What Do You Talk About On Your First Date?
Posted 21 April 2006 - 01:41 PM
- I may have a few scripted plans for different scenarios. However, I usually let it fly spontaneously and be myself. So far, none of my blind dates ended on that one date.
- Try to fish for something to talk about. I ask questions and just listen. My biggest assets---I'm a listener, I keep eye contact at all times, and smile a little bit but not too much.
- If I can feel that the date will be the first and last because we do not click at all, we may not talk much about anything. (Why the hell am I doing here? I've got to stop letting people set me like this. I will k*ll the person who set me up.)
First date with someone I kind of know:
- Same tactics as above though much relaxed. Friendship is my first goal; get to know the girl more beyond what I already know. Hobbies, families, about their friends, and most of all about themselves are always excellent topics. I make sure the girl feels at ease with me and sense that Iím interested in really knowing about her.
Posted 21 April 2006 - 02:42 PM
How much they are enjoying life now, or not enjoying.
Posted 22 April 2006 - 02:15 AM
oh, and it may also help not to think too much about everything being a date... talk casually... marami namang pwedeng maging topic sa mundo diba? kung wala talaga, try doing something which would not require you to talk much... like watching movies or watching live band performances...
what ever the case, always remember to keep your ears open. hindi lang ikaw ang gustong magpakilala =)
Posted 22 April 2006 - 05:35 AM
Pero, as much as possible, I do some research about her before the first date para hindi naman maging boring ang usapan namin.
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Posted 26 May 2006 - 01:56 PM
I don't talk anything about her, either. I don't probe much.
Inaasar ko lang sya na tipong patawa. Basta kailangang tumawa lang sya.
Probing and talking about ourselves would come little by little on the second and third date.
Posted 26 May 2006 - 02:14 PM
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Posted 29 May 2006 - 09:43 PM
damn .. it should not be a rehearsed dialogue ...
feel free .. not intimidated ... and dont make her feel special ... just be gentle
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