edc Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 Mas ok syempre virgin babae. pero dapat yung lalake virgin din para fair sa babae Kung pde lang ibalik mas ok na virgin pa rin. yung nga lng puro jakol na lng gagawin mo. mahirap pag yung mapapangasawa mo canal na. Quote Link to comment
gig0l0 Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 Virginity will not be an issue for me when considering marriage. Daming dapat i-consider and virginity is at the bottom of the list. Quote Link to comment
g_funk Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 i can wait till she's ready... hopefully, it wouldn't take so long. Quote Link to comment
harvz3 Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 For me ofcourse happy... wag na tayo magpakaimpokreto.. There's an advantage if your girl is stil a virgin... But it's not doesnt you refused other girl na hindi na virgin... It's not a big deal coz sabi nga di nila kasalanan kung ngayon ka lang dumating sa kanila and then you question her virginity... As long as you love each other accept na lang... Minsan lang ang pagkakataon and then grab it ano man dumating... " a friendly advice " Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 I've had relationships where we made love constantly, I've also had relationships where lovemaking ends before anything past 3rd base. My heart is the one that says its ok to wait. So for four years, we didn't do the beast with two backs, just petting. It was okay. When we broke up, it was for an entirely different reason (pretty much about shopping). Of course, it helped a lot that she knew I had needs, and that my occasional forays to other women's beds were just for sex and had nothing to do with my heart. Quote Link to comment
torix Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 kung sure ka na virgin ang gf mo wag mong pilitin - dahil kung gusto mong magparaos - sa iba na lang - para que pa na nahilig ka sa mga mpa Quote Link to comment
Interpolator Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 If she is a virgin, then great! Karamihan naman ng mga lalaki preferred ang virgin. Sa aking experience, makikipag sex lang ako sa girlfriend ko kung siya na talaga ang gusto kong maging asawa. Para pag nabuntis or something, kayang kaya ko siyang pakasalan. Nakakatakot kasi kapag nabuntis mo tapos hindi mo naman mahal enough to marry her. Baka mapilitan kang pakasalan siya (gunshot wedding) tapos impiyerno na ang buong marriage life ninyo (it's not worth it). Saka sex creates an emotional baggage and usually it's the women who carries it, kaya minsan may mga naririnig tayong cases na kapag naka-sex na yung babae, nagiging clingy siya at hindi papayag na basta bastang makikipag break, kasi nga nabigay niya na ang lahat sa lalaki (para sa kanya). Kung ayaw pa niya, then matiyaga ka muna sa pagjakol, or better yet, humanap ka nalang ng ibang pagpaparausan (yung malinis sana at walang STD para naman hindi mo mahahawaan gf mo in case pumayag na siya). Basta, huwag niyong pilitin. Intayin niyo na ang babae ang mag-initiate, then play hard to get (to get even). haha. jk! Quote Link to comment
chit2chat Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 :boo: :thumbsupsmiley: guys who have virgin gf are so lucky, just treasure this girls, many gurls now preffer pms!!..swerte kung makatagpo pa...lalo na yung loyal, wag pilitin mas masarap kung hinog na hinog na d ba? aral muna kaung 2, kung pano kau makakaraos.. Quote Link to comment
di ko alam Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 For me the question is. Hangang gaano nya titiisin ang pagkabirhen nya gayung sabik na sabik sya sakin. he he.. :boo: To be serious if i really love the girl and she really loves me baka mas mapadali ang pagkawala ng virginity nya. Kasi the more the girl loves you and thrust you. mas madali nyang maibibigay ung sarili nya sayo. If she is keeps you waiting and ang daming dahilan malamang sa dalawa di ka yan gusto or mayaman ka at pera lang gusto nya. peace. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
remedy Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 just wait when shes ready.. Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 Oh hell, guys, who are we kidding? Sex is great, sex is good. How many girls past the age of 16 do you know? You think they lost their virginity to some miracle? Most guys love being the ones to "devirginize" a girl. I think I heard these lines in some movie:Guy#1: "What's wrong with her?"Guy#2: "She's embarrased, I think she's still a virgin."Guy#1: "Well in that case, she should be embarrased." Be honest, how many of you guys out there, would actually not want to take some sweet young thing's cherry? Quote Link to comment
averno Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 i can wait there are after all other orifices in the body which you could use. but seriously i think if you really love the person your with you really can be celibate and patient... it happened to me and we had been together for 2 whole years Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted December 28, 2005 Share Posted December 28, 2005 i can wait there are after all other orifices in the body which you could use. but seriously i think if you really love the person your with you really can be celibate and patient... it happened to me and we had been together for 2 whole years Oh, you are talking about a physical state. Virginity has also been used to mean a pureness of body, basically NO SEX, not even 3rd base. Quote Link to comment
Direct Hit Posted December 28, 2005 Share Posted December 28, 2005 Ive been to 5 past relationships, and im the one who deflowered them. well, every break up there is this guilty feeling but, it consentual. For marriage, of course it would be best to have a virgin bride, but for some sexual deed only, i would prefer the experienced type Quote Link to comment
choy_1979 Posted December 28, 2005 Share Posted December 28, 2005 Well, if I really and truly love her by heart and most of all, IF SHE'LL BE THE ONE FOR ME!!! Why not, Patient is always a virtue and knowing her to be a virgin, It will be my honor to wait. The problem if, we'll she able to accept me since I've dated around before a slept with different girls. Thats the big question though! Quote Link to comment
smallgirl Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 From experience, if the guy is sincerely willing to wait, sobrang nakakatouch yun for the girl. 1 Quote Link to comment
torix Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 sana ginawa ni Lord nilagyan ng ga-diyes na nunal sa gitna ng noo ang mga girl at pag nadevirginize - on the spot mawawala....eh d kung nagpapafinger f..k na, mababawasan ng unti unti yung nunal - parang buwan he he he Quote Link to comment
Phrozhen.Khold Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 I don't actually care whether if my GF's a virgin or not... I remember having to wait for about a year and a half before we did it... I dont mind waiting... I keep on telling her that we'll just do it once she's ready... Besides... I don't like forcing women to do things that they dont like to do... Sames goes with me... Quote Link to comment
dark-knight Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 if she's really a virgin...i'll wait until we got married...parang treasure na din yun... Quote Link to comment
edc Posted December 31, 2005 Share Posted December 31, 2005 Pag girl virgin may respeto yun sa sarili nya. same sa lalake. kung pde lang ibalik iulit gusto ko virgin ulit, yun nga lng bk puro jakol na lng ako. yun ang gift maganda ibigay sa mapapangasawa mo. now abstinence na ako at ang hirap. para pag may asawa na ako at least mas ok. Quote Link to comment
agamulach_experience2000 Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 I had an ex gf for 5 years, didnt do her, just foreplays, ayaw nya cause she was raised that way I respected it. But behind her back I play around, not because I want to but I have to, lalake lang ako. She caught me a dozen times but she forgave me because she knew her shortcomings as well. Until such time that our relationship never worked out that we have to part ways. So dats my love story, anyway, you can wait no matter how long pag mahal mo talaga, there are other ways of expressing your emotions not just thru sex. In my case, I did the wrong and right thing at the same time. Thats why it backfired. But now I dont regret anything cause I know Ive done my part despite my imprefections. So I guess Im one of those na pwede nang barilin sa luneta because of my patience with my ex... hehehe! Where still in communication as good friends and thats how its gonna stay... Quote Link to comment
TMX_626 Posted January 10, 2006 Share Posted January 10, 2006 what if ur girl is a virgin, and it takes forever for her to be ready pra may mangyari sa inyong dalawa...would you pressure her? magiging patient k b sa kanya... for how long kayo guys makakatagal na walang sex sa inyong dalawa?and will you be faithful to her?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> nah, patience is not the issue and either being pressured. i'd say mga 2mos. kung wala pa rin... sundot muna sa iba. kung wala pa rin at mahal ko pa rin, pakakasalan ko na. Quote Link to comment
raistlin Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 In every relationship.. it doesn't necessarily mean that having sex with your partner would mean that you would be together.. true it would an expression of love.. but forcing her to do it simply because you want to pop her cherry is not a gentleman act... patience is a virtue.. others may change.. others may cheat.. but it would really depend on both the partners on what they decide and agree upon.. there are those who think that this is the best gift to the one that they would eventually marry... Quote Link to comment
EFF-EXS Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 Wait long enough till you're married. And play along the wait so you won't get stucked and bored. Quote Link to comment
sabaku_no_gaara Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 parang tindahan yon na sarado ah, we will open til further notice if u wna wait then do so., ive waited for almost 2 yrs and then walked away di ko na kaya eh, :grr: Quote Link to comment
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