly, asking for the number would be a mere formality. Edited May 8, 2006 by Manticore Quote Link to comment
b_9904 Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 The topic title was really meant to be like this: "Too shy to ask for his/her number or give yours to him/her ( you feel he/she wants to ask you but is also too shy )...What to do?" I guess i missed to type some words...and some of it just won't fit for the allowed space <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hindi ko kayang sagutin ito... case to case kasi eh... pero most of the time... hindi ko kilala yung girl then hihingin ko number niya... d ko kaya yun. dapat atleast may 10 minute conversation muna bago ako maglalakas loob na kunin number niya. pero pag nasa bar at nakasayaw ko na siya o nakatitigan... kahit walang usapan lalapit ako at kunin ko number niya. Quote Link to comment
b_9904 Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Sometimes, the anticipation of how the other person will react is what gives us cold feet. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> i cant agree more Quote Link to comment
hottlipss Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 (edited) This is what I did on with my hubby when I sense na gusto niyang hingin din ang number ko but he's too shy din...I just handed him my number on a piece of paper and I asked for his in return nonchalantly...I think I asked him about fixing my car or about gimmick sked... Edited May 8, 2006 by hottlipss Quote Link to comment
b_9904 Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 ^tapang ah... hehehehe well atleast you got your "mr. right". Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted May 9, 2006 Author Share Posted May 9, 2006 yesterday... i spent a good 1 and a half hour with a man i just met ...and he was really fun to be with...we both made each other laugh...we talked about alot of things...til it's almost time to part ways...a couple of times...while we were chatting he let out his cellphone...wagging it while talking...sometimes...he seems to be checking or just plain gazing at it ...i really had a good time with this guy...and i really wanted to get his number...but i was so shy ...until i completely forgot... ....After we parted ways....i felt so stupid not asking for his number and was wondering if his gestures meant he felt the same too but was also too shy to do it. :mtc: 1 Quote Link to comment
b_9904 Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 ^waaah... i feel for you girl! Quote Link to comment
boy popoy Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 yesterday... i spent a good 1 and a half hour with a man i just met ...and he was really fun to be with...we both made each other laugh...we talked about alot of things...til it's almost time to part ways...a couple of times...while we were chatting he let out his cellphone...wagging it while talking...sometimes...he seems to be checking or just plain gazing at it ...i really had a good time with this guy...and i really wanted to get his number...but i was so shy ...until i completely forgot... ....After we parted ways....i felt so stupid not asking for his number and was wondering if his gestures meant he felt the same too but was also too shy to do it. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> before he got a chance to walk away you shouldve said sumthin like "hey! arent you gonna get my number?!" Quote Link to comment
arjhaysp Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 ako honest lang no buts ask the number away kung gustung ibigay then good, pero kung ayaw "edi kasi" Quote Link to comment
arjhaysp Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Or you can get my number instead..... chill out girl is not the end of the world things happen for a reason.... malay mo the next day makita mo pa rin siya di bah.. or siya mismo ang gagawa ng movement na to get your number even...so perk up... :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
bosorero Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 ako the my style of getting the number of a girl I just saw is to have a very nice conversation with her. pag your about tom leave ask for her number as a pahabol. most oftenly than not she'll give it to you. Quote Link to comment
Bungo The Elder Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 For the boys: Confidence is the key. Yung eksakto lang, wag sobra na parang presko o mayabang ang dating mo. Mindset. No fear of rejection. No hesitation. Practice. Do your lines in front of the mirror. After that, practice with friends - boys then girls. Do not be so intense as to make her wary or even afraid of you. Be as nonchalant as possible, na para bang "kung di mo ibigay e ok lang" By experience, do not just go up to a girl and ask for her number. Eye-contact muna, approach kung mabasa mo na "pwede," pasok. Chat her up, read the signs. Pag ok na, tsaka mo hingin ang number. Kung di naman ok ang pasok mo, di ka naman kakausapin nun e. Ni hindi ka na aabot sa puntong makakahingi ka ng number. Good luck! Sa girls: Ewan ko ba. Lalaki ako e. Pero yung mga nanghingi na ng number ko e parang ganoon din ang style. Pa-cute lang nga muna para pansinin. Pag may eye-contact na, cum-hither ang look para lapitan nung guy. Kabagsak-bagsakan, yung lalaki pa rin ang parang manghihingi ng number. Babanatan ka ba naman ng "aren't you going to ask for my number?" E di siyempre pag binigay na niya e kailangang magbigay na rin yung lalaki. Ang galing 'no? Mas ok pa nga sa kanila kasi madalang naman na di magbigay ang lalaki ng number pag hiningi ng babae - maganda man o pangit. Less risk for rejection. Quote Link to comment
diver_703 Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 uso pa ba ang hiya hiya...number lang naman ah. Quote Link to comment
venok16 Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 hi! excuse me pwede po ko po makuha yun number mo ate... he he he sabay sampal sau! Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted May 12, 2006 Author Share Posted May 12, 2006 uso pa ba ang hiya hiya...number lang naman ah.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I think it's not that easy when you really like the person Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted May 12, 2006 Author Share Posted May 12, 2006 hi! excuse me pwede po ko po makuha yun number mo ate... he he he sabay sampal sau!<{POST_SNAPBACK}> yeah you're most likely to get that if you'll call the lady "ATE" Quote Link to comment
remedy Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 search mu nalang cia sa friendster..hehehehe Quote Link to comment
DomPerignom Posted May 18, 2006 Share Posted May 18, 2006 Ask a friend of hers for her number Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted May 18, 2006 Author Share Posted May 18, 2006 Ask a friend of hers for her number<{POST_SNAPBACK}> ummm...she might not like that ... she might think you're stalking her Quote Link to comment
multisarap Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 then how would you go about it kara?... if a guy would like to start texting with you, how would a guy get to be your textmate? Quote Link to comment
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