icequeen Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 with my recent ex.. i guess the hatred! Quote Link to comment
lakz Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 hate comes first and then after nun pag mdyo tumagal na.. yung love na... wahhhhh! Quote Link to comment
$tylistic$ Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 HATRED kaw ba naman... makipag hiwalay ba gf mo sayo while doing the deed!!!... while pumping her... she whispers to you... last na yan... kasi kami na ni.... hay.... but it was not the last,.... but it was painfull everytime we steal time just to be with each other... kaso knowing... d pa rin kayo... hay... buti nalang past is past ahahaha Quote Link to comment
simply_mai Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 After the Break up, I most likely remember the hatred... =) but I just don't mind it... I go to a parlor and fix my hair... or go swim alone or eat lots and lots of Ice Cream. It helps when you see yourself and others see you now more beautiful, sexier, happier and SINGLE. Quote Link to comment
Diego Lo Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 simple things i do for him such as making a simple dinner for us... miss ko maging katulong nya. hehe kaso he abused my kindness eh, that's why i have tolet go..he is not happy with me anymore...   hi rebel! pwede ba kita maging katulong? :boo: Quote Link to comment
lilmisunderstood Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 well it really depends e.if you ended up things in sort of a bad way cympre natural feeling is anger and hatred towards the other person for breaking your heart.But the if you guys had a long talk and really decided on to ending things as the solution then you would absolutely think of the relationship that was lost.And most of the time you would find yourself reminiscing the good times.. Quote Link to comment
the messiah Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 the love, no hate at ol, o regrets whatsoever Quote Link to comment
teio Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 of course... those enchanting moments... and the crazy things i did for her... Quote Link to comment
buraotako Posted May 21, 2007 Share Posted May 21, 2007 - yung favorite hang outs nyo- mga gimik nyo- yung mga promises nyo sa isat isa- yung mga song na gusto nyo- mga fave food nyo- everything na magpapaalala sa kanya Quote Link to comment
chabacano Posted May 21, 2007 Share Posted May 21, 2007 love.we never hated each other.. Quote Link to comment
ZariHemi Posted May 21, 2007 Share Posted May 21, 2007 We never hated each other after the break-up our memories binds us. Quote Link to comment
MidKnight_Tranz Posted May 22, 2007 Share Posted May 22, 2007 well, for me it's the love. we broke up about 5 months ago... I actually I broke up with here because I loved her, to igve her space and time to make a choice. Some people who know my situation said that it was good that I broke up with her and some said that I should've held on. Anyways, the hard part is that we still see each other from time to time but I noitced that the intimacy between us died down. During the early periods she still kissed me without me having to make a move but right now she doesn't even hold my hand... I told her that I noticed that and I just couldn't control the tears when I told her that i noticed that she didn't even touch my hold anymore (we had a special ritual on how to express our love through holding hands, at times I preferred it over sex and kisses because it was intimate and it was real)... after that she gave me a kiss that I would never forget. Alas, I feel that its time to let go and move on, its just hard to accept that I may not be seeing her again because in order for me to move on I have to allow my feelings for her subside. Anyways, I will always remember the love that I have for her. Quote Link to comment
bogliboi_blue Posted May 22, 2007 Share Posted May 22, 2007 well, for me it's the love. we broke up about 5 months ago... I actually I broke up with here because I loved her, to igve her space and time to make a choice. Some people who know my situation said that it was good that I broke up with her and some said that I should've held on. Anyways, the hard part is that we still see each other from time to time but I noitced that the intimacy between us died down. During the early periods she still kissed me without me having to make a move but right now she doesn't even hold my hand... I told her that I noticed that and I just couldn't control the tears when I told her that i noticed that she didn't even touch my hold anymore (we had a special ritual on how to express our love through holding hands, at times I preferred it over sex and kisses because it was intimate and it was real)... after that she gave me a kiss that I would never forget. Alas, I feel that its time to let go and move on, its just hard to accept that I may not be seeing her again because in order for me to move on I have to allow my feelings for her subside. Anyways, I will always remember the love that I have for her.That's very similar to what happened to me. When we bumped into each other a few months after the breakup she was civil but cold. Maybe "cold" isn't the right word, it's "non-intimate." And yes, I remember the love. I don't hate my ex at all. But sometimes I also look back and think "maybe if we didn't end up together as lovers we would have lasted longer as friends..." Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 i remember the sex/hugs/kisses - everything that would it make more than just a friendly relationship. Â the intimacy and knowing that she's there - you're source of happiness - now it's gone. Â I put up a smiling face to my friends but deep inside i'm hurting... i can't seem to be aroused. damn i need to have sex Quote Link to comment
grayle Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 It really depends... it's on a case to case basis. Generally, if the break up was mutual and you parted ways in good terms, you'll have nothing but fond memories of that person. But if the breakup was bad and there was some really bitter and unresolved issues in the relationship, then the tendency to hate that person with a vengeance. :flowers: Quote Link to comment
ghetto_gospel Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 i remember our happy moments together....eating in a new resto together, going to new places, holding hands, kisses, sex, our friendship, the time when i met her during a youth camp.......i miss you so much maitz. i wish i can bring back the time and stay there forever.... Quote Link to comment
transcience Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 the good memories and most importantly, the lessons learned. Quote Link to comment
noypi^ Posted May 23, 2007 Share Posted May 23, 2007 honestly, di ko na iniisip  lalo lang sasakit eh Quote Link to comment
tagpi Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 Lemme see.... Well, i wish she can still call me friend. I am such a bad ass. :goatee: Quote Link to comment
burn4me Posted May 25, 2007 Share Posted May 25, 2007 love and hate at the same time... Quote Link to comment
amberfortress Posted May 26, 2007 Share Posted May 26, 2007 For me its better to remeber the good times lng  I read somewhere na in order to retain new memories we have to get rid of old ones so sayang naman kung bad memories lng yung tatandaan mo Quote Link to comment
sunking Posted May 26, 2007 Share Posted May 26, 2007 The lessons learned. Neither love nor hate is relevant to the present. Maybe just the fact that you did have reasons to love once, and reasons to hate as well. Quote Link to comment
Simikiel Posted May 30, 2007 Share Posted May 30, 2007 the pain!! actually, kahit natapos yung relationship on a bad note, the thing i will always remember is the love we shared. why dwell on the unpleasantness? for sure there are a lot of good things to remember than bad. Quote Link to comment
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